Send us a text In this season finale episode, the boys talk about their individual and group goals. Although it has been 4 seasons there is still a lot they want to accomplish. Now that they're approaching their 30's they all feel there is a shift happening and want to make the best of it. Learn from their lessons in their 20's and get inspired from what they're manifesting.

Send us a text This week, we dive deep into spirituality. We’re joined by the radiant Justin to unpack what it means to be Black, queer, and what having faith looks like to us. From growing up religious to navigating the adulthood and what it looks like for us now. We open up about staying rooted in faith while living boldly in our truth. We ask the questions we’ve all been too afraid to say out loud at one point or another: Have you ever prayed the gay away? Had a dream that felt divine? Fel...

Send us a text How do we keep love and friendship alive when miles come between us? In this vulnerable and deeply reflective episode, we dive into the emotional terrain of long-distance relationships both romantic and platonic. From guilt trips over missed birthdays to redefining what it means to be a “real” friend or partner when you’re not physically present, this episode asks the hard questions and offers real talk, not just reassurance. Are long-distance friendships sustainable? Can absen...

Send us a text This week, we’re getting raw, real, and radically joyful. We’re joined by incredible dancer, choreographer, and artist Darius Hickman to explore the complex intersections of mental health and queer Black identity. From navigating therapy and managing finances to finding moments of joy in the chaos — nothing is off-limits. We open up about the power of community, the weight of rejection, and how Black queer folks can prioritize their peace while chasing purpose.

Send us a text In this episode, we spill all the tea on our most unforgettable travel moments — the good, the bad, and the downright messy. From missed flights and shady hotels to the most mouthwatering meals we’ve ever had, it’s a whirlwind ride through our best and worst travel experiences. Whether you’re a seasoned traveler or a carry-on-only kind of girl, this episode will have you laughing, gasping, and planning your next adventure with your friends.

Send us a text In this episode, we take a joyful (and sometimes shady) stroll down memory lane as we reflect on family game nights growing up. Were you a board game champ, the sore loser, or the one who always quit halfway through? From solo computer missions to chaotic living room showdowns, we talk about how games shaped our childhood and maybe even our friendships. We then play the We're Not Really Strangers: Friend Edition and Amusing Edition card games. Laughs, memories, and a few surpri...

Send us a text New York is a city full of ambition, but sometimes that ambition shows up in all the wrong ways. In this episode, with our special guest KhiAri, we’re talking about the fake, the phony, and the social climbers—those people who are always “on” but never real. We dive into what it’s like to deal with rude energy at events, flaky friendships, and the performative behavior that’s way too common in the city.

Send us a text This week, we get into a deep dive the rollercoaster that is our twenties. From proud wins to full-on “what the hell is this?” moments, we’re unpacking everything they didn’t tell us about adulting. We’re talking unrealistic childhood expectations, the pressure to have it all figured out, and how some of y’all are raising babies while we’re still raising our credit scores. Tap in—we got real and reflective.

Send us a text In this episode we have a very special guest, Bashel The Zillennial! We break down the evolution of iconography and the stars who define it today. From Beyoncé and RuPaul to Lil Nas X and beyond, we explore how these figures influence LGBTQ+ culture—and how the community, in turn, shapes them. Are the same legends still holding their crowns, or is a new wave of icons taking over? Tune in as we discuss the power, politics, and pop culture of gay icon status in today’s world!

Send us a text In this episode, we’re diving deep into the challenges, struggles, and internal conflicts within the Black gay community. From issues of masculinity and femininity to colorism, classism, and the lack of unity, we’re unpacking the tough conversations people like to avoid. Is there a way to heal and build a stronger, more supportive community?

Send us a text On the final episode of the season the boys step outside of their comfort zone and try an ASMR/ Mukbang style video. They converse over lunch their favorite foods, and tell stories connected to family and travel. We hope you enjoy this episode, and we will be back before you know it!

Send us a text In this episode of our podcast, we dive into the world of music and entertainment in 2024. Join the conversation as we discuss the best new artists to us making creating their own lanes, standout music videos, and explore the latest Grammy’s submissions. We’ll also share our thoughts on trends shaping the music industry this year. Whether you’re a casual listener or a die-hard fan, this episode promises insights and lively discussions that celebrate the evolving landscape of mu...

Send us a text In this episode we have a very special guest, adult entertainer Boe Jack Ryan! We dive deep into the intricate world of the adult film industry, exploring the fascinating dynamics that shape it. With a focus on authenticity and respect, we want to destigmatize the adult film industry, showcasing the passion and professionalism of those who work within it.

Send us a text In this episode the boys and the raffle winner from their panel, Jordan Medley, have an in-depth discussion about their journeys in the arts. They explore how identity shapes their work, the challenges of navigating racism and homophobia, and the transition from passion to production.

Send us a text 🎉 Surprise! A special episode drops today celebrating the 5th anniversary of DickAppointment—one of the most iconic parties showcasing the vibrant intersection of POC culture and Queerness. Get ready to dive deep into the magic that has made this event a beloved staple in our community!

Send us a text On this episode the boys and their very special guest, Ron Bellamy, have a juicy conversation all about hookups. They talk about their first, sex parties, and much more! Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe.

Send us a text We all could use some self reflection from time to time, on this episode the boys face themselves with some hard truths about themselves and each other as a group. It’s important to be real with yourself and people around you all for the purpose of becoming better people.

Send us a text On this episode the boys talk about Friends vs Frenemies. The challenges faced when having to confront situations where friends may not like someone you are around and dig into personal experiences as well.

Send us a text With our first ever panel we aimed to explore the experiences, challenges, and triumphs of these amazing Black individuals within the LGBTQIA community who are working in the arts. We hope to shed light on the diverse narratives and talents within this intersection, as well as discuss the importance of representation and inclusion within artistic spaces. We believe that their unique insights and experiences would greatly contribute to the richness and depth of our discussion. P...

Send us a text In this episode the busy boys are joined by journalist, producer and media strategist Gary Pace (@garytylaa). Together they discuss the current state of media and what they’d like to see covered more in the news. From gossip outlets to blogs to magazines this is an episode you won’t want to miss.