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Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast
Mutondwa
30 episodes
1 month ago
I've been told my whole life that I'm a little blunt, not sharp, blunt. I simply lack the finesse required for sharpness. Maybe it's because I'm a Sagittarius or the fact that I am a sensitive bitch, nonetheless my mind is both a scary and enlightened place, sometimes my mind is kind to me, sometimes it hates me. I sometimes like it here, I sometimes don't, and the older I get the more I'm fucking okay with that. I don't have all the answers, nor do I claim to (well to be fair sometimes I really do have the answers, I just don't like them). I'm on a learning, discovering, and enlightenment journey. I have questions, many questions, for life and the experiences it encompasses. Something I say a lot is the expression "that makes no sense" and usually it slips, sometimes I scream it out, sometimes under my breath when I come to the realization that there is a bigger picture. That many of the things we are raised to believe make sense really don't. I love love these moments because it means I've been given a chance to learn, listen, and grow from someone's story, experiences, and existence. In these moments my mind got bigger, my capacity for understanding and knowledge expounded and my empathy beamed. So this podcast will simply be me asking a lot of questions, talking, and learning about whatever I want. So come along! You may agree or you may disagree BUT just remember life is full of glitter and glue and we ebb and we flow!
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I've been told my whole life that I'm a little blunt, not sharp, blunt. I simply lack the finesse required for sharpness. Maybe it's because I'm a Sagittarius or the fact that I am a sensitive bitch, nonetheless my mind is both a scary and enlightened place, sometimes my mind is kind to me, sometimes it hates me. I sometimes like it here, I sometimes don't, and the older I get the more I'm fucking okay with that. I don't have all the answers, nor do I claim to (well to be fair sometimes I really do have the answers, I just don't like them). I'm on a learning, discovering, and enlightenment journey. I have questions, many questions, for life and the experiences it encompasses. Something I say a lot is the expression "that makes no sense" and usually it slips, sometimes I scream it out, sometimes under my breath when I come to the realization that there is a bigger picture. That many of the things we are raised to believe make sense really don't. I love love these moments because it means I've been given a chance to learn, listen, and grow from someone's story, experiences, and existence. In these moments my mind got bigger, my capacity for understanding and knowledge expounded and my empathy beamed. So this podcast will simply be me asking a lot of questions, talking, and learning about whatever I want. So come along! You may agree or you may disagree BUT just remember life is full of glitter and glue and we ebb and we flow!
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Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast
The Final Episode: Ending the Podcast, Starting Anew and Walking In The Flow of My Purpose
Saying goodbye is never an easy thing, and saying goodbye to something that was created by my own hands, for my own survival and growth is even more difficult. But it's time to let go and move on to newer and better things. This will be the last episode of the Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast. In this episode, I explain why I've decided to close this chapter, what's coming next (Yes, I am not done with podcasting yet), and where my mindset is in 2022. A huge thank you to all my guests (Natale, Ndamu, Tshima, Manzi, Wendy, Mo & Kemi) for making this podcast pleasurable, authentic and so enlightening, and insightful. Thank you for your stories, your wisdom, your inspirations, and your intellect. Thank you to Sarah, for being my first fan, for believing in this podcast, and for your constant feedback and support. Thank you to me, Mutondwa Murendeni Nemurangoni, for leaping and biting fear, anxiety, and the chatter of what will people say. Thank you to me for being willing to be vulnerable about the things and thoughts that scare & haunt me, about my dreams and aspirations, and my journey towards self. I'm so proud of you Mutondwa, you did well. Last but certainly not least, thank you to my 988 downloaders (I checked today), thank you for giving me your ear and compassion, thank you for spending your valuable time with me and my guests, and thank you for your support, it means the world.
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3 years ago
39 minutes 9 seconds

Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast
Ep. #29| Booktober Series: The Book That Saved My Life Ft Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert
It's the start of the booktober series! This October I'll be sharing some of the life lessons that literature and words have imparted upon me. Books are my safe space, they make sense to me in a world that so often makes little sense. They bring me moments of quiet, reflection, and questioning. Books are my safe space, the cheapest and arguably the healthiest form of "escapism" out there. Books speak to me, they open small windows of insights inside my mind, which then seeps into my soul. I'm grateful to books, I'm also deeply indebted to books. In this episode, I'll be sharing some of the lessons I've learned from Eat Pray Love. To say this book saved my life would be a complete understatement, it was a devastating, enlightening, and simultaneously chaotic read. It challenged my beliefs, made me accountable for my own life, and answered questions about prayer, God, and spirituality at a time when questions were all I had. There is a reason its a best-seller and was turned into a movie (Lol still haven't watched the movie, probably never will) 833 downloads! Thank you so much 😍 Road to 1000 downloads! 🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♀️ For more engagement and content Please follow us on Instagram at @blunt_notweed_podcast or on my personal account @msworthmylife and on Facebook at Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast 👩🏾👱🏾‍♀️💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
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4 years ago
50 minutes 38 seconds

Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast
Ep. #28|Lessons I've Learned From My Favorite Books Ft 12 Rules For Life By Jordan B Peterson
It's the start of the booktober series! This October I'll be sharing some of the life lessons that literature and words have imparted upon me. Books are my safe space, they make sense to me in a world that so often makes little sense. They bring me moments of quiet, reflection, and questioning. Books are my safe space, the cheapest and arguably the healthiest form of "escapism" out there. Books speak to me, they open small windows of insights inside my mind, which then seeps into my soul. I'm grateful to books, I'm also deeply indebted to books. In this episode, I'll be sharing some of the lessons I've learned from Dr Jordan B Peterson's best-seller 12 Rules For Life. This book is untamed in its brilliance and unashamedly affecting in its dissection of our world. 805 downloads! Thank you so much 😍 Road to 1000 downloads! 🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♀️ For more engagement and content Please follow us on Instagram at @blunt_notweed or on my personal account @msworthmylife Follow our guest @kem_does_it_again 👩🏾👱🏾‍♀️💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 755 downloads! Thank you so much 😍 Road to 1000 downloads! 🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♀️ For more engagement and content Please follow us on Instagram at @blunt_notweed or on my personal account @msworthmylife Follow our guest @kem_does_it_again 👩🏾👱🏾‍♀️💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
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4 years ago
54 minutes 16 seconds

Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast
Ep. #27|Ft Kemelo “Kemi” Sehlapelo: Reconstructing a Sexual Identity After Sexual Assault, Navigating Self-Healing Amidst Echoes of Stigma
As a woman, perhaps my biggest fear is having something sexual or violent been done to my body without my consent, on the backdrops of the #metoo movement, the continuous degradation and disregard for women's bodies and rights running rampant throughout a plethora of legal systems, South Africa's very real and scary femicide in the form of gender-based violence, sexual violence, and murder; a clear message is being sent to women, and it's not one of protection, freedom, safety, accountability, and liberation. Sex is sometimes not sexy, in this episode I sit down with Kemelo “Kemi” Sehlapelo and discuss her journey of navigating the muddy waters of reconstructing a sexual identity after sexual assault and how she has channeled self-healing & self-efficacy amidst the echoes of societal imposed stigma, shame, guilt. She comes in blunt, honest, and very real. 755 downloads! Thank you so much 😍 Road to 1000 downloads! 🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♀️ For more engagement and content Please follow us on Instagram at @blunt_notweed or on my personal account @msworthmylife Follow our guest @kem_does_it_again 👩🏾👱🏾‍♀️💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
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4 years ago
1 hour 59 minutes 11 seconds

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Ep. #26| Sexy September Sex Series Ft Wendy Weng: Between Two Worlds, Growing Up In A Traditional Conservative Chinese Family In The US
Growing up between two worlds with clear-cut and distinguishable differences in values, cultural norms and expectations can be a jarring game of navigation and simultaneous assimilation. This is true for this week's guest Wendy Weng, who was born to traditional conservative Chinese parents and raised in the U.S. The values she learned at home and the ones found within the society she was living in couldn't have been more day and night. This theme and clash would continue throughout her life as she navigated puberty, her sexuality and ultimately becoming a woman. In this episode, she talks about her experiences growing up as an Asian girl in the US and then later on returning back to Beijing, China. She shares about how the "sex talk" went down in the Weng household and how she feels navigating the world in her body and skin. Let's talk about sexy things! PS: We have a lot of inside jokes 😂😎😅 739 downloads! Thank you so much 😍 Road to 1000 downloads! 🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♀️ For more engagement and content Please follow us on Instagram at @blunt_notweed or on my personal account @msworthmylife
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4 years ago
1 hour 20 minutes 41 seconds

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Ep. #25| Sexy September Sex Series Ft Mo (Queen Cunnilinga) Part 2: Sexual Liberation & Understanding Dialogue Nuance Within Sex Positivity
There is something powerful, beautiful, and scary about finding more of who you are as life progresses and all the pieces collected over time start to make sense. One key area of human identity; one that can cause contention both within us and outside of us, lies within our sexual identity. For women, black women, women with disabilities, LGBTQ individuals this can be an extremely difficult journey towards sexual discovery and freedom. In this episode, I sat down to talk to Mo, aka Queen Cunnilinga, a young South African queer woman who is discovering and exploring her sexuality through her own gaze, however, being constantly confronted by the unavoidable gaze of society and the backdrops of her environment. In Part two of our two-part conversations (check out last week's episode if you haven't yet), we talk about sexual freedom, the desire to be liberated in one's sexuality without it always being a statement or form of activism but rather as a natural part of human existence. Mo brings light to the nuances and complexities necessary for a holistic sex-positivity conversation. Let's get physical! For more engagement and content Please follow us on Instagram at @blunt_notweed You can also follow our guest @queen_cunnilinga
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4 years ago
1 hour 15 minutes

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Ep. #24| Sexy September Sex Series Ft Mo (Queen Cunnilinga) Part 1: Discovering Sexual Identity Against the Backdrops of Religion & African Conservativism
There is something powerful, beautiful, and scary about finding more of who you are as life progresses and all the pieces collected over time start to make sense. One key area of human identity; one that can cause contention both within us and outside of us, lies within our sexual identity. For women, black women, women with disabilities, LGBTQ individuals this can be an extremely difficult journey towards sexual discovery and freedom. In this episode, I sat down to talk to Mo, aka Queen Cunnilinga, a young South African queer woman who is discovering and exploring her sexuality through her own gaze, however, being constantly confronted by the unavoidable gaze of society and the backdrops of her environment. In Part One of our two-part conversations, we talk about her journey of discovering her sexual identity against the backdrops of religion & African conservativism, and the role that self-reflection and retrospection played in her building her identity. Let's talk about sexual identity and freedom!
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4 years ago
1 hour 18 minutes 31 seconds

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Ep. #23| Sexy September Sex Series: Growing Up With a Sex Complex, My Hoe Phase and Discovering My Sexual Voice
Growing up my mum used to always tell us that "you never taste the penis, if you do you won't be able to stop because it's so good". Random right? She instilled both fear and desire at the same time. BUT what I do appreciate from her quirky expression was that she never lied to my sisters and me about how good sex is, that it is a GOOD thing. Of course, she also qualified this expression with "only in the grips of marriage". It's no wonder I developed a sex complex, with religion telling me one thing, on one hand, the conservative African traditionalistic way of women's existence on the other and society requiring me to publicly bargain my sexuality, sexual desires, and desirability as a black woman with a visual impairment on the other. The "good girl" trope and archetype was the light that illuminated my path, hypocritically so, as I battled between religious doctrine and my innate desire for freedom. Let's talk about SEX!
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4 years ago
45 minutes 13 seconds

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Ep. #22| Value and Worth, Where Does Your Value and Worth Come From, I'm Finding Society Attributes and Attaches These To Some Of The More Arbitrary Stuff
Perfection is truly the disease of our society and like Queen, B said "it's the soul that needs a surgery". In today's episode I talk about worth and value, where does my worth and value come from? Can worth be taken away, is it a movable asset? When all the arbitrary things we attach to our worth and value, having money, being a parent, being coupled, having a certain degree or status, the religions we follow, the car we drive, the job title we have, when all of that is stripped away what is left? Who is left? As Beyonce asks in her masterful and societal commentary song "pretty hurts" - When you're alone all by yourself When you're lying in your bed, Reflection stares right into you, Are you happy with yourself? Stripped away the masquerade The illusion has been shed, Are you happy with yourself? Are you happy with yourself? These are questions that I've been asking myself and I think I'm starting to see the answers. Let's talk about worth and value in a society obsessed with perfection.
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4 years ago
42 minutes 18 seconds

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Ep. #21| Mental Health: I'm Trying To Not Be Dealing With The Same Shit and Trauma Into My 30s, Trying To Kill My Ego, The Ego Death Experience
There is a beauty I have come to find in suffering. The other day I sat on my toilet seat 🤣😎 (TMI) but whatever), reminiscing, and found myself being actually appreciative and grateful for the very difficult year of suffering and loss I've been thrown into. There is a power in watching everything go wrong and then realizing you are still here, alive, breathing with the sands of time still in your favor. One of the reasons for this dawn came through exploring mental health and really diving into my inner-self and starting to address all the things that I have left to fester. I'm approaching 30 and I sure as hell don't want to be dealing with the same shit then. Let's talk about mental health, suffering, healing, and addressing and understanding the ego. Please follow the podcast on the socials to engage and grow with us. Instagram: @bluntnotweedpodcast My Personal Instagram: @msworthmylife Facebook: @blunt_notweed ROAD TO A THOUSAND DOWNLOADS!!! 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️💃
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4 years ago
48 minutes 15 seconds

Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast
Ep. #20 | Discipline, How I lack It and How It's Holding Me Back. Gosh Should I Just Confess That I Do Laziness Better?
It's FRIDAY the 13TH and I have decided to HAUNT myself today 😂😂😂. I just feel like I have made a life choice to soak, dwell and bathe in laziness. Yes, I am on Spring break after wrapping up a very difficult and challenging first year of my MBA studies BUT this form of sloth has been a long time coming. I can binge-watch K-dramas for between 8 to 10 hours straight a day, especially if it is one of THOSE shows. I lose track of what I do in my day and where my hours go with little to no guilt. This lack of growth-inducing upward mobilizing habits is NOT IT. I hate it and I've realized that your girl LACKS discipline. Oh, my old friend, good'ol discipline, I had you and then I lost you. Discipline sounds painful, it triggers memories of suffering and force and therefore doesn't feel good (easy) to do. BUT one thing I know is if I'm going to become the version of me I'm visualizing and striving for, this one small but mountainous act is going to be an integral part of the process. So I'm trying to get me some! let's talk about Discipline, is it more than just the sheer exertion of the will of power?, cause brah, I ain't got non of that right now! Please follow the podcast on the socials to engage and grow with us. Instagram: @bluntnotweedpodcast My Personal Instagram: @msworthmylife Facebook: @blunt_notweed ROAD TO A THOUSAND DOWNLOADS!!! 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️💃
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4 years ago
49 minutes 49 seconds

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Ep. #19.2 | Miscarriages: The Difficult Healing Process, What Men and Spouses Go Through, Coming Out the Other Side Ft Ndamu
The female body is arguably one of the most powerful forces exiting in our current realm. It breaks itself apart monthly and puts itself back together again. It houses and nourishes life, but it's also one of society's most misunderstood, exploited, and devalued forces. One such way the female body experiences this; is in pregnancy. The monolithic expectation of pregnancy that leads to a healthy birth has forced many women into silence and hiding when their body doesn't meet this expectation. In today's episode, I talk about miscarriages with one of my favorite people and someone who has experienced one of the most stigmatized and loneliest losses a woman must live through. This is her story - Ft Ndamulelo Ft Song: The Middle | Audrey Assad
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4 years ago
1 hour 24 minutes 36 seconds

Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast
Ep. #19.1 | Miscarriages: The Shame That Follows and Why Women Don’t Talk About It, A Harmful Reality Ft Ndamu
The female body is arguably one of the most powerful forces exiting in our current realm. It breaks itself apart monthly and puts itself back together again. It houses and nourishes life, but it's also one of society's most misunderstood, exploited, and devalued forces. One such way the female body experiences this; is in pregnancy. The monolithic expectation of pregnancy that leads to a healthy birth has forced many women into silence and hiding when their body doesn't meet this expectation. In today's episode, I talk about miscarriages with one of my favorite people and someone who has experienced one of the most stigmatized and loneliest losses a woman must live through. This is her story - Ft Ndamulelo Ft Song: The Middle | Audrey Assad
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4 years ago
1 hour 30 minutes 23 seconds

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Ep. #18.2 | The Devaluation of Anger, Cancel Culture, Objective Truths vs Subjective Realities Ft Natale
Has society always been this angry? Or is something else at play? Oh how quickly we all get triggered! We see it, we don't like it, we tweet and we fought it goddammit! The rise of social media has also seen a rise in online social wars, echo-chamber debates and conversations, and ultimately the cancellation of people. Grace seems to be lacking and everyone has become too angry and simultaneously too morally superior. Celebrities and public figures get the brunt of this anger and rage. Is cancel culture good? or bad? or both? or neither? Let's talk about it. Ft Natale
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4 years ago
1 hour 15 minutes 21 seconds

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Ep. #18.1 | Cancel Culture, The Current Illusion of Moral Superiority & The Devaluation of Anger Ft Natale
Oh how quickly we all get triggered! We see it, we don't like it, we tweet and we fought it goddammit! The rise of social media has also seen a rise in online social wars, echo-chamber debates and conversations, and ultimately the cancellation of people. Grace seems to be lacking and everyone has become too angry and simultaneously too morally superior. Celebrities and public figures get the brunt of this anger and rage. Is cancel culture good? or bad? or both? or neither? Let's talk about it. Ft Natale
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4 years ago
1 hour 33 minutes 19 seconds

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Ep. #17 | Oh South Africa, This is What Happens When The Chickens Come Home To Roost, Why Are We So Surprised?
The truth shall set you free, but first, it will piss you off. So, here we are...this episode was not on my episode list, I could not have prepared for this episode until this week, nonetheless, the events that occurred this week were by no means surprising. On the backdrops of COVID-19, rabid income inequality and disparity, an ugly racial trauma, and corruption, and alas! Revelio🪄! These events WERE and HAVE BEEN coming for a long time, right? We all knowww thisss rrright? Really? We didnt see this coming? Come on! Let's talk about it. Banned South African Ad: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UcWsTwvtyOI
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4 years ago
59 minutes 7 seconds

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Ep. #16 | Sex for Grades A case study on Ghana, On the backdrops of African traditional gender roles, internalized misogyny, female genital mutilation Ft. Tshima
She's back! Welcome back! My sister and I are back in this two-episode special. In this episode, we dig into how sex-for grades have become a thing in Africa and how men are using their positions of power to assault and exploit their female students, with our lens shifting specifically to Ghana. What is the kind of environment that even allows for something like this to happen? We look at the role of African Traditionalism with its customs such as female genital mutilation and imposed gender roles and how these perpetuate internalized misogyny and the abandonment of young women in Africa.
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4 years ago
1 hour 54 minutes 43 seconds

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Ep. #15 | The Objectification and Over-sexualization of Women, the Role Social Media Plays and the Power of the Male Gaze ft Tshima
This episode is one for the books, featuring arguably my favorite person in the world talking about a topic that we are both very curious and interested in. You know you cannot scroll through Instagram without coming across some boodies and titties, it's all the rage, it's all the likes and it's all the fluence and all the follows. Are women now objectifying themselves, and does this make it, okay seeing as it's on our terms, or is the male gaze still the stirrer of all this shit and if so, is self-objectification then really not that empowering. Lets talk about it!
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4 years ago
1 hour 43 minutes 11 seconds

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Ep. #14 | Free Britney, We fucked all the way up on Britney Spears, Society's stigmatization of Mental Health, We FAILED.
It's Britney Bitch! That very saying proves that the Princess of POP has been conquering and overcoming all the bullshit thrown her way for decades. The pop-culture expression "if Britney Spears could survive 2007/08, then you can survive anything" is both a testament and an unavoidable reality of the extent of pain, hurt and mental trauma Britney Spears was going through. AND yet she did survive, 13 years within and later she completed a residency in Vegas, continues to pump out performances, features, and hit songs, and continues to generate millions of dollars; yet the fact that she continues to be deemed "unstable", "unhinged" and "unintelligent" and incapable of taking care of herself is absolute insanity. Her family is toxic and exploitative and are using her pain and struggles as a weapon for control, power, and greed, the media has failed her and society has aided. FREE BRITENY. Let's talk about mental health, evolution, and family exploitation.
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4 years ago
1 hour 11 minutes 55 seconds

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Ep. #10 | Adulting Is Destroying My Life, When You Realize You Are Toxic and Your Toxic Traits & Recognizing Duality
It's been three weeks since the last podcast and that's because life has been kicking my ass. In today's topic, I discuss what adulting means to me, what is adulting? Am I successfully adulting? How do you know when you are an adult? I know I pay bills, pay rent and water and buy groceries and pay for my monthly transport pass but does that make me an adult? I feel like I'm not an adult yet, but I know that I can still be an adult without feeling like one. Let's talk about adulting, where do you rank on the adulting spectrum.
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4 years ago
57 minutes 11 seconds

Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast
I've been told my whole life that I'm a little blunt, not sharp, blunt. I simply lack the finesse required for sharpness. Maybe it's because I'm a Sagittarius or the fact that I am a sensitive bitch, nonetheless my mind is both a scary and enlightened place, sometimes my mind is kind to me, sometimes it hates me. I sometimes like it here, I sometimes don't, and the older I get the more I'm fucking okay with that. I don't have all the answers, nor do I claim to (well to be fair sometimes I really do have the answers, I just don't like them). I'm on a learning, discovering, and enlightenment journey. I have questions, many questions, for life and the experiences it encompasses. Something I say a lot is the expression "that makes no sense" and usually it slips, sometimes I scream it out, sometimes under my breath when I come to the realization that there is a bigger picture. That many of the things we are raised to believe make sense really don't. I love love these moments because it means I've been given a chance to learn, listen, and grow from someone's story, experiences, and existence. In these moments my mind got bigger, my capacity for understanding and knowledge expounded and my empathy beamed. So this podcast will simply be me asking a lot of questions, talking, and learning about whatever I want. So come along! You may agree or you may disagree BUT just remember life is full of glitter and glue and we ebb and we flow!