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Chainbreaker

Mistress Alisa

33 episodes

1 week ago

In this episode of Chainbreaker, we go beyond surface-level recovery to uncover the deeper truth: real healing doesn’t come from denying your sexual urges or running from temptation — it comes from transforming desire itself. Many men try to “white-knuckle” their way through addiction, believing that self-control alone will save them. However, denial only feeds the shadows. True recovery begins when you stop hiding from your desire and start understanding it. In this episode, I will help the ...

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In this episode of Chainbreaker, we go beyond surface-level recovery to uncover the deeper truth: real healing doesn’t come from denying your sexual urges or running from temptation — it comes from transforming desire itself. Many men try to “white-knuckle” their way through addiction, believing that self-control alone will save them. However, denial only feeds the shadows. True recovery begins when you stop hiding from your desire and start understanding it. In this episode, I will help the ...

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Self-Improvement,

Health & Fitness

Episodes (20/33)

Chainbreaker

E33: Doing the Work in Sexual Addiction Recovery

In this episode of Chainbreaker, we go beyond surface-level recovery to uncover the deeper truth: real healing doesn’t come from denying your sexual urges or running from temptation — it comes from transforming desire itself. Many men try to “white-knuckle” their way through addiction, believing that self-control alone will save them. However, denial only feeds the shadows. True recovery begins when you stop hiding from your desire and start understanding it. In this episode, I will help the ...

1 week ago

1 hour 29 minutes

Chainbreaker

E32: The Sexual Addiction Pipeline (From Adolescence to Adulthood)

In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we confront one of the most dangerous and overlooked realities of modern society — the system that has been intentionally designed to shape men into sexual addicts and women into sexual objects - from early exposure to sexualized media to the normalization of pornography and hookup culture. We live in a world where cultural conditioning, technology, and global industries work together to ensnare young men in lifelong cycles of lust, shame, and depe...

3 weeks ago

1 hour 5 minutes

Chainbreaker

E31: The Importance Of Going Step-By-Step In Sexual Addiction Recovery

In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we break down why taking recovery one step at a time isn’t just helpful—it’s essential. Too many men try to skip ahead in their sexual recovery work, only to find themselves stumbling and falling back into old patterns. True sexual addiction recovery is a process. It’s a journey that demands patience, presence, and discipline. You will never stop being an addict—but you can stop being controlled by your addiction. You can learn to walk free o...

1 month ago

1 hour 8 minutes

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E30: When & How To Do Sexual Addiction Recovery Work Independently

In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we dive into how men can tackle sexual addiction recovery on their own, even if they can't access one-on-one coaching. Learn how, when, and why to confront the deeper, scarier parts of yourself, embrace discomfort, and stop running from the hard work of self-reflection. While independent recovery comes with challenges—overwhelm, discomfort, and moments of doubt—this episode provides actionable strategies to navigate them effectively and make meanin...

1 month ago

1 hour 9 minutes

Chainbreaker

E29: Dealing With the Guilt of "Failure" In Sexual Addiction Recovery

In this episode of Chainbreaker, Mistress Alisa tackles one of the hardest realities men face in sexual addiction recovery: the crushing guilt that comes with “failing” and slipping back into old patterns of sex, porn, or masturbation. Far too many men believe recovery should be a straight line forward—and when they relapse, they label themselves weak, broken, or hopeless; and they tend to give up. This episode helps to dismantle the myth that leads men to believe that sexual addiction recove...

1 month ago

1 hour 17 minutes

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E28: Why Are Men So Dependent On Sexual Pleasure? (Pt. 1)

In this unapologetically honest episode, we pull back the curtain on a silent epidemic—men’s emotional dependence on sexual pleasure. This isn’t about shame or blame. It’s about revealing how boys are conditioned to bury emotion, celebrate numbness, and turn to sex as their only outlet for comfort, validation, and self-worth. From childhood wounds to cultural programming, we unpack how your entire emotional system got hijacked—and why every feeling now gets rerouted into arousal. You’ll confr...

5 months ago

1 hour 50 minutes

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E27: Sexual Addicts Crave Love (The Cautionary Tale of a Man Named Sid)

In this raw and unflinching episode, we dig beneath the surface of sexual addiction to uncover the deeper ache driving the cycle: the longing to be loved - and the tragic ways addicts sabotage that love before they ever get the chance to receive it. Meet Sid, a cautionary tale of what happens when you fake recovery, rush intimacy, and weaponize women’s hearts in your pursuit of healing. His story is a wake-up call to every man who thinks quitting porn is the same thing as becoming whole. We'l...

6 months ago

2 hours 9 minutes

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E26: You Can't Heal With The Same Mind That Broke You

In this transformative episode, we dive into one of the most important truths in sex addiction recovery: Mindset. Far too often, men attempt to break free from porn, sex, and masturbation addictions while clinging to the same beliefs, habits, and thought patterns that kept them trapped. However, true healing requires more than just behavior change. It requires a renewed mind. We'll explore how dysfunctional thinking - shame, entitlement, secrecy, control, and self-sabotage - feeds addiction, ...

6 months ago

1 hour 33 minutes

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E25: Transitioning From Sexual Addict To Lover

In this raw and transformative episode, we dive deep into the journey from compulsion to connection. "Transitioning From Sexual Addict to Lover" explores what it means to move beyond the empty highs of addiction and step into the vulnerability, courage, and intimacy required to love—and be loved. This episode offers practical insights, mindset shifts, and hope for those ready to stop performing and start feeling. If you’re recovering from sexual addiction recovery, this episode invites you to...

6 months ago

1 hour 10 minutes

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E24: Do Sexual Addicts Have To Give Up Their Kinks & Fetishes?

In this empowering episode, we tackle a question many men silently fear: Will recovery mean the end of my sexuality? The answer is a resounding no. You'll learn why healing from sex addiction doesn’t mean giving up desire, pleasure, or your unique sexual interests. Instead, it’s about addressing the root character flaws—like dishonesty, selfishness, and emotional immaturity—that fuel addiction and keep you stuck in cycles of shame. We explore how true recovery leads to deeper intimacy, strong...

7 months ago

1 hour 14 minutes

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E23: Why Sexual Addicts Fail At Relationships

In this episode of Chainbreaker, we dive deep into the harsh reality of why sexual addicts struggle to build and maintain healthy relationships. Many believe that love and commitment can override addiction, but the truth is far more complex. We’ll explore the destructive patterns that sexual addiction breeds—dishonesty, emotional detachment, unrealistic expectations, and a constant need for novelty. These behaviors create cycles of betrayal, mistrust, and dissatisfaction, making it nearly imp...

8 months ago

1 hour 26 minutes

Chainbreaker

E22: The Games That Sexual Addicts Play

Not everyone who seeks help for sexual (sex/porn/masturbation) addiction is truly looking for recovery. Some are just looking for another way to feed their addiction - using therapy, accountability groups, and even their partners as tools to manipulate and deceive. In this episode of Chainbreaker, I expose the mind games that sexual addicts play when they pretend to be on the road to recovery but are actually using counseling sessions as another outlet for their addiction. Through real-life e...

9 months ago

1 hour 34 minutes

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E21: Sexual Addiction Recovery & Will Power

In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we dive into the misunderstood concept of willpower in sexual addiction recovery. Many men only start to consider self-control when their addiction has already wreaked havoc on their lives - but by then, relying on willpower alone is ineffective. Recovery is not about sheer force of will. Rather, it’s about embracing truth and integrity. In today's episode, I help to uncover why focusing on willpower sets men up for failure, and I introduce a prove...

9 months ago

1 hour 12 minutes

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E20: Sex Is Not Love

In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into a critical distinction that many men struggling with sex, porn, and masturbation addiction often blur: the difference between sex and love. While society frequently glorifies physical intimacy as the ultimate expression of love, this episode reveals why such an outlook can be damaging—both to relationships and to an individual's personal well-being.I explore how addiction skews perceptions of sex, reducing it to a transactional or escapist act r...

10 months ago

1 hour 10 minutes

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E19: Relationship Challenges For Sexual Addicts

In this raw and eye-opening episode, we confront the harsh realities of how sexual addiction wreaks havoc on relationships. This isn’t about sugarcoating or sidestepping the truth. It’s a call for men to wake up and face the behaviors that damage their partners, families, and themselves.We’ll unpack:The unhealthy patterns and behaviors that often go unnoticed or unacknowledged.The ways sexual addiction masks itself as love, care, or investment in relationships.Practical steps to identify and ...

10 months ago

1 hour 22 minutes

Chainbreaker

E18: Avoiding False Starts In Sexual Addiction Recovery

Embarking on the road to recovery from sex, porn, and masturbation addictions can feel overwhelming, especially when false starts threaten progress. In this episode, we dive deep into the common pitfalls that derail men at the beginning of their recovery journey. We'll explore numerous traps that oftentimes keep men from meeting their goals, while sharing practical tools to build a foundation for lasting change.Tune in to learn how to take the first steps with confidence and avoid the false s...

10 months ago

1 hour 7 minutes

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E17: Trapped In The Loop Of Sexual Addiction

In this episode, we dive into the concept of the "default mode" of sexual addiction—those automatic patterns and behaviors that take over during idle moments, emotional vulnerability, or specific triggers. We discuss how to identify these habitual cycles by recognizing the times, places, and emotional states that tend to activate addictive behaviors. Whether you’re at the beginning of your journey or looking for tools to strengthen your resolve, this episode offers actionable insights to help...

11 months ago

1 hour 5 minutes

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E16: Keep Your Tank Full

In this episode of Chainbreaker, we explore how acknowledging and prioritizing your mental and emotional needs can be a game-changer in learning to work through sex, porn, and masturbation addictions. Addiction often thrives in emptiness, so we focus on identifying unmet emotional needs, combating mental exhaustion, and building routines that nourish your well-being. Learn practical strategies to fill your “tank” in healthy ways, break free from destructive cycles, and create a life of purpos...

12 months ago

1 hour 3 minutes

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E15: Doing The Work

In this episode of Chainbreaker, titled "Doing the Work," we dive deep into the vital importance of consistent, intentional action in breaking free from sexual addiction. True recovery isn’t something that happens by accident or simply because you’ve had a few good days. Men need to understand that genuine change demands focus and dedication. We’ll talk about why simply ignoring your addiction or hoping it will fade isn’t enough and how putting in the work every day is key to reclaiming your ...

1 year ago

1 hour 8 minutes

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E14: Post-Orgasm Depression

In this episode of Chainbreaker, we dive deep into the experience of Post-Orgasm Depression, a state many men find themselves in after engaging in sexual activities. Often, men are filled with overwhelming feelings of shame, guilt, embarrassment, and remorse after the act, which leads them to cycle further into their addiction. I discuss how these moments, while uncomfortable, are critical to the healing process. Instead of running from these emotions, men must learn to sit with them, process...

1 year ago

1 hour 2 minutes