"Letting go of perfectionism in personal and spiritual development"

In this episode, we talk about the exhausting cycle of always feeling the need to fix yourself, especially in the realm of personal and spiritual development. Many of us are overwhelmed by the constant pursuit of becoming 'better,' often leaving us with the feeling that we’re never good enough. I discuss the pressures that come with self-improvement, how it can lead to burnout, and why it's important to shift from fixing yourself to accepting where you are. I also share the story of a client who struggled with these same issues and how they found a healthier, more balanced approach. If you're tired of the endless journey of self-improvement and want to find peace in the process, this episode is for you.

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Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction
The constant pressure of personal and spiritual development: feeling like you’re never doing enough.

02:00 - What Does ‘Fixing Yourself’ Look Like?
Exploring how self-improvement can sometimes turn into a toxic cycle of self-criticism.

06:00 - Signs of Being Overwhelmed by Growth
Burnout, feeling like you’re on a hamster wheel of self-development, and the weight of unrealistic expectations.

09:45 - Client Story
A real-life example of a client who struggled with these feelings, and how they learned to embrace imperfection in their personal growth journey.

14:30 - How to Shift the Mindset
Moving from a ‘fixing’ mindset to one of acceptance and compassion—practical advice to release the pressure and enjoy the journey.

17:00 - Breaking Free from the Need to Be ‘Better’
Why you don’t always have to be in a constant state of improvement and how to balance growth with self-acceptance.

19:00 - Conclusion & Final Thoughts
Summarizing the key points and offering a new perspective on how to approach personal and spiritual development.

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