Two reactive dogs. Two very different personalities. In this episode, I walk you through what I’ve been prioritizing with Toast and Ozzy during their first few days of training, how I use the e-collar for both reactivity and recall, and why understanding “pushy” moments matters more than where reactivity stems from.
I’m sharing behind-the-scenes updates, breakthroughs with tone + stim, and how one correction helped Toast soften in a way that reminded me why I love this work. Plus: a little life update, a sprinkle of grief, and some lessons from my chickens.
This one’s for the dog owner who wants to better understand their reactive dog, and the trainer who’s ever wondered if they’re doing it right.
Resources mentioned:
→ E-Collar Starter Guide (now $50 off!)
→ Instagram Highlights: Toast & Ozzy @walkingdogtraining
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Episode Description: In this episode of Confessions of a Dog Trainer, Bethany shares the inspiring story of Milo, a board and train dog whose sweet, sensitive personality made for a unique training journey. Bethany dives into how a dog's personality can drastically impact the pace and feel of their training, especially when introducing tools like the e-collar and prong collar.
She explains:
Why structure is key and how starting with the right tools changes everything
How Milo’s sensitive nature helped him quickly respond to training
The real role of the e-collar and how it creates clarity (not conflict)
Why comparing your dog’s progress to others is often misleading
How giving your dog a “job” like place or down can transform their behavior
Whether you're struggling with reactivity, pulling, or just trying to better understand your dog, this episode is packed with real-life examples, encouragement, and practical tips you can start using today.
Mentioned in the Episode:
Connect with Bethany:
Instagram: @walkingdogtraining
If you’ve got a little dog with big energy, this episode is for you. I’m talking through real-life lessons from recent board and train dogs - including a spicy little Frenchie named Valentina - and what surprised me about her reactivity and E-Collar training.
I’m also sharing a heartfelt update on the book I’m writing (Dear Owner), how grief shaped the timing, and why it feels more important than ever to share the stories that have shaped me (and my training).
Plus:
If you’ve ever felt stuck, second-guessed your training, or wondered if you were doing it “wrong,” this one’s for you.
Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
Connect with me on Instagram: @walkingdogtraining
Let me know what resonated with you — I love hearing from you.
Is your dog’s reactivity keeping you from enjoying walks? In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how I worked with Noelle, a highly reactive Australian Shepherd mix, and the game-changing approach that made all the difference using the e-collar.
I’ll walk you through:
✅ The most common mistake owners make when correcting reactivity
✅ How I determine the right e-collar level for each dog
✅ Why addressing the big reactive moment first is key
✅ The connection between anxiety, crate time, and the place command
✅ How one owner finally got it - and why her dog’s “calm muscle” is stronger than ever
If you’ve been hesitant about dialing up the e-collar or wondering if you’re doing it right, this episode is for you. Plus, I answer a fantastic listener question about whining vs. barking during reactivity - how do you know what to correct?
Let’s get into it!
🎧 Listen now & let me know what resonates with you!
Show links:
Reassurance Coaching Calls - 30 minutes
In this episode, Bethany discusses the training journey of Jax, an anxious Australian Shepherd. She shares insights on managing his whiny behavior, the effectiveness of the e-collar, and the importance of establishing calm routines. Bethany emphasizes the owner's role in continuing the training at home and offers practical advice for dog owners dealing with similar challenges. In this conversation, Bethany discusses effective dog training techniques, emphasizing the importance of establishing calm routines, consistency, and structure in a dog's life. She shares insights on how to manage anxious behaviors, the significance of giving dogs jobs to help them relax, and the necessity of navigating messy moments during training sessions. Bethany also highlights the need for tailored approaches based on individual dog behaviors and the positive impact of calmness on a dog's overall happiness.
Resources for YOU:
Coaching Calls (aka Reassurance Calls)
Where I got my favorite coffee cup
In this episode of Confessions of a Dog Trainer, Bethany shares her experiences training a challenging dog named Jax, reflecting on personal loss and the importance of transparency in training. She discusses the use of e-collars, techniques for managing reactivity, and the significance of setting boundaries to improve dog behavior. Throughout the conversation, Bethany emphasizes the emotional journey of dog training and the small victories that lead to progress. In this conversation, Bethany discusses various aspects of dog training, focusing on reactivity, establishing boundaries, and the importance of owner involvement. She shares insights on managing a dog's behavior, the significance of daily exercise, and the exploration of new training outlets. The conversation emphasizes the need for a structured routine and the use of commands to foster a calmer mindset in dogs.
Coaching Sessions (aka Reassurance Calls!) - These calls are more than just advice—they’re a source of reassurance that you’re on the right track. By the end of the session, you’ll feel more empowered and ready to continue your journey toward a better relationship with your dog.
FREEBIES: E Collar Starter Cheat Sheets and The Place Command Guide
Show Notes:
Coaching Sessions (aka Reassurance Calls)
The Trainer In You Mastermind- Apply for the next one in May!
I hope this episode inspires you! - Bethany
In this episode of Confessions of a Dog Trainer, Bethany shares her personal journey and reflections on dog training, particularly focusing on the joys of working with small dogs. She discusses effective training routines, calming techniques for dogs, and insights into crate training. Throughout the conversation, Bethany emphasizes the importance of creating a structured environment for dogs and how to set them up for success in various situations. She also touches on the significance of routine and consistency in training, offering practical tips for dog owners and trainers alike.
RESOURCES FOR YOU:
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In this episode of Confessions of a Dog Trainer, Bethany discusses the fundamentals of e-collar training, addressing common misconceptions and providing insights into how to effectively use e-collars for dog training. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the technology behind e-collars, the necessity of owner homework, and how to build confidence in both the dog and the owner. The conversation also covers managing reactivity, setting boundaries, and the positive impact of e-collar training on a dog's behavior and relationship with their owner.
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In this episode of Confessions of a Dog Trainer, Bethany discusses the significance of follow-up visits after a board and train program, emphasizing the importance of owner involvement in dog training. She shares insights on e-collar training, addressing common misconceptions and providing practical advice for managing dog reactivity. Through a real-life case study, Bethany illustrates how to effectively use e-collars while boosting a dog's confidence and ensuring a positive training experience. In this conversation, Bethany discusses the effective use of e-collars in dog training, emphasizing the importance of understanding the dog's behavior and the owner's role in the training process. She highlights the significance of follow-up visits, setting realistic expectations for owners, and providing them with the necessary resources to ensure success after training. The conversation also addresses common challenges faced by owners, such as reactivity and vocalization, and offers insights into navigating these issues with confidence and clarity.
Training Resources:
E Collar Starter Guide + Videos
In this episode of 'Confessions of a Dog Trainer', Bethany and Kait discuss the complexities of dog behavior, training, and the expectations of dog owners. They reflect on personal experiences, including high school reunions, and delve into the importance of understanding individual dog needs, setting boundaries, and recognizing that not all dogs are suited for every social situation. The conversation emphasizes the significance of e-collar training, the impact of social media on perceptions of dog ownership, and the evolving nature of dog behavior over time. Ultimately, the episode serves as a reminder that dog ownership is a journey that requires patience, understanding, and adaptability.
Show Notes:
E Collar Starter Guide plus videos
Chapters
00:00 High School Reunion Reflections
03:55 Understanding Dog Behavior and Owner Expectations
09:49 The Importance of Knowing Your Dog's Limits
15:47 Navigating Public Spaces with Dogs
18:21 Navigating Dog Socialization and Boundaries
19:18 Understanding Dog Behavior and Owner Expectations
22:48 The Importance of Realistic Training Goals
26:04 Adjusting Expectations for Dog Training
30:43 The Role of Privileges in Dog Behavior
34:41 Empowerment Through Setting Boundaries
39:55 Navigating Dog Ownership Challenges
43:30 Understanding Dog Behavior and Socialization
47:07 The Evolution of Dog Behavior Over Time
50:39 The Impact of Environment on Dog Behavior
54:05 Finding Balance in Dog Socialization
You can find more about Kait and everything she offers over at kane9dogtraining.com
In this episode of Confessions of Dog Trainer, Bethany discusses the essential aspects of bringing a new dog or puppy home, including the importance of crate training, managing puppy behavior, and insights into e-collar training. She shares personal experiences, coaching session takeaways, and practical tips for new dog owners, emphasizing the significance of structure and routine in dog training. In this conversation, Bethany discusses various aspects of dog training, focusing on introducing puppies to older dogs, setting boundaries for resource guarding, and the importance of individual attention for multiple dogs. She emphasizes the use of e-collar training, the significance of establishing structure, and strategies to prevent leash reactivity. Throughout the discussion, Bethany shares personal anecdotes and practical tips for dog owners to enhance their training experience and foster positive relationships with their pets.
Podcast resources:
Episode Chapters:
02:50 E-Collar Training Insights
05:46 Coping with Loss and Grief
09:05 Owner Coaching Session Takeaways
12:00 Bringing a New Dog or Puppy Home
14:56 Crate Training Essentials
17:45 Managing Puppy Behavior
21:03 Introducing Puppies to Older Dogs
33:25 Setting Boundaries and Structure for Resource Guarding
35:24 Individual Time and Attention for Multiple Dogs
38:18 Training Basics Before E-Collar Introduction
42:41 E-Collar Training Insights and Recommendations
47:10 Preventing Leash Reactivity and Managing Hyperactivity
I love hanging out with my best friend Kait! I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did.
SHOW NOTES:
Follow Kait on Instagram @kane9dogtraining
Kait's training resources: https://www.kane9dogtraining.com/ecourse
Kait's puppy guide: https://www.kane9dogtraining.com/shop/p/kaits-guide-for-all-things-puppy
Chapters in this episode:
00:00 Catching Up: A Friendship Reconnection
02:56 Navigating Content Creation and Inspiration
06:04 Health and Wellness: The Journey of Self-Care
09:00 Massage Experiences: The Good, The Bad, and The Awkward
12:01 Planning Visits: Balancing Activities and Relaxation
14:55 Food Adventures: Snacks and Healthy Choices
17:57 Weather Talk: The Beauty of Seasonal Changes
20:58 Pop Culture: Survivor and Shared Interests
23:54 Traveling and Experiences: The Joy of Exploration
31:35 The Reality of Storm Chasing
32:50 Planning for Future Conversations
33:44 The Joy of Family and New Beginnings
35:59 Navigating Grief and Loss
37:27 The Shift in Social Media Perspectives
39:50 Finding Balance in Life and Work
40:51 Challenges of Dog Training
42:31 Understanding Dog Behavior
45:59 The Complexity of Dog Training
49:01 Managing Stress in Dog Training
51:31 The Importance of Dog Owner Relationships
55:03 Adopting vs. Buying Dogs
01:00:01 Preparing for a New Dog
Walking Dog Training Resources:
Your ultimate guide to getting started with E Collar Training:
The Ultimate Reactive Dog Bundle
The Guide to Separation Anxiety
As always, if you have any questions you can message me over on Instagram @walkingdogtraining and let me know you came from the podcast! I'm so grateful you're here.
In this episode of Confessions of a Dog Trainer, Bethany is joined by Heather and Kuryne from Pawsitively Calm. They discuss their experiences in dog training, the importance of vulnerability, and how to find joy in the work. The conversation touches on the challenges of training difficult dogs, the significance of mindset, and the empowerment of dog owners. They also share personal anecdotes about their connections and the lessons learned throughout their training journeys. In this engaging conversation, Kuryne and Heather discuss the nuances of dog training, focusing on building connections, community support, and effective strategies for managing reactive dogs. They emphasize the importance of small adjustments in training and the power of e-collar training, while also addressing the social dynamics within the dog training profession. The discussion highlights the significance of changing associations and empowering dog owners with practical tips to enhance their training experience.
Be sure to follow @pawsitivelycalm on Instagram where Kuryne and Heather share so much of the training process and helpful tips for owners.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Connections
02:51 The Power of Vulnerability in Training
05:56 Finding Joy in Dog Training
09:08 The Importance of Mindset
12:13 The Long Game in Dog Training
15:00 Empowering Owners Through Training
18:00 Difficult Cases and Their Lessons
21:00 The Role of Patience in Training
24:10 Expectations vs. Reality in Training
27:05 Feedback vs. Setbacks
29:57 Lessons Learned from Training Experiences
41:50 Building Connections and Relationships
44:15 Navigating the Dog Training Landscape
47:07 The Importance of Community in Dog Training
50:49 Overcoming Social Anxiety in Professional Settings
55:32 Effective Strategies for Reactive Dogs
01:01:08 Changing Dog Behavior Through Small Adjustments
01:04:15 The Power of E-Collar Training
01:10:15 Creating Positive Associations with Training
01:13:05 Empowering Owners with Small Changes
Show notes and resources for continued education:
In this episode, the host addresses common struggles with using e-collars for reactivity in dogs. The main themes discussed include timing, levels, and knowing when to use the e-collar. The host emphasizes the importance of using meaningful levels and being consistent with corrections. She also suggests addressing pushy behavior with the heel command and using the e-collar to interrupt excitement before reactive moments occur. The host encourages owners to set the tone and not wait for their dogs to make better decisions. Overall, the episode provides practical tips and insights for effectively using e-collars in reactivity training. In this part of the conversation, Bethany discusses the importance of reflecting on training moments and using meaningful levels with the e-collar. She advises moving out of a situation if it's too late for a correction and suggests seeking help from a trainer if needed. Bethany also explains the purpose of using the e-collar to correct reactivity or interrupt intent before a reaction. She emphasizes the need for meaningful levels and reassures listeners that using the e-collar is not about punishing the dog but about providing clarity. Bethany addresses concerns about using too harsh of a correction and offers tips for dealing with redirecting behavior. She encourages muzzle training for added safety.
Training Resources:
Find a balanced trainer in your area
Episode chapters:
05:04 Mastering Timing in E-collar Training
08:24 Using Meaningful Levels to Address Pushy Behavior
13:05 Consistency and Follow-Through with Corrections
16:59 Preventing Reactive Outbursts with the Heel Command
19:38 Setting the Tone for Better Decision-Making
22:09 Reflecting on Levels for Improved Training Outcomes
24:03 Reflecting on Training Moments and Using Meaningful Levels
26:29 Seeking Help from a Trainer and Using the E-collar Correctly
39:39 Dealing with Redirecting Behavior and the Importance of Muzzle Training
In this episode, Bethany addresses common struggles and questions about using e-collars for reactivity in dogs. She emphasizes the importance of timing and using meaningful levels to interrupt reactive moments. Bethany also discusses the challenges of staying calm as a handler and offers tips for managing adrenaline and anxiety. She dispels the misconception that e-collars escalate reactivity, explaining that it's how the tool is used that matters. Bethany encourages owners to reflect on their levels and be willing to dial up to find what is meaningful for their dog. She concludes by reminding listeners to be patient and consistent in their training.
Show Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Overview
06:10 Addressing Timing and Meaningful Levels
20:09 Staying Calm as a Handler
27:36 Dispelling the Myth of E-Collars Escalating Reactivity
32:55 The Role of Experience and Confidence in E-Collar Training
39:07 Reflecting on Levels: Finding What is Meaningful for Your Dog
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In this episode, Bethany shares her biggest lessons learned as a board and train trainer. She emphasizes the importance of mentorship and support for new trainers and owners. Bethany also discusses the process of introducing a new dog to an existing pack and the importance of prioritizing one-on-one time with each dog. She highlights the need for clear expectations and the understanding that some things take time in dog training. In this conversation, Bethany discusses three important insights about dog training. First, she emphasizes the importance of giving things time and not expecting immediate results. Second, she highlights how dogs move on quickly from negative experiences and how humans should learn from their resilience. Finally, she explains how dogs crave routine and boundaries, and how tools like the e-collar can help establish clear boundaries and create a more structured routine for dogs.
13:11 Lessons Learned as a Board and Train Trainer
19:21 The Importance of Clear Expectations and Communication
22:48 The Role of Time and Patience in Dog Training
25:14 Learning from Dogs' Resilience
32:26 The Role of Routine and Boundaries in Dog Training
Learn how to use the E Collar with hundreds of other owners: The E Collar Starter Guide
If you want to get back into the swing of training things, the reset guide will help: Our 7-Day Reset Freebie
In this episode, Bethany shares her experience and tips for introducing a new dog to existing dogs in the household. She discusses the importance of taking it slow, setting boundaries, and using movement during introductions. She also talks about the role of temperament and how to recognize signs that the introduction is not going well. The host emphasizes the need to trust your gut and take your time with the process. She also addresses questions about introducing reactive dogs and whether dogs should be on leashes during introductions.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background
03:24 Thought Process Behind Introductions
11:01 Personal Experiences and Tips for Socializing Dogs
20:36 Introducing Dogs with Different Personalities
28:18 Introducing Dogs with Reactivity
37:01 Choosing the Best Place for Introductions
41:04 Interrupting with the E-collar and Walking vs Coexisting
In this episode, the host shares her recent experience of adopting a new dog and the reasons behind it. She discusses her struggles with grief and loss, and how getting a new dog has helped her find joy and purpose again. She talks about the process of choosing the dog and the initial challenges she faced, including the adoption blues. She also shares her plans for introducing the new dog to her existing dogs and the importance of structure and routine in training.
00:00 Introduction and Background
03:24 Finding Joy and Purpose Through Dog Adoption
12:19 Navigating the Challenges of Bringing Home a New Dog
17:03 Overcoming the Adoption Blues: Embracing the Journey
26:15 Creating Structure and Routine for a New Dog
32:59 Introducing a New Dog to Existing Pets: A Gradual Approach
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30-Minute Coaching Sessions: https://walkingdogtraining.com/virtual-session
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00:00 Introduction and Personal Confession
02:55 Mistake 1: The Levels You Use During Reactive Moments
09:31 Mistake 2: Inconsistency with New Expectations on the Walk
19:17 Mistake 3: Using The Same Levels & Expecting Different Results
24:36 Mistake 4: Addressing Reactivity Only on Walks
