In this episode Nicole sits down with Sheleana Aiyana, founder of Rising Woman and author of the international bestseller Becoming the One, to explore what it truly means to heal emotional wounds, interrupt old relationship patterns, and come home to the self.
Raised in a turbulent environment, Sheleana shares her personal journey through trauma, abandonment, and healing — and how those experiences inspired her to help millions of people reconnect with themselves and build conscious, healthy relationships. This conversation peels back the layers of emotional inheritance, attachment patterns, and how we can rewire our stories from the inside out.
Why people unconsciously repeat painful patterns in love and life
The difference between fear and intuition when it comes to decision-making
What “self-responsibility” really looks like in the healing process
How to identify safe, emotionally mature connections
The myths about healing that keep people stuck
This is not a conversation about quick fixes. It’s a deep, raw, and honest exploration of what it means to take ownership of your life without shame, blame, or perfectionism.
Becoming the One — Her bestselling guide to healing and self-reclamation
The Becoming Journal — A companion journal to support the daily practice of emotional transformation
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In this eye-opening conversation, Nicole sits down with X Eyee, a renowned AI expert who brings a unique perspective to the artificial intelligence conversation. A high school dropout and self-taught coder, X has spent 17 years working at the forefront of AI development at companies like Microsoft, Google, and the Department of Defense. Now serving as CEO of AI consulting firm Malo Santo and Senior Policy Advisor at UC Berkeley's Goldman School of Public Policy, X offers insights that bridge the gap between Silicon Valley innovation and real-world policy implications.
The conversation explores the dual nature of artificial intelligence - diving deep into both its transformative potential and its existential risks. X shares her experience navigating the complex world of responsible AI development while revealing the critical decisions that could determine our technological future.
From her military service in Afghanistan conducting data operations to becoming Microsoft's first blockchain ambassador, X brings a rare combination of technical expertise, policy knowledge, and real-world experience to this essential discussion. She even shares her candid advice on how she would guide Mark Zuckerberg and the Meta team on their AI strategy - insights that reveal the high-stakes conversations happening behind closed doors in Silicon Valley.
Whether AI will be humanity's greatest tool or its final mistake may depend on the choices we make today - and X Eyee is helping shape those decisions at the highest levels of tech and government, and teaching us how we can help shape our future as this new technology disrupts.
In a refreshingly honest and revealing conversation, Nicole Behnam sits down with top plastic surgeons Dr. Ritu Chopra, known for his Deep Plane Facelift, and Dr. Nathaniel Villanueva, known for his body contouring. These two experts don’t just reshape faces and bodies, but also challenge the culture around beauty itself.
They break down the most popular procedures of 2025 — what’s trending, what’s timeless, and what they refuse to do.
In a candid conversation, they openly discuss the things most surgeons would never say out loud. From the psychological impact of beauty standards on both women and men, to breast implant illness, to the ethics of turning down patients, this episode is a deep dive into the values that guide their work.
Dr. Chopra and Dr. Villanueva share why they reject the “one-size-fits-all” aesthetic and instead champion natural, subtle enhancement that aligns with each individual’s unique features — and more importantly, their well-being.
This episode is about more than surgery — it’s about honesty, integrity, and redefining beauty on your own terms.
In this episode, relationship expert Jillian delves into the concept of self-love and its impact on relationships, offering insights on how self-worth and emotional growth influence romantic connections.
Jillian discusses two common views on self-love: one suggests that you need to fully love yourself before entering a relationship, while the other believes self-love is learned through relationships. Jillian feels both ideas have limitations, explaining that past experiences, such as childhood or previous relationships, shape how we perceive our worth and impact our interactions with others.
Jillian stresses that self-worth isn’t about being perfect but accepting yourself, flaws and all. Building self-esteem involves actions that strengthen confidence, not just affirmations. She encourages people to meet their personal needs—whether it’s financial stability, adventure, or connection—as a way to boost self-esteem.
When it comes to dating, Jillian suggests women can make the first move by starting a conversation or sharing contact info, but the man should still pursue further. She warns against chasing someone who isn’t interested, which can stem from a need for validation. Jillian also talks about how societal pressures, especially through social media, can distort perceptions of men and women, leading to negative stereotypes and dysfunctional beliefs.
Want more insights from Jillian? Her Bestselling Book “It Starts With You” is out now.
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Yung Pueblo joins Beyond The Interview to talk about his experiences as a poet, writer, and spiritual thinker. From building an audience of over 4 million through social media to navigating tough personal moments, he shares wisdom on navigating relationships, maintaining mental health, and being intentional about how we spend our time and energy.
In response to the dire need for intentional online dating, Yung Pueblo and Nicole discuss the launch of his new app, Ready, which is a transformative online space for relationships. While most dating apps are made to be deleted once a match is successfully made, Ready is designed to stay, guiding users to view relationships as a skill — a personal asset that can be honed and improved. Much of his work revolves around this belief system, that we can always improve ourselves, our communication, and our relationships.
This episode is also packed with insights on persistence, creativity, communication, and the power of meditation.
Join the waitlist for Ready - the relationship platform that fosters growth as you date, and as you keep your relationship strong.
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Yung Pueblo, born Diego Perez, is a poet, writer, and speaker widely known for his insightful reflections on personal growth, mindfulness, and emotional healing. His work, often shared on social media, resonates with those seeking clarity, balance, and a deeper understanding of themselves.
David Ghiyam is one of the leading Kabbalah teachers in the world, and co-founder of MaryRuth Organics. He teaches the spiritual wisdom of Kabbalah in person and online to help people achieve success, find love and find deeper meaning in their lives.
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In this episode, Nicole sits down with Lukas Pakter, founder of SquidHaus, to talk about his experiences navigating business, friendships, dating, and life in general as a young entrepreneur. Nicole and Lukas both draw lessons from their personal lives and compare notes on their general observations about people and relationship dynamics.
With tremendous reach in his early 20s, Lukas hosts the SquidTalk Podcast where he speaks with all different types of successful entrepreneurs about a variety of topics.
Lukas also launched a free Discord for young, ambitious people looking to network and meet others. He shares daily wisdom on his Instagram and TikTok feeds, and doesn't hesitate to divulge stories about his dating life, work life, or observations about the world around him.
Viral storyteller and cultural icon Christian Walker joins Nicole Behnam on Beyond The Interview to discuss his new path as a champion of women. Leaving behind and being repulsed by a short stint as a political commentator, Walker realized his time was better spent demystifying the myths that still plague modern society, and teaching women how to enhance their lives and stay empowered in environments that may not always enable them to thrive.
In this episode Nicole and Christian discuss friendship, modern love, parenting, attraction, and the messaging our youth are being programmed with. Christian also touches on his personal life, and shares the fuel that lights his fire as he moves forward in his quest to tell women's stories in various formats across multiple platforms.
In this intimate conversation, beloved actress and entrepreneur Ashley Greene opens up about the joys and challenges of her personal evolution, offering heartfelt insights into her career with family life. Discover a new side of Ashley as she delves into her ventures as an entrepreneur, sharing the inspiration behind her latest venture, Hummingway, and the lessons she's learned along the way. From navigating the highs and lows of Hollywood to the rewarding experiences of building a business and starting a family, this episode offers a multifaceted look into the life of a modern-day renaissance woman. Whether you're a fan of Ashley Greene's work or simply seeking inspiration from a driven woman, this episode promises to leave you enlightened and uplifted. Listen to discover the layers of Ashley Greene beyond the spotlight.
Nicole Behnam sits down with Mark Moss to talk about the history of money and how it relates to Bitcoin— a crash course that should be taught in schools. They also delve into topics like family, values, community, and much more.
In the episode, Konstantin Kisin delves into societal dynamics, particularly the harmful notion of adversarial relationships between groups, such as men versus women, minorities versus majorities, or various other divides like LGBT versus non-LGBT. Konstantin condemns this divisive mindset, asserting that cooperation and mutual support have historically been essential for human survival and progress.
He attributes the "versus" mentality to a deep-rooted human need for belonging and community.
Konstantin emphasizes that experiencing trauma and realizing the imperfections of the world are universal aspects of life.
He also opens up about his marriage, and the importance of doing the work in order to keep a relationship afloat. He shares many reasonable takes which appear to be controversial in today’s society, but hey, someone needs to say it.
We live in a world where financial literacy education is almost nonexistent. Enter Codie Sanchez— an investor, business owner, and social media star who’s on a mission to help people become financially and philosophically free.
In this episode, Nicole and Codie begin by going over the terminology that schools never taught us about business and how people can get skin in the game/ equity in businesses they devote so much of their time to.
Later Codie gives her two cents on how to navigate fame and the criticism that comes with increased exposure.
They discuss the importance of aligned values and ethics in both friendships and relationships, and the role of sacrifice when it comes to success.
By the end of this episode you will have a newfound perspective on what you’ve been taught by your parents, institutions, + society, and will walk away with concrete advice on how to have significantly more fulfillment and freedom both financially and in your relationships.
What does success truly mean? For Ann McFerren, founder of Glamnetic and a Forbes 30 Under 30 and Top Inks recipient, it's defined by happiness and the freedom to pursue what you love. Join us as we walk through Ann's inspiring story, from her challenging childhood in Bangkok to the launch of her successful lash business, Glamnetic. Ann's journey is a testament to the power of determination, creativity, and the transformative potential of gratitude and manifestation.
Ann's journey to building a successful beauty business Glamnetic is a riveting tale of resilience. Recognizing a gap in the market for magnetic eyelashes, she spent a year and a half researching and developing her product— a venture that saw her make $1,000 in sales on her first day. As we explore the growth of Glamnetic, we'll discuss the tactics Ann used to grow her business, like Facebook ads and DM sales, and the challenges she faced in expanding her team and navigating the uncertainties of the pandemic.
Finally, we'll delve into Ann's philosophies around success, relationships, and gratitude. She believes that success is not measured by wealth or fame, but by contentment and the freedom to pursue one's passions. Through her own experiences, she underscores the importance of appreciating the little things in life and the power of manifestation in attracting success. So, prepare yourself for an episode filled with insights that promise to inspire and motivate you to redefine your own idea of success.
(0:00:00) - The Journey of Glamnetic's Founder
(0:09:34) - Creating a Successful Lash Business
(0:16:32) - Glamnetic
(0:26:16) - Passion and Challenges in Business
(0:39:53) - Defining Success and Deep Connections
(0:52:14) - Finding Gratitude and Overcoming Trauma
(0:55:39) - Gratitude and True Love's Power
(0:59:08) - Attachment Styles and Manifestation in Relationships
(1:04:14) - Manifestation and Creating a Vision
(1:14:02) - Relationship Dynamics and Breaking Barriers
(1:21:53) - Trust Instincts, Power of Psychedelics
(1:29:40) - Connecting on the Spiritual Journey
Sahil Bloom has the social media generation figured out, and wants to help us tackle our struggles. In this episode we discuss the challenges of love, friendship, and connection in a world full of distractions and addictions. Sahil highlights the importance of humility, open-mindedness, and the ability to hold opposing views to foster meaningful conversations and connections. He provides us with tips on how to navigate life while opening up about his personal journey, including his upbringing, struggles with identity, and the relationships in his life. He talks about his roles and responsibilities as a son, a husband, a father, and a friend. Later, we talk about the importance of perspective and the power of video content in today's digital landscape. He stresses the need to adapt to changing attention spans and the shift towards short-form video. Sahil also shares his views on the current state of social media and the challenges of navigating online platforms.
Key Takeaways:
Humility and open-mindedness are essential for fostering meaningful conversations and understanding different perspectives.
The pursuit of happiness should focus on personal growth and finding joy in ordinary moments.
Building strong friendships and relationships requires effort, empathy, and genuine connection.
Chasing external achievements or material possessions does not guarantee happiness or fulfillment.
Short-form video is the future of content and offers a powerful way to connect with audiences.
Kyle Creek AKA The Captain opens up about his journey as a writer and the challenges he faced in finding his place in the world. He discusses the fear of rejection and the importance of avoiding tribalism and thinking critically. Kyle shares his experiences of breaking into the writing industry and the obstacles he had to overcome. He also talks about the evolution of his online persona “The Captain” and the value of vulnerability and authenticity. Writing has the power to impact and change lives.
Key Takeaways:
The fear of rejection can cause turmoil and prevent personal growth.
Avoiding tribalism and thinking critically is essential for personal development.
Kyle's journey as a writer involved persistence and overcoming rejection.
Embracing vulnerability and authenticity can lead to meaningful connections.
Writing has the power to impact and change lives.
Calley Means discusses the influence of big pharma and food companies on the healthcare industry, emphasizing the financial incentives that drive the industry and impact the quality of care and research. Calley highlights the interconnectedness of health issues like obesity, mental health, and chronic diseases, influenced by factors such as processed food and pharmaceutical drugs. He criticizes the lack of curiosity and media coverage on these issues and calls for a shift in focus towards preventive measures and addressing root causes.
Discover the intricate links between obesity, diabetes, and mental health—shaped by processed foods and pharmaceuticals. Calley critiques the media's apathy, advocating for preventive, root-cause-focused shifts. Explore the links between cancer and seed oils, the ozempic epidemic, America’s obesity problem, and the lifestyle choices that lead to depression and other illnesses in this eye-opening episode.
Key Takeaways:
The healthcare industry is driven by financial incentives, which prioritize profit over patient health.
Pharmaceutical companies heavily influence medical research and guidelines through funding.
Nutrition research is influenced by food companies, which spend significantly more on research than the NIH.
Obesity is a representation of underlying metabolic dysfunction.
The current approach to healthcare focuses on managing symptoms rather than addressing root causes.
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If anyone knows how the music industry operates, it’s Wendy Starland. On our episode, Wendy and I discuss the music industry, what it was like to discover and develop Lady Gaga, Los Angeles culture, and much more. She also shares her insights on the emerging generation of singers and content creators as a songwriter and producer on Banded: The Musician Competition Show on AXS.
Nicole sits down with content creator and comedian Nicole Arbour. The two discuss Nicole’s career, her highs and lows as a comedian, her guest appearance on “The View”, and the responses to some of her more “controversial” content.
Nicole sits down with entertainment industry veteran Nicholas Adler. The two discuss Nick’s brand, MNTGE, his time working with Snoop Dogg, his perspective on authenticity and culture, building brands in an ever-evolving Web3 landscape, and being a father.
Nicole sits down with Lisa Bilyeu, Co-Founder of Impact Theory, Quest Nutrition, and host of Women of Impact. They discuss modern relationship dynamics and examine how gender can affect power dynamics, communication, and intimacy in today’s world. Later, Lisa gives insights from her own life on how to create equitable and satisfying partnerships in business relationships and in marriage.