What do sheitels, sample sales, and settlement agreements have in common? They’re just part of the plot in this week’s Call Her Tatty.
Chava sits down with powerhouse frum divorce attorney and longtime bestie Gity Kogan to talk real Jewish divorce. They cover the messy stuff no one warns you about: Gett refusals, courtroom chaos, and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with breaking up and moving on.
There’s legal advice, kol isha moments, and surprisingly deep girl talk. One minute they’re fighting over dishes from Macy’s, the next they’re unpacking the difference between hate and indifference.
👠 For girls who get it
📜 For tatties who don’t
🎧 For anyone who’s ever yelled "WHERE’S BEIS DIN?"
00:00 Intro and Gity’s vibe check
04:15 The real process behind a frum divorce
10:10 When things get petty (sheitels, china, and the group chat)
18:30 Beis Din breakdowns and Gett refusal
31:50 Sample sales, music therapy, and retail teshuva
41:00 What healing actually looks like
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What happens when you mix Upper West Side shidduch trauma, yeshiva nostalgia, and a side of milchigs? You get this banger of an episode with our favorite comedian (and lowkey deep thinker), Dovie Neuberger.
We unpack the conveyor belt that is frum dating, get spicy about Purim parties, debate whether a rich Tatty beats a hot kallah, and expose why girls be posting their manicured nails at the Ohel. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you’ll never look at meal trains the same way again. 💅
Subscribe so you don’t miss our next episode of raw, unfiltered frum girl chaos + deep hashkafic takes.
👇 Highlights 👇
00:00 – Dovie joins the chaos: Upper West Side takes & Purim party drama
05:30 – Why dating in NYC is a broken buffet line
11:00 – Build-a-Bae: What Dovie’s really looking for
19:00 – Worst dates, pet peeves & the price of La Maré
30:20 – Hot kallah vs. rich Tatty—choose your hishtadlus
38:00 – Posting your nails at the Ohel: Is it mutar?
44:30 – Dovie’s Netflix dreams & frum Matt Rife energy
49:30 – The Shidduch Crisis: Mathematical problems need math solutions
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What’s up sheifelehs. In the first episode of Call Her Tatty, Chava sits down with her husband, Zoli Honig. They talk about their wild love story, how a friend made their shidduch to other people, and how they ended up together after divorce.
They get into yeshivish childhoods, Bais Yaakov rules, marriage at 21, the Upper West Side myth, Miami life, and why this podcast had to happen. Zoli tries to be smart. Chava calls him out.
If your Tatty wouldn’t want you listening, this one’s for you.
