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Codependent N’ Sh*t
Ash
71 episodes
1 day ago
A real girl talking about real sh*t! -From codependency and love addiction, to single parenting and situationships. Join me on my journey of self-development, self-healing, and spirituality discussed on a practical level.
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A real girl talking about real sh*t! -From codependency and love addiction, to single parenting and situationships. Join me on my journey of self-development, self-healing, and spirituality discussed on a practical level.
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Mental Health
Health & Fitness
Episodes (20/71)
Codependent N’ Sh*t
The Reality When You Go No Contact & Hidden Grief

No one talks enough about how brutal no contact really is. It’s not just about cutting someone off — it’s an identity death. It’s the death of the version of you that kept hoping, fixing, waiting, and losing herself in the process.


This episode is for anyone who’s months into no contact and wondering why it still hurts so much… why it still feels disorienting and soul-shattering even though you know it was the right choice.


I also opened up about my abortion — something I’ve carried quietly for years. Society tells us to move on, to normalize it, but for some of us, the pain and guilt never just go away. Especially for women of faith, that grief can feel like a secret we’re not allowed to have.


If you’ve been suppressing your own pain, whether it’s from a breakup, trauma, or an abortion — this episode is a gentle permission slip to bring it to light. Healing doesn’t happen in silence. 🙏🏼 LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH

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1 month ago
35 minutes 13 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
How ChatGPT Helped Me Realize I was in Another Abusive Relationship

Hey guys! I just wanted to record an episode as quickly as I could to let you guys know how much ChatGPT helped me with realizing I was unfortunately 🫠 in another abusive relationship (rose colored glasses were real strong). It also helped navigate the challenges I was experiencing, and ultimately how to successfully leave and take all measures necessary awards to ensure my safety. I know it sounds weird, but SERIOUSLY GUYS THIS MAY HAVE SAVED MY LIFE! I support this robot 😂.


Love you all✨✨💕

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7 months ago
33 minutes 10 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
When your codependent partner wants to go back to their abusive spouse
What do you do when your seemingly perfect partner wants to go back to their abusive ex? How do navigate dating someone going through a separation but not an official divorce? This episode is extra vulnerable and contains talk of things I have never discussed in my life (especially publicly). **Trigger warning- this episode contains talk around abortion** Email me: codependentnshit@gmail.com IG: codependentnsh*t
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2 years ago
41 minutes 45 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
Why “Therapy Speak” is Making Us All Insane & Why You Should Give the Nice Girl/Guy a CHANCE
Hello fam, this episode talks about the toxic side of incessant “therapy speak” on social media (and life in general), and the discomfort that can arise when we meet a healthy/available partner. Also obviously some catch up on my life and personal journey navigating grief, trauma, diagnoses, and a new game changer relationship 🔥. I love you guys so much and appreciate all your support. ❤️❤️
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2 years ago
31 minutes 53 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
Recovering from Recovery/AA, grief, and another relationship fail
This episode may ruffle some feathers of individuals in recovery/aa/na but I also don’t care and feel it’s important for those of us who choose a different route of healing to be able to share. I also talk about the multitude of grief of a passing loved one, AND story time! About why I decided to end a relationship with someone seemingly normal & healthy. Ish. 😂 Do you like the show? If so, leave me a review!❤️. If you would like to write me, connect: IG @codependentnshit Or email codependentnshit@gmail.com
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2 years ago
33 minutes 53 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
Your situationship is LUST, not LOVE babe
Hey guys! This episode I wanted to just catch you up with where I’m at and talk about the difference between LUST and LOVE. Lust is a lying bitch okay? 😂. Come find me and talk to me on stereo! https://stereo.com/codependentnshit
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2 years ago
27 minutes 46 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
Should You End Your Situationship?
The answer is YES. Just kidding, maybe your situation is different. But if you resonate with anything I say in this episode - IT’S TIME TO GO! Bonus story about my 3 year situationship from hell 🔥. Love you guys! I love to connect with you guys and hear how episodes are helping you out. Message me! Tell me about your wins and losses with this stuff. It’s no easy feat 💖. Email: codependentnshit@gmail.com IG:@codependentnshit
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2 years ago
26 minutes 16 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
The Stages of Narcissistic Abuse/Do You Make Men or Women your God?
In this episode I go over the all too familiar and specific stages of narcissistic abuse, and also touch on the concept of making men or women our God, a.k.a idolatry. Spoiler alert: it’s the fastest way to forever be unhappy and unfulfilled. Love you Contact me directly with success stories, rants, connection, etc. at codependentnshit@gmail.com or on IG @codependentnshit
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3 years ago
33 minutes 13 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
When You Find out the Narc has New Supply & Accountability for our Roles
Hi Fam, this episode is about handling and coping with the reality of finding out your narcissist ex has a new supply (of course they do), why we aren’t victims & must take radical accountability, and also why I recommend 12 step programs as a means of integrative self-work and therapy. Love you ❤️ Contact me directly with success stories, rants, connection, etc. at codependentnshit@gmail.com or on IG @codependentnshit
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3 years ago
27 minutes 59 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
Rock Bottom, Recovery, and Escapism
The only good thing about rock bottom is the only way out is up. Rock bottom might feel like an emotional thing, but sometimes it’s your life choices playing out as things you’d NEVER imagine you’d do. When is enough enough? This episode is about my personal experience with hitting rock bottom, and how to navigate it - which can only be done with radical self responsibility. If you need extra support or want to just write in, email me codependentnshit@gmail.com or IG @codependentnshit ❤️
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3 years ago
25 minutes 2 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
“No Matter How Far I run, I Always End up Back Here”
Hello fam, quick episode letting you guys know how/why I’m finally truly surrendering to what is, the reality of my situations, my addictions, my codependency, my grief, and entering rehab. I wanted to record this to let anyone else struggling to know how okay and NECESSARY it is to get help if you’ve realized for the last time that you can’t do it on your own. There is a way out and you don’t need to do it alone ❤️. Love you all so much
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3 years ago
22 minutes 21 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
How to Break the Trauma Bond(s) to Narcissists FOR GOOD
WhatIn this bonus episode, I decided to openly share what’s truly working for me as I’m in this current process right now. I talk about tangible steps to begin to create an exit plan, and ultimately what needs to be done within us to not just break this trauma bond — but alll of them. Because we all know how easy it is to go find a new one with a new face! Do you like the show? Please leave a review. I love to hear from you guys so if you have feedback, success stories, etc. send them to me!! Codependentnshit@gmail.com Or IG @codependentnshit
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3 years ago
26 minutes 1 second

Codependent N’ Sh*t
How Easily a Narcissist Can Sneak into Your Life Even When You KNOW THE SIGNS
This episode is full details and warning signs I ignored of my most recent relationship that winded up being with yet another person with highly narcissistic traits. I want you guys to understand that even with years of healing work and self awareness around this stuff, you still can easily fall into these relationships. That’s why FOLLOWING YOUR GUT AND RED FLAGS IS SO BEYOND CRUCIAL! It’s hard, you may have slip ups like me, but you will find yourself spending less and less time investing in these energy vampires 🧛‍♂️. I love you guys https://youtu.be/4aNuph5gRMQ << Highly recommend you play this song on repeat if you’re going through this!
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3 years ago
38 minutes 5 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
This is an episode of me gaslighting myself without even realizing it while recording 🙃
This episode is about the seemingly ever growing current societal trend to try and label EVERYONE as a narcissist. Sure, there’s definite upsides of gaining awareness on these topics/labels - but are we over-doing it? Is it a new form of self abandonment to always be pointing the finger? 🤔 Do you like the show? Please leave a rating/review! Let’s connect: IG @ashrakes or @codependentnshit Want to share your success story, or get advice on a situation for a future episode? Email: codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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3 years ago
24 minutes 30 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
Letting Go of a Trauma Bond (IT’S HARD)
In this episode I’m recapping a bit about trauma bonds because well, I think every write in I get is about trauma bonds and let’s be real - this entire podcast is based around them 🤣. I touch on ways to get out of them, why we need to get out of them, and share some of my personal experience with how I’ve gotten out of them. It can be done ☑️ Do you like the show? Please leave a review! If you’d like to connect or write to me directly - follow me on IG @codependentnshit or @ashrakes or shoot me an email @codependentnshit@gmail.com
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3 years ago
31 minutes 6 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
Getting Back on Track With Your Healing Journey
Hi fam! A lot of this episode is about my Mom’s abrupt recent passing and how I’m coping with that/how I’m getting back on track with healing in the wake of tragedy/grief. Sometimes things happen in life that can throw us off track with focusing on bettering ourselves. I also touch on the Holistic Psychologists new book, and the power of the mind/the placebo effect in regards to healing. Love you guys ❤️
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4 years ago
31 minutes 13 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
Don’t Mistake Chemistry for Compatibility
Hi guys! I’m alive! Just wanted to catch you up with why I’ve been MIA, and talk about why chemistry alone is NOT the recipe for a healthy dating dynamic. Compatibility is 🔑 to save yourself unnecessary pain/conflict! Do you like the show? Please leave a review! 🙏🏻 If you download the anchor app you can record a message to me/the show and I will air it on an episode❤️Follow me on IG - @ashrakes or @codependentnshit Email for submissions codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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4 years ago
20 minutes 12 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
Stop Making THEIR Opinions YOUR Truth
On this episode I’m going into the power of conscious inner dialogue and combatting opposing views/opinions a instead of making them mean so much to us. As individuals with codependent habits, we often will take on other people’s opinions and make it mean SO MUCH more than necessary. Thus creating internal misery, and even holding us back from our dreams and true desires. CUT THAT SH*T OUT! I love you guys ❤️❤️❤️ Do you like the show? Please be sure to leave a review/rating. 🙏🏻 I love to connect with you guys, hear how the show has helped you, and just offer extra support: add me on IG @ashrakes (plz msg before as its my personal page) or @codependentnshit. Submissions for advice/success stories,etc can be emailed at codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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4 years ago
25 minutes 56 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
Be a Gray Rock to Your Narcissist This Xmas
Lololol just a short holiday episode for my peeps that understand the struggle of the holidays with dysfunctional/toxic family. WE 👏🏼CAN👏🏼 DO 👏🏼THIS 🤣😩 Do you like the show? Follow me on IG @ashrakes or @codependentnshit Email me at codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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4 years ago
12 minutes 14 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
Your Situationship is Probably a Trauma Bond/Limiting Beliefs/and God
In this episode I just wanted to catch up with you guys, talk a little more about trauma bonds, situationships, and why I believe relationship with God is integral right now, and in regards to healing “limiting belief bonds”. Do you like the show? Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit Submit your stories, suggestions, etc to codependentnshit@gmail.com. ❤️❤️
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4 years ago
13 minutes 52 seconds

Codependent N’ Sh*t
A real girl talking about real sh*t! -From codependency and love addiction, to single parenting and situationships. Join me on my journey of self-development, self-healing, and spirituality discussed on a practical level.