Don't Fix What They Broke Podcast with Coach Lee When a breakup leaves you reeling, there’s a strong temptation to rush in and patch things up—especially if you didn’t want the relationship to end. You might feel like if you can just fix it, explain yourself better, or show them how much you care, everything will fall back into place. But here’s something most people overlook: if they were the one who broke it, fixing it for them actually makes things worse. In this episode, I talk about why stepping back—and staying back—can often do far more for your chances of reconciliation than chasing or trying to clean up the damage they caused. You’ll hear why it’s important that your ex sees what life is like without you rushing in to save the day. If they ended it, if they ghosted you, or if they created the distance… they need to feel the weight of that decision. They need to experience the silence, the space, and the consequence of what they did. Because if you make it too easy—if you do all the work—they never have to face the loss. And that’s the moment you lose your power. We’ll dive into the psychology behind what happens when you don’t fix it. I’ll explain how self-respect, restraint, and quiet strength speak louder than emotional speeches or repeated apologies. When you hold back, it challenges their assumptions. It makes them wonder if they were wrong. And that question—“Did I mess up?”—is the one that often brings them back. You’ll also hear how giving your ex the emotional consequences of the breakup isn’t about revenge or being cold. It’s about stopping the cycle of imbalance. If you’re always the one doing the emotional labor, the relationship was never even to begin with—and reconciliation will only be more of the same. This episode is for anyone in the thick of heartbreak, especially those who feel like their ex is just waiting for them to fix it again. It’s a reminder that silence, boundaries, and letting the broken pieces stay broken for a while can actually create the space needed for clarity, remorse, and maybe even a real reunion. Listen now—and if you're serious about getting your ex back, visit MyExBackCoach.com for more resources. Get your ex back with Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at MyExBackCoach.com/ebk For men, have more success with women than you ever thought possible with Coach Lee's Masculine Destiny course at MasculineDestiny.com!

They didn’t think it would matter. When they let you go, they figured they’d be fine. Maybe even better off. In their mind, you’d be easy to replace. Someone else would come along and fill the space. They believed they could move on without consequence, without even looking back. But people like you don’t come around every day. And that’s something they never truly considered—until the silence set in. Until the conversations weren’t as natural. The laughter didn’t sound quite the same. The connection didn’t flow. The comfort wasn’t there. In this episode, Coach Lee breaks down the hard truth behind what happens when someone thinks you’re replaceable… and then realizes you’re not. You’ll learn how to stop trying to prove your worth to someone who undervalued you—and why your silence, your strength, and your absence often do more to create regret than any words ever could. Coach Lee explains how walking away with dignity leaves a mark that lingers far longer than begging, convincing, or chasing ever would. This episode isn’t about playing games. It’s about understanding human psychology, especially in the aftermath of a breakup. When someone thinks you’ll chase, they assume they have control. They expect you to fall apart, to cling, to wait around just in case they change their mind. But when you don’t? That’s when the narrative starts to change. You’ll hear why it’s so important not to hand over your emotional power, and how doing so often makes the other person feel justified in their decision to leave. Coach Lee walks you through what happens when you pull back, live your life, and let the silence speak for you. We also discuss why most people who end relationships aren’t thinking long-term in the moment. They’re reacting to emotion, impulse, or a fantasy of something “better.” But over time, reality has a way of setting in—and it rarely looks the way they imagined. That’s when they begin to compare. And if you’ve been composed, grounded, and quietly rebuilding your strength? You stand out more than ever. In the episode, Coach Lee shares how to handle those inevitable breadcrumbs—those vague texts, likes on social media, or messages just checking in. You’ll learn how to recognize them for what they are: attempts to get emotional reassurance without committing to anything real. Responding correctly can either reinforce your value—or confirm that you’ll settle for less than you deserve. You’ll learn how to keep your edge and avoid falling into emotional traps that give away your progress. We also talk about what it actually looks like when someone regrets losing you. It’s not always dramatic or loud. Sometimes it’s quiet. A creeping realization. A late-night memory. A moment of comparison. And often, that regret comes long after they expected to feel nothing at all. This episode will remind you that you were never easy to replace. You might have been quiet. You might have walked away calmly. But what you brought to the table can’t be duplicated—and eventually, they’ll see that. And when they do? You’ll be standing stronger, wiser, and more certain of what you deserve. — If you’re struggling with the pain of a breakup or still hoping your ex will come back, visit myexbackcoach.com for a step-by-step plan with Coach Lee’s Emergency Breakup Kit (see https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk). For men wanting to better understand how attraction works and how to be more grounded in relationships, visit MasculineDestiny.com for powerful, no-nonsense guidance. You’re not replaceable. Not even close. And this episode shows you why.

They don’t come back when you chase. They come back when you let go. In this video, Coach Lee explains why letting someone go often has a more powerful impact than trying to convince them to stay. If you're wondering why your ex suddenly comes back after you've stopped reaching out or walked away, this video will help you understand the psychology behind it. Letting go creates mystery, space, and the contrast they didn’t expect to feel. It shows strength instead of desperation—and that shift can change everything. 🔹 Want a proven plan to get your ex back?👉 Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk 🔹 Want to become more grounded, attractive, and effective in relationships as a man?👉 Masculine Destiny Course at https://MasculineDestiny.com On YouTube at "Why An Ex Comes Back When You Let Them Go"

In this episode, we’re digging into something a lot of people struggle with after a breakup. I'm talking about how to make your ex actually feel the loss. Not out of spite, not to play games, but because deep down, you know they took you for granted. Maybe they assumed you’d always be there. Maybe they expected you to fall apart or chase them the moment they walked away. And maybe… that’s exactly why they left in the first place. Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebkMasculine Destiny (for men) at https://MasculineDestiny.comCoaching Session at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ But when you pull back—when you truly let go and stop showing up in ways they’ve grown used to—that’s when something unexpected happens. They start to feel it. Not right away, maybe not even consciously at first, but the absence settles in. And it’s different than silence. It’s strength. It’s peace. It’s self-respect. In this episode, I walk you through the reasons people tend to come back once you let go. You’ll learn why chasing only delays their regret, why your calm detachment shifts the entire dynamic, and how to carry yourself in a way that rewrites their memory of the breakup. If you’ve ever felt invisible after giving your best to someone, this episode is for you. We’re not talking about pretending to be okay—we’re talking about actually getting to a place where you are. And when that happens, you won’t need them to regret losing you. But ironically, that’s when they usually do. Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebkMasculine Destiny at https://MasculineDestiny.comCoaching Session at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

In this episode, we’re talking about something that hits deep: what it feels like when someone walks away—but expects you to wait. Maybe you’ve been there. You gave your heart, your time, your consistency… and in return, they gave confusion. Silence dressed up as “space.” Excuses instead of effort. And yet, part of you still held the door open, hoping they’d come back. This conversation is for the ones who waited—out of love, out of belief, out of loyalty—until one day, you realized that love shouldn’t feel like waiting in emotional limbo. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk MEN, get Coach Lee's NEW Masculine Destiny course on attracting women and building rock-solid relationships at https://MasculineDestiny.com  We’ll unpack the subtle ways people try to keep a grip on you without actually choosing you. We’ll talk about why real love shows up, and why you’re not wrong for finally walking away from someone who never truly committed. If you’ve ever been told to “just be patient,” or if you’ve felt stuck between loving someone and losing yourself, this one’s for you. You’re not alone, and you’re not crazy for expecting someone to meet you halfway. Listen all the way through. You might just realize you’ve been giving too much to someone who never planned on giving it back—and that you’ve had the strength to let go all along. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk MEN, get Coach Lee's NEW Masculine Destiny course on attracting women and building rock-solid relationships at https://MasculineDestiny.com 

Breakups are messy—even for the one who ends it. In this episode, I walk you through the timeline of what usually happens after someone breaks up with you. Not right away, but in the weeks and months that follow, there’s often a shift they didn’t expect. The relief fades. Doubt creeps in. And if you’ve gone quiet, that silence starts to get loud. We’ll talk about the common phases dumpers go through, why they sometimes reach out even when they’re not sure what they want, and what it really means when they start watching your stories or texting out of nowhere. If you’ve been left wondering what your ex is thinking—or hoping they’ll realize what they gave up—this one’s for you. Get my Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk Get my Masculine Destiny course for men at https://MasculineDestiny.com  

  What really causes someone to regret the breakup? In this episode, I walk you through five real moments that often shift the mindset of someone who left you. These aren’t guesses or vague ideas—they’re specific turning points. Internal realizations. Psychological cracks. The kind of things that don’t always show up on the surface, but mean everything when you're trying to understand what’s going on behind the silence. Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk Book a coaching session at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ If you’ve been doing no contact, wondering if it’s having any effect—or if your ex even thinks about you at all—this episode gives you an honest look at what really changes someone’s mind about ending a relationship. Sometimes the turning point is subtle. Other times, it hits them like a wave. But when it comes, it rewrites the entire story they’ve been telling themselves. Listen in. It might help you see things from a completely new angle—and give you more peace about where you stand. Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk Book a coaching session at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmHTZNvKfsg

They thought you’d wait forever. They thought you’d stay in place. That you’d stay loyal no matter how long they disappeared. That you’d be available whenever — if they ever changed their mind. And for a while… maybe they were right. But something changed. You didn’t just wait. You grew. You got quiet. You got stronger. And now… they don’t know where you stand. And that uncertainty? It’s doing something they never expected — it’s making them feel your absence. In this episode, Coach Lee breaks down the powerful shift that happens when you stop chasing, stop reaching out, and stop holding space for someone who walked away. It’s not about giving up — it’s about stepping back in a way that forces your ex to face the silence, the loss, and the consequences of their decision. You’ll learn: Why openly waiting after a breakup actually keeps your ex emotionally comfortable and uninterested How true emotional distance triggers curiosity, doubt, and even longing in the mind of your ex What role ego plays in making them assume you’ll always be there — and what happens when that assumption shatters The difference between stepping back with power vs. using it as a tactic (and how your intent affects the outcome) What to do if they do reach out — how to handle that moment with composure and strength, instead of rushing back into the same dynamic This episode is about helping you reclaim your dignity and emotional clarity — not as a strategy to manipulate your ex, but as a way to create real conditions for their regret and reconsideration. Because when you stop acting like you're waiting forever… it becomes clear to them that your love wasn't unconditional—it was respectful, but it required reciprocity. If you're currently wondering how long to wait, what to do next, or whether your ex will even notice you're gone, Coach Lee shares the mindset and actions that can help you move forward — either toward reconciliation, or peace. Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back at ReunionBlueprint.com.  📞 Want to talk directly with Coach Lee about your specific situation? You can book a one-on-one coaching session at:👉 https://myexbackcoach.com Because you deserve more than false hope. You deserve clarity. And your ex? They may have thought you'd wait forever… but they were wrong. Also, get help for your marriage problems at MarriageRadio.com

They walked away. But somehow, they still feel in control.That ends now. In this video, I’m going to walk you through how to take your ex’s power away. Not by playing games, but by showing them—subtly and clearly—that they don’t hold emotional control over you anymore. Get Coach Lee's $7 Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back! See ReunionBlueprint.com!  So many people give their ex power without realizing it. Every little reaction… every attempt to show them what they’re missing… even just overthinking what they post. It all gives them more influence. You don’t want that. You don’t need that. I’ll cover exactly how to flip the script. You’ll learn how to stop feeding their ego, how silence speaks louder than any “closure” conversation, and how to mentally take them off the pedestal. This isn’t about pretending you’re fine—it’s about getting to the point where you actually are. Because once you stop chasing and start standing still with strength, it changes everything. You’ll be surprised how quickly that power dynamic starts to shift. If you’re serious about getting your ex back, or if you just want to stop hurting and feel like yourself again, this video will help. 🎯 Want to go further with this? My Emergency Breakup Kit walks you through everything step-by-step. See https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk  Leave a comment if this helped or hit home for you. I read them. And if you haven’t already, hit subscribe—I post new videos every week on how to get your ex back, rebuild your confidence, and take back your peace. Book a Coaching Session at http://MyExBackCoach.com 

Body $7 Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com You think they’ve moved on. They’re silent. Distant. Maybe even cold. But behind that silence, something else is happening—and they don’t even realize it. In this video, I’ll reveal five hidden ways your ex is subconsciously testing you after the breakup. Not because they’re playing games… But because they’re trying to protect their pride, their narrative, and the version of the story that makes them feel right. And every time you don’t react the way they expect you to— you shake their certainty a little more. Here’s what you’ll learn: 💔 Why your ex is watching to see if you’ll fall apart without them 💔 How your silence quietly challenges the story they’ve told themselves about the breakup 💔 The real reason they’re hoping you’ll reset the dynamic first 💔 Why distance is forcing their old feelings to resurface—whether they want that or not 💔 The subtle way they’re testing if they still live rent-free in your mind The truth is: They’re testing you. But you? You’re passing in silence. $7 Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com

Your ex might seem calm, distant, or completely fine after the breakup. Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com. Book a coaching session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ Maybe they’re silent. Maybe they’re posting like life has never been better. Maybe they’ve even convinced themselves that they’re at peace. But here’s the truth—they’re struggling more than they’ll ever admit. Breakups don’t bring instant clarity. They create doubt, emotional contradictions, and hidden struggles that most people refuse to acknowledge. While you’re wondering if they’ve moved on without a second thought, they’re fighting an internal battle they don’t want you to see. In this episode, I’ll break down five hidden struggles your ex is facing right now—whether they show it or not: 🎙️ What You’ll Learn in This Episode: They’re Exhausted from Pretending They Don’t Care – The silent emotional drain of keeping up an act. They Can’t Escape the “What If?” Thoughts – How doubt slowly replaces their initial confidence. Seeing You Unaffected Makes Their Internal Struggle Worse – Why their need for control backfires. They’re Afraid to Admit They Might Have Been Wrong – How their ego is keeping them stuck. Their Silence Isn’t Peace—It’s a Battle – The hidden emotional chaos they can’t avoid forever. If you think their silence means they don’t care, you’re only seeing the surface. The longer they stay silent, the harder this struggle becomes. Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com. Book a coaching session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

Right now, it might seem like your ex is completely certain about their decision. They’re acting distant, cold, and unbothered—like you never really mattered to them. But here’s the truth… they’re more confused than you think. Get Coach Lee's "Reunion Blueprint" for just $7 at https://ReunionBlueprint.com Book a private session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ Breakups don’t bring instant clarity. Instead, they create doubt, second-guessing, and emotional contradictions that your ex may not even recognize yet. In this episode, I’ll break down five psychological reasons why your ex isn’t as sure as they seem—and why their silence, avoidance, or even their confidence might actually be a sign of confusion. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why confusion often looks like rejection—and how to avoid taking it personally.The reason your ex thought they’d feel better by now… but don’t.How they’re caught between missing you and proving a point—and why that keeps them stuck.The hidden self-doubt they don’t want to admit (even to themselves).Why your certainty makes them even more confused.Your ex’s mind isn’t as made up as you think. And the moment they realize that? Everything changes. Get Coach Lee's "Reunion Blueprint" for just $7 at https://ReunionBlueprint.com Book a private session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

Your ex may seem unaffected by the breakup, but that’s likely not the full story. There are several reasons why they appear to feel nothing—at least, for now. Get Coach Lee's $7 "Reunion Blueprint" at https://ReunionBlueprint.com.  If you are in a troubled marriage, get Coach Lee's FREE mini-course on saving your marriage at https://MarriageRadio.com/marriagehelp  1. Dopamine and the Relief Stage When your ex decided to break up, their brain rewarded them with dopamine, the same chemical that gives a sense of satisfaction when completing difficult tasks. Since breaking up is tough, their brain gives them a sense of relief, making them feel like they’ve “escaped” something they had been struggling with for a while. Even if they later regret the breakup, at the moment, they feel good because the breakup is no longer something they are dreading. This initial relief can make it seem like they feel nothing, but it's just the temporary high of crossing a difficult task off their mental to-do list. 2. No Emotional Consequences Yet Your ex has not yet had time to fully experience your absence. The human brain assumes that familiar people will always be around, so in the early stages after a breakup, they don’t feel like they’ve lost you permanently. If you keep reaching out, they won’t feel any real emotional consequences. They won’t miss you because they still believe you are an option. In order for them to feel your absence, you must stop contacting them and allow reality to set in. 3. They Consider You a Perpetual Option If your ex hasn’t experienced you truly being gone, they don’t believe they’ve lost you. Many people make the mistake of keeping communication open, thinking it will help rebuild the relationship, but in reality, it only reinforces the breakup. By remaining in their life, you make it easier for them to move on, because nothing feels different. The best way to make them reconsider is to actually walk away and let them realize what life is like without you. 4. They Are Rewriting the Relationship To justify the breakup, your ex may distort their memories of the relationship, making you seem worse than you were. They may label you as toxic, controlling, or even call you a narcissist, not necessarily because they believe it, but because they need a logical reason to explain the breakup to themselves and others. However, over time, their brain will naturally forget the negatives and remember the positives more clearly. This psychological process, known as the fading effect bias, often leads people to regret their decisions. 5. They Feel Something, But They Won’t Show It Your ex may be feeling emotions but doesn’t want to admit it. Reaching out after a breakup can feel embarrassing, so instead, they look for an excuse to reconnect subtly. They may start small, sending a casual message, hoping you’ll take the lead. Some people struggle with accountability and want the other person to be the one to initiate getting back together. Final Thoughts The best way to handle this situation is to stay away. Let your ex go through the natural stages of post-breakup emotions. As the dopamine fades and they experience your absence, they may start to miss you. If you continue to reach out, you only delay this process. Instead, give them the breakup they wanted—so they can truly feel what life is like without you.   Get Coach Lee's $7 "Reunion Blueprint" at https://ReunionBlueprint.com.  If you are in a troubled marriage, get Coach Lee's FREE mini-course on saving your marriage at https://MarriageRadio.com/marriagehelp 

Your ex may act fine after the breakup, but deep down, they’re feeling emotions they won’t admit to anyone—including themselves. In this podcast episode, Coach Lee reveals the hidden pain your ex experiences as time passes and why they might start to regret leaving you. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The Pain of Uncertainty: Why they start questioning if breaking up was a mistake. The Emotional Crash: How their initial relief turns into emptiness. The Power of Nostalgia: Why their brain rewrites history to focus on the good times. The Reality of Feeling Stuck: How seeing you move forward makes them feel left behind. The Shock of Your Silence: Why they expected you to chase—but now wonder if they lost you forever. Why This Matters Your ex’s silence doesn’t mean they’re happy. Their ego, fear, and pride keep them from showing their true emotions. But as time passes, their pain grows—until they can no longer ignore it. Understanding this process can help you stay strong in no contact and give you the best chance of making them realize what they lost. 📌 Want a step-by-step plan to get your ex back? Get the $7 Reunion Blueprint at ReunionBlueprint.com 📌 For more expert breakup coaching, visit: MyExBackCoach.com. If you are married, visit https://MarriageRadio.com.  💬 Have you noticed your ex showing signs of hidden pain? Share your experience in the comments below! Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for more insights from Coach Lee.

At first, it might seem like your ex is doing just fine after the breakup—maybe even relieved. But that feeling won’t last forever. In this episode, Coach Lee dives deep into why your ex actually feels worse as time goes on and how their emotions shift in ways they never expected. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why your ex’s emotions are delayed after the breakup – Understanding the psychological timeline that makes them feel worse over time. How nostalgia rewrites the past – Why your ex starts remembering the good times more than the bad as weeks and months pass. The role of no contact in amplifying their regret – How staying silent makes them realize what they’ve lost. Why their emotional safety net disappears – The hidden reason why breakups often hit dumpers harder later. Signs they may be struggling behind the scenes – Subtle behaviors that reveal they’re not as fine as they pretend to be. Time is on your side. Your ex might have felt in control initially, but as time passes, the weight of their decision sinks in. The longer the silence lasts, the more their mind starts questioning, doubting, and missing you. 📌 For expert breakup guidance and step-by-step strategies, visit: MyExBackCoach.com📌 Get the $7 Reunion Blueprint to maximize your chances of getting them back: ReunionBlueprint.com If you are experiencing a marriage crisis, get Coach Lee's free mini-course on saving a marriage at https://MarriageRadio.com/marriagehelp  💬 Have you seen an ex struggle months after the breakup? Share your experience in the comments! Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for more relationship insights from Coach Lee.  

The Impact of Radio Silence on Your Ex Radio silence is one of the most effective strategies after a breakup, particularly if your ex was the one who ended the relationship. It works hand in hand with no contact but has its own unique impact. By removing yourself from your ex’s life completely—no texting, no social media updates, no interaction—you create a noticeable absence that forces them to feel the consequences of their decision. Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back for only $7 at https://ReunionBlueprint.com.  Breaking the Seek-and-Find Pattern In today’s world, we’re used to getting answers instantly. If we have a question, we Google it. If we need to know something, we check social media or text someone. But when it comes to people, things work differently. When you go silent, your ex loses the ability to check up on you. They can’t find out how you're doing, who you’re with, or whether you’ve moved on. That can be incredibly frustrating for them because it breaks their expectation that they can always seek information and find it. This is an important first consequence of the breakup—they no longer have access to you. Before, they were used to knowing what was going on in your life, from daily activities to future plans. Now, they get nothing. And that absence can feel jarring. Forcing Them to Miss Your Intimacy Regardless of why they ended the relationship, if it lasted six months or more, your ex will inevitably miss the intimacy you shared. That’s the part of a relationship people tend to miss the most. Even in shorter relationships, there is a level of connection that gets disrupted when one person disappears. Many times, after a breakup, an ex will check social media, scroll through old pictures, or casually ask mutual friends about you. This gives them a sense of staying emotionally connected, even if the relationship has ended. But when you enforce radio silence, they lose that option. If all they can see are old posts and outdated pictures, it doesn't satisfy them. They want new information—something to confirm that you’re still there, still missing them, still possibly open to reconciliation. But when you disappear, they feel the full impact of what it means to no longer have you in their life. Creating a Psychological Void The mind has a tendency to fixate on what it cannot have. When you go silent, your ex is left with questions: How are you feeling about the breakup? Are you moving on? Have you met someone new? That curiosity is crucial. If they assume they can check in on you whenever they want, they feel in control. But when that information is no longer available, their curiosity can quickly turn into concern, then regret. People often think that their ex expects them to beg, plead, or try to convince them to stay. When you do the opposite—when you vanish—they don’t know what to think. It’s unexpected, and that makes it powerful. Preventing Closure Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back for only $7 at https://ReunionBlueprint.com.  Many times, an ex will look for ways to feel justified in their decision. They want closure on their terms. If they see you struggling, reaching out, or making it clear that you still want them, it gives them a sense of relief. They feel that breaking up was the right choice. But when they can’t see any evidence of your emotions, they are left in a state of uncertainty. They don’t know if you’re heartbroken or if you’ve already moved on. That lack of closure leaves the door open for them to second-guess their decision. Triggering Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) People don’t like the idea of being left out. If your ex believes they still have a place in your life, even from a distance, they won’t feel a strong urge to return. But when you go silent, their mind starts to assume things: You must be out having fun. You must be doing things they don’t know about. Maybe you’ve already found someone new. These thoughts create a fear of mi

Does No Contact Work with a Borderline Personality Disorder Ex? Breaking up with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) presents unique challenges, leading many to question whether the no-contact rule is effective in this situation. In this audio/video, Coach Lee explores how no contact impacts individuals with BPD, the reactions you might encounter, and whether this approach fosters healing, clarity, and even reconciliation. What You’ll Discover in This Video: Why No Contact Works Differently with a BPD Ex: How emotional instability and extreme mood swings influence their perception of separation. Understanding the Push-Pull Cycle: Why individuals with BPD shift between craving closeness and abruptly pushing you away—and how no contact disrupts this pattern. Common Emotional Reactions to No Contact: Anticipating responses like distress, idealization, or even manipulative attempts to draw you back in. Dangers of Breaking No Contact Prematurely: How engaging too soon can trap you in an unhealthy cycle and prevent both of you from truly moving forward. How No Contact Promotes Growth for Both of You: Why distancing yourself isn’t about punishment but about allowing space for emotional reset and perspective shifts. Many assume that maintaining no contact with a BPD ex is impossible due to their intense emotional reactions, but this video sheds light on why it can be one of the most crucial steps toward personal healing and establishing better relationship dynamics in the future. What Is BPD?Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a mental health condition characterized by extreme emotional fluctuations, difficulty regulating emotions, and unstable relationships. Those with BPD often struggle with fear of abandonment, intense mood swings, and behaviors that may come across as manipulative or erratic. Partners of individuals with BPD frequently describe the relationship as feeling like they are "walking on eggshells." Helpful Resources:📌 Get the $7 Reunion Blueprint for a step-by-step guide to getting your ex back: ReunionBlueprint.com📌 Visit MyExBackCoach.com for more advice on breakups, emotional healing, and relationship strategies. 💬 Join the discussion! Have you implemented no contact with a BPD ex? What was your experience? Drop a comment below, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications for more expert relationship guidance from Coach Lee. 🔔 Watch now and gain the insight you need to navigate this challenging situation. Read the accompanying article: No Contact and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

Why Your Ex Misses You Later (And What You Can Do About It) Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back! After a breakup, you may find yourself missing your ex almost immediately, but they often take longer to feel that same sense of loss. This delay happens for a reason, and understanding why can help you handle the situation in a way that increases your chances of getting them back. Here’s what happens in your ex’s mind after a breakup and what you can do about it. 1. The Delayed Loss WindowYour ex likely experiences something called the delayed loss window. Immediately after breaking up with you, they feel a sense of relief. Ending a relationship, even one they wanted to end, is difficult. They may have dreaded the conversation, felt guilty about hurting you, or worried about the awkwardness of the situation. Once the breakup is over, they experience emotional relief—similar to the way you feel after completing a difficult task. During this stage, your ex believes life will be better without you. They assume they’re moving toward something better, whether that means another person, more freedom, or simply avoiding problems they perceived in the relationship. However, this relief is temporary. What You Should DoThe best way to move them out of this relief stage quickly is no contact. This means no texting, calling, or watching their social media stories. You must remove yourself from their life entirely. By doing so, you prevent them from constantly reaffirming their decision. If you stay in contact, they will continue seeking relief from the breakup, reinforcing the idea that breaking up was the right choice. But when you disappear, the relief stage ends much faster. 2. From Freedom to LonelinessAfter the relief stage, reality begins to set in. Even if your ex has started dating someone else, they still experience loneliness—not just in the sense of missing your presence, but in terms of emotional intimacy. Emotional intimacy develops when two people share their lives, thoughts, and feelings over time. It’s not something they can easily replace. When they no longer have you to talk to about their day, their past, and their feelings, a void appears. Even if they are surrounded by other people, the loneliness from losing that deep connection with you starts to take hold. What You Should DoAgain, no contact is key. Their loneliness will intensify when they realize they can’t turn to you for comfort. If you reach out, you provide an easy escape from this loneliness, and they don’t have to face the consequences of their decision. But if you remain silent, they will begin to miss the emotional connection they lost. Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back! 3. The Emotional Echo EffectAs time passes, your ex will start experiencing emotional echoes—waves of sadness, longing, and nostalgia. These moments are triggered by things like hearing a song that reminds them of you, seeing a picture of the two of you, or even catching a familiar scent. When you are silent, these emotional echoes become stronger because they assume you’re happily moving on. If you were reaching out, they’d feel reassured that you were still available. But since they don’t hear from you, doubt begins to creep in. What You Should DoMaintain mystery and silence. When they don’t know what you’re up to, their imagination takes over, and they may start to worry that you are moving on. This uncertainty makes them reevaluate the breakup. 4. Unexpected JealousyJealousy is a powerful emotion, but it must happen naturally. If you post pictures with someone new to make your ex jealous, they will likely see through it and feel reassured that you still care. However, if they simply suspect you are moving on, the jealousy is much stronger because they believe it’s real. What You Should DoInstead of trying to make them jealous, stay silent and live your life. Let them wonder. Their mind will fill in the blanks, making them fear they lost y

One of the most surprising ways to get your ex back is to genuinely move on. It sounds counterintuitive, but detaching from the relationship and focusing on your own growth can actually make your ex reconsider their decision. In this video, Coach Lee explains why shifting your mindset away from desperation and toward self-improvement increases your attractiveness and draws your ex back toward you. Get Coach Lee's "Reunion Blueprint" to get your ex back! https://ReunionBlueprint.com   Why Moving On is So Powerful When someone breaks up with you, they expect you to chase them or to be emotionally devastated. But when you take a step back, embrace life, and stop trying to convince them to return, it changes their perception of you. Your ex starts to wonder if they made the right decision, and the emotional distance allows them to miss you. Coach Lee breaks down the psychological principles behind this shift, including: Reverse Psychology in Attraction: How becoming less available increases your value in their eyes. Scarcity and Intrigue: Why your absence can make them think about you more. Emotional Reset: How giving them space allows both of you to view the relationship more clearly. How to Move On Effectively Moving on doesn’t mean pretending to be happy just to get a reaction. It means truly investing in yourself and your future. Here’s how you can do that: Build Your Confidence: Start prioritizing self-care, fitness, and personal development to enhance your self-esteem. Engage in New Activities: Find new hobbies or revisit passions that may have been neglected during the relationship. Be Social and Expand Your Network: Spending time with friends and making new connections shows that you are thriving. Practice No Contact: Stop reaching out, stop checking their social media, and allow them to feel your absence. What Happens Next? When your ex sees that you’re not chasing them, it creates an internal struggle. They start wondering why you’re doing fine without them and whether they made the right decision. This doubt can cause them to reach out or show renewed interest. Whether or not reconciliation happens, focusing on moving forward puts you in a strong position emotionally. You’re no longer relying on their return to feel happy and complete, and ironically, that’s what makes you more attractive in their eyes. Watch this video to learn more about how detaching from your ex can actually bring them back into your life. And if you want step-by-step guidance on how to navigate this process, visit https://ReunionBlueprint.com  Video mentioned: Stages Your Ex Goes Through In No Contact https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk

Why Your Ex Might Be Struggling After the Breakup Get Coach Lee's $7 "Reunion Blueprint" to get your ex back! When a breakup happens, it’s easy to think that your ex is completely fine—especially if they’re the one who initiated the split. However, the reality is that they’re likely struggling in their own way. Understanding why your ex might be having difficulty with the breakup can provide valuable insights into their behavior and help you navigate this challenging period. 1. Silence Can Cause Concern If you’re following the no-contact rule, staying silent and not chasing your ex, you’re giving them the space to feel the consequences of their decision. During the breakup process, your ex likely envisioned that breaking up with you would bring them freedom or relief. They might have imagined that getting away from the relationship would resolve their doubts or frustrations. However, when you stay silent and don’t reach out, they’re forced to confront the reality of their choice. Without you pursuing them, they lose the validation of seeing you fight to keep them, and they start to wonder if you’re moving on. This doubt can make them question whether breaking up was the right decision. It’s only when they don’t have to expend energy pushing you away that they begin to focus on the consequences of their actions. 2. The “Right Decision” Burden Breaking up is often framed in their mind as “the right decision,” and they may use that belief to fuel their resolve. However, this mindset can become a burden when they’re no longer in contact with you. Without your presence, they’re left to wonder whether the breakup was truly the right choice. If you’re constantly contacting them, they can use your persistence as evidence that they need to stick to their decision. But when you’re silent, the cracks in their confidence can start to form. They’ll begin to miss the day-to-day intimacy you shared—the conversations, the connection, and the emotional support. These feelings can create emotional discomfort that makes them question whether their decision was worth the loss. Get Coach Lee's $7 "Reunion Blueprint" to get your ex back! 3. Loss of Emotional Investment When someone has been in a meaningful relationship, they’ve invested time, energy, and emotions into that bond. After a breakup, your ex may start to feel the weight of losing that emotional investment—but only if you’re no longer present. If you’re still contacting them, they don’t experience the full impact of that loss because you’re still accessible to them. By staying silent, you allow your ex to feel the absence of your relationship. They’ll start to realize what it means to no longer share their life with you. This realization can be painful and make them rethink whether letting go of the relationship was the right choice. 4. Fear of Replacement When you maintain no contact, your ex might begin to worry that you’ve moved on or that someone else could take their place in your life. This fear of replacement can be a powerful motivator, even if they initially felt confident in their decision to break up. Seeing you appear happy, social, or engaged with others—whether through mutual friends or social media—can amplify these feelings. It’s important to note that this fear isn’t necessarily tied to their desire to get back together. Even if they don’t want the relationship, the idea of being replaced is still emotionally unsettling. This fear can add to their doubts and create a sense of urgency to reconsider their decision. 5. Doubts About Their Own Maturity Silence can also force your ex to reflect on their own behavior and maturity. When they don’t hear from you, they’re left to wonder if their decision to end the relationship was impulsive or a sign of an inability to commit. This introspection can lead them to question whether they’re capable of building a long-term relationship and whether breaking up with you was a mistake. For someone who values commitment but s