#050 Today’s episode dives into the idea of meeting your kids’ needs and managing their wants. Lisa discusses how she approaches this including what falls under the needs and wants categories, what age to start this, and if discipline is mean. Additionally, Lisa answers parenting questions on how to balance this with two under two, what to do when toddlers say “mine” to everything, getting connected to your kids, tantrums during transitions, how to approach whinging, setting yourself u...

#049 Lisa discusses the topic of staying calm when your kids test your patience, with an emphasis on the importance of connecting with your kids through playing with them in their world. Throughout the episode, the idea of consequences compared to rewards in regards to getting good behaviour is discussed. Lastly, Lisa answers parenting questions submitted by listeners on kids testing limits, toddlers hitting parents, toddler pushing boundaries, getting kids to hold your hand in ...

#048 Lisa discusses setting family boundaries when it comes to your parenting, and how to stand your ground when your family tries to interfere. She shares a message to grandparents giving unsolicited advice, focusing on the fact that unsolicited communication in general is not something she recommends. Additionally Lisa answers listener questions about grandparents using the BratBusters Behaviour Board, grandparents hindering progress in your parenting or having a different par...

#047 Lisa discusses the importance of having routines in place for kids; specifically mealtime routines, bedtime routines, and morning routines. In the episode Lisa details specifics on how an example mealtime routine may look including the exact details she recommends adding along with how to have kids follow these routines in place. Additionally Lisa answers listener questions about bedtime battles, starting a chore chart, how to approach a family reset, challenges during brea...

#046 Lisa discusses her theory around the fork in the road when kids turn three, including why parenting impacts this, the reason as to why the BratBusters Behaviour Board starts at three, and common parenting styles that may lead to threenagers. Additionally, Lisa answers parenting questions around this topic including acting out at school, defiance turning into tantrums, kids struggling to control their temper, favouring one parent over the other, kids hitting others when frustrated, how t...

Lisa’s ranking common discipline strategies in today’s episode of the podcast. She begins by sharing her thoughts on timeouts, countdown, diversion, positive reinforcement, natural consequences, logical consequences, discussing bad behaviour and reward charts. From there, Lisa shares her method of leadership parenting, how it’s different, and why she recommends it. To end the episode Lisa answers listener questions covering topics like bullying, natural consequences for kids, t...

#044 Feeling overwhelmed by your kids’ tantrums? In today’s episode Lisa is covering all things tantrums by covering what she considers to be a tantrum, the difference between wants and needs when it comes to tantrums, her perspective on ignoring tantrums, and an example of how she would handle a tantrum at the park. Lisa answers a variety of listener questions including topics on baby tantrums, toddlers preferring one parent over another, car seat meltdowns, giving comfort items during a ta...

Are you dealing with your kid hitting you, others, or even items around the house? In today’s podcast episode, Lisa explores what causes some kids to hit while others don’t along with parenting strategies to combat this behaviour. Parenting questions on this topic include alternatives to timeouts when kids hit, toddlers hitting their parents, siblings hitting one another and tattling, and consequence options to use in the moment. Learn more about the Toddler BratBusters Bo...

#042 This episode is focused on eliminating yelling and improving emotional control. Lisa shares the importance of acting rather than reacting, and tactics for maintaining consistency and calmness. Listener questions include addressing common issues like dealing with toddlers behaviour, managing tantrums with a shift-working partner, and adapting parenting styles for teenagers. Learn more about the Toddler BratBusters Bootcamp (16-35 Months)Learn more about the BratBusters...

#041 Lisa is answering ten questions submitted from listeners who are experiencing their toddler pushing their boundaries. Questions include tantrums, power struggles, potty training, bedtime struggles, the “mine” stage, and much more. In addition, Lisa shares her top five tips for parenting toddlers and why focusing on connection is key when parenting. Learn more about the Toddler BratBusters Bootcamp (16-35 Months)Learn more about the BratBusters Bootcamp (Ages 3-12) Tha...

Lisa Bunnage discusses effective parenting strategies to raise children as confident, independent problem solvers with high self-esteem, emphasizing the importance of focusing on positive reinforcement, connecting with children, and not over-disciplining. She recommends encouraging kids to make their own decisions, solving problems through role-playing, and maintaining open, judgment-free communication. The episode also addresses issues such as bullying, balancing attention amon...

Lisa Bunnage discusses the foundation of self-esteem and the impact of leadership parenting on your kids’ behaviour. She emphasizes that self-esteem stems from feeling valued rather than constant praise. The discussion covers the importance of children facing failures and learning through trials, how toddlers' behaviours are shaped by consistent corrective actions, handling tantrums, the impact of inconsistent discipline, and the misconception that children's behavior is unchang...

Parenting coach Lisa Bunnage discusses the pitfalls of trying to be a perfect parent, emphasizing the importance of showing vulnerability, owning mistakes, and making amends as key elements of effective leadership in parenting. The conversation includes a variety of listener questions on topics such as handling tantrums, building connection, and setting boundaries for children from different age groups. Lisa advises against setting unrealistic standards for children and stresses...

Lisa Bunnage discusses how to identify if you are a parenting leader and the qualities that make an effective parenting leader, such as being fun, calm, and how to approach discipline. The episode includes practical advice on handling various parenting challenges, like children demanding specific parents for certain tasks, dealing with children's separation anxiety, setting boundaries, and managing temper tantrums. It emphasizes the importance of not letting children control par...

#036 In this episode of the BratBusters Parenting Podcast, Lisa Bunnage explores how to deal with defiance in children. Lisa shares the importance of a balance between consequences and a strong, playful relationship with children. The episode personal anecdotes and suggests that effective parenting involves connecting with children, being consistent with consequences, and modeling accountability. There’s an emphasis that children thrive under leadership that combines resp...

#035 In this episode of the BratBusters Parenting Podcast, Lisa Bunnage, a parenting coach, discusses the significance of playing with children to build better connections. Lisa emphasizes the concept of fun as the love language of kids and shares various strategies for parents to engage with their children, even if they don't naturally enjoy playful activities. The episode includes personal anecdotes and listener questions, covering topics such as handling energetic toddlers, t...

In this episode of the BratBusters Parenting Podcast, Lisa Bunnage, a parenting coach, discusses various parenting strategies for new parents. Lisa emphasizes the importance of leading by example rather than nagging, highlighting the difference between being a leader and being bossy. She advises parents to be fun and engaging during play. Lisa recounts her experiences with her children and shares practical advice on avoiding pleaser parenting as well as handling common parenting chall...

In this episode of the BratBusters Parenting Podcast, Lisa Bunnage, a parenting coach, explores various parenting questions regarding kids screaming at you. Lisa emphasizes the importance of parents taking full responsibility for their children's behaviour and highlights leadership as a crucial skill in parenting. The discussion covers dealing with toddler tantrums, sibling fights, bedtime battles, and children screaming for attention. Lisa provides practical tips such as...

In this episode of the BratBusters Parenting Podcast, Lisa Bunnage, a parenting coach, explores why kids have attitude and if you can address it as a parent. The main premise is that attitude issues gradually dissolve when parents establish themselves as reliable leaders and consistently show empathy, compassion, and accountability. The episode emphasizes the high importance of fun, connection, and engagement over discipline. Lisa shares personal anecdotes and practical a...

#031 In this episode of the Bratbusters Parenting Podcast, parenting coach Lisa Bunnage discusses the importance of consistent corrective actions for toddlers aged 16 to 35 months. She emphasizes that consistent corrective actions should be action-based rather than verbal discussions, and explains how that looks. Lisa answers questions from listeners about managing toddler behaviours such as biting, throwing tantrums, sibling rivalry, and mealtime challenges. She highlights that...