Betrayal nearly destroyed us, but we found ways to rebuild the trust and restore our relationship--and we did it without splitting up! Now our marriage is much better than before.
We'll use our 20+ years of researching best practices to give helpful techniques for your own relationship.
***The (S) after the Episode number means it shouldn't trigger women who are hurting from betrayal. Even still, please use your best judgment.
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Betrayal nearly destroyed us, but we found ways to rebuild the trust and restore our relationship--and we did it without splitting up! Now our marriage is much better than before.
We'll use our 20+ years of researching best practices to give helpful techniques for your own relationship.
***The (S) after the Episode number means it shouldn't trigger women who are hurting from betrayal. Even still, please use your best judgment.
He Promised to Never Touch Me Again (What should I do?) – 5.21S
Coffee with The Couple Cure
16 minutes 13 seconds
11 months ago
He Promised to Never Touch Me Again (What should I do?) – 5.21S
In this episode, we address a difficult question from a viewer about a lack of physical touch in her marriage, even while undergoing chemotherapy. We delve into the possible reasons behind her husband's behavior, including possible emotional retaliation or unresolved trauma. There is also compassionate advice on how to explore personal needs and desires, and questions to ask as you seek the right guidance to make informed decisions about the future, while we also emphasiz the importance of understanding misinterpretations, and the critical nature of aligning actions, personal values and God’s guidance.
00:00 Introduction and Question
00:34 Ouch! (making you pay)
02:20 When he needs a licensed therapist
03:12 Solution: If you DID hurt him… but (one big caveat)*
04:28 Real life examples
05:57 When his bad side comes out (one extreme example)
07:01 Solution: How to decide your next step*
09:06 Look at what he IS doing
09:46 Solution: What is God saying (and if your gut instinct isn’t in alignment)*
11:39 This might be a workable situation (unless he makes you pay elsewhere too)
13:02 He doesn’t know how to take ownership
14:03 Solution: The REAL problem of misunderstandings
15:36 Conclusion and Wrap-Up
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https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/ - Jay and Lori's website
https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/ - Lori's site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/ - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery
Betrayal nearly destroyed us, but we found ways to rebuild the trust and restore our relationship--and we did it without splitting up! Now our marriage is much better than before.
We'll use our 20+ years of researching best practices to give helpful techniques for your own relationship.
***The (S) after the Episode number means it shouldn't trigger women who are hurting from betrayal. Even still, please use your best judgment.
