After a year and a half away, Nicky & Dean return to the Black King Black Queen Podcast with Episode 22: “After the Pause: Fighting for Love in Marriage.” In this deeply honest and raw conversation, we share where we’ve been, the challenges we’ve faced in our marriage, and how we found our way back to each other. What’s Inside This Episode: • Why we hit pause and why it was necessary • Relationship struggles: communication breakdown, expectations, identity • Marriage on the edge: fighting for love during hardship • Honest work, real talk—rooted in faith and transparency • How we came back stronger—rebuilding intimacy and trust post-break If you’re navigating marriage challenges, healing from distance, rekindling intimacy, or just want real advice on relationship communication, this episode is for you. ___________________________________________ 🔗 CONNECT WITH US:  Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnickyys/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

In this episode we break down our story from the beginning and discuss how we KNEW we were the ones for each other. We also dive deep into the importance of keeping God in the middle of your marriage and how we hear his voice.  ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnickyys/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

In this podcast episode we break down 10 tips on what you can do when your marriage gets HARD and is on the verge of divorce. We walk you trough some of the things we did in our hard seasons that helped us overcome losing $500,000 and a house together. We have a lot of fun in this episode so sit back, relax, and enjoy this conversation. ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnickyys/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

Hey Family!! In this episode Nicky asks Dean hard questions about their marriage, this conversation will leave you SHOCKED!!!! In this episode we dive deep into some raw, unfiltered convo that's gonna have you nodding your head and sparking some serious discussions. ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnickyys/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

Hey Family!!! In this video "Asking MY Wife Questions Guys Are Too AFRAID To Ask" Dean asks Nicky hard questions about their marriage. This episode gets real spicy, you do not want to miss it! We're diving deep into some raw, unfiltered convo that's gonna have you nodding your head and sparking some serious discussions. ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnickyys/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

In this compelling episode of the BKBQ podcast, our special guest Sasha Vella shares her remarkable journey from overcoming the challenges of being born addicted to drugs, to being adopted, and eventually becoming a successful single mother of two. She has not only thrived as a six-figure-earning real estate agent, but also serves as an inspiring financial coach. Join us as Sasha opens up about her incredible transformation and the valuable lessons she's learned along the way. ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnickyys/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

In This episode Psychotherapist Roxanne Francis breaks down Episode 16: "She Was Forced To Marry Her Husband Against Her Own Will & Survived Cancer". Roxanne shares invaluable insights drawn from this inspiring episode. The discussion delves deep into the significance of love languages and the pivotal role of communication in nurturing a thriving marriage.  ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnickyys/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

In this powerful episode, hosts Nicky and Dean sit down with Alton and Lyn, a remarkable couple who defied all odds to celebrate 30 years of marriage. Lyn's initial forced marriage to Alton didn't hinder their incredible journey, which has weathered infidelity, cancer, miscarriages, and numerous other challenges.    Through divine grace and unwavering determination, they've not only endured but thrived, inspiring all who hear their story. The discussion delves deep into the significance of love languages and the pivotal role of communication in nurturing a thriving marriage.    This episode is a true blessing, offering listeners profound takeaways and valuable lessons that resonate deeply. Join us for an enriching experience that will leave you inspired and empowered. Don't miss this captivating episode.   ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnickyys/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

In this thought-provoking episode of the Black King Black Queen Podcast, hosts Nicky and Dean delve into the crucial topic of marriage as they share invaluable insights into the 10 essential things that individuals should consider before tying the knot. Drawing from their own experiences and expertise, the hosts specialize in amplifying the voices of the unheard, providing a platform for authentic and meaningful conversations. During this episode, Nicky and Dean explore the fundamental aspects of marriage, shedding light on the importance of compatibility, communication, and conflict resolution within a relationship. They offer practical advice on navigating financial compatibility, providing emotional support, and establishing shared responsibilities. Additionally, the hosts delve into the significance of maintaining intimacy and affection, discussing family and children, respecting individuality and personal space, and embracing commitment and long-term goals. Through engaging conversations, real-life examples, and thought-provoking discussions, Nicky and Dean create an open and inclusive space for listeners to gain valuable insights into the complexities of marriage. Listeners can expect to walk away from this episode feeling empowered, enlightened, and equipped with a deeper understanding of the critical factors to consider before embarking on the journey of marriage. Tune in to the Black King Black Queen Podcast as Nicky and Dean skillfully navigate the nuances of marriage, providing a platform for genuine conversations and amplifying the voices of those seeking wisdom and guidance on their path to matrimony. ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickyy_s/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

Hey Family!!! We hope you enjoy this weeks episode as we candidly discuss the vital aspects of giving our daughters the attention they deserve, nurturing their self-esteem, and managing our emotions, particularly anger, while navigating through challenging times. In this episode we open up about the hurdles we've faced and the strategies we've employed to overcome them, offering valuable insights that resonate with all parents striving to create a nurturing environment for their children. We also tackle the sensitive topic of colorism and its impact on our daughters' self-perception, shedding light on the importance of fostering positive self-identity. If you're passionate about family dynamics, relationships, marriage, and effective parenting, this episode is a must-watch. We explore the pivotal role of emotional wellness in raising healthy, resilient children who are poised to become leaders of the next generation. Tune in for practical advice, heartfelt anecdotes, and empowering conversations that will leave you inspired and equipped to navigate the challenges of parenting in today's world. ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickyy_s/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

In this riveting episode of the "Black King, Black Queen Podcast," your hosts Dean and Nicky delve into a thought-provoking and highly relatable topic: Was spending $100,000 on their wedding truly worth it? Join them as they embark on a candid and heartfelt discussion, exploring the highs and lows of their extravagant celebration.   Dean and Nicky, the dynamic duo behind the podcast, share an authentic and refreshing perspective on love, relationships, and the challenges faced by black couples. With a genuine desire to connect with their audience, they fearlessly tackle subjects that resonate with their listeners, and their wedding expenditure is no exception.   Through engaging storytelling and personal anecdotes, Dean and Nicky take you on a journey through the planning, preparations, and emotions leading up to their lavish wedding day. They explore the factors that influenced their decision to allocate such a significant budget, including cultural traditions, family expectations, and their own desires for a grand celebration.   However, as the episode unfolds, the hosts delve into the aftermath of their extravagant affair. They candidly discuss the financial implications, exploring whether the investment was truly worth it in hindsight. Dean and Nicky reflect on the impact it had on their relationship, personal goals, and financial stability, providing listeners with valuable insights that extend far beyond the realm of wedding planning.   Throughout the episode, Dean and Nicky maintain a warm and relatable demeanor, imparting wisdom and vulnerability to their audience. They invite listeners to contemplate their own experiences, sharing practical advice on navigating the complexities of wedding planning while staying true to personal values and financial circumstances.   "Black King, Black Queen Podcast: The Great Wedding Debate" is an episode that encourages introspection, sparking conversations about love, commitment, and the true essence of a wedding. Tune in as Dean and Nicky ignite the airwaves with their signature blend of humor, authenticity, and a genuine desire to empower black couples on their journey to a lifetime of love and happiness.   So, grab your favorite beverage, find a cozy spot, and prepare to be captivated by the wisdom and insights of Dean and Nicky on this thought-provoking episode of the "Black King, Black Queen Podcast."   ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickyy_s/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

Hey Family! In this episode of the Black King Black Queen Podcast, Nicky and Dean talk about how they got married without dating and the hurdles they had to go through while going from best friends to marriage....WITHOUT DATING!!!! Sit back and relax this episode gets juicy. ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickyy_s/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

In this episode of the Black King Black Queen Podcast, Nicky and Dean discuss how difficult marriage can be. If you're in a difficult relationship, then you need to listen to this episode of the BKBQ podcast. In it, Nicky and Dean discuss the importance of listening to understand in a relationship. By listening to understand, you'll be able to work through your disagreements and build a stronger relationship. Don't wait, start listening to the BKBQ podcast now! ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickyy_s/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

In this episode of the BKBQ Live Podcast, Pastor Andrew and Chantal Beresford chat about the importance of marrying your purpose partner and so much more as it pertains to love and marriage. Pastor Andrew shares his story of how he met his purpose partner, and how marriage has played a significant role in fulfilling his destiny. Chantal shares her story of finding her purpose, and how marrying her purpose partner has helped her to fulfil her dreams. If you're looking to find your Purpose Partner, then this episode is for you! Listen to this episode to learn how to find your purpose and marry someone who will help you to achieve it. Don't miss out – join the conversation and leave a review and or comment! ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickyy_s/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

Hey Family!   In this episode of the BKBQ Podcast, we're going to be talking about partnerships and expectations within a marriage. As married people, we all have expectations of each other. But what happens when those expectations aren't met? In this episode, we'll be discussing how to deal with partnerships and expectations within a marriage. Do you believe that your partner should ALWAYS wear their wedding ring? Stay tuned as we share our opinions on this touchy subject.  We hope you enjoy this episode of the Black King Black Queen Podcast! Buckle up...this is a good one!!!!!!!!!!! ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickyy_s/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

In this emotional episode of BKBQ Podcast, Dean & Nicky sit down with five Black & Married couples who've experienced some tough times in their marriages. From cheating to misunderstandings, these couples share their stories in an effort to help others who are going through a tough time. BKBQ Podcast is proud to present Black & Married Toronto: "The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly!" In this episode, we hear from couples about the struggles and triumphs of their marriages. From the heart-wrenching to the inspirational, this episode will leave you with a better understanding of what it means to be married. We all know that apologies are key in any relationship, but what happens when things go wrong? These couples have gone through some tough times – and some really bad apologies! As the couples share their stories, it becomes very clear just how important prayers are in a marriage. Without them, there's a good chance that these partnerships would have ended in disaster. Listen to this emotional episode and find out what really happened when couples apologized to each other! Be sure to subscribe to the "Black King Black Queen Podcast" to stay up-to-date on the latest episodes! ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________   Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickyy_s/ ____________________________________________   Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/  

Hey Family, In this episode Dean apologizes to Nicky for a fight they got into. Are you a person that can admit they were wrong immediately or does it take you some time to process? ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________   Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickyy_s/ ____________________________________________   Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/  

In this episode we talk about how we navigated through our toughest season ever. Losing over $500,000 in one day was super difficult for us but we had to lean into each others strength and that helped save our marriage. The situation made us so much stronger and in this episode you get to hear the FULL STORY!!! ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickyy_s/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

In this episode of Black King Black Queen Podcast we dive into an interesting conversation surrounding different areas of love. Nicky and Dean also talk about whether or not it's always necessary to tell your wife everything. From the highs and lows of marriage to the secrets we keep from our spouses, this podcast is filled with advice for married couples of all shapes and sizes! Listen in to hear our thoughts on the pros and cons of disclosing everything to your spouse. Topics discussed: 1. Loyalty Or LOVE... which would you prefer? 2. How would you respond if one of your GUESTS PROPOSED at YOUR WEDDING? 3. Should married couples keep SECRETS from each other? 4. Prioritizing your children OVER your SPOUSE/MARRIAGE ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickyy_s/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/

Do you and your spouse struggle with communication? Do you feel like you don't know what your spouse is thinking or feeling? In this episode of the Black King Black Queen Podcast, Nicky and Dean talk about the importance of open communication in a relationship. We discuss the different types of communication and how to be open and honest with your spouse. We also share some tips on how to handle difficult conversations. If you want to save your marriage, then listen to this episode and learn how to open up! ____________________________________________ Follow Black King Black Queen Podcast: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZqzw_2QKq1Zgqbv-96y0Pg  Instagram: www.instagram.com/bkbqpodcast/  ____________________________________________ Follow Nicky: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickyy_s/ ____________________________________________ Follow Dean: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deansamuels_/