What if the very thing you’ve been hiding is the key to your healing?
Cat's got a magical guest in the house and trust us, you’re gonna feel this one in your soul
Amanda Magic, holistic mental wellness coach and published author, joins Cat Coley to share her wild, wonderful journey from self-doubt to soul-powered storytelling. She’s spilling the sparkly truth behind her transformation, the tears and triumphs of writing her chapter in the BU Brand Volume Two book, and how embracing vulnerability turned into her superpower.
Episode Highlights:
Magic in Your Own Story
Vulnerability Fuels Growth
Community Creates Momentum
About Amanda Magic
Amanda Magick is the founder and guiding spirit behind The Magick Mindset™ and The Manifest Station™. A soul-led mama and deeply feeling neurodivergent woman, Amanda is a lifelong seeker of truth, healing, and the magic woven through everyday life.
Her journey began as a military child, spending part of her upbringing in Germany, where she first fell in love with cartoons, color, and curiosity. She studied business in college, nearly pursued ministry, and eventually became a teacher. But it was the decision to homeschool her son that marked a turning point—leading her to craft a life rooted in authenticity, wholeness, and joy.
Amanda’s work is a reflection of her lived experience: intuitive, vibrant, and devoted to helping others reconnect with their inner wisdom and creative power.
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Overcoming your childhood is a superpower! (Just in case no one’s told you yet.)
Stephanie Case’s powerful story of feeling unseen and rising above childhood adversity will leave you deeply inspired. In this heartfelt conversation with Cat, Steph opens up about the tears, the transformation, and the triumphs that shaped her journey.
This episode is a celebration of growth, identity, and the healing power of our stories. Stephanie shares her path as a mental wellness coach for dancers, performers, and athletes—offering wisdom, compassion, and a glimpse into her chapter in our upcoming book.
You’ll walk away moved, motivated, and reminded that your past doesn’t define you—it empowers you.
Episode Highlights:
A Journey of Tears to Triumph
Overcoming the Fear Becoming an Author
About Stephanie Case
What if the biggest obstacle holding dancers back isn’t their technique—but their mindset?
Coaches pour their hearts into their teams, but no amount of conditioning or choreography can reach a dancer who’s mentally drained, insecure, or disconnected from their purpose. That’s where Stephanie Case steps in.
With over two decades of experience as a Latin Dance Instructor and World Champion Coach, a forthcoming Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, and a published memoir exploring identity and performance, Steph offers a rare and powerful blend of expertise. Her mission is to help dancers unlock their full potential—mind, body, and spirit—so they can show up with confidence and authenticity, both on stage and in life.
Stephanie Case understands the real-world pressures dancers face: comparison, anxiety, burnout, body image struggles, and financial strain. These challenges can silence even the most gifted performers. Through her signature coaching programs—INNER CHAMPION and IGNITE YOUR MIND through DANCE—Steph equips teams and individuals with the tools to build mental resilience, emotional clarity, and inner confidence.
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College Drop out to successful business owner? Wait…this is possible?
Matrasa sits down with Cat to discuss how her messy journey has lead her to success in her business. Discover how writing her story was a healing process and hear the magic of connecting all the meaningful moments. Matrasa shares why sharing your real, raw story matters, especially for women entrepreneurs.
Episode Highlights:
Healing Power in Storytelling
Fast Track to Entrepreneurship
The Importance of Self Worth
About Matrasa Ferguson
Matrasa Ferguson is a bookkeeper and intuitive money coach who empowers creative, neurodivergent, and spiritual businesswomen to organize their finances, understand and use their numbers, heal their relationship with money, and focus on their profitable magic with the power of bookkeeping. Her story stems from years of poor financial decisions rooted in low self-worth, leading up to a “Tower” moment where everything fell apart at once—leaving her no choice but to evolve and heal. Her journey enabled her to start a bookkeeping business out of thin air, and become a thought leader with an iconic brand in the online spiritual finance space.
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How do you find the strength to keep swinging when facing a life-changing disease?
Ann Marie Entner, a life coach who empowers women living with autoimmune diseases. Anne Marie opens up about her struggles with rheumatoid arthritis and how she transformed her pain into purpose.
Ann Marie shares her chapter in a powerful book, BYB Book, where we explore the significance of self-care, self-love and discovering the true meaning of resilience.
Ann Marie is here to remind you that you aren’t broken, you are becoming!
Episode Highlights:
Keep Swinging: Embracing Life's Challenges
Navigating Chronic Illness with Strength
The Importance of Setting Boundaries
About Annmarie Entner
Annmarie is a fellow RA warrior turned RA & Autoimmune Support Coach who deeply understands how life-altering an autoimmune diagnosis can be. Her own journey with rheumatoid arthritis opened her eyes to a critical gap in the healing process—one that many patients face alone. After receiving her diagnosis, she experienced firsthand the emotional and physical upheaval that often accompanies autoimmune conditions. She saw how people felt as though their lives had been flipped upside down, fearing they'd never walk, run, or play with their grandchildren again. And perhaps most isolating of all, they felt misunderstood—trapped in the invisible struggle of a “hidden” disease.
Now, Annmarie serves as a compassionate guide and confidant for those beginning their healing journey. She helps individuals reclaim their strength and identity, empowering them to feel like warriors rather than victims.
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The Lunar New Year is here!
Have you reflected on 2024? Created that vision board and prepared yourself for 2025?
If you haven’t it really isn’t too late! Cat is reflecting on the previous year, reflecting on her wins and losses in 2024. From speaking gigs, becoming an international bestseller, to spending quality time with her loved ones. Cat is sharing the important lessons learned and what she hopes to achieve in 2025.
Get ready to get inspired and think about your own goals and creating your own ins and outs list for 2025!
Episode Highlights:
Celebrating wins and achievements from 2024
Lessons learned and what to leave behind
Creating a plan and moving with intention for 2025
About Cat Coley
Cat Coley, a powerhouse of inspiration who turned her lowest point into a launchpad for a life-changing calling as a storytelling coach, keynote speaker, published author, podcast host and soon-to-be columnist.
Cat’s past is not just a story she tells; it’s the foundation of her mission to empower women entrepreneurs and creatives to embrace their own stories.
When Cat speaks, people listen - captivated by her authentic and moved by her courage to share what most keep hidden. As one event organizer notes, “Hearing Cat’s story changes you. She’s more than a speaker; she’s a spark for change. Once you hear her story, you’ll always remember it.”
With Cat, you’re not just learning how to tell your story; you’re learning how to live boldly and inspire others by simply owning your story and being your true self.
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Are you ready to understand the power in your breathing?
We breathe about 22,000 times a day. Most of the time it’s a natural reflect, but did you know you can connect with your true self just by breathing??
Host, Cat Coley sits down with breathwork and stress management expert Daisy Mack. Daisy, a seasoned sound healer and yoga teacher, shares her compelling journey from the high-pressure world of the music industry to becoming a leader in holistic well-being. Daisy guides us through her journey of overcoming limiting beliefs and finding fulfillment in life’s ever-changing cycles.
Daisy shares how she was able to control her breaking to find stability, embracing fleeting moments and using it as a transformational tool for breaking free of societal norms and expectations.
Episode Highlights:
Daisy discusses her decision to leave the music industry and pursue breathwork as her calling.
Insights on breaking free from limiting beliefs and societal pressures around security and success.
How practicing authenticity and finding your own voice can attract the right opportunities and people into your life.
Are you ready to find your own version of stability and transform not only your business but life through something as simple as breathing???
About Daisy Mack
Daisy Mack, is a true expert in the field. A Breathwork and Stress Management Expert, Sound Healer, and Yoga Teacher, Daisy will empower you to embrace a holistic approach to well-being.
Episodes are a harmonious mix of expert guidance and insightful conversations. Join us on a wellness journey that seamlessly blends ancient techniques with cutting-edge methods backed by the latest science and research.
Explore transformative practices that promote healing and dive into guided techniques, hypnotic breathwork, yoga sessions, meditation practices, and the soothing world of sound healing.
Connect with Daisy Mack
https://www.spiritualmixtape.com/
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Are you surprised that it is already August?!?! How has 2024 just flown by????
Cat Coley reflects on her wins, pivots and growth in her business. Cat takes us on her journey to how we measure progress, areas of improvement and remembering to celebrate your wins along the way.
Cat get honest with you on how to stay resilient in your pursuit for success. Cat shares her success in becoming a columnist through major project delays, even in relaunching Bounce Back Like A BadAss.
If you are a seasoned entrepreneur or a newbie on your business journey, Cat will give your practical insight on navigating growth, staying focused and working hard for your long-term vision!
Episode Highlights:
The power of networking and speaking engagements for business growth.
How unexpected opportunities can align with long-term goals.
Lessons learned from setbacks and the importance of letting go to move forward.
Set yourself up for success and end 2024 by reaching bigger goals while being patient with your progress and self!
About Cat Coley
Cat Coley, a powerhouse of inspiration who turned her lowest point into a launchpad for a life-changing calling as a storytelling coach, keynote speaker, published author, podcast host and soon-to-be columnist.
Cat’s past is not just a story she tells; it’s the foundation of her mission to empower women entrepreneurs and creatives to embrace their own stories.
When Cat speaks, people listen - captivated by her authentic and moved by her courage to share what most keep hidden. As one event organizer notes, “Hearing Cat’s story changes you. She’s more than a speaker; she’s a spark for change. Once you hear her story, you’ll always remember it.”
With Cat, you’re not just learning how to tell your story; you’re learning how to live boldly and inspire others by simply owning your story and being your true self.
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It is time to transform through your power of self-awareness!
Cat Coley chats with Dr. Amanda Tambuyser about how the negative feedback and self-doubt can hold us back in different aspects of our lives, from personal growth to professional success. Dr. Amanda becomes candid about her journey and offers up easy actionable steps to connect you with your inner self, remove negative influences and cultivate true resilience!
Take a deep dive into the importance of self-awareness and overcoming the damaging effect of external opinions and negative self-talk.
Take bigger steps into being UNAPOLOGETICALLY YOU and break-free from self doubt!
Episode Highlights:
Dr. Amanda shares how negative feedback can affect your personal and professional growth.
The importance of removing the negative influences in our lives
Practical steps and tools for developing self-awareness and resilience.
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🎧Produced by Admin Avenger
Unlock your brilliance with your journey to take your business to the next level!
Angelle Sanders sits down with host Cat Coley to talk about career and entrepreneurship. She reflects how she took her growth in the corporate world to build a successful business.
The powerful tools that Angella used for personal and professional development helped her to discover who she is and her purpose to unlock her power. Her story isn’t just about overcoming weaknesses but changing her perspective to achieve bigger goals.
Angelle offers insights on how to take inventory of your decisions and skills to separate emotions from decision making and stay focused on long-term goals.
Time to unlock your own journey to brilliance!
Episode Highlights:
Angelle shares her method of using reflection for personal and professional growth to unlocking brilliance
The importance of a skills inventory in guiding career choices.
Tips for staying focused and avoiding "shiny object syndrome."
About Angelle Sanders
Angelle Sanders is a Career Coach & Resume strategist with 15+ years across corporate technology, business, and product. Having crossed multiple career boundaries in her own career, she now leverages this perspective to coach clients on discovering their value & the Career Marketing Mindset. Applying a strategic mindset to creating job search materials and strategies that showcase their unique value and brand.
Her mission is to empower professionals to market their careers and increase visibility to compete for the jobs they want.
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Want that million dollar business? Systems make that process easier for you!
Cat sits down with Jasmine Bayani, a systems specialist to create a MILLION DOLLAR business! Jasmine shares her journey to launching an e-commerce business to navigate the challenges of growth and competition.
Discover the importance of aligning your business with your values and how systems can create a sustainable business.
Jasmine shares how she conquered the e-commerce space with the necessary system to assist in her business growth. She discusses the pivotal moments that led Jasmine to her entrepreneurial journey.
You will want to gain valuable insights into how to create a successful business that not only will thrive financially but also align with your personal values and desires for that lifestyle you strive for!
Episode Highlights:
Jasmine emphasizes the importance of building a business based on the lifestyle you want to live.
The discussion covers how systems are crucial for long-term business success and scalability.
Jasmine shares her journey of transforming challenges into opportunities for growth and alignment with her values.
Build a brand that is authentically you to building business success!
About Jasmine Bayani
Jasmine Bayani is a versatile digital consultant with a diverse background and six years of experience, having collaborated extensively with seven-figure service-based business owners and small business owners across various industries. Her multidisciplinary education in computer science, web development, psychology, and business from UBC and Langara, combined with self-taught efforts, has equipped her with a robust skill set. She successfully led the marketing department of a Vancouver-based bookkeeping firm, contributing to a $2M acquisition deal with Deloitte and achieving a 50-60% revenue growth for a seven-figure accounting company in Ottawa. Additionally, Jasmine co-founded an e-commerce company focused on promoting women's empowerment, highlighting Philippine culture, and supporting non-profit organizations in the Philippines through brand partnerships and product features from both established and emerging small businesses.
Jasmine's expertise extends to web development, web design, SEO, social media, and email marketing, assisting various marketing clients. Experiencing burnout and job loss during the pandemic prompted her to reconsider her professional purpose, leading to a decision to either climb the corporate ladder or start a business. She sought guidance through prayer, hoping to choose a path that maximizes her ability to help others. Now, her mission is to support online business owners in creating sustainable success through effective systems and strategies, with a current focus on helping CEOs maximize impact, productivity, and profit. As a tech-savvy problem solver, Jasmine is always eager to grow and assist others, welcoming opportunities to connect and provide mentorship or implementation support.
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Cat Coley, your storytelling master, is sharing her framework for you! Through Cat’s personal journey from hitting rock bottom to keynote speaker, shares her storytelling expertise on how to transform your business.
This is valuable information that you have been waiting for! Take the core stories that will truly resonate with your audience and align with your brand.
Being vulnerable and authentic is harder when sharing your story, but Cat makes it easier in this episode. Cat outlines her process; filtering out the core story, crafting your message and connecting with your audience in a deeper level.
You can build trust and create meaningful connections to take your business to the next level!
Episode Highlights:
Discover how to identify your core stories and align them with your business and brand.
Learn the importance of vulnerability and authenticity in storytelling.
Gain practical tips for crafting and sharing your stories to build trust and connect with your audience.
About Cat Coley
Cat Coley, a powerhouse of inspiration who turned her lowest point into a launchpad for a life-changing calling as a storytelling coach, keynote speaker, published author, podcast host and soon-to-be columnist.
Cat’s past is not just a story she tells; it’s the foundation of her mission to empower women entrepreneurs and creatives to embrace their own stories.
When Cat speaks, people listen - captivated by her authentic and moved by her courage to share what most keep hidden. As one event organizer notes, “Hearing Cat’s story changes you. She’s more than a speaker; she’s a spark for change. Once you hear her story, you’ll always remember it.”
With Cat, you’re not just learning how to tell your story; you’re learning how to live boldly and inspire others by simply owning your story and being your true self.
Connect with Cat Coley
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Your brand is your business! You know it!
Cat Coley sits down with Ati Grinsprun to discuss how important it is to build an authentic brand to have a successful business. Ati shares the essentials in personal branding and your need to be clear and consistent with your business offerings.
Ati’s journey showcases lessons she learned from offer to success through genuine connections and authentic recommendations.
If you want to cut the noise and build a truly authentic brand, Cat and Ati have you covered!
Episode Highlights:
The importance of starting with one clear offer and refining it over time.
How authentic, genuine connections lead to strong relationships and referrals.
Practical strategies for maintaining brand clarity and consistency while scaling your business.
Build a brand that is authentically you to building business success!
RESOURCE:
The Profitable Personal Brand Quiz
About Ati Grinspun
Ati is an acclaimed Personal Branding Coach and Photographer specializing in serving dynamic female entrepreneurs who are the soul and face of their business. She is deeply committed to helping women unravel the complexities of online and offline visibility - making it not just manageable but also a thrilling experience to show up authentically.
Passionate about nurturing meaningful connections among female entrepreneurs, Ati serves as a pivotal force in bridging the gap between business success and personal fulfillment. With her infectious energy and keen expertise, she turns the often overwhelming task of personal branding into an exhilarating journey of self discovery and expression.
As the visionary founder of the “Be You Brand Academy”, she has created a transformative platform designed to sky rocket women to new heights in their respective fields. A sought-after speaker and best-selling author, Ati is driven by her profound belief that when women excel in business, they become catalysts for positive change on a global scale.
By empowering women to discover their unique voice, Ati is not building brands - she’s igniting revolutions.
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If your story is holding you back because you are ashamed…Let Cat be the first to tell you…YOU ARE BRAVE!
Cat Coley is here to navigate you through sharing your story and to stop giving a CRAP about other people’s opinions! Cat reflects on her journey from seeking approval to embracing authenticity, using a recent anecdote about wearing a bold neon outfit as a metaphor for her broader evolution.
Cat’s insights on overcoming the fear of judgment and the importance of being true to oneself. She recounts her past tendency to share only the palatable parts of her story and the pivotal moment that led her to embrace full transparency. Addressing the impact of negative comments on her entrepreneurial journey and how she transformed these experiences into valuable lessons in resilience.
Your story is unique and worthy of being told!
“Those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.” ~ Dr. Seuss
Episode Highlights:
Cat discusses her shift from seeking approval to embracing authenticity.
Cat shares a personal anecdote about wearing a bright neon outfit despite potential judgment.
Cat emphasizes the value of sharing your full story, including the difficult parts, to inspire and help others.
RESOURCES:
What is your blueprint? Were you raised to become a doctor? Maybe the corporate world shook up your life allowing you to pivot off the known path…
Cat Coley sits down with Jeanette Cefre, a Content Activation Coach explore how her journey from corporate baddie to empowering entrepreneur. Jeanette candidly shares pivotal moments and insights that shaped her path, highlighting the importance of finding one's zone of genius, embracing challenges, and staying true to personal and professional aspirations.
Jeanette Cefre emphasizes the significance of aligning passion with purpose, particularly in empowering women and communities, including her commitment to supporting women in the Philippines. Her reflections on pricing strategies and the intersection of personal and professional growth offer actionable insights for aspiring entrepreneurs navigating similar paths.
Episode Highlights:
Discover Jeanette Cefre's transformative journey from corporate professional to empowered entrepreneur.
Gain insights into aligning passion with purpose and overcoming self-doubt.
Learn practical tips on pricing strategies and integrating personal values into business endeavors.
Embrace your journey, overcome challenges, and uncover your true purpose in both life and business!
About Jeanette Cefre
After 30+ years in the corporate world of travel tech, Jeanette found her blueprint for life taking an unexpected yet fulfilling turn. Corporate life was stable, rewarding and she even managed to carve her own niche of expertise without a formal degree. Her self-taught skills and innovation approaches elevated her responsibilities, but one thing truly gave her a sense of purpose of helping women be seen.
When the pandemic shook the foundation of companies globally, Jeanette saw it was a chance to realign her life’s blueprint. She left her corporate role and drove her passion for helping women to be seen. Conquering her own fears and self-doubt, she committed to guiding women on their first steps in entrepreneurship.
As a Content Activation Coach and Mentor, Jeanette helps women solopreneurs & intrapreneurs alike to overcome content barriers, develop sustainable systems, and enhance their visibility. Her mission is to increase the number of successful women entrepreneurs globally.
Connect with Jeanette
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Are you scared to share your story? What if your story could help save someone? Or help them to feel less alone?
Cat Coley shares the art and significance of storytelling, especially for business owners. Drawing from her extensive experience conducting workshops, Cat provides invaluable advice on how to authentically and effectively share personal stories to enhance business messaging. She addresses common questions about the right time to share, the relevance of stories to one's brand, and handling potential negative reactions.
Cat highlights the necessity for stories to align with one's brand and provide value to the audience, rather than being shared for mere attention. She offers encouragement and practical tips for navigating judgment and criticism, reassuring listeners that their stories can inspire and empower others.
Episode Highlights:
Timing Your Story: Understanding when you're ready to share your story from a place of healing rather than ongoing pain.
Relevance to Brand: Ensuring your story aligns with your brand and provides genuine value to your audience.
Handling Reactions: Preparing for diverse reactions and focusing on the positive impact your story can have on those who resonate with it.
Obtain the essentials of impactful storytelling to help you connect authentically with your audience. Turn your experiences into a powerful business tool!
Are you navigating your own healing journey? Struggling to find footing?
In this heartfelt episode Cat Coley sits down with Paulina Bucka, a resilient and inspiring entrepreneur who shares her journey of healing, growth, and self-discovery. Paulina opens up about the struggles and triumphs she has faced, offering valuable insights on forgiveness, overcoming trauma, and finding strength in vulnerability.
Cat and Paulina delve into the complexities of personal growth and the transformative power of forgiveness. Paulina candidly discusses her 13-year journey of dealing with trauma and how she has learned to appreciate both the dark and light aspects of her experiences. She emphasizes the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive people and cutting out those who hinder personal progress. Through her story, Paulina illustrates that healing is not linear and that embracing failures and triggers can lead to profound growth and resilience.
Episode Highlights:
Paulina's 13-year journey of dealing with trauma and the complexities of forgiveness.
The importance of surrounding oneself with supportive people and cutting out negative influences.
Embracing failures and triggers as opportunities for growth and resilience.
An inspirational story to healing and navigating a path to thriving with small steps in the right direction.
About Paulina Bucka
Paulina Bucka, a 2x Emmy Award Winning Journalist, spent 9 years in television news, covering the nation's biggest breaking news stories; Elections, Covid, Brianna, Taylor Riots, Atomic Fallout, Water Crisis, etc.
Paulina is now CEO of Renegade Media helping to provide local business with social media management.
Connect with Marlie
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Cat Coley takes a deep dive into the pervasive issue of imposter syndrome. Drawing from her personal experiences and expert insights, Cat unpacks what imposter syndrome is, why so many of us struggle with it, and how to effectively combat it.
Cat delves into the roots of imposter syndrome, discussing how societal pressures and personal expectations can contribute to feelings of inadequacy. She shares actionable strategies for challenging negative self-talk, building self-awareness, and celebrating achievements.
Be prepared to obtain practical advice and motivational tips to help you overcome that little voice saying you can’t!
Claim back your confidence!
Episode Highlights:
Understand the origins and effects of imposter syndrome on our personal and professional lives
Gain practical strategies for overcoming negative self-talk and building self-awareness.
Learn the value of seeking support from a community to bolster self-confidence.
Overcome imposter syndrome and embrace your true potential!
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🎧Produced by Admin Avenger
Cat Coley is back! Bounce Back Like A Badass is BACK!
Kicking off Season 2, Cat sits down with Marlie Engel Traver to discuss her inspiring transition from a corporate PR rep to a successful cottage country baker with a thriving business. Marlie shares her journey from handling an overwhelming array of cake designs to focusing on exquisite wedding cakes. She opens up about her recent transition to primarily designing wedding cakes and the exciting community engagements she’s involved in, including local pop-ups and farmers' market appearances. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone considering a career pivot and highlights the importance of trusting your gut and embracing the journey, including the mistakes.
Marlie discusses the challenges of managing a diverse menu of cake offerings and how she decided to niche down to wedding cakes, creating a streamlined process for her clients. She also talks about her efforts to engage with the local community through pop-up events and her new regular spot at the local farmers' market. Cat and Marlie delve into the importance of trusting one's intuition and navigating the overwhelming amount of advice on social media.
If you are on your entrepreneurial journey, this conversation is for YOU! Filled with practical advice and inspiring anecdotes!
Episode Highlights:
Marlie Engel transitions to focusing on wedding cake designs and engages with the local community through pop-ups and farmers' markets.
The importance of trusting your intuition amid the overload of opinions, especially from social media.
Embracing the journey of entrepreneurship, including learning from mistakes and starting from a different place.
Tune in to hear Marlie's inspiring story and gain insights into navigating career transitions and entrepreneurial challenges.
About Marlie Engel Traver
Marlie, a cake artist specializing in elegant and delicious wedding cakes that are designed and made from her home, a licensed cottage bakery, in Northern, NJ.
Marlie’s passion lies with creating cakes that are little slices of edible art - designed uniquely for you - to share your story, and your taste. She loves exploring texture, playing with color and adorning her cakes with beautiful hand painted flowers.
The cakes Marlie creates are much more than dessert - they are a precious memory shared between you, your partner and your loved ones, on one incredible day in your life.
Connect with Marlie
🎙️Host Cat Coley
🎧Produced by Admin Avenger
Why fix what's not broken?
When I first started this podcast it was an outlet to share my story. I had spent nearly 3 years in silence - most of the time dealing with the aftermath of my consequences in my own head. A lot of it was due to the shame of what had transpired and the other part was that there were other people involved and sharing my story would mean that I partially shared theirs too.
I figured that the events that took place would eventually fade into the background and I could resume my life and try to get back to some sort of normalcy. But as we've all collectively seen in the last couple of years when we experience a big shift in our day to day - it's difficult to return back to "normal". Getting back to the subject of going back to basics, in the 40 episodes I've produced of this podcast, I can see how I've shifted the conversation away from my life and more into business. If you've listened to earlier episodes I often share that during the most difficult times in my life, I learned and became really good at compartmentalizing. This served me very well, as some of the events that happened would bring me to my knees each time I would dare to take the lid off. As time passed, it seemed best to just keep swimming ahead and not deal with the things I kept closed off.
But, as you may already know, what we don't deal with has a way of showing back up in the most unexpected ways and times. Putting our heads in the sand and pretending doesn't do us or those around us any favors. This became more and more apparent in my coaching business as a lot of my clients have dealt with their own setbacks - and were experiencing feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and unable to move past a stage in their business (and thus life) that they've wanted to get past for years. So, it was during the coaching calls that I began to share more details of my own experiences (beyond what I've shared publicly) and in sharing real and raw situations, my clients would experience one big "aha" moment after another...This was a lightbulb moment for me!
I realized once again (did I mention I'm a bit stubborn?), that a lot of what we go through in life and business are universal. It may not involve the same situations, but the feelings and emotions that we experience are usually very similar. So, just because my rock bottom was going to prison, going through a divorce, overwhelming guilt of missing a significant part of my daughter's early years, losing friends, jobs, trust, credibility, not to mention feeling shame, embarrassment, and so on (if you're new here you may want to listen to the first few episodes to get caught up :), doesn't mean that we didn't experience and share similar emotions while you were going through your own setback. Guilt is guilt. Shame is shame. Regret is regret...no matter how we arrived at those emotional gates.
In all of this, here's one thing I've learned about myself (and those I'm lucky enough to work with) is that I/we are RESILIENT. And so, this brings me back to the podcast and that although I want to talk about business (cause I'm just so damn passionate about what I get to do), I also want to share more about my experiences so that even if you're not a client of mine, that maybe just maybe, you'll also experience your own "aha" moments and it will help you in some way too!
Here's what one new listener sent me after recently finding my podcast:
"....I am deeply touched by your story and thank you for sharing such intimate details. What you went through was really not for you, it was for us. Your testimony has healed me more than any doctor's prescription could have."...
So while this podcast isn’t broken, I know in my heart that going back to why I started it is important, not necessarily for me but for those that I know, it will help. So get ready for more stories that need to be shared! xx Cat
