In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martingale explore what true leadership looks like, inside and outside your home. They discuss how godly leadership begins with integrity, humility, and consistency, and how being a servant leader means prioritizing the growth and well-being of others. From managing your home with grace to leading your family through example, this episode will inspire you to lead like Christ, with love, strength, and purpose. W...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa tackle one of the most common struggles couples face: parenting differences. They discuss how to parent as a united team even when you disagree on discipline, routines, or expectations. With wisdom from counseling and coaching blended families, they share practical ways to find alignment, communicate effectively, and build a marriage rooted in God’s truth and grace. Learn how to effectively handle disagreements about d...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martingale discuss the sacred calling of raising godly sons in today’s world. They discuss the biblical role of fathers and mothers, including single moms, in shaping boys into godly men of strength, humility, and integrity. Discover how to instill discipline, accountability, and a love for God’s Word while creating a home that models truth and faith. Whether you’re a dad striving to lead your family well or a mom guid...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa share biblical and practical ways husbands and wives can support one another emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Learn how to listen without judgment, show appreciation, prioritize quality time, and build deeper intimacy God’s way. Whether you’re newly married or blending a family, this episode will help you strengthen your relationship, honor your spouse, and create a marriage rooted in faith and love. We pray...

Is your marriage, family, or faith taking a back seat to your career or busy schedule? In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott & Vanessa Martindale share practical, faith-filled strategies to create healthy work-life balance. Discover how to: Set boundaries between work and family life Prioritize your spouse and children without guilt Say “no” to good things so you can say “yes” to God’s best Create intentional time for marriage, family, and...

The relationship between a stepparent and their stepchildren can be complicated and complex because there are so many factors at play. Sometimes, those dynamics can delay or derail step-parent/stepchild bonding. In this episode, How To Build Strong Stepparent-stepchild Connections, Scott and Vanessa talk about the role step parents play in creating a solid bond with their stepchild; they also offer suggestions for nurturing and growing those relationships. We pray this podcast ...

As we continue to relive our top episodes of all time, this week we discuss co-parenting in episode titled, Parenting and Co-Parenting: Co-Parenting is a Team Sport. As co-parents, it is possible to experience peace and unity as we work together for the well-being of our children. This podcast is for you if you are seeking to improve your co-parenting relationship or trying to establish a healthy dynamic with your ex-spouse. This month's podcast series focuses on co-parenting and how the rela...

How do you and your blended family put the 'fun' in dysfunction? We know that blending can be difficult, but you and your family can find ways to overcome the trials of transitioning into blended family life. This podcast is for you if you are seeking strategies for finding fun in seasons of dysfunction or you want to overcome expectations for blending. This week's episode is all about expectations and dysfunction in blended families. We share ideas for fun activities to do as a family ...

In this week’s episode, Facing New Step-Family Challenges Together: What is Your Parenting Perspective?, we discuss the effects that our attitudes have on the way we parent and co-parent, and the influence of comparison in our relationships with those around us. We will also share some practical strategies for overcoming a negative attitude and overcoming a spirit of comparison. We pray that this podcast blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Conn...

In this week’s episode we revisit an incredible episode full of Godly wisdom for your blended family; Blended & Redeemed: Your Home is Not Broken. In this episode we discuss the term “broken home” and the importance of removing the phrase from our vocabulary. When our families are built on the foundation of Jesus Christ, they cannot be broken. Whatever is in your past does not hinder you from experiencing the blessings that God has in store for your blended family. Whether you are ...

Do your children spell love the same way you do? For most kids, LOVE = T-I-M-E. In this episode of The Blended Kingdom Families Podcast we revisit a top series - Blending Your Bunch, and unpack the powerful connection between time and love in parenting and step-parenting. Whether you’re looking for practical ways to spend more intentional time with your kids, or you’re a stepparent seeking strategies to strengthen bonds with your stepchildren, this conversation is for ...

Marriage works best when our priorities are in the right order: God first, spouse second, children third; but living that out isn’t always easy, especially in a blended family. In this first episode of our 4-part series from our book, Blended & Redeemed, Scott and Vanessa share biblical wisdom and practical tools to help you build (or rebuild) a God-centered marriage that thrives. Whether you’re: Engaged or newly married and ready to start strong Remarried and determined to do things God’...

Are you unknowingly living by a promise you made to protect yourself from past pain? In this powerful episode from our Blended & Redeemed book teaching series, Scott and Vanessa Martindale unpack the destructive impact of inner vows, those silent promises we make to ourselves that shape our actions, relationships, and faith. You'll learn: What inner vows are and how they form How they can go unnoticed for years Real-life examples of inner vows in marriage and family How to surrende...

How did you navigate the Stepparent Name Game in your blended family? We know there is a lot to consider when it comes to this part of the blending journey. This podcast is for you if you, your spouse, and your co-parents are struggling with Stepparent Names or if you are unsure of how to approach the subject with your children. A question we receive frequently is: What should a child call their stepparent? In this episode we share why we feel that it is important for children t...

How are you navigating blending your family? This podcast is for you if you and your family are just starting your blending journey, you're a new stepparent wanting to bond with your stepchildren, or you are in a later season of blending and hoping to strengthen your family relationships. As we continue to celebrate all God has done through the BKF podcast, this week we are talking about different types of blended family love. We'll share personal experiences, biblical truth, and pract...

Join us as we continue to relive our top Blended Kingdom Family podcast episodes! Living blended their entire lives, Scott and Vanessa Martindale know first hand both the joys and difficulties of living blended. After coming out of one of the hardest seasons of their life, God asked them to partner with Him, in building Blended Kingdom Families everywhere. This has now birthed a ministry that desires to help others in remarriage and cultivate community among blended families. Today Sco...

What triggers you and how do you respond when it happens? Triggers are real, and they are tough to manage, but they do not have to define you! Join us as we continue to relive our top Blended Kingdom Family Podcast episodes! In this powerful episode, we’re joined by author Wendy Speake to unpack what it looks like to face triggers head-on, especially in parenting and blended families. Together, we explore practical strategies for breaking the cycle of reactive behavior and embracing Go...

Join Scott and Vanessa Martindale as they revisit one of the most impactful episodes of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast. In this must-listen conversation they explore how parental behavior shapes the emotional, spiritual and relational development of children in blended families. Whether you are a stepparent, co-parent or navigating a new season of remarriage, this episode dives into how your daily actions influence your child's understanding of love, conflict, marriage, and grace. Kids...

We continue to relive our top BKF episode and in this week’s episode, we look at Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation behaviors. We discuss strategies for recovering from such behaviors as well as sharing steps toward building a better, healthier co-parenting relationship. The pain of divorce can cause us to speak and act in ways that we never would have expected and can negatively impact our children. Examining our hearts on a daily basis can help us to overcome any spirit of fear...

We are so excited to relive this top episode, “Dealing with Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation”, with Dr. Les Carter. Dr. Carter is an author, psychotherapist, and counselor with 40+ years of experience in the field. He is the author of over 20 books and resources including "The Anger Trap" and "When Pleasing You is Killing Me". IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS: - How to handle a narcissistic ex-spouse - What child manipulation looks like - Teach...