We often think we’re being nice when we say what others want to hear—but are we really being honest? In this episode, we unpack how people-pleasing can quietly sabotage relationships, and how choosing honesty—spoken with kindness—can transform them.

Reflection Questions:

• Where are you holding back from being honest in your relationships?

• What fear might be keeping you from saying what’s true?

• How might honesty actually deepen connection instead of damage it?

Action Steps:

1. Identify one person you haven’t been fully honest with.

2. Write down what’s unsaid.

3. Ask God—or your inner wisdom—for the right timing and tone.

4. Practice honest kindness, not dishonest appeasement.

Breadcrumb for Today:

Say what you mean—kindly and clearly.