🎙 In this special 'From the Vault' episode, Douglas Vigliotti invites you on a journey of personal growth and personal change through his reflective essay, 'A Letter to Love.' This unique episode explores the impact of literature on love, as Douglas pens a heartfelt letter to love itself—questioning how stories shape our understanding of this powerful emotion. As Douglas revisits this piece amidst significant personal changes and growth in his own life, he reveals the oversized role that stories and literature play in how we experience love. If you're interested in how personal change intersects with the stories we tell ourselves—and the influence of books and media on our perceptions of love—this episode is for you. (Original pub date: 2/14/20) ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 📖 Read the original article: Morning After #7 - A Letter to Love! 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction and Book Promotion (00:09) - Douglas introduces the episode, mentions his "Morning After" column, and promotes his book "Aristotle for Novelists." • Life Changes and Alcohol Reflection (01:12) - Douglas discusses relocating to Manhattan and reflects on his three-year abstinence from alcohol and possible reintroduction. • The Role of Alcohol and Personal Growth (02:27) - He explores the trade-offs of abstaining from alcohol, the importance of balance, and societal trends toward sobriety. • Origins of the "Morning After" Column (03:39) - Douglas explains the inspiration behind his "Morning After" column and how his views on alcohol and creativity have evolved. • Revisiting Old Writings and the Power of Stories (05:06) - He shares his discomfort with rereading old work, but notes some pieces still resonate, especially regarding the impact of stories. • Love, Literature, and Podcast Themes (06:30) - Douglas connects recent podcast themes—love, loss, relationships—to the upcoming reading of "A Letter to Love." • Reading: "A Letter to Love" (07:49) - He reads his reflective piece, questioning the true nature of love versus its portrayal in stories and media. • Closing Remarks and Listener Engagement (09:07) - Douglas wraps up, encourages subscribing, shares contact info, and promotes his book and newsletter.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into Hattie Williams’ debut novel, "Bitter Sweet," ahead of its July 2025 release. Douglas unpacks the story of Charlie, a young book publicist at a London publishing house entangled with a famous, much older, married novelist, and the complexities of her emotional journey. He highlights the novel’s themes of grief, loss, desire, power asymmetry, and the addictive nature of love and forbidden fruit, praising Williams’ intimate and vulnerable writing style and encouraging male listeners to sprinkle in more women’s fiction for one very specific reason. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 📖 Read Hattie's Substack on Complicated Men! 🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to this one: #178: Big Swiss | Jen Beagin! 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to the Episode and Book Announcement (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, announces "Bitter Sweet" by Hattie Williams, and mentions his own book. • About the Author: Hattie Williams (01:12) - Background on Hattie Williams, her artistic journey, and connection to the host. • Context of "Difficult Men" and Book’s Male Lead (02:33) - Comparison of Hattie's writing on complicated men to the book’s male character, Richard Aveling. • Book Overview and Main Characters (03:42) - Summary of the plot, protagonist Charlie, and the relationship with Richard Aveling. • Charlie's Emotional Journey and Addiction Analogy (04:59) - Exploration of Charlie’s emotional struggles and the addictive nature of her relationship. • Takeaways: Opening Scene and Writing Style (06:01) - Host discusses the novel’s cinematic opening and praises Hattie’s intimate, vulnerable prose. • Value of Women’s Fiction for Male Readers (07:14) - Reflection on the importance of men reading women’s fiction to understand different perspectives. • Complexity of Emotions and Power Dynamics (08:28) - Discussion of Charlie’s conflicted feelings, performance in relationships, and power asymmetry. • Relatability and Human Nature (09:49) - Host shares a favorite quote, relating to universal human experiences and the allure of the forbidden. • Desire, Comfort, and Central Conflict (11:00) - Analysis of the novel’s central theme: the tension between risk/desire and comfort/safety. • Bittersweet Aesthetic and Episode Wrap-Up (12:19) - Reflection on the meaning of "bittersweet" and closing remarks, including how to connect with the host.

🎙 Discover the keys to personal growth in this episode as Douglas Vigliotti unpacks Phil Stutz’s transformative book, 'True and False Magic.' Dive deep into Stutz’s core philosophy—embracing pain, uncertainty, and constant work, known as the three absolutes of human life—and learn how these principles can help you create real magic in your own life. Douglas shares powerful, actionable insights from the book, explores the role of faith and belief, and explains why choosing creativity over competition leads to a more meaningful and authentic existence. Whether you’re seeking lasting change or practical self-help strategies, this episode will inspire you to face discomfort, embrace uncertainty, and commit to ongoing personal growth. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 🗣️ Listen to episode #165: Tom Collins | Douglas Vigliotti! 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction and Book Promotion (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast, promotes his new book, and sets up the episode’s focus. • About Phil Stutz and His Work (01:13) - Background on Phil Stutz, his career, previous books, and his unconventional approach to therapy. • Overview of "True and False Magic" (02:22) - Description of the book’s style, co-author, and introduction to Stutz’s three absolutes: pain, uncertainty, constant work. • Stutz’s Core Philosophy and Creativity (03:34) - Explains Stutz’s philosophy on action, creativity, belief, and the importance of creating something from nothing. • Faith, Belief, and Spirituality (05:00) - Discussion on the necessity of belief in something beyond oneself and the role of spirituality in Stutz’s approach. • Facing Avoidance: Fear and Laziness (06:26) - Explores avoidance, its roots in fear and laziness, and the concept of “eating the death cookie.” • Proactive Therapy and Taking Action (07:40) - Contrasts Stutz’s proactive therapy with traditional psychotherapy, emphasizing motion and directness. • Universe One vs. Universe Two (09:25) - Introduces Stutz’s concepts of universe one (competition) and universe two (creation), and their implications. • The Need for Constant Work (10:37) - Discusses the illusion of comfort, the necessity of ongoing effort, and the infinite nature of meaningful work. • Pain and Self-Deception (12:02) - Addresses the inevitability of pain, self-deception, and the importance of building tolerance for discomfort. • Uncertainty and the Power of Faith (13:27) - Explores uncertainty, the limits of logic, and the value of choosing faith over doubt. • Conclusion and Listener Reminders (14:48) - Wraps up the episode, encourages feedback, and provides information on how to connect and learn more.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores "We the Animals" by Justin Torres, a coming-of-age novel that tackles the intricate themes of family, identity, and personal growth. Douglas sheds light on the author’s background and the book's narrative, which follows a young protagonist as he navigates complex family dynamics and his emerging sexuality. With a focus on the book's emotional depth and minimalist storytelling, Douglas shares his reflections, inviting listeners to join the conversation and embrace the subtle richness of literary fiction. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 🗣️ Listen to episode #95: Miles from Nowhere | Nami Mun! 🗣️ Listen to episode #244: 'Reasons to Live'—Why What Isn't There Is Just as Important as What Is! 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to "We the Animals" (00:09) - Douglas introduces the book "We the Animals" and its themes of family and identity. • Author Background (01:17) - Discussion on Justin Torres, his writing career, and his connection to the book. • Book's Adaptation (02:31) - Mention of the indie film adaptation of "We the Animals" released in 2017. • Themes of the Story (03:36) - Exploration of the book's themes of family life, childhood longing, and the protagonist's coming out. • Complexity of Emotion (05:00) - Insight into the emotional complexities in the story, compared to works by Amy Hempel. • Growth is Painful (06:13) - Discussion on the protagonist's painful journey of growth and self-discovery. • Meaning of the Title (08:51) - Analysis of the title "We the Animals" and its symbolic significance in the narrative. • Closing Remarks (10:24) - Douglas encourages listeners to subscribe, rate the podcast, and connect with him.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti delves into Daniel Kahneman's influential nonfiction book, "Thinking, Fast and Slow." Vigliotti outlines Kahneman's background and his pioneering work in behavioral economics, including his Nobel Prize-winning prospect theory. The episode explores key concepts from the book, such as the two systems of thinking—fast, intuitive System 1 and slow, deliberate System 2—and various cognitive biases and heuristics that shape human decision-making. Tune in to learn why you think the way you do. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 🗣️ Listen to episode #148: From the Vault | A Chat with Annie Duke (Part 1)! 🗣️ Listen to episode #149: From the Vault | A Chat with Annie Duke (Part 2)! 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to the Podcast (00:09) - Overview of the podcast's purpose and introduction to the book "Thinking, Fast and Slow." • Author Introduction (01:12) - Discussion of Daniel Kahneman's background and his significant contributions to behavioral economics. • Kahneman's Achievements (02:16) - Highlighting Kahneman's Nobel Prize and Presidential Medal of Freedom awards. • Overview of the Book (03:27) - Explaining the main concepts of "Thinking, Fast and Slow" and its two systems of thinking. • Strengths and Weaknesses of Thinking (04:51) -0 Exploration of how the two thinking systems shape decision-making and judgments. • Heuristics, Biases, and Effects (05:48) - Introduction to the twelve heuristics, biases, and effects discussed in the book. • Focusing Illusion (06:16) - Description of the cognitive bias of overestimating the importance of single factors in happiness. • WYSIATI (06:16) - Explanation of the "what you see is all there is" concept and its implications. • Loss Aversion (07:24) - Discussion on the pain of losing versus the pleasure of gaining. • Endowment Effect (07:24) - Explaining the tendency to overvalue owned items. • Diminishing Sensitivity (07:24) - Impact of gains and losses diminishing as sizes increase. • Reference Dependence (08:52) - Need for references in decision-making based on current state versus absolute. • Probability Weighting (08:52) - Overvaluing rare events while underestimating common ones. • Sunk Cost Fallacy (09:51) - Tendency to continue investing in losing propositions due to prior commitments. • Anchoring Bias (10:17) - Overvaluing the first piece of information received in decision-making. • Confirmation Bias (10:17) - Tendency to seek information that confirms existing beliefs. • Framing Effect (10:17) - How the presentation of choices influences decisions. • Overconfidence Bias (11:23) - Tendency to overestimate personal abilities and knowledge. • Hindsight Bias (11:23) - Belief that outcomes were predictable after they have occurred. • Closing Thoughts and Quotes (12:34) - Final reflections on Kahneman's insights and the importance of storytelling in persuasion. • Podcast Engagement (13:40) - Encouragement to subscribe, rate the podcast, and provide feedback.

🎙 In this Special Edition episode, Douglas Vigliotti unveils his book selection and curation process, sharing insights into his reading habits, the methodology behind his recommendations, and the importance of a "consumption diet" for mental health. Douglas outlines three pillars for curating his reading list, shares his reading statistics from the last five years and current "to be read" list, and encourages listener feedback and suggestions for future Special Edition episodes. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 🗣️ Listen to episode #182: Special Edition | Part 2: 10 Reasons to Read (Fiction)! 🗣️ Listen to episode #202: Special Edition: Audiobooks vs Books (Or, 7 Reasons Why Listening is Not Reading)! 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the special edition episode about his book selection and curation process. • Encouragement for Listener Engagement (00:40) - He invites listeners to share questions and suggestions for improving the podcast. • Promotion of New Book (01:26) - Douglas discusses his new book, "Aristotle for Novelists," and its relevance to storytelling. • Importance of Curation (02:35) - He emphasizes the significance of being intentional about what one consumes in literature and media. • Reading Deficit Concept (02:35) - Douglas explains the idea of a perpetual reading deficit and its implications for readers. • Consumption Diet (02:35) - He introduces the concept of a "consumption diet," stressing the importance of quality input. • Intimacy of Reading (03:47) - Douglas highlights the unique intimacy of reading compared to other media forms. • Methodology Behind Recommendations (05:03) - He asserts that he only recommends books he has read in their entirety. • Curating Reading Choices (06:10) - Douglas outlines his three pillars for curating reading material: interest, adjacency, and relationships. • Interest as a Pillar of Curation (06:10) - He discusses how personal interests guide his reading choices. • Adjacent Interests (08:30) - Douglas explains how books related to his interests help expand his knowledge and understanding. • Relationships in Book Selection (09:52) - He talks about the importance of trusting recommendations from others and authors. • Statistics on Reading Habits (12:05) - Douglas shares his reading statistics for 2023 and previous years, including books read and DNFs. • Current To Be Read List (15:16) - He concludes with details about his current "to be read" list and its significance. • Closing Remarks (16:27) - Douglas encourages listener feedback and promotes his new book and social media.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives deep into Leo Tolstoy's timeless masterpiece, "Anna Karenina." Discover why Tolstoy stands as a giant in Russian literature as Douglas unpacks the novel's rich themes, from the fiery pursuit of passion to the comforting embrace of duty. Journey through the contrasting tales of Anna's tumultuous affair and Konstantin Levin's search for joy in family life. Douglas offers insightful reflections on the novel's complex characters and sprawling narrative style, hopefully inspiring men to explore the world of classic literature. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 🗣️ Listen to episode #141: The Godfather | Mario Puzo! 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to "Anna Karenina" (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast episode and discusses the classic novel "Anna Karenina" by Leo Tolstoy. • About the Author (01:13) - An overview of Leo Tolstoy's life and literary contributions, emphasizing his influence and notable works. • Setting and Narrative Structure (02:20) - Discussion about the novel's setting in Russia and its narrative told from multiple character perspectives. • Iconic Opening Line (03:29) - Exploration of the famous opening line of "Anna Karenina" and its thematic significance regarding family dynamics. • Character Arcs: Anna and Levin (04:49) - Analysis of the two main character arcs, contrasting Anna's tragic story with Levin's comedic journey. • Tolstoy's Architectural Pride (06:01) - Tolstoy's reflections on the internal cohesion of "Anna Karenina" and the structure of the narrative. • Takeaway: Passion vs. Duty (07:22) - Discussion on the novel's message about the consequences of following passion versus the importance of duty. • Narrative Style: Omniscient Perspective (08:33) - Examination of Tolstoy's omniscient narrative style and its impact on character development and reader experience. • Character Complexity and Themes (09:46) - Insight into the unlikability of characters and the deeper themes of morality, relationships, and societal expectations. • Cohesion in Style and Theme (11:03) - Reflection on how the narrative style enhances the themes and messages Tolstoy conveys in the novel. • Length and Approachability of Epics (12:18) - Discussion on the pros and cons of lengthy novels and their accessibility to modern readers. • Conclusion and Encouragement (13:25) - Douglas concludes the episode, encouraging listeners to read "Anna Karenina" and engage with classic literature.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores Eric Hoffer's thought-provoking nonfiction book, "The True Believer." Uncover the secrets of extremism, fanaticism, and mass movements as Douglas unravels Hoffer's life and aphoristic writing style, showcasing the book's timeless relevance and lasting influence on political thought. Discover Hoffer's intriguing insights on hope, the power of collective unity, the role of individual responsibility, and the value of a common enemy in driving mass movements. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to the Podcast (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast and the book "The True Believer" by Eric Hoffer. • Background on Eric Hoffer (01:08) - Discussion on Hoffer's life, his journey as a longshoreman, and his writing career. • Overview of "The True Believer" (02:09) - Exploration of the book's themes on extremism, fanaticism, and mass movements. • Thesis of the Book (03:40) - Hoffer's argument that all mass movements share similarities despite their differences. • Controversy and Reception (05:08) - Discussion on the varied reactions to Hoffer's ideas and the book's influence in political circles. • Historical Context (06:21) - How the book relates to historical events like WWII and revolutions. • Takeaways on Hoffer's Writing Style (07:27) - Analysis of Hoffer's aphoristic and provocative writing style. • Importance of Understanding Mass Movements (08:37) - The relevance of Hoffer's insights to contemporary political dynamics. • Key Quotes from Hoffer (09:58) - Sharing impactful quotes that illustrate Hoffer's ideas on hope and mass movements. • The Role of Hatred in Mass Movements (11:20) - Discussion on Hoffer's assertion that hatred is essential for unifying mass movements. • Collective Unity vs. Individual Independence (12:36) - Exploration of Hoffer's views on loyalty within mass movements. • Conclusion and Final Thoughts (13:48) - Douglas wraps up the episode, encouraging listener engagement and promoting his new book.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the gripping world of Nicolas Ferraro's foreign crime novel, "My Favorite Scar." Originally published in 2021 and making its English debut in 2024, the story follows Ambar, a young girl entangled in a life of crime with her father, as she navigates trauma and personal growth. Vigliotti praises Ferraro's lean style and emphasis on the emotional journey of his protagonist, and he shares why foreign fiction can be a refreshing contrast to American fiction. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 🗣️ Listen to episode #101: The Thief | Fuminori Nakamura! 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast and the foreign crime novel "My Favorite Scar" by Nicolas Ferraro. • Author Background (01:13) - Discussion about Nicolas Ferraro, his literary background, and his connection to crime fiction. • Plot Overview (02:16) - Summary of the novel's plot focusing on Amber's life of crime and her father's quest for revenge. • Themes of Coming of Age (03:32) - Exploration of the coming-of-age theme and its significance in Amber's journey. • Questions of Identity and Truth (04:45) - Key questions Amber faces about her past and the cost of discovering the truth. • Thematic Depth of Trauma (06:20) - Discussion on how trauma influences personal growth and the narrative's deeper themes. • Appreciation for Foreign Crime Fiction (07:27) - Douglas shares his love for foreign crime fiction and its refreshing absence of political bias. • Literary Style and Minimalism (08:42) - Insights on the minimalistic style of foreign crime fiction compared to American counterparts. • Comparison to Other Works (10:06) - Comparison of "My Favorite Scar" to "She Ride Shotgun," emphasizing its literary focus. • Conclusion and Call to Action (11:26) - Douglas wraps up the episode, encouraging listeners to read the book and engage with the podcast.

🎙 In this Special Edition episode, Douglas Vigliotti shares "10 Random Quotes That Will Inspire You to Create Boldly." He presents impactful quotes from influential figures like Leonard Bernstein, Francis Ford Coppola, and Jerry Seinfeld, discussing their relevance to the creative process. Vigliotti emphasizes the importance of embracing creativity, persistence, and authenticity. The episode aims to inspire listeners to pursue their creative passions boldly. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 🗣️ Listen to episode #183: Owning Up | George Pelecanos! 🗣️ Listen to episode #134: Is This Anything? | Jerry Seinfeld! 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to Special Edition (00:09) - Douglas introduces a special edition episode featuring ten quotes to inspire creativity. • New Book Announcement (00:40) - He mentions his new book, "Aristotle for Novelists," and invites listeners to visit the website. • Note-Taking Habit (01:19) - Douglas shares his habit of taking notes and collecting quotes from various media. • Quote 1: Steve Guttenberg (02:33) - Guttenberg discusses the ruthless nature of show business through a humorous anecdote. • Quote 2: Francis Ford Coppola (03:54) - Coppola emphasizes that not everyone will appreciate bold creativity, paired with Rubin's insights. • Quote 3: Rick Rubin (04:56) - Rubin highlights how initial dislike can lead to appreciation for groundbreaking work. • Quote 4: Leonard Bernstein (06:35) - Bernstein states that art provokes questions rather than providing answers, emphasizing artistic tension. • Quote 5: Willem Dafoe (07:55) - Dafoe remarks that the work itself is what sustains an artist, not financial rewards. • Quote 6: George Pelecanos (09:13) - Pelecanos critiques audience demands, using pornography as a metaphor for storytelling constraints. • Quote 7: David Geffen (10:42) - Geffen reflects on self-invention and the importance of dreaming big in personal reinvention. • Quote 8: Derek Sivers (11:16) - Sivers asserts that mastery is earned through hard work, unaffected by wealth or privilege. • Quote 9: Tom Wolfe (12:04) - Wolfe suggests that receiving hate is an indicator of pushing artistic boundaries. • Quote 10: Jerry Seinfeld (12:54) - Seinfeld shares advice on embracing failure in creative endeavors to maintain authenticity. • Bonus Quote: David Chase (13:09) - Chase discusses the persistence needed in the creative process before achieving success. • Conclusion and Call to Action (14:17) - Douglas wraps up the episode, encouraging subscriptions and sharing thoughts on the podcast.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti delves into the nonfiction anthology "Letters of Note: Correspondence Deserving of a Wider Audience," compiled by Sean Usher. Vigliotti highlights the anthology's significance, featuring letters from writers, artists, and historical figures like Hunter S. Thompson, Ernest Hemingway, Albert Einstein, and Queen Elizabeth. He shares his connection to the book and discusses some of his favorite quotes and passages, underscoring the value of personal letters in providing historical context. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to the Book (00:09) - Douglas introduces the nonfiction anthology "Letters of Note" and its significance. • About the Compiler (01:15) - Discussion about Sean Usher, the compiler of the anthology, and his blog's popularity. • Personal Connection to the Book (02:34) - Douglas shares his reasons for picking up the book, highlighting letters from Hunter S. Thompson and Hemingway. • Genre of the Anthology (03:40) - Exploration of the anthology genre and the value of firsthand accounts in understanding history. • Notable Letters in the Book (04:57) - Overview of various interesting letters included in the anthology, featuring famous figures. • Sharing Passages and Quotes (07:09) - Douglas begins sharing impactful quotes from the letters, starting with Hunter S. Thompson. • Hemingway's Advice to Fitzgerald (08:09) - Discussion of Hemingway's letter and his thoughts on authenticity in writing. • Bukowski on Censorship (09:20) - Insight into Bukowski's views on censorship and the importance of confronting reality. • Flannery O'Connor on Fiction (10:33) - Flannery O'Connor's perspective on the interpretation of fiction and its emotional impact. • Kurt Vonnegut on Free Ideas (11:43) - Vonnegut's quote emphasizing the importance of allowing diverse ideas to circulate in society. • Steinbeck's Letter to His Son (12:50) - Steinbeck's heartfelt advice about young love and the importance of patience. • Rainer Maria Rilke's Writing Advice (12:50) - Rilke's encouragement to delve deep into one's motivations for writing. • Ronald Reagan's Marriage Advice (14:22) - Reagan's reflections on the challenges of maintaining love and attraction in a long-term relationship. • Conclusion and Call to Action (15:28) - Douglas wraps up the episode, encouraging listeners to subscribe and engage with the podcast.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores Liz Moore's crime fiction novel, "The God of the Woods." Vigliotti provides an overview of the book's plot, which centers on the mysterious disappearance of a young girl at a summer camp and her little brother, who disappeared years earlier. He delves into the novel’s themes of trauma, loss, entitlement, wealth, power, and family secrets, praising Moore's craftsmanship and highlighting her clear prose and effective use of dual timelines and point of view. Listen and weigh in! ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast and shares details about the crime fiction book "The God of the Woods." • Promotion of Personal Book (01:18) - He discusses his own book, "Aristotle for Novelists," aimed at writers and storytellers. • Author Background (02:24) - Douglas provides insights into Liz Moore's writing career and her transition from literary to crime fiction. • Plot Overview of "The God of the Woods" (03:34) - He summarizes the book's plot about a missing girl and its dual timeline structure. • Themes of the Book (04:45) - Douglas discusses the themes of trauma, family secrets, and the value of nature in the narrative. • Craftsmanship in Writing (05:56) - He highlights Liz Moore's writing style, emphasizing clarity and technical skill. • Technical Aspects of the Novel (07:13) - Douglas admires the book's structure, including multiple points of view and short scenes. • Protagonist and Central Thread (09:36) - He identifies Barbara van La as the central protagonist and discusses her significance in the story. • Meaning of the Title (10:44) - Douglas reflects on how the title "The God of the Woods" gains deeper meaning throughout the book. • Conclusion and Call to Action (11:59) - He wraps up the episode, encouraging listeners to subscribe and share their thoughts.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses "Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence" by Dr. Anna Lembke, unraveling the intricate ties between dopamine addiction, mental health, and its outsized influence on our daily lives. Vigliotti breaks down Lembke's innovative "DOPAMINE" strategy for achieving balance, beating addiction, and breaking bad habits, and shares his own journey as a self-described pleasure junkie, offering tons of insights for navigating a 24/7 connected world brimming with distractions and indulgences. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to the Book (00:09) - Douglas introduces the book "Dopamine Nation" and its significance in understanding addiction. • Douglas's New Book (01:23) - He briefly discusses his book "Aristotle for Novelists" and its relevance to storytelling. • About Anna Lembke (02:23) - Douglas shares background information on the author, Anna Lembke, and her previous work. • Importance of the Book (03:25) - He emphasizes the book's importance for achieving better mental health in modern society. • Personal Reflection on Addiction (04:33) - Douglas reflects on his own struggles with pleasure and the concept of false idols. • Dopamine Addiction in Society (06:06) - He discusses how modern life is filled with dopamine stimuli and its societal implications. • Insights from Anna Lembke (07:17) - Douglas shares anecdotes from Lemke's life that illustrate her experiences with addiction. • The DOPAMINE Strategy (08:27) - He outlines the acronym "DOPAMINE" as a strategy for achieving balance and understanding addiction. • Data Collection (09:45) - The first step in the DOPAMINE strategy emphasizes gathering information about one's addiction. • Setting Objectives (09:45) - Douglas explains the importance of defining goals related to abstinence or moderation. • Identifying Problems (09:45) - He discusses exploring challenges associated with addictive behaviors. • The Importance of Abstinence (09:45) - The role of abstinence in resetting the brain's dopamine levels is highlighted. • Mindfulness Practice (11:01) - Douglas stresses the need for mindfulness in recognizing triggers and cravings. • Gaining Insight (11:01) - He discusses addressing underlying issues that contribute to addictive behaviors. • Next Steps in Recovery (12:29) - Douglas emphasizes the importance of planning for coping mechanisms and relapse strategies. • Experimentation in Recovery (12:29) - He talks about testing different strategies for moderation and viewing setbacks positively. • Conclusion and Disclaimer (13:37) - Douglas wraps up the episode, reminding listeners to seek medical help for addiction.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti delves into Bret Easton Ellis's novel "American Psycho" and its film adaptation by Mary Harron for another edition of “Novel vs Movie”. He discusses the book's themes, controversies, and the challenges of translating its provocative narrative to the screen. Vigliotti emphasizes the importance of understanding satire and metaphor, particularly in relation to the character Patrick Bateman. The episode aims to inspire men to read, appreciate the deeper layers of literature and film, and answer the question: which is better the movie or the novel? ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to "American Psycho" (00:09) - Douglas introduces the episode's focus on "American Psycho" and its film adaptation. • Douglas's New Book Announcement (01:07) - He shares details about his book "Aristotle for Novelists" and its relevance to storytelling. • Bret Easton Ellis's Background (02:14) - Discussion of Ellis's rise to fame and his controversial novel "Less Than Zero." • Controversy Surrounding "American Psycho" (03:27) - Exploration of the novel's controversial themes and the film adaptation's reception. • Plot Overview of "American Psycho" (04:25) - Douglas summarizes the story and its central question regarding Patrick Bateman's reality. • Artistic Controversy and Adaptation (05:40) - Discussion on the artistic differences between the book and its adaptation by Mary Harron. • Themes of Satire and Metaphor (08:12) - Douglas emphasizes the importance of understanding satire in "American Psycho." • Critique of Literal Interpretations (09:52) - He warns against taking the story literally, highlighting the metaphorical nature of great art. • Art's Reflection on Society (10:56) - Discussion on how "American Psycho" addresses capitalism and its effects on society. • Preference for Film Over Novel (11:58) - Douglas reveals his preference for the movie adaptation over the novel. • Favorite Quote from the Book (13:06) - He shares a memorable quote that encapsulates the core question of the novel. • Closing Remarks and Call to Action (14:14) - Douglas encourages listeners to subscribe, rate the podcast, and engage with him online.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses Gertrude Stein's "The Autobiography of Alice B. Toklas,” highlighting Stein's life, her literary contributions, and the vibrant artistic community of early 20th-century Paris. Vigliotti delves into the book's unique perspective, written from Toklas's viewpoint, and its structure covering pre-war, wartime, and post-war periods. He reflects on Stein's relationship with Toklas, the book's self-referential nature, and its engaging, almost tabloid-like quality on the lives of great artists and writers like Picasso, Matisse, Hemingway, and more. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast and the featured book, "The Autobiography of Alice B. Toklas." • Promotion of Douglas's Book (01:07) - He briefly discusses his book, "Aristotle for Novelists," and its relevance to storytelling. • About Gertrude Stein (01:50) - Douglas shares insights about Gertrude Stein and her literary contributions. • Stein's Influence and Salon (02:17) - Discussion of Stein's role as a tastemaker in early 20th-century Paris and her legendary salon gatherings. • Alice B. Toklas's Role (04:47) - Exploration of Toklas's life with Stein and her significant influence in the autobiography. • Structure of the Autobiography (07:03) - Douglas outlines the three parts of the autobiography: pre-war, wartime, and post-war. • Art and Picasso's Portrait (08:03) - He describes the iconic portrait of Stein by Picasso and the story behind it. • Takeaway on Stein's Writing Style (10:08) - Douglas reflects on the egotistical nature of Stein's writing and its self-referential qualities. • Tabloid-like Quality of the Book (11:23) - He discusses the engaging, gossip-like tone of the autobiography that appeals to readers. • Nuggets of Wisdom for Creatives (12:28) - Douglas highlights valuable advice for artists within the book, emphasizing appreciation over criticism. • Closing Remarks (13:44) - He thanks listeners, encourages subscriptions, and reminds them of his book and podcast resources.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti delves into Hubert Selby Jr.'s "Last Exit to Brooklyn," a transgressive novel from 1964, discussing the book's raw portrayal of 1950s lower-class Brooklyn, its controversial themes of drug use, sexual abuse, homophobia, prostitution, and domestic violence. Vigliotti also shares his big takeaways, reflecting on Brooklyn's transformation, Selby's unique prose style, and the novel's impact on various artists. The episode underscores the power of storytelling, art more broadly, and the enduring relevance of Selby's work. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas welcomes listeners and introduces the book "Last Exit to Brooklyn" by Hubert Selby Jr. • Overview of Hubert Selby Jr. (01:11) - Discussion about Selby's background, notable works, and his influence on literature and film. • Themes of "Last Exit to Brooklyn" (02:18) - Exploration of the book's portrayal of 1950s lower-class Brooklyn and its thematic depth. • Transgressive Fiction Elements (03:17) - Analysis of the book's graphic content and its necessity for storytelling. • Setting: Brooklyn's Transformation (05:56) - Reflection on Brooklyn's changes over 75 years and the broader concept of change. • Prose Style of Selby (07:02) - Discussion of Selby’s unconventional grammar and slang, enhancing the story's authenticity. • Artistic Impact of the Book (08:14) - The book's role in pushing artistic boundaries and inspiring future creators. • Closing Thoughts and Quote (09:21) - Douglas shares a thought-provoking quote from Selby and encourages listener engagement.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses the witty enlightening book "Poor Charlie's Almanack" by Charles T. Munger, who some consider the modern-day equivalent of Benjamin Franklin. Vigliotti highlights Munger's role as Vice Chairman of Berkshire Hathaway, his close relationship with Warren Buffett, and many of Munger's philosophies, such as inversion thinking, worldly wisdom, and the Lollapalooza effect. He shares seven notable quotes from Munger, emphasizing key ideas to help you be a more expansive thinker and a better decision-maker. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas Vigliotti welcomes listeners and introduces "Poor Charlie's Almanac" by Charles T. Munger. • Overview of Charles T. Munger (01:18) - Discussion of Munger's life, achievements, and his role at Berkshire Hathaway. • Buffett's Foreword and Munger's Rebuttal (02:35) - Exploration of the mutual respect between Buffett and Munger through their writings. • Content of the Book (04:54) - Description of the book's structure, featuring Munger's speeches and insights. • Core Philosophies of Munger (05:55) - Introduction to Munger's pragmatism and rational thinking as central themes. • Worldly Wisdom and the Lollapalooza Effect (07:07) - Munger's concepts of broad knowledge and the impact of multiple indicators on decision-making. • Investment Evaluation Principles (08:28) - Munger's advice on assessing risk and cultivating a mindset for lifelong learning. • Simplicity and Clarity in Thought (09:39) - Munger's emphasis on the importance of simple, actionable insights over complex ideas. • Quote 1: Inversion Thinking (09:39) - Munger's advice on avoiding pitfalls by understanding what not to do. • Quote 2: Complexity of Solutions (11:08) - The danger of overconfidence in solutions without considering potential harm. • Quote 3: Patience and Decisiveness (12:32) - The balance between waiting for the right moment and taking decisive action. • Quote 4: Delivering Value (13:39) - Encouragement to create products or services that one would personally value. • Quote 5: Ideology and Critical Thinking (14:00) - Munger's warning against the pitfalls of rigid ideological thinking. • Quote 6: Compound Interest (14:59) - The significance of patience in compounding knowledge and investments. • Quote 7: Appeal to Interests (16:07) - Munger's insight on persuasion and the importance of understanding incentives. • Conclusion and Call to Action (17:02) - Vigliotti encourages listener engagement and promotes his own book.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the timeless allure of John Fante's 1939 classic, "Ask the Dust." He unpacks the novel's profound themes of loss, love, poverty, and the pursuit of life’s meaning, highlighting its semi-autobiographical nature, and its lasting impact on the literary cult hero Charles Bukowski and iconic screenwriter Robert Towne. Vigliotti also offers insights into Fante's career, Depression-era Los Angeles, the prose, book title, publishing history, and its lovable protagonist, the struggling writer, Arturo Bandini. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 🗣️ Listen to episode #161: Ham on Rye | Charles Bukowski! 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to "Ask the Dust" (00:09) - Douglas introduces the classic novel "Ask the Dust" by John Fante, published in 1939. • Douglas's New Book Announcement (01:10) - He shares information about his book "Aristotle for Novelists," focused on storytelling principles. • Author Overview (01:30) - Douglas discusses John Fante's background and his significance in literature, particularly the Bandini Quartet. • Influence of Charles Bukowski (02:13) - He explains how Bukowski was influenced by Fante and helped revive interest in "Ask the Dust." • Publishing History (03:19) - The challenges faced by the book's initial publisher and the eventual boost from Bukowski's efforts. • Plot Summary (04:28) - Douglas summarizes the plot, focusing on protagonist Arturo Bandini's struggles and themes of love and meaning. • Character Analysis (05:51) - He discusses Bandini's character and the narrative style, emphasizing the first-person perspective. • Semi-Autobiographical Nature (07:12) - Douglas explores how Bandini serves as Fante's alter ego, paralleling Bukowski's character Henry Chinaski. • Prose Style Discussion (08:19) - He analyzes Fante's unique prose style, blending conversational and literary elements effectively. • Bittersweet Ending Insights (09:46) - Douglas highlights the novel's bittersweet ending, raising existential questions about love and meaning. • Conclusion and Call to Action (11:22) - He thanks listeners, encouraging them to subscribe and provide feedback on the podcast.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores the differences between Ken Kesey's "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest" and its film adaptation by Milos Forman, as part of the "Novel vs Movie" series. Vigliotti discusses Kesey's influence on the counterculture of the 60s and the novel's themes of institutionalization, individualism, and social conformity. He highlights the unique narrative perspective of Chief Bromden in the book, adding a layer of thematic depth, and the film's uncanny performances of Jack Nicholson and Louise Fletcher, adding a layer of drama. Find out which he prefers and why! ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Overview of the podcast series and introduction to "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest." • Background on Ken Kesey (01:17) - Discussion of Kesey's influence, his works, and connection to the counterculture movement. • Kesey's Acid Tests and CIA Involvement (02:24) - Insight into Kesey's infamous acid tests and his unwitting participation in MKUltra experiments. • Cinematic Success of the Film (03:43) - Highlighting the film's critical acclaim and awards compared to the novel's success. • Story Overview of the Novel (04:53) - Summary of the central conflict between McMurphy and Nurse Ratched in the mental institution. • Themes Explored in the Novel (06:20) - Discussion of major themes such as institutionalization, individualism, and social conformity. • Differences Between Book and Movie (07:33) - Exploration of narrative perspective differences, focusing on Chief Bromden's role in the novel. • Narrative Perspective and Its Impact (08:56) - The significance of Chief Bromden's narration and its metaphorical implications on societal issues. • Character Portrayal Differences (10:27) - Comparison of McMurphy's character in the book versus Jack Nicholson's portrayal in the film. • Machine Theme in the Book (12:50) - Discussion on how the novel better conveys the theme of the oppressive system compared to the movie. • Final Thoughts on Book vs. Movie (13:54) - Vigliotti's concluding preference for the novel over the film due to its depth and narrative layers. • Closing Remarks and Call to Action (15:01) - Encouragement for listeners to subscribe, connect on social media, and check out Vigliotti's new book.

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores David Foster Wallace's non-fiction work "This Is Water," originally a 2005 commencement speech at Kenyon College. Vigliotti delves into Wallace's life, his literary impact, and the speech's key themes: awareness, compassion, and the power of choice, underscoring the importance of recognizing the "totally obvious" aspects of life, being open-minded, and consciously deciding what holds meaning. In short, what does 'learning how to think' really mean? This episode is sure to leave a lasting impact. ✓ Sign up for the monthly newsletter at BooksforMen.org. 📚 Learn more about "Aristotle for Novelists" at AristotleforNovelists.com or READ IT NOW! ⚡️ Connect with the host on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or learn more about him at DouglasVigliotti.com. 🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. ⭐️ Please consider sharing "Books for Men" with other men who enjoy reading, or subscribing and rating on your favorite podcast platform. Either goes a long way in helping new listeners find the show and inspire (more) men to read. 💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE: • Intro to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas Vigliotti introduces the podcast and the book "This Is Water" by David Foster Wallace. • Author Background (01:17) - Discussion of David Foster Wallace's life, his major works, and his influence as a writer. • Commencement Speech Context (02:28) - Overview of Wallace's commencement speech at Kenyon College that inspired "This Is Water." • Key Themes of the Book (03:41) - Vigliotti explains the book's focus on awareness, compassion, and conscious living. • Takeaway One: Disregard for the Obvious (05:14) - Wallace emphasizes the importance of recognizing the obvious truths in our daily lives. • Takeaway Two: Be Less Sure of Yourself (08:58) - Discussion on the dangers of dogmatism and the need for open-mindedness. • Takeaway Three: Choosing Meaning (10:02) - Wallace encourages listeners to consciously decide what holds meaning in their lives. • Conclusion and Call to Action (12:53) - Vigliotti wraps up the episode, encouraging subscriptions and feedback for the podcast.