Are You Addicted to Your Ex? Are you really still in love with your ex… or are you addicted to them? In this episode, Coach Lee explains why missing your ex can feel less like heartbreak and more like withdrawal. When a relationship ends, your brain is still craving the dopamine, the validation, the familiarity—and that craving can make you obsess, beg, stalk their social media, or feel like you’ll never be okay without them. But here’s the truth: That desperate pull toward your ex isn’t love. It’s chemical. And if you don’t break that addiction, you can actually push them further away and destroy any chance of getting them back. In this episode, you’ll learn: What “ex addiction” really is and how it works in your brain The signs you’re addicted—not just heartbroken How this addiction ruins your chances of reconciliation How to break the cycle so your ex starts to miss you instead Why your silence, stability, and self-control are more powerful than begging or chasing This isn’t about pretending you don’t care. It’s about getting control of your heart again so that you can heal, gain clarity… and if it’s meant to be, give your ex a reason to come back on their own.

When a breakup happens, there’s usually pain… but sometimes an ex pushes it further. Maybe they take advantage of your silence, try to get a reaction, play games, or say things they know will cut deep. There comes a point where you look at the situation and realize, “This is not love anymore. This is disrespect.” In this episode, I talk about what it means when your ex goes too far, why they do it, and what it reveals about them — not you. You’ll learn why stepping back isn’t weakness, why protecting your dignity is powerful, and how your silence can become the moment they finally feel the loss. If you’ve been hurt, manipulated, or made to feel like your pain didn’t matter… this is for you. Resources Mentioned:– The Emergency Breakup Kit: If you want to get your ex back the right way, without chasing or losing your self-respect, this series gives you a guided plan. Go to https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk – Masculine Destiny (for men): A training course on leadership, presence, emotional steadiness, and becoming a man who is respected and desired. Go to https://MasculineDestiny.com – Private Coaching Session with me: If you need personal guidance on your exact situation, you can work with me one-on-one. Go to https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/  

When the person you love says they “need a break,” it can feel like the ground shifts beneath you. One moment, everything feels steady but the next, you’re trying to make sense of the distance that came out of nowhere. You might replay every word, every moment, searching for clues. But what most people don’t realize is that when someone asks for a "break," it’s not always about needing time alone. It’s often about uncertainty, fear, and emotional confusion. In this episode, Coach Lee talks about what a “break” really means in a relationship as well as what it doesn’t mean. You’ll learn how to handle this painful situation without losing your sense of strength or self-respect - and hopefully without losing the one you love. Many people make the mistake of chasing, pleading, or trying to reason with the person who asked for space. That reaction feels natural, but it often drives the other person even further away. Lee explains why calmness, restraint, and patience are far more powerful than panic in this situation. He also discusses the deeper psychology behind why people ask for breaks. Sometimes, even often, it’s not about needing distance from you but is about wanting relief from the pressure of their own confusion. They call it “space,” but in many cases, they’re really trying to see what life feels like without you, while still keeping you within reach. It’s a form of emotional testing (not just for you but for them), and how you respond can determine what happens next. Coach Lee shares how real love isn’t destroyed by silence or time apart but is revealed by it. If your connection is genuine, the distance will deepen their awareness of your absence. But if it fades quickly, that truth can be painful yet freeing. Either way, clarity comes through time, not through chasing or efforts to convince them to end the break. Whether you’re married, dating, or recently broken up, this episode will help you understand what’s happening beneath the surface when your partner says they need a break. You’ll hear practical advice on what to do (and what not to do) so that you protect your value, keep your dignity, and give love its best possible chance to return. More from Coach Lee: 🔹 The Emergency Breakup Kit – step-by-step plan to get your ex back at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk 🔹 Coaching with Coach Lee – one-on-one professional guidance for your situation at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ 🔹 Masculine Destiny - a guide for men who want to be more successful with women at https://MasculineDestiny.com

When you go no contact with an avoidant ex, it might look like they don’t care — but that’s not what’s really happening beneath the surface. In this episode, Coach Lee breaks down the true stages of no contact for an avoidant ex — what they feel, how they process silence, and why their calmness often ends with sudden panic or regret. Avoidant exes don’t handle emotional loss the way secure people do. At first, they feel relief — convinced that distance equals peace. But that “peace” eventually cracks. What follows is a slow unraveling that ends in what Lee calls punctuated equilibrium — a sudden emotional rupture after weeks or months of suppression. You’ll discover: Why avoidants appear cold right after the breakup The point when silence starts working on them internally Why they often resurface after long gaps of quiet How no contact reveals their attachment fears and triggers realization This isn’t about manipulation — it’s about understanding how an avoidant’s emotional system reacts to loss. If you’ve wondered whether your ex still thinks about you, this episode will help you see the patterns behind their silence — and the moment it finally breaks. 🎧 Listen now and learn the psychological stages your avoidant ex goes through during no contact. ➡️ Get Coach Lee’s Emergency Breakup Kit at MyExBackCoach.com/Emergency-Breakup-Kit➡️ Take the Attachment Style Evaluation/Test.     

The Egomaniac Attachment Style: The Hidden Side No One Talks About Most people have heard of anxious, avoidant, and secure attachment styles. But what happens when someone’s attachment isn’t about love or connection — it’s about ego? In this video, I explain what I call the Egomaniac Attachment Style. This hidden side of attachment shows up when a person needs admiration more than intimacy. Their relationships revolve around control, validation, and protecting their self-image instead of building trust. If you’ve ever felt like your ex (or partner) always made it about them, dismissed your needs, or left you feeling invisible, this video will help you understand why. You’ll learn: What the Egomaniac Attachment Style is and how it develops How it compares to anxious and avoidant attachment Signs you may have been in a relationship with someone like this Why it’s not your fault — and how to protect yourself going forward This is one of those hidden truths that rarely gets talked about, but it can make sense of so many painful relationship experiences. 💡 If this video helps you, don’t forget to subscribe for more insights on attachment, relationships, and breakups. To get your ex back, get my Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk Men, to have success with women like NEVER BEFORE, get my Masculine Destiny course at https://MasculineDestiny.com. To book a coaching session with me, go to https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

  When someone ends a relationship, it often looks simple on the outside: they make the decision, walk away, and insist they’re sure of it. But the truth is rarely that clean. In this episode, I explain why your ex might still be wrestling with their feelings for you, even if they’re the one who chose to leave. Book a coaching session for guidance on your situation at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ The first thing to understand is that relief often comes right after a breakup. It can give the dumper a false sense of freedom, as though they’ve escaped the pressure or tension of the relationship. But that “honeymoon phase” doesn’t last. As days and weeks pass, the very silence they asked for can become louder than they expected. Silence has a way of echoing. It forces them to confront what life is actually like without you—without your voice, your presence, or your support. That realization alone can stir up emotions they thought they had buried. Another layer to this struggle is that most people don’t replace the person; they replace the role. Your ex may move quickly into another relationship, or they may distract themselves with work or new hobbies. But roles are easier to fill than genuine connections. Eventually, they realize that chemistry, history, and shared experience can’t be swapped out so easily. It’s at this point that many people begin to wrestle with the thought that maybe they let go of someone who mattered more than they admitted. In this conversation, I also cover how dignity and restraint work in your favor. When you handle the breakup without chasing, pleading, or trying to repair what they decided to end, you keep your value intact. That’s when they start to wonder why you seem steadier than they feel. That contrast can be jarring. The person who left expects to be fine, and they expect you to crumble. When it flips the other way, the imbalance of attraction begins to shift. I’ll also explain why not “fixing” what they broke is one of the smartest things you can do. It shows them that losing you has real consequences. They no longer have access to the benefits of your love and support, and that reality is what makes them question whether they made the right choice. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clearer understanding of the psychology behind their resistance, their mixed signals, and their quiet moments of doubt. Most importantly, you’ll see why stepping back is not about giving up—it’s about creating the space for them to realize what they stand to lose. If you’re struggling with the pain of a breakup, this episode will give you both insight and encouragement. You are stronger than you feel right now, and sometimes, the best thing you can do is let the silence speak on your behalf. If you’re going through a breakup or separation and need clear guidance, I put together a course that walks you step by step through what to do and when. It’s already helped thousands of people take the right actions at the right time. You can find it here: https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk For men who want to become more successful with women and relationships, I also created a course called Masculine Destiny. You can learn more here: https://MasculineDestiny.com

Don't Fix What They Broke Podcast with Coach Lee When a breakup leaves you reeling, there’s a strong temptation to rush in and patch things up—especially if you didn’t want the relationship to end. You might feel like if you can just fix it, explain yourself better, or show them how much you care, everything will fall back into place. But here’s something most people overlook: if they were the one who broke it, fixing it for them actually makes things worse. In this episode, I talk about why stepping back—and staying back—can often do far more for your chances of reconciliation than chasing or trying to clean up the damage they caused. You’ll hear why it’s important that your ex sees what life is like without you rushing in to save the day. If they ended it, if they ghosted you, or if they created the distance… they need to feel the weight of that decision. They need to experience the silence, the space, and the consequence of what they did. Because if you make it too easy—if you do all the work—they never have to face the loss. And that’s the moment you lose your power. We’ll dive into the psychology behind what happens when you don’t fix it. I’ll explain how self-respect, restraint, and quiet strength speak louder than emotional speeches or repeated apologies. When you hold back, it challenges their assumptions. It makes them wonder if they were wrong. And that question—“Did I mess up?”—is the one that often brings them back. You’ll also hear how giving your ex the emotional consequences of the breakup isn’t about revenge or being cold. It’s about stopping the cycle of imbalance. If you’re always the one doing the emotional labor, the relationship was never even to begin with—and reconciliation will only be more of the same. This episode is for anyone in the thick of heartbreak, especially those who feel like their ex is just waiting for them to fix it again. It’s a reminder that silence, boundaries, and letting the broken pieces stay broken for a while can actually create the space needed for clarity, remorse, and maybe even a real reunion. Listen now—and if you're serious about getting your ex back, visit MyExBackCoach.com for more resources. Get your ex back with Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at MyExBackCoach.com/ebk For men, have more success with women than you ever thought possible with Coach Lee's Masculine Destiny course at MasculineDestiny.com!

They didn’t think it would matter. When they let you go, they figured they’d be fine. Maybe even better off. In their mind, you’d be easy to replace. Someone else would come along and fill the space. They believed they could move on without consequence, without even looking back. But people like you don’t come around every day. And that’s something they never truly considered—until the silence set in. Until the conversations weren’t as natural. The laughter didn’t sound quite the same. The connection didn’t flow. The comfort wasn’t there. In this episode, Coach Lee breaks down the hard truth behind what happens when someone thinks you’re replaceable… and then realizes you’re not. You’ll learn how to stop trying to prove your worth to someone who undervalued you—and why your silence, your strength, and your absence often do more to create regret than any words ever could. Coach Lee explains how walking away with dignity leaves a mark that lingers far longer than begging, convincing, or chasing ever would. This episode isn’t about playing games. It’s about understanding human psychology, especially in the aftermath of a breakup. When someone thinks you’ll chase, they assume they have control. They expect you to fall apart, to cling, to wait around just in case they change their mind. But when you don’t? That’s when the narrative starts to change. You’ll hear why it’s so important not to hand over your emotional power, and how doing so often makes the other person feel justified in their decision to leave. Coach Lee walks you through what happens when you pull back, live your life, and let the silence speak for you. We also discuss why most people who end relationships aren’t thinking long-term in the moment. They’re reacting to emotion, impulse, or a fantasy of something “better.” But over time, reality has a way of setting in—and it rarely looks the way they imagined. That’s when they begin to compare. And if you’ve been composed, grounded, and quietly rebuilding your strength? You stand out more than ever. In the episode, Coach Lee shares how to handle those inevitable breadcrumbs—those vague texts, likes on social media, or messages just checking in. You’ll learn how to recognize them for what they are: attempts to get emotional reassurance without committing to anything real. Responding correctly can either reinforce your value—or confirm that you’ll settle for less than you deserve. You’ll learn how to keep your edge and avoid falling into emotional traps that give away your progress. We also talk about what it actually looks like when someone regrets losing you. It’s not always dramatic or loud. Sometimes it’s quiet. A creeping realization. A late-night memory. A moment of comparison. And often, that regret comes long after they expected to feel nothing at all. This episode will remind you that you were never easy to replace. You might have been quiet. You might have walked away calmly. But what you brought to the table can’t be duplicated—and eventually, they’ll see that. And when they do? You’ll be standing stronger, wiser, and more certain of what you deserve. — If you’re struggling with the pain of a breakup or still hoping your ex will come back, visit myexbackcoach.com for a step-by-step plan with Coach Lee’s Emergency Breakup Kit (see https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk). For men wanting to better understand how attraction works and how to be more grounded in relationships, visit MasculineDestiny.com for powerful, no-nonsense guidance. You’re not replaceable. Not even close. And this episode shows you why.

They don’t come back when you chase. They come back when you let go. In this video, Coach Lee explains why letting someone go often has a more powerful impact than trying to convince them to stay. If you're wondering why your ex suddenly comes back after you've stopped reaching out or walked away, this video will help you understand the psychology behind it. Letting go creates mystery, space, and the contrast they didn’t expect to feel. It shows strength instead of desperation—and that shift can change everything. 🔹 Want a proven plan to get your ex back?👉 Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk 🔹 Want to become more grounded, attractive, and effective in relationships as a man?👉 Masculine Destiny Course at https://MasculineDestiny.com On YouTube at "Why An Ex Comes Back When You Let Them Go"

In this episode, we’re digging into something a lot of people struggle with after a breakup. I'm talking about how to make your ex actually feel the loss. Not out of spite, not to play games, but because deep down, you know they took you for granted. Maybe they assumed you’d always be there. Maybe they expected you to fall apart or chase them the moment they walked away. And maybe… that’s exactly why they left in the first place. Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebkMasculine Destiny (for men) at https://MasculineDestiny.comCoaching Session at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ But when you pull back—when you truly let go and stop showing up in ways they’ve grown used to—that’s when something unexpected happens. They start to feel it. Not right away, maybe not even consciously at first, but the absence settles in. And it’s different than silence. It’s strength. It’s peace. It’s self-respect. In this episode, I walk you through the reasons people tend to come back once you let go. You’ll learn why chasing only delays their regret, why your calm detachment shifts the entire dynamic, and how to carry yourself in a way that rewrites their memory of the breakup. If you’ve ever felt invisible after giving your best to someone, this episode is for you. We’re not talking about pretending to be okay—we’re talking about actually getting to a place where you are. And when that happens, you won’t need them to regret losing you. But ironically, that’s when they usually do. Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebkMasculine Destiny at https://MasculineDestiny.comCoaching Session at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

In this episode, we’re talking about something that hits deep: what it feels like when someone walks away—but expects you to wait. Maybe you’ve been there. You gave your heart, your time, your consistency… and in return, they gave confusion. Silence dressed up as “space.” Excuses instead of effort. And yet, part of you still held the door open, hoping they’d come back. This conversation is for the ones who waited—out of love, out of belief, out of loyalty—until one day, you realized that love shouldn’t feel like waiting in emotional limbo. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk MEN, get Coach Lee's NEW Masculine Destiny course on attracting women and building rock-solid relationships at https://MasculineDestiny.com  We’ll unpack the subtle ways people try to keep a grip on you without actually choosing you. We’ll talk about why real love shows up, and why you’re not wrong for finally walking away from someone who never truly committed. If you’ve ever been told to “just be patient,” or if you’ve felt stuck between loving someone and losing yourself, this one’s for you. You’re not alone, and you’re not crazy for expecting someone to meet you halfway. Listen all the way through. You might just realize you’ve been giving too much to someone who never planned on giving it back—and that you’ve had the strength to let go all along. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk MEN, get Coach Lee's NEW Masculine Destiny course on attracting women and building rock-solid relationships at https://MasculineDestiny.com 

Breakups are messy—even for the one who ends it. In this episode, I walk you through the timeline of what usually happens after someone breaks up with you. Not right away, but in the weeks and months that follow, there’s often a shift they didn’t expect. The relief fades. Doubt creeps in. And if you’ve gone quiet, that silence starts to get loud. We’ll talk about the common phases dumpers go through, why they sometimes reach out even when they’re not sure what they want, and what it really means when they start watching your stories or texting out of nowhere. If you’ve been left wondering what your ex is thinking—or hoping they’ll realize what they gave up—this one’s for you. Get my Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk Get my Masculine Destiny course for men at https://MasculineDestiny.com  

  What really causes someone to regret the breakup? In this episode, I walk you through five real moments that often shift the mindset of someone who left you. These aren’t guesses or vague ideas—they’re specific turning points. Internal realizations. Psychological cracks. The kind of things that don’t always show up on the surface, but mean everything when you're trying to understand what’s going on behind the silence. Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk Book a coaching session at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ If you’ve been doing no contact, wondering if it’s having any effect—or if your ex even thinks about you at all—this episode gives you an honest look at what really changes someone’s mind about ending a relationship. Sometimes the turning point is subtle. Other times, it hits them like a wave. But when it comes, it rewrites the entire story they’ve been telling themselves. Listen in. It might help you see things from a completely new angle—and give you more peace about where you stand. Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk Book a coaching session at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmHTZNvKfsg

They thought you’d wait forever. They thought you’d stay in place. That you’d stay loyal no matter how long they disappeared. That you’d be available whenever — if they ever changed their mind. And for a while… maybe they were right. But something changed. You didn’t just wait. You grew. You got quiet. You got stronger. And now… they don’t know where you stand. And that uncertainty? It’s doing something they never expected — it’s making them feel your absence. In this episode, Coach Lee breaks down the powerful shift that happens when you stop chasing, stop reaching out, and stop holding space for someone who walked away. It’s not about giving up — it’s about stepping back in a way that forces your ex to face the silence, the loss, and the consequences of their decision. You’ll learn: Why openly waiting after a breakup actually keeps your ex emotionally comfortable and uninterested How true emotional distance triggers curiosity, doubt, and even longing in the mind of your ex What role ego plays in making them assume you’ll always be there — and what happens when that assumption shatters The difference between stepping back with power vs. using it as a tactic (and how your intent affects the outcome) What to do if they do reach out — how to handle that moment with composure and strength, instead of rushing back into the same dynamic This episode is about helping you reclaim your dignity and emotional clarity — not as a strategy to manipulate your ex, but as a way to create real conditions for their regret and reconsideration. Because when you stop acting like you're waiting forever… it becomes clear to them that your love wasn't unconditional—it was respectful, but it required reciprocity. If you're currently wondering how long to wait, what to do next, or whether your ex will even notice you're gone, Coach Lee shares the mindset and actions that can help you move forward — either toward reconciliation, or peace. Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back at ReunionBlueprint.com.  📞 Want to talk directly with Coach Lee about your specific situation? You can book a one-on-one coaching session at:👉 https://myexbackcoach.com Because you deserve more than false hope. You deserve clarity. And your ex? They may have thought you'd wait forever… but they were wrong. Also, get help for your marriage problems at MarriageRadio.com

They walked away. But somehow, they still feel in control.That ends now. In this video, I’m going to walk you through how to take your ex’s power away. Not by playing games, but by showing them—subtly and clearly—that they don’t hold emotional control over you anymore. Get Coach Lee's $7 Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back! See ReunionBlueprint.com!  So many people give their ex power without realizing it. Every little reaction… every attempt to show them what they’re missing… even just overthinking what they post. It all gives them more influence. You don’t want that. You don’t need that. I’ll cover exactly how to flip the script. You’ll learn how to stop feeding their ego, how silence speaks louder than any “closure” conversation, and how to mentally take them off the pedestal. This isn’t about pretending you’re fine—it’s about getting to the point where you actually are. Because once you stop chasing and start standing still with strength, it changes everything. You’ll be surprised how quickly that power dynamic starts to shift. If you’re serious about getting your ex back, or if you just want to stop hurting and feel like yourself again, this video will help. 🎯 Want to go further with this? My Emergency Breakup Kit walks you through everything step-by-step. See https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk  Leave a comment if this helped or hit home for you. I read them. And if you haven’t already, hit subscribe—I post new videos every week on how to get your ex back, rebuild your confidence, and take back your peace. Book a Coaching Session at http://MyExBackCoach.com 

Body $7 Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com You think they’ve moved on. They’re silent. Distant. Maybe even cold. But behind that silence, something else is happening—and they don’t even realize it. In this video, I’ll reveal five hidden ways your ex is subconsciously testing you after the breakup. Not because they’re playing games… But because they’re trying to protect their pride, their narrative, and the version of the story that makes them feel right. And every time you don’t react the way they expect you to— you shake their certainty a little more. Here’s what you’ll learn: 💔 Why your ex is watching to see if you’ll fall apart without them 💔 How your silence quietly challenges the story they’ve told themselves about the breakup 💔 The real reason they’re hoping you’ll reset the dynamic first 💔 Why distance is forcing their old feelings to resurface—whether they want that or not 💔 The subtle way they’re testing if they still live rent-free in your mind The truth is: They’re testing you. But you? You’re passing in silence. $7 Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com

Your ex might seem calm, distant, or completely fine after the breakup. Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com. Book a coaching session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ Maybe they’re silent. Maybe they’re posting like life has never been better. Maybe they’ve even convinced themselves that they’re at peace. But here’s the truth—they’re struggling more than they’ll ever admit. Breakups don’t bring instant clarity. They create doubt, emotional contradictions, and hidden struggles that most people refuse to acknowledge. While you’re wondering if they’ve moved on without a second thought, they’re fighting an internal battle they don’t want you to see. In this episode, I’ll break down five hidden struggles your ex is facing right now—whether they show it or not: 🎙️ What You’ll Learn in This Episode: They’re Exhausted from Pretending They Don’t Care – The silent emotional drain of keeping up an act. They Can’t Escape the “What If?” Thoughts – How doubt slowly replaces their initial confidence. Seeing You Unaffected Makes Their Internal Struggle Worse – Why their need for control backfires. They’re Afraid to Admit They Might Have Been Wrong – How their ego is keeping them stuck. Their Silence Isn’t Peace—It’s a Battle – The hidden emotional chaos they can’t avoid forever. If you think their silence means they don’t care, you’re only seeing the surface. The longer they stay silent, the harder this struggle becomes. Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com. Book a coaching session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

Right now, it might seem like your ex is completely certain about their decision. They’re acting distant, cold, and unbothered—like you never really mattered to them. But here’s the truth… they’re more confused than you think. Get Coach Lee's "Reunion Blueprint" for just $7 at https://ReunionBlueprint.com Book a private session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ Breakups don’t bring instant clarity. Instead, they create doubt, second-guessing, and emotional contradictions that your ex may not even recognize yet. In this episode, I’ll break down five psychological reasons why your ex isn’t as sure as they seem—and why their silence, avoidance, or even their confidence might actually be a sign of confusion. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why confusion often looks like rejection—and how to avoid taking it personally.The reason your ex thought they’d feel better by now… but don’t.How they’re caught between missing you and proving a point—and why that keeps them stuck.The hidden self-doubt they don’t want to admit (even to themselves).Why your certainty makes them even more confused.Your ex’s mind isn’t as made up as you think. And the moment they realize that? Everything changes. Get Coach Lee's "Reunion Blueprint" for just $7 at https://ReunionBlueprint.com Book a private session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

Your ex may seem unaffected by the breakup, but that’s likely not the full story. There are several reasons why they appear to feel nothing—at least, for now. Get Coach Lee's $7 "Reunion Blueprint" at https://ReunionBlueprint.com.  If you are in a troubled marriage, get Coach Lee's FREE mini-course on saving your marriage at https://MarriageRadio.com/marriagehelp  1. Dopamine and the Relief Stage When your ex decided to break up, their brain rewarded them with dopamine, the same chemical that gives a sense of satisfaction when completing difficult tasks. Since breaking up is tough, their brain gives them a sense of relief, making them feel like they’ve “escaped” something they had been struggling with for a while. Even if they later regret the breakup, at the moment, they feel good because the breakup is no longer something they are dreading. This initial relief can make it seem like they feel nothing, but it's just the temporary high of crossing a difficult task off their mental to-do list. 2. No Emotional Consequences Yet Your ex has not yet had time to fully experience your absence. The human brain assumes that familiar people will always be around, so in the early stages after a breakup, they don’t feel like they’ve lost you permanently. If you keep reaching out, they won’t feel any real emotional consequences. They won’t miss you because they still believe you are an option. In order for them to feel your absence, you must stop contacting them and allow reality to set in. 3. They Consider You a Perpetual Option If your ex hasn’t experienced you truly being gone, they don’t believe they’ve lost you. Many people make the mistake of keeping communication open, thinking it will help rebuild the relationship, but in reality, it only reinforces the breakup. By remaining in their life, you make it easier for them to move on, because nothing feels different. The best way to make them reconsider is to actually walk away and let them realize what life is like without you. 4. They Are Rewriting the Relationship To justify the breakup, your ex may distort their memories of the relationship, making you seem worse than you were. They may label you as toxic, controlling, or even call you a narcissist, not necessarily because they believe it, but because they need a logical reason to explain the breakup to themselves and others. However, over time, their brain will naturally forget the negatives and remember the positives more clearly. This psychological process, known as the fading effect bias, often leads people to regret their decisions. 5. They Feel Something, But They Won’t Show It Your ex may be feeling emotions but doesn’t want to admit it. Reaching out after a breakup can feel embarrassing, so instead, they look for an excuse to reconnect subtly. They may start small, sending a casual message, hoping you’ll take the lead. Some people struggle with accountability and want the other person to be the one to initiate getting back together. Final Thoughts The best way to handle this situation is to stay away. Let your ex go through the natural stages of post-breakup emotions. As the dopamine fades and they experience your absence, they may start to miss you. If you continue to reach out, you only delay this process. Instead, give them the breakup they wanted—so they can truly feel what life is like without you.   Get Coach Lee's $7 "Reunion Blueprint" at https://ReunionBlueprint.com.  If you are in a troubled marriage, get Coach Lee's FREE mini-course on saving your marriage at https://MarriageRadio.com/marriagehelp 

Your ex may act fine after the breakup, but deep down, they’re feeling emotions they won’t admit to anyone—including themselves. In this podcast episode, Coach Lee reveals the hidden pain your ex experiences as time passes and why they might start to regret leaving you. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The Pain of Uncertainty: Why they start questioning if breaking up was a mistake. The Emotional Crash: How their initial relief turns into emptiness. The Power of Nostalgia: Why their brain rewrites history to focus on the good times. The Reality of Feeling Stuck: How seeing you move forward makes them feel left behind. The Shock of Your Silence: Why they expected you to chase—but now wonder if they lost you forever. Why This Matters Your ex’s silence doesn’t mean they’re happy. Their ego, fear, and pride keep them from showing their true emotions. But as time passes, their pain grows—until they can no longer ignore it. Understanding this process can help you stay strong in no contact and give you the best chance of making them realize what they lost. 📌 Want a step-by-step plan to get your ex back? Get the $7 Reunion Blueprint at ReunionBlueprint.com 📌 For more expert breakup coaching, visit: MyExBackCoach.com. If you are married, visit https://MarriageRadio.com.  💬 Have you noticed your ex showing signs of hidden pain? Share your experience in the comments below! Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for more insights from Coach Lee.