Ben and Zikki are a culinary power couple you need to know. In this episode, we dive into their upcoming cookbook and how they make the kitchen – and life – work as a team. From meeting in the Italian Alps to surviving long-distance during COVID, they’ve built a business and a life together that’s equal parts love and hustle. We talk teamwork, shared goals, the highs and lows of parenthood, and the small rituals that keep them grounded. Bonus: some real talk about self-care and finding balance when work and home collide. Get More Ben + Zikki ORDER BEN + ZIKKI'S BOOK 'Eat Small Plates' HERE! @bengingi @chefzikki Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Abe and Erin sit down with Omani & Jeanie Carson—partners for 43 years—to unpack what actually sustains a long relationship: losing and re-finding yourself, taking space (they separated for three years), and then doing the hard work to come back stronger. We go inside their five-hour, therapist-guided MDMA-assisted session—how prep, boundaries, and integration dropped defenses and reignited intimacy—and why they now help other couples pursue similar, medically supervised healing at Carson Healing Ranch and the Heartland Gathering. We also hit practicals: why moms can’t “disappear” into motherhood, men’s mental health and vulnerability, and a simple practice they swear by—the “Perfect Year” exercise. Candid, useful, and very human. (Psychedelic therapy is discussed; this episode isn’t medical advice.) Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week, Erin and Abe chat with Vanessa and Xander Marin, a couple of 18 years who’ve turned their expertise in sex therapy into a mission to help long-term couples keep their spark alive. Vanessa, a sex therapist, and Xander, a former Google guy turned business partner, share their insights on how to maintain intimacy and connection through simple practices like communication, eye contact, and non-sexual touch. They also tackle the myths around spontaneous sex and dive into how AI (Abe's favorite) is shaping modern relationships. Get More Vanessa + Xander Learn more about VM Therapy @vanessaandxander Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Erin and Abe are joined by intimacy expert Shan Boodram to talk about Aria—the service that’s blending AI with real expertise to give couples fresh ways to connect (yes, really). They dive into the wild world of male and female sexuality, how modern tech is shaking things up in relationships, and how to keep things spicy without the cringe. The trio also shares personal stories and expert advice on creating a judgment-free zone when it comes to intimacy, while exploring how breaking old norms can lead to a more fulfilling sex life.  Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Leah Van Dale (formerly WWE’s Carmella) joins Erin and Abe to talk about postpartum recovery, blended family dynamics, and how her own experience led her to create Snatch, a platform for women navigating life after birth. They also get into life behind the scenes of reality TV—and Abe does his best to explain why he refuses to get a vasectomy. Get More Leah @theleahvandale @snatchforher EXPLORE LEAH'S COMMUNITY, SNATCH FOR HER Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What do HDMI cables, reality TV, and nanny trauma have in common? This episode. Erin and Abe unpack a nightmare child care situation, NYC parenting hacks, and their surprising take on faith, tradition, and why sometimes you should test your partner’s love with a little crazy. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Erin and Abe tackle the chaos of moving, parenthood, and grief. Erin opens up about her journey with grief and how it’s starting to catch up with her, while Abe shares his own reflections. They also talk about the shift in their relationship post-baby and balancing it all with four kids. It’s real, raw, and a reminder that sometimes, you still might end up crying on your birthday – and that’s okay. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

From the early days of Instagram memes to building a national beverage brand, Ben Soffer has seen it all. In this episode, he joins Abe to talk about turning “Boy With No Job” into a launchpad for Spritz Society, the secrets to scaling without VCs, and how being married to Claudia Oshry sharpened his edge and grounded his life. They get into the social media shift, why TikTok is both genius and dangerous, and what it really means to balance love, business, and a brand that actually sells. Get More Ben @boywithnojob @goodguys DRINK SPRITZ SOCIETY Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Author and chef Jake Cohen opens up about his marriage, divorce, partying in Berlin, and what it means to love deeply while still evolving. Erin and Jake unpack relationship dynamics, sexual freedom, emotional growth—and yes, what’s in Jake’s fridge after a hookup. Get More Jake PRE-ORDER JAKE'S NEW BOOK 'Dinner Party Animal' HERE! @jakecohen Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Carlos Mendez isn’t just our partner—he’s the soul behind our mezcal. He opens up about growing up gay in rural Mexico, redefining tradition, and building a brand that reflects his values. This is about more than spirits. It’s about courage, culture, and creating change. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why does the trash matter more than sex? Why do new moms feel like they’re drowning—and new dads feel helpless? And is “mom brain” actually… genius? Erin and Abe go deep with psychologist Dr. Nicole Pensak on what nobody tells you about postpartum life—and how couples can stay close through the chaos. Get More Nicole @drnikkipensak — for more on the latest science of parenthood Order Nicole's book RATTLED Looking for Postpartum Support? Fair Play by Eve Rodsky Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This AMA-style episode tackles the hard stuff in relationships—straight from your DMs. We get into:     •    How to manage parenting with completely different styles     •    When to talk vs. when to take space during a fight     •    Why some cheating might be forgivable—and some isn’t     •    Balancing work, marriage, and four kids without losing it     •    Whether attraction can grow if it’s not there on day one     •    The real cost of divorce vs. investing in your relationship     •    Prioritizing alone time and protecting your sanity as a couple Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

(and other things Erin says to Abe) It’s the final countdown—Erin’s 38 weeks pregnant, wildly introspective, low-key enraged at Abe (for breathing), and more powerful than ever. The couple unpacks everything: Pitocin horror stories, why working out while pregnant is underrated, what moms actually want from their partners, and how pregnancy has Erin firing on all cylinders creatively. It’s vulnerable, hilarious, and full of truth bombs about rest, resentment, rituals—and the sexiest thing a partner can do in the third trimester. (Hint: it’s not foreplay.) Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Amanda Hirsch of Not Skinny But Not Fat joins Erin and Abe for a wildly honest, laugh-out-loud conversation covering cancel culture, work and marriage dynamics, and why the internet is obsessed with tearing women down. From wrestling with postpartum identity to wondering whether you’d know if your baby wasn’t cute, no topic is off-limits. Amanda opens up about her path from meme queen to media powerhouse, how she handles online hate, and why “independence” might be overrated in modern relationships. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Early dating is a strategy—and if you don’t have one, you’re winging it. Erin and Abe get into the game: when to text, when to wait, and when to move on. They talk first dates, second dates, attraction, sex, and the subtle power dynamics that play out along the way. Also in this episode: Erin’s cookbook announcement, her billboard debut in Times Square, Met Gala afterparties, and what it’s really like trying to date your spouse while raising four kids. Want to jump straight into the convo? Skip to 12:24. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What happens when an influencer, a reality couple, and a few thousand horny thoughts collide? This episode. Tinx unpacks hookup culture, power dynamics, and the real reasons women evolve while men… well, don’t. Get More Erin + Abe @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Get More Tinx Hotter In The Hamptons @tinx See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Deuxmoi knows all the secrets – but in this episode, she shares her own. From private connections to public rumors, we talk about the influence she's built, the lines she won't cross, and the trust that keeps her circle tight. Abe and Erin open up about their role in it all, and the surprising stories they've kept off the record – until now. Get More Erin + Abe @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Get more Deux @deuxmoi Deuxmoi World App Deux U Podcast Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

One always gets into the club. The other runs marathons to Phish. Together, they make a case for live music, laughter, and not letting your kids hijack your personality. A feel-good, funny dive into relationships, raves, and real talk on parenting.  Get More Erin + Abe @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this brutally honest and hilarious episode, Abe and Erin dive into the chaos of being super pregnant with baby #4—insomnia, discomfort, and the deep need for a Mezcalum margarita. The two reflect on how their past pregnancies affected their relationship, share wild memories from their COVID escape to Myrtle Beach (spoiler: it turned into a 40-person commune), and talk about the unexpected journey of building their mezcal business. Things get really real when they veer into sex during pregnancy, solo freedom post-birth, and… prostitutes and lie-down baths? Feeling confused? Us too. But don't worry, in the end, it all comes together. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to the very first episode of Come Together! This week we're talking all about – you guessed it! Sex. From how to keep the spark alive, to navigating "dry spells" + Abe's gross solution to the age old 'pick your socks off the floor' debate – you're in for a wild ride.  Get More Erin + Abe @cometogetherpod @erindanalichy @abe.lichy Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.