Continuing our series on frustration and type 4. — (2:23) 3w2 interpersonal availability / we’re reacting to 3w2 not bashing it— (9:17) Aesthetic preferences for 4 as an expression of hidden personal selfhood— (14:40) 4 staying in the realm where things can only be seen in the dark— (18:12) The role of 4 for the collective heart in giving voice to personal brokenness and hell— (21:48) Rejection types setting the scene before getting personal— (25:21) The vast differences of Bermuda overlays — (29:45) To lead with frustration risks pain and disappointment— (33:45) What shame really means / why people start thinking they’re a 4 / beauty and art in 4ness— (45:55) 3 upholding beauty more functionally than 4 can— (49:42) Imageyness of 4w3 vs 4w5— (54:58) 4w3 is the fussy aesthete— (1:03:10) The role of 2 in collective generosity  Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the 3w4 exodus, Beksiński, Jojo Siwa, and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us fund new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message