CockTales: Dirty Discussions

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Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

456 episodes

1 week ago

CockTales: Dirty Discussions is hosted by Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. Both women are in different stages of their love lives; one single and one in a serious long term relationship. The women give uncensored accounts about their sex and dating lives, relationships, and what it's really like to navigate the sea of love in Atlanta. On CockTales, the ladies gather over great drinks and discuss the latest happenings in their sexual experiences dating lives.

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CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Why Friendship First Makes Marriage Last (w/ Jenna and Dontay of Love & Fly S*** Podcast)

This week on CockTales Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with Jenna and Dontay, the married duo behind the Love and Fly Sh*t podcast. They open up about their 11-year marriage, raising kids, trust, sex, and how to keep love fresh when life gets real. From funny wedding memories to navigating parenting without family nearby, this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom for anyone curious about what makes relationships work long-term.

Detailed Show Notes:
Marriage, Partnership & Real Love Lessons
Topics Covered:

How Jenna & Dontay went from teenage crushes to married with two kids
What they believe are the “silent killers” of marriage
Why trust has to be earned but also given with grace
The role of sex and intimacy in keeping a relationship alive
Their wild destination wedding + missing the flight to their honeymoon
Adjusting to parenthood, postpartum struggles, and learning balance
Why friendship and communication are the foundation of their marriage
Lessons for singles about what to look for in a lifelong partner

Links Mentioned:

💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso
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📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ
Join Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026
To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info

Go to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code cocktales at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.
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5 days ago

1 hour 35 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Fashionably Late: Book Club, Boundaries & Big Virgo Energy
We’re back—fashionably late thanks to last week’s tech gremlins—but the Virgo Vixen energy is intact. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with the Virgo Vixen cocktail, then catch up on names vs. nicknames, a quick shout to Lula’s Legacy of Love (Breast Cancer walk 10/25 in Tampa), and Kiki’s Drinks & Reads book club featuring author Kimberly Brown.

Kiki recaps Podcast Movement (anxiety to applause), a heavenly stop at Southern Classic Daiquiri Factory, and why her birthday plan is all about volunteering with Meals on Wheels (53 friends confirmed!). We get into Hedonism plans for December, TikTok family moments, sweet-16 prep, clubbing at Revel, and a real talk segment on dating while on a “soft pop-out”—fly-outs with boundaries, bundles discourse, and why “a lot” isn’t an insult.

Medinah opens up about Paradise & Vibe Sedona: the celebrity no-show, the lessons learned, and how an intimate Lion Babe performance turned into a tiny-desk-style moment.

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Links Mentioned:
💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso

Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with Worst Behvior Tour, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com

📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ

Join Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026

To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info

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1 week ago
1 hour 27 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Sip the Drip: Cocktails, GoPuff Drama & Wild Randomness
After last week’s marathon two-hour episode, Kiki and Medinah are keeping it light with some good old-fashioned girl talk. The ladies crack open a can of Drippy, share a few laughs, rant about GoPuff, and let the conversation spiral into pure CockTales chaos. If you love the random, unfiltered energy, this one’s for you.

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Links Mentioned:
💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso

Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com

📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ

Join Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026

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2 weeks ago
1 hour 20 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

The Thirst Trap Spritz Episode: Balcony Confessions, Wills, & Wild What-Ifs”
This week’s cocktail is the Thirst Trap Spritz—a flirty, fruity sip perfect for summer. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with book club chatter about Kimberly Brown’s If You Love Me, a suspenseful love story that sparks a wild “what would you do?” debate about missing spouses and moving on.
From there, the ladies dive into a Weird Sex story featuring balcony sex in Mexico (and some Atlanta sightings 👀), before checking in on their health journeys with LifeRX. The conversation takes a thoughtful turn with real talk on funerals, wills, life insurance, and why Black families need to plan ahead. Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without plenty of laughs, side stories, and chaotic tangents. Pull up a glass, sip your spritz, and join the discussion.

Links Mentioned:
💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso
Join Me in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com
📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ
Join Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026

Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES
💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188

📲 Follow Us:
Instagram: @cocktalespodcast
Instagram: @kikisaidso
Instagram: @coffeebeandean

🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads

Contact Us!
Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com
Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com
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Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com
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3 weeks ago
1 hour 52 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

"Hot Yoga, Hot Men & Hot Mess Advice Letters"
Kiki and Medinah are back with a no-guest episode full of stories, laughs, and a little real talk. From church crushes and splits that should’ve stayed retired, to wild mall chaos and situationships that feel more like soul ties, nothing is off-limits. The ladies get reflective about health, stress, and why peace is work (not silence), before diving into this week’s advice letter that mixes astrology with a messy situationship. Whether you’re here for the laughs, the life lessons, or just to hear why soda is basically crack, this episode is for you.

💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso

Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com

📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ

🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/

To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info

Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get
30% off sitewide.

💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188

Chapters
00:00 – intro & “Agua” cocktail of the week
01:00 – Last week’s flirty fallout & church lust confessions
04:15 – Recapping guests & male perspectives
07:00 – Health reflections & stress talk
10:45 – Soda = crack & healthy swaps
11:30 – Save the Tatas Walk + travel updates
13:00 – Travel Tribe Thailand trip plans
14:00 – Drinks & Reads Book Club updates
16:00 – XO Man podcast shoutout
21:30 – Fashion chaos & mall fights
23:00 – Sensitivity vs understanding men
29:00 – Men who want “peace” but don’t do the work
35:00 – Hot yoga & self-reflection
36:30 – Advice Letter: Astrology & soul ties
48:00 – Perfect match or perfect mess?
55:00 – Knowing if someone’s really for you
1:02:00 – Closing thoughts, chaos & cocktails

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1 month ago
1 hour 4 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Ep. 457 Banter & Blushing: Jugo Alexander on Love, Lust & Laughs
This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, things get real flirty when comedian, actor, writer, and self-proclaimed professional heartbreaker Jugo Alexander joins Kiki and Medinah. From the moment he sits down, the chemistry between him and Medinah is undeniable – and we don’t just mean a little eye contact. We’re talking laugh-out-loud banter, slick one-liners, and a few moments that might have you yelling at your headphones, “JUST GO ON A DATE ALREADY!” In this episode, we dive into:
Jugo’s unapologetic approach to love, lust, and relationships
The fine art of flirting (and when it crosses the line)
Why confidence is the ultimate cheat code
Relationship turn-ons, turn-offs, and the stories that still make him blush
Whether you’re here for the laughs, the flirting masterclass, or just to witness the undeniable energy between Jugo and Medinah, this one’s a must-listen. Warning: You might need a glass of water after this one. 💦

💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on PatreonAUGUST BOOK: “IF YOU LOVE ME” BY KIMBERLY BROWN www.patreon.com/kikisaidso

Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II December 13-18, 2025 with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com

📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ

🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/

To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info

Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES

💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188

📲 Follow Us:
Instagram: @cocktalespodcast
Instagram: @kikisaidso
Instagram: @coffeebeandean

🛒 Support the ShowFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads

Contact Us!
Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com
Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com
Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com
Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com
Guest Request/General Inquiries: info@cocktalespod.com

Visit soakingwet.com and use codeCOCKTALES for 10% off

💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188

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1 month ago
1 hour 32 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Ep. 456 "Do You Want a Title or Nah? Let’s Talk Marriage Insurance & Men Who Can’t Lead"
This week we’re talking titles, toxic takes, and whether marriage needs an insurance policy. Kiki and Medinah are back with stories about wild traffic stops, real estate wins, cheating scandals on the kiss cam, and the exhausting emotional labor Black women carry in love and life. We’re asking:
→ Why do some men expect leadership with no labor?
→ Is marriage insurance the new prenup?
→ Do we sound bitter, or are we just done with the BS? Plus, Medina shares a major real estate milestone, Kiki wants to grow corn in her dream backyard, and your favorite THC libido gummies are back on the mic. Segments include:
Cocktail of the Week: Late Checkout
Real Estate Glow-Ups
The “Side Chick or Wife?” Listener Letter
Why Men Need Emotional Education
Marriage, Divorce & Soft Life Desires
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💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso

Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com

📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ

🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/

To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info

Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES

💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188

📲 Follow Us:
Instagram: @cocktalespodcast
Instagram: @kikisaidso
Instagram: @coffeebeandean

🛒 Support the Show
For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads

Contact Us!

Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com
Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com
Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com
Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com
Guest Request/General Inquiries: info@cocktalespod.com

Chapters:
00:00 – Cocktail of the Week: Late Checkout
06:00 – Grandma goals, spiked sweet tea & aging dreams
15:00 – Traffic stops, real estate flexes & calling in favors
25:00 – Porn site blocks, pink porn debates & scandalous kiss cam moments
40:00 – Should wives stay through...
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1 month ago
1 hour 13 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

455 "Slippery When Lit: Cocktails, Boundaries & Cheeto Kinks"
This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are keeping it real with no guest and plenty of laughs. The cocktail of the week is “Slippery When Lit,” a whiskey-based drink that sets the mood for updates on Vibe Fest in Sedona, Podcast Movement, and upcoming trips with the Travel Tribe and Worst Behavior Tour. The ladies share outfit dilemmas, beauty tips, and the importance of wellness check-ins with LifeRX, plus new book club updates and future group trip ideas.

Things take a turn with the Weird Sex segment, featuring one of the strangest kinks yet: feeding Cheetos with toes. The hosts also dive into sex education, what they wish they’d learned earlier, and the challenges of setting boundaries in and out of the bedroom. It’s a mix of comedy, cocktails, and candid girl talk you won’t want to miss.

💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso

Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com

📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ

🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/

To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info

Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES

💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188

📲 Follow Us:
Instagram: @cocktalespodcast
Instagram: @kikisaidso
Instagram: @coffeebeandean

🛒 Support the Show
For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads

Contact Us!

Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com
Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com
Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com
Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com
Guest Request/General Inquiries: info@cocktalespod.com

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1 month ago
1 hour 30 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Ep. 454 @sexwithashley on Dating, Pleasure & Her Cult Escape
This week, we’re joined by sexual health expert, writer, and podcaster @sexwithashley for a raw, hilarious, and honest convo about dating as a sex-positive woman, escaping the grip of purity culture, and what she’s learned about pleasure along the way. From stairwell sex at an AAU tournament to popping cherries at the sex club, Ashley keeps it real about her personal journey with boundaries, ethical non-monogamy, and the myths people still hold about women who talk about sex.

We also get into: dating daddies, digmatization recovery, and why some men love the idea of a freak… until they actually meet one

Links Mentioned:
💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso
📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ
🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/
Cancer Walk
Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES
💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188
Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get
30% off sitewide.

🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors:
Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off

🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube

📲 Follow Us:
Instagram: @cocktalespodcast
Instagram: @kikisaidso
Instagram: @coffeebeandean

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1 month ago
1 hour 36 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Cowboys and Cocktales w/ Kiara "Kiki Said So" Walker & Medinah Monroe
This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are back with an unfiltered episode packed with laughs, life updates, and a whole lot of delusion. Medinah nearly faints at Beyoncé’s Cowboy Carter tour (spoiler: Bey saw her!), then shares a prison baby story so wild it has us all confused. Plus, she opens up about a surprise date with her old high school crush. Kiki shares what it meant to help Lex buy her first home and finally be taken seriously in her real estate career. We talk vaginal health, bounce-back bodies, dating while healing, and listener advice on vacation hookups. Pour a Delulu Cowgirl and tune in, because this one is a ride. 👢

✨ Memorable Quotes:
“Six months of celibacy… tossed just like my salad.”
“I might not be able to make your birthday, but I’ll never miss your daddy’s funeral.”
“Don’t show up with wolf pussy—unless that’s your thing.”
“My titties look new. It’s giving fresh install.”
“I love Beyoncé… and she saw me.

Links Mentioned:
💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon
📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ
🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe
Lovergirl Trip Survey
Cancer Walk
Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES
💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off

🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors:

Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off
Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get
30% off sitewide.

LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE

🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it.
CockTales Channel on YouTube

📲 Follow Us:
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Instagram: @kikisaidso
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2 months ago
1 hour 12 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Ep. 452 Blocked on Everything But Facebook... and He Still Found Me
This week on CockTales, Kiki and Medinah are back in the studio with updates, chaos, and laughs. Kiki shares behind-the-scenes stories about launching XO Man and the emotional moment Skyh Black cried during their interview. The girls talk reality TV obsessions—from Riley on Next Gen NYC to why Love Island might actually be softcore porn. Plus, Medinah opens up about the temptation of a romantic fly-out offer from an ex and her fear of losing the healing and clarity she’s gained. The girls also plan a fantasy podcast girl reality show and get honest about sending spicy pics but not boarding the plane. And don’t miss a weird sex story you’ll never forget—let’s just say someone got a UTI from a man who didn’t deserve it. Also in this episode:
A huge thank you to listeners supporting XO Man 🙌🏾
Medinah Has A New Travel Group!
Why traveling the world is healing—and which countries are winning the trip vote

Links Mentioned:
💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon
📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ
🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe
Lovergirl Trip Survey
Cancer Walk
If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter
Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get
30% off sitewide.
💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off

🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors:

Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off

LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE

🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it.
CockTales Channel on YouTube

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2 months ago
1 hour 27 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Ep. 451 "All I Needed Was a Margarita and Some Discipline"
This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, the girls are catching up post-Fourth of July with everything from real estate mommas and mansion parties to gun safety and self-care orgasms. Medinah’s planning a Lover Girls Only trip for the girls who are heartbroken but healing, while Kiki recaps her Houston weekend full of crawfish, concerts, and chaos. From vibrator confessions to gun safety courses, the girls reflect on growth, outside energy, and why healing is horny work.

Links Mentioned:
💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon
📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ
🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe
Lovergirl Trip Survey
Cancer Walk
Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off
💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off

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2 months ago
1 hour 25 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

“You Will Go Back to Ugly”: Beauty, Boundaries, & Botox with Kelsey Taylor
This week we’re joined by the gorgeous and hilarious Kelsey Taylor — nurse practitioner, beauty expert, and injector of all things smooth and snatched. We’re talking cheating (yes, emotional cheating counts), dating disasters, and the wild line between insecurity and self-care. Kelsey spills about a man who went full stalker mode, how she got into the beauty industry, and why you absolutely need a licensed pro before letting anyone touch your face. We’re getting into:
The difference between Botox and filler (because no, they’re not the same!)
Why maintenance is everything — in beauty and relationships
Vaginal health, weird sex stories, and when your man moves in... uninvited
And yes, we said it: men are a luxury, not a necessity 💅🏾
This is one for the girls, the glam, and the group chat. Hit play and pour up!

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3 months ago
1 hour 17 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Ep. 449 "What If My Forever Love Missed the Exit?"
This week’s episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions is an emotional rollercoaster with equal parts healing and hilarious. Kiki opens up about her new project xoMan Podcast, launching June 17th, and how she landed not just the hosting gig—but a producer credit too. Medinah shares her recent deep dive into celibacy, her new purpose-driven journey, and what it’s like to feel truly lonely again. There’s real talk on forever love, how our grandparents' marriages shaped our ideals, and why modern dating has us asking, “Where did the real men go?” Oh—and of course, there’s a surprise golden shower story. Yes, you read that right. Whether you’re in your healed girl era or still making mistakes for the plot, this one’s for you.

Topics Covered:
Medinah’s celibacy update & unexpected loneliness
Volunteering with Meals on Wheels & giving back
Kiki’s XO Man Podcast announcement + favorite upcoming guests
Reflections on forever love and generational relationships
Modern dating frustrations and “princess treatment” for men?!
When your dress rips during an interview with David Banner
Tips for summer reading, affordable audiobook apps & library perks
Weird Sex Story: A thunderclap headache and an unintentional golden shower
Cocktail of the Week:
🍸 Thirst Trappin’
2 oz lime juice
1 oz grapefruit juice
0.5 oz elderflower liqueur or triple sec
Dash of agave
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3 months ago
1 hour 24 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

EP. 448 "Soft Launches and Hard Lessons"
No guest this week, but we dive into birthday betrayals, petty payback, chaotic wax appointments, and why door-opening debates should never happen at the gym. Plus, we’re picking soft launch over sneaky link and maybe, just maybe, planning a little revenge brunch.

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3 months ago
1 hour 18 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Braids, Backshots, and Tender-Headed Heaux | Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe Talk Young Love, Black Hair Woes, Wild Dates & Hookups
(00:00:00) Teaser
(00:01:42) Cocktail of the Week- Heaux On the Rocks
(00:02:45) Black Hair Woes & Braids
(00:16:58) Brooklyn Bedding Code Cocktales
(00:19:55) Family & Anxiousness
(00:39:20) Vibe Fest in Sedona Aug 24-27
(00:40:33) Join Kiki's Book Club- June "The Nothing Man"
(00:42:30) Weird Sex Segment- Sex Myths We Used To Believe
(00:52:08) Main Discussion- Young Love
(01:08:06) Indecisive Diane
(01:08:55) Advice Segment
(01:14:59) CockTales Segment

We’re back! And this week’s episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions has range, okay? From backshots and braids to funerals and family group pics, we cover it all. Kiki talks about heading to Louisiana a few hours after recording for her grandfather’s funeral and gives an update on the emotional rollercoaster that came with it (yes, grandma got her group photo and yes, it’s on YouTube). Meanwhile, Medinah just took her braids out in the most luxurious way and is deep in her "enjoy and romanticize every moment" era. We’re talking young love, grown crushes, being a tender-headed Black girl just trying to function, and the ridiculous things we believed about sex back in the day. There’s also a new cocktail recipe (Heaux on the Rocks), a ridiculous listener confession, and of course, a little indecisive date suggestions from Diane.

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3 months ago
1 hour 20 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Ep. 446 All We Got is Bereavement Catfish and Tree Hugs
This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re grieving, horny, and apparently being touched by trees. Kiki and Medinah catch up on soft launches, Sedona plans, vibrator injuries, and the men sliding into DMs after baptism. Plus, they break down a listener letter involving baby mama drama and what desperation doesn’t look like at 30.

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Topics:
Cocktail of the Week: “The Soft Launch”
Soft launching vs hard launching relationships
Medinah’s plans for the Sedona retreat & Issa Rae interview
Getting styled like “Hot Girl Martha Stewart”
A vibrator story gone wrong
Can a tree spiritually touch you… or was that the wind?
Baby mama chaos and what “for better or worse” really means
Dealing with DMs post-baptism and setting spiritual boundaries
Why being single over 30 isn’t desperation — it’s discernment
Kids with silver teeth, gentle parenting, and who’s gonna take care of us when we’re old

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4 months ago
1 hour 12 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Ep. 445 "Mothers, Sons & the Boundaries You Refuse to Set"
In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, Kiki and Medinah are back in their original studio space catching up on life—both the beautiful and the hard parts. Kiki opens up about the recent passing of her grandfather, sharing intimate, funny, and touching memories that remind us how fleeting life can be. Medinah reflects on her trip to Pittsburgh for Mother's Day and the emotional rollercoaster of spending time with her grandmother, who’s battling dementia. The duo also dives into a trending quote from Marlon Wayans about not marrying because of his mom—and unpack the emotional and generational dynamics around “emotional incest,” legacy, and mother-in-law drama. Plus, why some old-school family values still matter, why fried catfish can cure anything (sorta), and a very necessary PSA on checking in on our elders.

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Main Theme: Love, Loss, Legacy & Emotional Boundaries
Topics Covered:
Returning to their OG studio and why the change of scenery matters
Kiki opens up about her grandfather's death and grieving in real time
Medinah shares stories from her emotional Mother’s Day trip to Pittsburgh
Navigating dementia, caretaking, and the humor and heartbreak of family aging
Meals on Wheels and the importance of community-based support for seniors
Reactions to Marlon Wayans’ post about not marrying to protect his mom’s feelings
Deep dive into emotional incest, in-law boundaries, and generational shifts in family dynamics
Naomi & Ruth as a model for in-law relationships
Legacy as impact—not just having kids
A peek into Medinah’s “Silver Tooth Children” horror movie concept (yes, really)

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4 months ago
1 hour 31 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Ep. 444 "Rule Breakers" with Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe
This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re breaking rules and wind 😅 Kiki and Medinah return to catch up on everything from bizarre fetishes to considering if they might be the toxic one in their love life. Tune in as they unpack Dutch ovens (the kinky kind), gym struggles, cravings, the “What Are We” pressure, and why intimacy without connection just isn’t hitting anymore.

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⏱️ Timestamps:
0:00 – Welcome Back + Trip Updates
4:00 – Weird Sex Segment: Dutch Oven Gone Wrong
10:30 – Cravings, Workouts & Wellness Woes
17:00 – Kiki’s LifeRX Journey Begins
23:00 – Are YOU the Problem in Your Dating Life?
44:00 – Changing Relationship Rules
55:00 – Sex, Confusion, and Sitting with Feelings
1:03:00 – Emotional Honesty & Hormone Drama
1:10:00 – When Friends Overstep
1:20:00 – Kindness, Boundaries, and Grown Woman Choices

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4 months ago
1 hour 32 minutes

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

"We Gotta Touch Grass"
(00:00:00) Intro Trailer
(00:01:14) Turks & Coco Cocktail
(00:03:08) Welcome Back
(00:06:33) Worst Behavior Tour
(00:07:15) Paradise + Vibe Trip
(00:11:34) Weird Sex
(00:17:03) Brooklyn Bedding Promo
(00:22:40) Where Have We Been?
(00:56:14) PantyDeal Promo
(00:59:10) Girls Trip + Marriage Thoughts
(01:08:19) Advice Segment
(01:18:12) CockTales Segment

Kiki and Medinah are back after a much-needed break and have a lot to catch up on—from barefoot birthday parties in Piedmont Park to wild moments in Curaçao, Chicago, and the club. Kiki shares updates on hosting a TV premiere, her sister’s wedding plans, and a scandalous Shannon Sharpe moment that made its way to “Weird Sex.” Plus, Medinah opens up about her baptism, and the ladies give advice on awkward mama moments and how to level up your Gawk Gawk game.

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Detailed Show Notes
Topics Covered:
Taking a much-needed break and grounding at Piedmont Park 🌱
Travel recaps: Curaçao group trip, Chicago speaking engagement, and sister’s wedding prep in Dallas
Hosting the Travel Queens TV premiere for BET Her
Medinah’s baptism and emotional growth
Kiki on caregiving and advocating for Black men’s health
Shannon Sharpe's scandal and a “Weird Sex” take on race play and discernment 🤨
Listener advice: When your man tells your mama y’all exclusive (but forgot to tell you)
A gym crush turns into a kinky 8AM hookup (Barbells & Bondage anyone?)
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4 months ago
1 hour 24 minutes