Hey Family! Welcome back, we are here to discuss episode 4  entitled ‘Create Pretty Privilege’. This is a topic I’ve been excited to discuss for a while. For the longest time I’ve found it very interesting how people in society will automatically rate you on high you are on their personal own attractivity scale, and then treat you accordingly to what they deem appropriate. I’m not necessarily speaking of dating, even though that is another side of it, I’m talking about in our everyday encounters and daily relationships and connections we make while being out in public. It’s a large part of the reason many can identify with the personality trait of being an introvert. Part of it has to do with the way introverts can fear being perceived and treated in a public setting. Some people have a natural “je ne sais quoi”  that attracts all energies in the room the second you walk in. You are a magnet for both feminine and masculine energy. It’s as if a beacon of light just entered the chat and you can’t help but take a look and see what it is.  I think part of this can be attributed to the mastering of pretty privilege. We will discuss the effects of pretty privilege in the workplace, in friendships aka that sometimey friend, while dating, and just in general while living life and being fat. Two things I know for sure, first jealousy is a certain kind of evil. It’s one of those things you have to figure out how to transmute the second that it befalls you or else it will overcome you and become a personality trait.  Secondly, people could have more than you and still not be satisfied because they are miserable spirits  If you take nothing else from this episode, please remember, the prettiest people have their own identity. It’s not about what other people call you, it’s about what you answer to. Peace and Blessings Family! 

Hey family! When lessons are given to gods chosen, they are going to be different much different and on a larger scale than others. Most people would fold under the kind of pressure you’ve been under. They run and hide behind the lies they fill into others heads because thats their security blanket.  By having other people around them they feel it makes the blows of life hit a little less hard. But for you chosen ones, you are meant to shoulder it alone. A rather controversial statement that I’ve always grown up hearing “God doesn’t give one more than he knows you can handle.” Whether you believe that to be true or not, the tests of life will surely come regardless and I need you to know your power is more on an inward level. It’s more on spiritual level, intuition type level, that most people cannot comprehend. People can’t relate to  it because they aren’t meant to. You know things that most people cannot tap into. For example, say you’re working a new job and you met certain people at that job. Your sole purpose for being there is to simply meet those people  and bring them a specific lesson into their life. Possibly by teaching them, helping them or showing them something. Through this experience you will become the mirror that they never knew they needed to spark a change in their life. However they‘ve been treating people now reverses back on them to put a reflection on them and their actions. As life goes on, the bigger your tests will become but you’re only going to grow and learn how to tap into and use your gifts as they are revealed to you. A lot of the times it can be frustrating, it’ll hurt and to some people it’ll look like you’ve lost out even though in reality you’ve gained a boatload of knowledge and wisdom. Your words can bring transparency clarity and insight to any situation. Your truth is needed. Never be afraid to speak up for yourself at any moments notice. By sharing my story, I feel like what I’ve  gone through will really help a lot of people when they're navigating through narcissistic abuse, gangstalking, gaslighting by large groups of people etc.  When people  play the victim after trying to victimize you and then they flip it and get other people involved.  I’ve learned to navigate and survive constantly going through traumatic situations that others are creating and hiding their hands, pretending not to be involved getting all of these other people involved that had nothing to do with it to begin with. Now they don't even have the real story, they're just going off of one side.  I can be your friendly reminder that no matter what happens or what they say, you are built for this. You got this and you will get through it beloved. By sharing my stories, I hope that what’s happened in my life is going to help someone else get through things that they currently feel like it's unbearable. This is a a safe space, allow me to be your  energetic blueprint and I will be here to help you navigate through these hard times. Peace and Blessings family! 

In this episode, we dissect the meaning of the saying “New Levels, New Devils”. I’m sure you have heard it once before.  I grew up in my household hearing it all the time. Whether you are mostly religious or don’t dabble in much religious talk, just are completely spiritual, I feel this has become a rather commonly used phrase. People can heavily underestimate what it means to finally reach and achieve certain goals in life a lot like what we are now witnessing in today’s Olympics. People are out there literally making history, achieving goals they’ve trained their entire  lifetime for. Imagine being called out as the one loser who tried to block someone from winning their Olympic gold medal. Just imagine what that would feel like. Believe it or not lots of people are out there trying to play that role in other peoples lives. Trying to block blessings and steal presents from underneath the Christmas tree just like the grinch. I’ve come to the understanding that there is no communicating with someone who likes to rewrite the story in their favor. The people who enjoy doing this will never forget what you have done for them or what a positive role you played in their lives. They just rather rewrite the story so that it puts them in the limelight. But somethings are not meant for you to stick around and see how they evolve. You need to move on from these people and worry about yourself. I don’t care how wild and crazy they act when you finally make your exit. All that noise they cause doesn’t affect me. They will try to say things they think will hurt you, create petty drama and none of that should phase you. If you’re anything like me, we’ve already been through a lot of stuff in life. Childish chaos and drama will never compare to any of that stuff you have already endured. I’m gonna do what I choose to do.  I’m gonna live my life,  I’m gonna make a conscious decision to be happy and I’m gonna show people by example what it’s like to take the bull by the horns to live the life I know I deserve.  I suggest you all do the same. Peace and blessings Family! I see y’all in the next episode. 

Hey Family! My name is Blythe or you can call me Bee 🐝 I'm 33, currently based out of North Carolina for now and I have a deep desire to share with others and learn from others on a non judgemental platform. So what better way than to express those thoughts and feelings here on my own little corner of the internet. I welcome you to BigGirlCertified Podcast where I can share with you all through my lens of life's lessons and theories that have shaped me thus far. I have come back on from a space where the podcast went quiet for a moment, all my OG's know we been here for some years now, just under construction. We started with two hosts and now it comes down to just "Me Myself and I" I attempted relaunches in the past but I honestly felt like everytime I would come back on in the past somebody somewhere allbit whether they were close to me or far away strangers would start sending out those negative vibes just because their mad I’ve spoken my truth. Prolly wishing the worst so I couldn’t continue forward pursuing my dream the way I have envisioned. First revamp attempt I lost a biz partner, second revamp I got sick with c0v!d and lost my job. Third revamp, I lost my apartment and was displaced in my living situation for about 6months. F that!  Ain’t no negative energy bout to stop me. I will always speak my truth. Idgaf who doesn’t like it. Join Me if your ready to continue to push the envelope even further on many of life's cliche topics and discussions.