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Chainbreaker

Mistress Alisa

27 episodes

1 week ago

In this raw and unflinching episode, we dig beneath the surface of sexual addiction to uncover the deeper ache driving the cycle: the longing to be loved - and the tragic ways addicts sabotage that love before they ever get the chance to receive it. Meet Sid, a cautionary tale of what happens when you fake recovery, rush intimacy, and weaponize women’s hearts in your pursuit of healing. His story is a wake-up call to every man who thinks quitting porn is the same thing as becoming whole. We'l...

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Self-Improvement,

Health & Fitness

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In this raw and unflinching episode, we dig beneath the surface of sexual addiction to uncover the deeper ache driving the cycle: the longing to be loved - and the tragic ways addicts sabotage that love before they ever get the chance to receive it. Meet Sid, a cautionary tale of what happens when you fake recovery, rush intimacy, and weaponize women’s hearts in your pursuit of healing. His story is a wake-up call to every man who thinks quitting porn is the same thing as becoming whole. We'l...

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Self-Improvement,

Health & Fitness

Episodes (20/27)

Chainbreaker

E27: Sexual Addicts Crave Love (The Cautionary Tale of a Man Named Sid)

In this raw and unflinching episode, we dig beneath the surface of sexual addiction to uncover the deeper ache driving the cycle: the longing to be loved - and the tragic ways addicts sabotage that love before they ever get the chance to receive it. Meet Sid, a cautionary tale of what happens when you fake recovery, rush intimacy, and weaponize women’s hearts in your pursuit of healing. His story is a wake-up call to every man who thinks quitting porn is the same thing as becoming whole. We'l...

1 week ago

2 hours 9 minutes

Chainbreaker

E26: You Can't Heal With The Same Mind That Broke You

In this transformative episode, we dive into one of the most important truths in sex addiction recovery: Mindset. Far too often, men attempt to break free from porn, sex, and masturbation addictions while clinging to the same beliefs, habits, and thought patterns that kept them trapped. However, true healing requires more than just behavior change. It requires a renewed mind. We'll explore how dysfunctional thinking - shame, entitlement, secrecy, control, and self-sabotage - feeds addiction, ...

1 week ago

1 hour 33 minutes

Chainbreaker

E25: Transitioning From Sexual Addict To Lover

In this raw and transformative episode, we dive deep into the journey from compulsion to connection. "Transitioning From Sexual Addict to Lover" explores what it means to move beyond the empty highs of addiction and step into the vulnerability, courage, and intimacy required to love—and be loved. This episode offers practical insights, mindset shifts, and hope for those ready to stop performing and start feeling. If you’re recovering from sexual addiction recovery, this episode invites you to...

1 month ago

1 hour 10 minutes

Chainbreaker

E24: Do Sexual Addicts Have To Give Up Their Kinks & Fetishes?

In this empowering episode, we tackle a question many men silently fear: Will recovery mean the end of my sexuality? The answer is a resounding no. You'll learn why healing from sex addiction doesn’t mean giving up desire, pleasure, or your unique sexual interests. Instead, it’s about addressing the root character flaws—like dishonesty, selfishness, and emotional immaturity—that fuel addiction and keep you stuck in cycles of shame. We explore how true recovery leads to deeper intimacy, strong...

1 month ago

1 hour 14 minutes

Chainbreaker

E23: Why Sexual Addicts Fail At Relationships

In this episode of Chainbreaker, we dive deep into the harsh reality of why sexual addicts struggle to build and maintain healthy relationships. Many believe that love and commitment can override addiction, but the truth is far more complex. We’ll explore the destructive patterns that sexual addiction breeds—dishonesty, emotional detachment, unrealistic expectations, and a constant need for novelty. These behaviors create cycles of betrayal, mistrust, and dissatisfaction, making it nearly imp...

2 months ago

1 hour 26 minutes

Chainbreaker

E22: The Games That Sexual Addicts Play

Not everyone who seeks help for sexual (sex/porn/masturbation) addiction is truly looking for recovery. Some are just looking for another way to feed their addiction - using therapy, accountability groups, and even their partners as tools to manipulate and deceive. In this episode of Chainbreaker, I expose the mind games that sexual addicts play when they pretend to be on the road to recovery but are actually using counseling sessions as another outlet for their addiction. Through real-life e...

3 months ago

1 hour 34 minutes

Chainbreaker

E21: Sexual Addiction Recovery & Will Power

In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we dive into the misunderstood concept of willpower in sexual addiction recovery. Many men only start to consider self-control when their addiction has already wreaked havoc on their lives - but by then, relying on willpower alone is ineffective. Recovery is not about sheer force of will. Rather, it’s about embracing truth and integrity. In today's episode, I help to uncover why focusing on willpower sets men up for failure, and I introduce a prove...

4 months ago

1 hour 12 minutes

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E20: Sex Is Not Love

In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into a critical distinction that many men struggling with sex, porn, and masturbation addiction often blur: the difference between sex and love. While society frequently glorifies physical intimacy as the ultimate expression of love, this episode reveals why such an outlook can be damaging—both to relationships and to an individual's personal well-being.I explore how addiction skews perceptions of sex, reducing it to a transactional or escapist act r...

4 months ago

1 hour 10 minutes

Chainbreaker

E19: Relationship Challenges For Sexual Addicts

In this raw and eye-opening episode, we confront the harsh realities of how sexual addiction wreaks havoc on relationships. This isn’t about sugarcoating or sidestepping the truth. It’s a call for men to wake up and face the behaviors that damage their partners, families, and themselves.We’ll unpack:The unhealthy patterns and behaviors that often go unnoticed or unacknowledged.The ways sexual addiction masks itself as love, care, or investment in relationships.Practical steps to identify and ...

4 months ago

1 hour 22 minutes

Chainbreaker

E18: Avoiding False Starts In Sexual Addiction Recovery

Embarking on the road to recovery from sex, porn, and masturbation addictions can feel overwhelming, especially when false starts threaten progress. In this episode, we dive deep into the common pitfalls that derail men at the beginning of their recovery journey. We'll explore numerous traps that oftentimes keep men from meeting their goals, while sharing practical tools to build a foundation for lasting change.Tune in to learn how to take the first steps with confidence and avoid the false s...

5 months ago

1 hour 7 minutes

Chainbreaker

E17: Trapped In The Loop Of Sexual Addiction

In this episode, we dive into the concept of the "default mode" of sexual addiction—those automatic patterns and behaviors that take over during idle moments, emotional vulnerability, or specific triggers. We discuss how to identify these habitual cycles by recognizing the times, places, and emotional states that tend to activate addictive behaviors. Whether you’re at the beginning of your journey or looking for tools to strengthen your resolve, this episode offers actionable insights to help...

5 months ago

1 hour 5 minutes

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E16: Keep Your Tank Full

In this episode of Chainbreaker, we explore how acknowledging and prioritizing your mental and emotional needs can be a game-changer in learning to work through sex, porn, and masturbation addictions. Addiction often thrives in emptiness, so we focus on identifying unmet emotional needs, combating mental exhaustion, and building routines that nourish your well-being. Learn practical strategies to fill your “tank” in healthy ways, break free from destructive cycles, and create a life of purpos...

6 months ago

1 hour 3 minutes

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E15: Doing The Work

In this episode of Chainbreaker, titled "Doing the Work," we dive deep into the vital importance of consistent, intentional action in breaking free from sexual addiction. True recovery isn’t something that happens by accident or simply because you’ve had a few good days. Men need to understand that genuine change demands focus and dedication. We’ll talk about why simply ignoring your addiction or hoping it will fade isn’t enough and how putting in the work every day is key to reclaiming your ...

7 months ago

1 hour 8 minutes

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E14: Post-Orgasm Depression

In this episode of Chainbreaker, we dive deep into the experience of Post-Orgasm Depression, a state many men find themselves in after engaging in sexual activities. Often, men are filled with overwhelming feelings of shame, guilt, embarrassment, and remorse after the act, which leads them to cycle further into their addiction. I discuss how these moments, while uncomfortable, are critical to the healing process. Instead of running from these emotions, men must learn to sit with them, process...

7 months ago

1 hour 2 minutes

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E13: Identifying Your Sexual Addiction Triggers

In this episode, I guide men through the critical process of identifying their sexual addiction triggers. We'll explore how to recognize the moments that lead to unhealthy behaviors and dig deeper into what you're truly seeking in those situations. It's not just about recognizing the triggers, but understanding the emotional or psychological need behind them. I offer strategies to help you break free from destructive patterns by focusing on getting what you genuinely need, rather than falling...

7 months ago

1 hour 8 minutes

Chainbreaker

E12: The Demonization of the Male Sex Drive

In this episode, I dive into the controversial topic of the male sex drive and how it has been demonized in today's society. I explore why the natural desires of men are often misunderstood or misrepresented and how this impacts their relationships, especially in the context of sex, porn, and masturbation addiction recovery. I also offer practical advice on how men can improve intimacy with their female partners by fostering better communication and understanding. I talk to men about breaking...

7 months ago

1 hour 15 minutes

Chainbreaker

E11: Starting The Work For Sexual Addiction Recovery

In this episode of the Chainbreaker podcast, titled "Starting the Work for Sexual Addiction Recovery," we dive into the crucial first steps needed to begin your journey toward breaking free from sex, porn, and masturbation addiction. Recovery isn't just about wanting to change. Rather it is about committing to the process and putting in the hard work required to overcome deeply rooted behaviors. In this episode, I’ll outline the practical actions you can take to set the foundation for real ch...

7 months ago

1 hour 9 minutes

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E10: Preparing For Sexual Addiction Recovery

In this episode of the Chainbreaker podcast, titled "Preparing for Sexual Addiction Recovery," we explore the essential steps men need to take to set themselves up for success in overcoming sex, porn, and masturbation addiction. Recovery is not an easy road, and preparing your mind, body, and environment can make all the difference. I'll discuss the importance of acknowledging your addiction, understanding its impact on your relationships and life, and setting clear, realistic goals for recov...

7 months ago

1 hour 7 minutes

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E09: Reddit Confession - I Ruined My Relationship

In this episode of the Chainbreaker podcast, I dive deep into a real-life confession from a Reddit user who admits to destroying his marriage due to sex, porn, and masturbation addiction. I'll break down the behavior patterns that led him down this destructive path, highlighting the red flags that were ignored along the way. As I dissect his story, I offer insight into how his addiction contributed to the downfall of his relationship and what steps he could take to rebuild his life - if he’s ...

7 months ago

1 hour 4 minutes

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E02: Taking Baby Steps With Sexual Addiction Recovery

In this episode of Chainbreaker, we explore the importance of taking baby steps in the journey to overcoming sexual addiction. Focusing on three foundational keys, we start with:1) Understanding Yourself—delving into the importance of self-awareness and recognizing the unique factors that shape your identity and behavior. 2) Next, we cover Understanding Your Addiction, where we break down the patterns, triggers, and emotional connections tied to addiction. 3) Finally, we explore Understanding...

7 months ago

1 hour 1 minute

Chainbreaker

In this raw and unflinching episode, we dig beneath the surface of sexual addiction to uncover the deeper ache driving the cycle: the longing to be loved - and the tragic ways addicts sabotage that love before they ever get the chance to receive it. Meet Sid, a cautionary tale of what happens when you fake recovery, rush intimacy, and weaponize women’s hearts in your pursuit of healing. His story is a wake-up call to every man who thinks quitting porn is the same thing as becoming whole. We'l...