Breaking ups/divorce are incredibly daunting, difficult things to initiate & deal with. But, if you’re questioning the relationship, unhappy, unfulfilled, missing something etc, it is SO important for your quality of life. It’s so common to want to stay where you're comfortable, but what kind of life is that if happiness is minimal? If you're experiencing unhappiness in your relationship, if you’ve fallen out of love with your partner, if you're hopeful for things to get better in the future one day, we hope this episode lifts you up and gives you the courage to do what’s best for you (and them!!). It’s heavy, it’s not easy detaching yourself from someone you’ve become so intertwined with in every way but, you both deserve mutual unconditional love. Having love for someone vs being in love with someone are separate!! And that alone is more than enough to end the relationship. We chat about our experiences with breakups, in which were all under different circumstances. Thank you guys so much for being here!!!! We love you.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00:00 - Intro

00:00:42 - Struggling to find the courage

00:01:25 - signs that the relationship isn’t for you

00:03:31 - divorce when you have kids

00:07:38 - falling out of love

00:08:38 - what are people going to think?

00:11:13 - Red flags in the beginning

00:15:00 - having the hard conversation

00:17:14 - dating these days

00:19:33 - love vs in love

00:21:50 - honeymoon phase

00:26:40 - not wanting to be around your partner

00:28:32 - the brain wants to stay comfortable

00:29:10 - communicate your conflicted feelings

00:31:24 - honesty is respect

00:32:25 - how to initiate a breakup

00:35:26 - breakup guilt & standing your ground

00:40:40 - breaking up is NORMAL and necessary

00:42:40 - when love isn’t enough

00:45:17 - three types of love

00:50:10 - being treated badly while in love

00:55:32 - when they check all the shallow boxes

00:58:02 - fighting in early relationships

00:59:32 - peace in relationships

01:00:10 - encouragement & outro