Josselyn is a superstar stud from LA. In this conversation, Josselyn & Stephanie touch on a variety of topics that are relevant to the LGBTQ+ community. One of the main themes is the lack of representation in mainstream media, particularly when it comes to dating shows. There are few shows that cater to the LGBTQ+ community, which can make it challenging for people to find partners and feel seen. To help this, Josselyn started a speed dating show on her TikTok where she’s seen great success. The conversation also delves into personal experiences with dating and sexuality. They touch on the challenges faced by bisexual women within the lesbian dating community. Another important theme that emerges in this conversation is the idea of maintaining one's individual identity within a relationship. Josselyn emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and not compromising who they are for the sake of a relationship. She notes that it can be challenging to find someone who truly understands and accepts them for who they are, but that it is ultimately worth it to hold out for that kind of connection. Overall, this conversation sheds light on some of the unique challenges facing the LGBTQ+ community when it comes to dating and representation in media, while also highlighting the importance of staying true to oneself and finding partners who accept and appreciate all aspects of one's identity.

Sarp shares his thoughts on modern dating in the gay dating scene. As a gay monogamous man, he highlights the challenges he faces and emphasizes the significance of open communication and avoiding toxic behaviors in relationships. The discussion then turns to the subject of Grindr and its impact on the gay dating scene. Sarp recounts his personal experiences with the app, shedding light on the hostility that occurs within it. He contemplates the possibility of creating a new dating app that incorporates prompts regarding users' relationship preferences. The importance of self-acceptance before entering a relationship is also explored, as Sarp suggests taking time alone, free from distractions, to find inner peace. The conversation dives into Sarp's encounters with bisexual men and the societal erasure of bisexuality. Overall, Sarp shares the significance of healthy communication, self-discovery, and acceptance in both romantic and platonic relationships.

In this podcast episode, Doyen shares their insights on the importance of communication and accountability in a dominant and submissive relationships. Doyen emphasizes the need for eye contact and humanization after reaching a limit in a scene, as well as the importance of being emotionally and technically aware to maintain safety. Doyen also differentiates between topping and dominating, and stresses that the submissive is the one with the power in the relationship. They suggest trying things on oneself to gain familiarity with different sensations, and recommends being open to feedback as a necessary part of the feedback loop in BDSM relationships. Ultimately, Doyen encourages listeners to be humble, communicate openly, and be accountable in their BDSM relationships.

Oyku, Co-Founder & CEO of Beyond, was a recent guest on the podcast. She discussed her personal journey of self-discovery and how it led to the creation of the app. Growing up in a society that put a lot of pressure on traditional relationships, Oyku struggled to find her place in the dating world. After leaving a monogamous relationship, she explored her bisexuality and began to question the societal expectations placed on relationships. This led her to discover alternatives to traditional monogamy and eventually create Beyond, a dating app that focuses on self-discovery and autonomy in dating. Oyku emphasized the importance of open communication and mutual respect in any type of partnership, whether it be monogamous or ethically non-monogamous. She also spoke about the struggles of navigating her sexuality in a culture that often stigmatizes anything that deviates from the norm. Despite these challenges, Oyku has found liberation in owning her sexuality and identity, and hopes to provide a safe space for others to do the same through the app. Overall, Oyku's journey serves as a reminder that societal expectations should never hold us back from exploring our true selves and finding fulfilling relationships.

Jocelyn Aker shared a few of her thoughts on dating as a good Christian girl in LA on the Beyond Dating podcast. She talked about how dating isn't a priority in LA, where people often go for fame and fortune. As a result, people don't think about who they want to be with long-term. This results in short-term relationships and casual flings, but nothing more. Jocelyn also shared her thoughts on finding people to date in LA. She suggested that you should just live your life as you normally would and that you would find someone along the way. For example, if you're a Christian girl, you can go to church, coffee shops, or out to dinner. You could even go to clubs if that's your thing. However, she warns that you should avoid certain clubs and be cautious of people who put on a show to make you believe they are important when they really aren't. When asked about her ideal relationship, Jocelyn said that she wants a fairytale love story. She wants love at first sight and the perfect person who has it all together to come and sweep her off her feet. However, she acknowledges that this isn't always possible, and that there are a lot of frogs out there. In terms of red flags to watch out for, Jocelyn suggests that you avoid people who are too unavailable or have multiple phones. She also shared a funny story about the craziest date she's ever been on, where the guy begged her to pull up Kim Kardashian's sex tape on a train during their first date. Overall, Jocelyn's insights provide an interesting perspective on dating as a good Christian girl in LA. While it may not be easy, it's important to be confident and secure in yourself and to keep an open mind when it comes to finding love.

The Beyond Dating podcast recently featured an interview with Mindie, a relationship expert who hosts the MaleRoom podcast. Mindie shared her insights on various topics related to dating and relationships, based on her experiences interviewing men from different backgrounds and cultures. One of the main takeaways from the interview is that men are complex, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to dating them. Mindie noted that different men have different perspectives and preferences, depending on their experiences and life stages. She also highlighted the importance of being aware of what traits you want in a partner, and paying attention to what kind of traits a potential partner brings out in you. Throughout the interview, Mindie shared a number of anecdotes and stories that shed light on the challenges and complexities of dating. For example, she recounted a story about a man who asked her to send him pictures of her ears so that he could show them to a spiritual guru for a reading. Mindie's story highlights the importance of being cautious and aware of red flags when dating. Another interesting topic discussed in the interview is the role of therapy in relationships. Mindie noted that many men are hesitant to seek therapy because of cultural and societal stigmas around mental health. However, she emphasized the importance of therapy in helping men grow and improve their relationships. Overall, the interview provides valuable insights into the minds of men, and highlights the importance of being aware of our own needs and preferences when dating. By being open and honest with ourselves and our partners, we can build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. If you're interested in learning more about Mindie's insights and experiences, check out the MaleRoom podcast. MaleRoom Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/maleroom/id1475416999 Learn more about Beyond: https://www.datebeyond.co/ Apply for a Membership: https://www.datebeyond.co/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datebeyond Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datebeyond/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@datebeyond Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/datebeyond Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4psou5GDd48JENr4E5nIUA Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beyond-dating-podcast/id1660829558 Listen on Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5zaW1wbGVjYXN0LmNvbS9WMnZIRjJESQ?sa=X&ved=0CAMQ4aUDahcKEwiIkOLvroj8AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQDg

Stephanie and James on the Beyond Dating Podcast discussed modern dating and relationships. James believes that in today's world, everyone is dating, and it's almost fringe to be in a committed relationship. He feels that people are constantly half-in, half-out because of the limitless options available. James recommends that people turn inward to really know themselves and what they do or don't like. He believes that being open and comfortable enough to express one's feelings is essential. James also discussed open relationships and believes that the main things to consider are boundaries, time, and happiness. In terms of sharing one's boundaries, James believes that there is no right or wrong way, but it's important to address them when they arise and not let them build up. Stephanie added that she usually addresses boundary issues immediately and recommends being communicative about it. In conclusion, James believes that a relationship without conflict is like a movie without an antagonist, and it's essential to have boundaries and expectations in place.

In this podcast episode, Sharhonda shares her experiences as a bisexual woman and reflects on the LGBTQ community and its changes over time. She mentions that more people are openly identifying as queer, but the push for marriage has flattened queerness in some ways. She also highlights the need for queer dedicated spaces and the importance of talking about queerness as a political issue that intersects with class. Sharhonda also touches on the experiences of queer people of color and the need for activism in local communities. Finally, she offers advice for queer people of color who are considering coming out, acknowledging that it's a personal decision and that everyone has different considerations.

In this episode of the Beyond Dating podcast, host Stephanie and guest Travon Free discuss the experiences of being Black and bisexual in society. Travon mentions that people in the LGBTQ+ community have always existed, but now they have a space and freedom to be who they are. Travon finds it fascinating to learn about people who are different from themselves and is excited about the growing amount of literature and storytelling about different genders, sexualities, and identities. Travon highlights a Netflix show called "Heart Stopper" as the best representation of the experiences of someone discovering their bisexuality that he has seen. Travon encourages everyone to consume as much queer storytelling and literature as possible, whether you identify as LGBTQ+ or not. Travon also acknowledges that there is still room for growth and improvement within the LGBTQ+ community, as there are issues such as racism, sexism, fat phobia, transphobia, and homophobia that still exist within it.

Stephanie and Mika James talk about exploring art, music, and connection on the Beyond Dating podcast. Mika speaks about her experience growing up as a black woman who identifies as pansexual and how it was not something that was discussed or accepted in her family until recently. Mika also mentions her coming out process, which was gradual and made in passing. She mentions finding her community of like-minded individuals has been a challenge for her, especially after moving to Miami from New York. Mika values connection, community, art, health, comfort, and genuine relationships.

In this episode of the Beyond Dating podcast, Stephanie and Yogev discuss the process of creating a dating profile and how to make oneself seem enticing to potential matches. They also talk about the importance of having a wide vocabulary and being able to effectively communicate one's desires in a dating profile. Yogev offers to revamp Stephanie's dating profile and they discuss the concept of being a pleasure Dom, which involves finding fulfillment in giving pleasure to one's partner. The conversation also touches on the use of kink in dating. Learn more about Beyond: https://www.datebeyond.co/ Apply for a Membership: https://www.datebeyond.co/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datebeyond Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datebeyond/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@datebeyond Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/datebeyond Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4psou5GDd48JENr4E5nIUA Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beyond-dating-podcast/id1660829558 Listen on Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5zaW1wbGVjYXN0LmNvbS9WMnZIRjJESQ?sa=X&ved=0CAMQ4aUDahcKEwiIkOLvroj8AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQDg

In this episode of The Beyond Dating podcast, host Steph speaks with Brian about his journey to self-discovery and authenticity in dating. Brian shares that he has not had any specific role models in the past that have influenced his dating style, as he realized that it is impossible to truly know another person's relationship. Instead, he has focused on self-discovery and setting a vision for himself at different ages in the future. Brian also delves into his idea of a modern relationship, which is about recognizing that love has many faces and our expectations of ourselves do not have to conform to societal norms. He encourages listeners to provide themselves with the freedom to be in love with more than one person, to have different types of love (romantic and platonic), and to not feel pressured to conform to society's expectations. He also highlights that with access to people and cultures all over the world, we now have the freedom to look inward and find what truly drives us in relationships, and match that with what the world offers. Overall, this episode encourages listeners to break free from societal expectations and embrace self-discovery and authenticity in their dating lives.

In this podcast episode, Roxy shares her experiences with dating and relationships as a bisexual woman. She discusses the importance of setting boundaries and expectations with partners, and the challenges of finding someone who is confident in their own sexuality and open to intimacy. Roxy also talks about her preference for male partners in the long term, and how her Pisces sign influences her tendency to be a caretaker in relationships. She also shares her journey to understanding and embracing her bisexuality, as she grew up in a traditional family and initially only dated men. Overall, the conversation highlights the diverse and individual experiences of people in the LGBTQ+ community, and the importance of honesty and communication in any relationship.

Kyra La Rosa's view on sexual energy is not just restricted to her own life, but to life itself. She believes that sexual energy is the source of life on earth; that if we look to nature, we can see the animals and flowers as a representation of this energy, as they are always creating and procreating. Kyra sees our life force as being rooted in sexual energy, and she believes it is the center of who we are. She shares what masculine and feminine energy is and how it can show up in relationships with others and yourself. Kyra tells us that our sexual energy is a form of creative power. She encourages us to explore our own desires and to understand the beauty of our own unique sexuality. She believes that by honoring and respecting our own sexual energy, we can experience a deeper connection to ourselves and others, and that this connection can lead to a more fulfilling life. Kyra's message is one of acceptance and celebration of our sexual energy, and she offers guidance on how to use it to create a more meaningful and joyful life.

In this podcast episode, JaBarie discusses his experiences with dating as a gay Black man in New York City. He highlights the fetishization and stereotyping he has encountered and the difficulties of trying to be respected as a person rather than being put into a specific category. JaBarie shares his ideal relationship style, which allows for openness with a set of rules rather than denying his partner the opportunity to explore and encouraging them to hide their desires. He and Stephanie also discuss how social media has impacted dating and the importance of communication in relationships.

In today's episode of the Beyond Dating Podcast, the special guest is Leiti Hsu, also known as the Dining Dominatrix. Hsu, who immigrated to California from Taiwan at a young age, discovered that her love language is food after her mother passed away and she was making Taiwan's beef noodle soup for 120 people at a conference. Hsu believes that food, love, permission, pleasure, fun, enjoyment, flavor, and culture are all ingredients in her work and art. Hsu also believes that pleasure is an important aspect of life and decision making, and that those in power should experience the pleasure of things like warm tomatoes from a farmer chef or Hoka Uni in the market in order to make more optimized decisions. Hsu also discusses her experiences with trauma around identity and self-worth, and how her experiences with food and sex were more positive.