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I’ll be honest… I don’t hate my job.
I hate what it’s *costing* me.
The early mornings
The late nights.
The weekends that slip away before I can even breathe.
The lack of time over my schedule
The version of myself that’s always tired, always “on,” but never really *present*.
For a long time, I told myself this was normal.
That work is supposed to be hard. That maybe this is as good as it gets.
‘The grass isnt greener and all of that’
But deep down, I knew something wasn’t right.
In this video, I’m opening up about my own story: how I went from quietly resenting my work to actually finding ways to make peace with it. I’m sharing the mindset shifts that helped me “un-hate” my job, without quitting or running away from it entirely (because I don’t always believe that’s the answer).
This isn’t a fluffy “follow your dreams” pep talk.
It’s a real, honest conversation about burnout, purpose, and figuring out whether you should try to love the job you have… or take the risk to find something new.
If you’ve ever scrolled on linkedin job postings planning your escape, told yourself you'll only stay for a few more years, or wondered if you’re wasting your potential - you’re not alone
Sometimes the real work isn’t in changing jobs.It’s in changing *you*.
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1:27 You Don’t Hate Your Job, You Hate The Sacrifice
6:09 Sacrifice Teaches You What You Want
9:37 dO WhAt YoU lOvE
13:09 Too scared to leave, too unhappy to stay
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0:00 intro
03:33 using success to outrun shame
06:38 being happy vs being
10:27 maximisers
12:42 satisfies
18:06 stillness
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0:00 intro
4:37 Humans are like dogs
7:11 Happy or optimised
10:30 The Validation Detox
14:49 Connection
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0:00 intro0:23 We Are About to lose 50% of entry-level jobs6:10 Jobs AI Can’t Replace15: 39 Greed will be your downfall
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3:11 You’re Independent but not Interdependent
7:35 You have friends but no community - Matthew Hussey
12:23 Lack of Vulnerability
18:39 Being Single Is a good thing
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0:00 intro2:15 You don’t want the lifestyle, you want the feelings5:37 Goldilocks theory11:53 A life you want vs a life that’s best for you15:00 Understanding your values17:32 Your experiences20:04 How to be the luckiest person
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0:00 intro1:24 beauty is just appreciation5:39 beauty as an addiction8:30 self perception is currency12:50 you're not the rule maker18:59 the power of contrast 💡 Sign up to my newsletter : https://christina-aaliyah.com/pages/newsletter
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2:06 relationships
5:10 friendships
10:42 career
0:00 intro1:37 the desire to feel safe5:16 the value gap10:52 what you gain from hiding13:15 you feel safe having other people know what your biggest fear is16:13 you don't have to live as the image that people have of you
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0:00 - intro2:19 - expecting things from your job is a recipe for unhappiness6:32 - the grass is not always greener9:58 - lack of meaning14:28 - you have to set the tone
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02:09 - People need you but don’t want you
05:05 - Being everyone’s therapist
06:56 - Why this happens
09:14 - Boundaries
13:58 - Realising Your Value
16:57 - You don’t need people to like you
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0:00 intro2:08 Being cringe is just being vulnerable7:05 The cost of other people10:13 Hyper aware of others and under aware of yourself12:42 Shame vs guilt15:19 Cringe is often just the starting point of authenticity
0:00 intro
2:47 Victim Shaming
8:27 Scarcity mindset vs Abundance Mindset
13:46 We can’t predict what will make us happy
19:05 You needing control
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2:22 my dream was becoming a doctor
7:27 underappreciation
10:24 lack of technology
12:55 your goals at work
14:22 living as my boss
17:20 survival mode
19:14 lack of meaning
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0:00 intro
2:02 Fear of being average
5:21 Happiness is dependent on comparison
12:01 30 as a ‘Finish Line’
14:01 The Eternal Recurrence
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0:00 intro
1:46 What is success? Gen Z vs Millennial Perspective
3:08 2008 Financial Crisis
6:54 AI Problem
9:42 Fountain of Fulfilmment
13:20 Success Beyond Careers
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0:00 intro
1:19 Passion doesn’t fade over time but infatuation does
4:25 Passion vs Infatuation
8:37 Are you craving connection or craving tension?
12:59 Relationship theory vs reality
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