When my veneer fell out mid-lunch, I thought it was a dental problem. God used it to expose a deeper one: performance pressure disguised as “being excellent.” This is a message for high-achieving Christian men who lead well in business but feel empty at home. Grace builds what polish breaks.In this video you’ll learn:- The difference between excellence (fruit of grace) and perfectionism (fruit of fear)- Why image-management creates burnout and blocks connection- How God fills the gap (2 Corinthians 12:9) and restores identity and presenceResources: 📓 Principles to Practice Journal (Scripture → Strategy) → https://www.amazon.com/Principles-Practice-Journal-Scripture-Strategy/dp/B0FTM2Z87W/ref=sr_1_1?crid=24KWHPJ7L0EWA&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.g7DnxTQdKgrgN2QKiRaEPJ9YJDDua2HxDEUk6pzi-tNxn2zC0ME8NLHvwwQiGSQ--wjTDVpHMDtqa6Z40eWKBk-XJ8Dw6i3R6KToeG2_tjG2cvvI7qAxPl7BSE0ipC03DBOdIy46-dY_ozDSFev0WtPVQBipODzFlXODuW8YZW5Xz68mmQ8uelxJX4sZlgOEvyl73VrerGDz3p-XXrbz_34fU5SiQ-lX8tW-3mpY33Q.3Rjd4ORNUvJMx_94AACYgOCRRQ_YoqjOoARo0SYwwPY&dib_tag=se&keywords=principle+to+practice+journal&qid=1761849432&sprefix=princple+to+practice+journal%2Caps%2C111&sr=8-1 🤝 1:1 Coaching with Coach Red → https://forms.gle/GeAX16nH1rtpBiJr7 🙏 Subscribe for weekly faith + psychology tools to help Christian men win at home and walk in true identity.Chapters:00:00 A Dental Disaster: When Teeth Fall Out00:46 Reflecting on Insecurities and Past Struggles01:48 The Deeper Meaning Behind the Veneer02:09 Perfectionism vs. Grace03:12 The Trap of Social Media Perfection04:08 Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity06:34 Practical Steps to Embrace Imperfection08:16 A Challenge to Embrace Imperfection09:06 Final Thoughts and a PrayerWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
🦋 Are you in a season where it feels like God is silent, slow, or absent? You're not stuck—you’re still becoming.In this week’s video, I walk you through the 4 sacred stages of transformation using the life cycle of a butterfly. From hidden beginnings to breakthrough purpose, you’ll see how God shapes your identity in secret, not shame.00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Silence00:48 Meet Red Wallace: Your Guide to Spiritual Growth01:19 Stage 1: The Egg - Hidden Beginnings03:20 Stage 2: The Caterpillar - Growth Through Consumption04:43 Stage 3: The Pupa - Transformation in Stillness09:15 Stage 4: The Butterfly - Emerging to Fly11:23 Special Announcement: P2P Journal Launch12:15 Conclusion: Reflect and EngageWhether you’re in a waiting season, a shedding season, or a silent one—this is for you.💥 Ready to embrace your process? Drop a 🦋 in the comments and let us know which stage you’re in.📔 Get the P2P Journal: Principles to Practice for Men Who Lead Not a diary. A discipline. 👉 Grab your copy on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FTM2Z87W— 🎯 More resources to grow your faith + leadership: 👉 Redprint Coaching Framework → [link to your coaching/website if available]📩 Join my newsletter for more teachings like this → https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/waitinglist🎧 Listen on the go: https://open.spotify.com/show/5tWDNsFMgKSYjzIrNzQRfT?si=5FlclD2FRXOYSjgmVNsCsA— 🙌 Scriptures Mentioned: Jeremiah 1:5 Romans 12:2 John 12:24 Isaiah 40:31 Luke 1:75–78#ChristianMotivation #SpiritualGrowth #ButterflyMetaphor #FaithTransformationWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
What if your self-help habits are actually making you less like Jesus?You read the books. You try the morning routines. You feel productive… but deep down, you’re still anxious, disconnected, or stuck.Today, we're diving into the Dunning-Kruger effect and why self-help without Christ can lead to pride, burnout, or even spiritual emptiness.I’ll walk you through:00:00 Introduction: The Hidden Dangers of Self-Help01:12 The Dunning-Kruger Effect: Confidence vs. Competence01:56 Mount Stupid: The Perils of Overconfidence02:46 Valley of Despair: Overcoming Shame and Failure03:19 Slope of Enlightenment: Knowledge vs. Intimacy04:04 Plateau of Wisdom: True Maturity in Christ05:29 Self-Check Moments: Reflect and Grow06:57 Exciting Announcement: P2P Journal Launch08:22 Final Thoughts: Walking with Jesus and CommunityThis is not a shame video—it's an invitation to grow with God, not just for Him.📔 Get the P2P Journal: Principles to Practice for Men Who Lead Not a diary. A discipline. 👉 Grab your copy on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FTM2Z87W📍 COMMENT BELOW: Which stage are you currently in? Let’s walk this out together.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Are you saying “yes” to every opportunity... yet feeling spiritually dry, drained, and directionless?📔 Get the P2P Journal: Principles to Practice for Men Who Lead Not a diary. A discipline. 👉 Grab your copy on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FTM2Z87WIn this message, Coach Red Wallace breaks down the raw truth behind Obedience vs Opportunity — and why too many Christian men are mistaking busyness for faithfulness.This isn’t just a talk about time management — it’s a call to spiritual realignment.Because the question isn’t “Can I do this?” — it’s “Did God ask me to?”If you’ve ever felt:- Overwhelmed by busyness and burnout- Confused about your calling and purpose- Distant from God even while doing “all the right things”- Then this word is for you.Coach Red shares personal stories, biblical insight from Luke 10 (Martha & Mary) and 1 Samuel 15 (Saul’s partial obedience), and a practical framework to help you:✅ Slow down.✅ Discern God’s voice.✅ Choose effectiveness over efficiency and obedience over opportunity.✝️ In This Video You’ll Learn:00:00 Introduction: The Pursuit of Happiness00:23 Happiness vs. Joy: Understanding the Difference00:36 Opportunities vs. Obedience: Making the Right Choice01:11 The Dangers of Overcommitment01:24 Meet Red Wallace: Your Guide to True Leadership01:54 The Trap of Productivity Without Purpose03:25 Biblical Examples of Obedience04:08 Practical Steps to Align with God's Will06:43 The Importance of Rest and Obedience07:57 Conclusion: Embrace Obedience for True Joy👊 Drop this in the comments:What are YOU saying “no” to in this season so you can finally say “yes” to God?🔔 Subscribe for more videos that help Christian men rediscover identity, purpose, and legacy leadership in Christ.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Husbands — is your tone tearing down the very people you’re called to love?
It’s not just what you say — it’s how you say it. In this video, I’m sharing the 5 tone shifts that changed everything for me: the way I talk to my wife, the atmosphere in my home, and the way I lead as a man of God.
I used to snap out of exhaustion, not anger — but my tone was still lethal. Maybe you’ve been there: your wife or kids flinch at your words, even when you didn’t mean harm. That’s when I realized: your tone sets the temperature of your home.
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These 5 shifts are rooted in Scripture + psychology and will help you:
Pause before you pounce (STOPP method)
Reframe negative thoughts before they poison your marriage
Step into your wife’s shoes to unlock empathy
Anchor calm when emotions run high
Speak truth in love — so it builds, not breaks
👉 Your tone sets the temperature of your home. Change your tone, and you’ll shift your legacy.
00:00 Introduction: The Power of Tone in Relationships
01:12 Understanding the Root of Emotional Mismanagement
02:07 Shift 1: Pause Before You Pounce
04:24 Shift 2: Reframe the Negativity
05:25 Shift 3: Step Into Her Shoes
06:25 Exciting News: P2P Principles to Practice Journal
07:49 Shift 4: Anchor a Calmer You
08:53 Shift 5: Speak the Truth in Love
09:49 Conclusion: Building a Legacy of Trust
11:26 Final Challenge and Call to Action
Drop a 🙏 in the comments if you’re committing to one shift this week.
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Could it be that the harder you try to “fix” your wife, the more cracks you’re putting in your marriage, your peace, and her trust?I know—it sounds backwards. But here’s the truth every Christian husband has to wrestle with: you don’t transform your wife by force. You transform your marriage by surrender. By walking with God. By leading from a place of example, not control.In this video, I’m breaking it down:🔨 Why spiritual leadership isn’t control—it’s covering (Ephesians 6) 🔥 What happens when you lead without protection 👀 The power of example vs. the pain of dragging 📖 How to grow your own walk with the 5-5-5 method 💡 What to do when your wife isn’t spiritually engaged ❤️ And how my own marriage shifted the moment I stopped pushing and started trusting God00:00 Introduction: The Paradox of Fixing Problems00:33 Personal Journey: Striving and Struggling01:49 The Firefighter Analogy: Protecting Your Marriage03:17 Focus on Your Walk: Spiritual Discipline03:56 Exciting News: New Journal Launch05:22 Lead by Example: Guiding, Not Dragging06:56 Trusting God: Patience and Humility11:43 Challenge: Daily Declarations and Reflections12:31 Conclusion: Sharpening Each Other📔 Get the P2P Journal – Principles to Practice for Men Who Lead Not a diary. A discipline. 👉 Grab your copy on Amazon: [link in description]📌 Join the 7-Day Challenge: Declare it out loud: “This week I will not defend my pride. I will defend the peace in my home.”Then reflect each evening:- What tested me today?- Did I react or respond?- What did I learn about myself and God?Drop your reflections in the comments. Let’s hold each other accountable.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Do you feel like life is hitting harder the closer you walk with God? Good. That’s not punishment—it’s proof.In this message, I’m unpacking why the pressure, the pain, and the problems you face are often confirmation that you’re moving in obedience. Obedience always attracts opposition—but it also unlocks destiny.🛑 Stop mistaking resistance for failure.🛠 Start seeing it as evidence that God is building something in you.⚡ Ready to level up your leadership and legacy? 👉 Book your complimentary call: https://calendly.com/coachredwallace/let-s-talk-about-itJoin the waiting list: https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/waitinglistInside this video, we’ll cover:00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Struggle01:13 Understanding the Weight of Obedience02:09 Personal Testimony: Red's Journey03:35 Stories of Faith and Resilience04:49 Biblical Examples of Disruption08:58 Practical Steps to Overcome Opposition11:41 Conclusion: Keep Walking in Faith💥 If you’re a husband, a father, a leader—or simply trying to follow Jesus and feel like hell broke loose—this is for YOU.🔔 Subscribe and join the Better Than Best movement.#Faith #ChristianMen #LegacyLeadership #SpiritualWarfare #BiblicalTruthWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
From drug dealing and jail time to building a thriving RV rental franchise, Garr Russell's testimony is one of radical transformation, relentless faith, and restored purpose. In this raw and powerful interview, Garr shares how he went from the pit to God’s promise, how entrepreneurship became a tool for redemption, and how you can bounce back from even the worst of seasons.
🙏 If you’ve ever felt too far gone or wondered if your mess could become your ministry — this episode is for you.
Connect with Garr Russell here: https://garrrussell.com/
🎧 We dive deep into:
- Garr’s dark past and the moment Jesus changed everything
- How he rebuilt after bankruptcy in 2008
- Turning pain into purpose through business
- Lessons for Christian entrepreneurs facing fear and failure
- How to hear from God and walk in obedience
- And why surrender is the real key to success
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00:00 A Radical Transformation
00:33 Introduction to the Podcast
01:13 Garr Russell's Early Life and Struggles
02:29 Finding Faith and Redemption
05:20 The Power of Forgiveness
10:28 Entrepreneurial Journey and Challenges
13:00 Losing Everything in 2008
15:09 Lessons from Failure and Restoration
19:35 Encouragement for Struggling Entrepreneurs
22:54 The Importance of Perseverance
25:22 Myron's Impactful Quote
26:06 Trusting God's Plan
27:30 Turning Pain into Purpose
30:16 The Power of Hope and Faith
32:59 Resilience Through Challenges
37:04 Renewing the Mind
41:17 Practical Steps for Overcoming Doubt
47:03 The Importance of Community
48:39 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
#FaithOverFear #ChristianEntrepreneur #Testimony #RedemptionStory #KingdomBusiness #JesusSaves #GodIsAble
WHO AM I
Hey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Experience a moving emotional story of change and personal development. Witness how one individual's heartfelt stories of overcoming feeling overwhelmed can inspire you to make a difference in your own life. It's a reminder that even in the darkest times, transformation is possible.
At 21, Jason Pollock was living in a friend’s basement, lost, broken, and searching for purpose. Then—one encounter changed everything.In this raw and powerful conversation, Jason shares how a stranger’s question about prayer began a 30-year journey of redemption, spiritual growth, and deep faith. From battling head trauma and daily migraines, to overcoming shame, addiction, and self-doubt—this is a testimony of God's grace in the darkest moments.If you’ve ever wondered if you’re too far gone, if God's grace could ever reach someone like you—this episode is for you.Connect with Jasen here: https://www.facebook.com/jasen.pollock🙏 Let this be your moment to come back to the Father.Chapters: 00:00 Intro 01:23 Living in a Basement, Hopeless at 21 04:10 The Stranger Who Asked Me to Pray 06:50 One Prayer That Changed My Life 11:42 Fighting the Lies of the Enemy 15:05 Overcoming 15 Years of Pain from a Brain Injury 21:30 How God Uses Pain to Shape Purpose 29:00 Service Brings Healing 35:10 To the One Who Feels Unworthy... 42:00 What I’d Tell My 24-Year-Old Self 50:15 Final Encouragement & Prayer👇 If this blessed you, share it with a friend and drop a comment below.🔔 Subscribe for more powerful testimonies and real conversations about faith.⚡ Ready to level up your leadership and legacy? 👉 Book your complimentary call: https://calendly.com/coachredwallace/let-s-talk-about-itJoin the waiting list: https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/waitinglist#faith #testimony #christianpodcast #jesus #healing #depression #redemption #miracle #christianinterviewWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
The Secret Battle Most Men Are Losing (But Can’t Afford To)Most men aren’t falling in public—they’re falling in private.In this powerful and deeply personal video, Red Wallace—Legacy Identity Coach and founder of the Better Than Best Academy—reveals how a quiet lack of self-control is silently sabotaging men’s leadership, marriages, and fatherhood.Through vulnerable stories and biblical truth, Red shows why true strength isn’t loud—it’s restrained, and why mastering your emotions isn’t optional if you want to build a legacy that lasts.🔹 Learn the spiritual foundations of emotional discipline🔹 Discover practical strategies to reclaim your mornings, mindset, and habits🔹 Understand how accountability and routine lead to quiet strengthIf you’re ready to stop reacting—and start leading with integrity—this message is your next step.⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 Introduction: The Silent Struggle of Men 00:31 A Personal Story of Overwhelm 01:10 The Importance of Self-Control 02:22 Understanding True Strength 03:02 Biblical Insights on Self-Control 05:56 Practical Steps to Build Self-Control 07:58 The Role of Leadership and Accountability 08:56 The Power of Spiritual Discipline 11:25 Final Thoughts and Call to Action⚡ Ready to level up your leadership and legacy? 👉 Book your complimentary call: https://calendly.com/coachredwallace/let-s-talk-about-itJoin the waitinglist: https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/waitinglist📲 Subscribe for more faith-based leadership, identity, and growth content.#SelfControl #MensMinistry #ChristianLeadership #LegacyBuilding #FaithAndFatherhoodWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
What if everything you’ve been taught about anger and respect is backwards?You grew up thinking anger made you strong—but it’s been slowly burning down your influence. Your wife feels crushed, not covered. Your kids see a short fuse, not a strong father.But there’s a better way. A biblical way. A powerful way.In this video, I’ll walk you through the G.E.N.T.L.E. Method—a practical and Spirit-filled framework to help you trade harsh reactions for holy responses. You’ll discover that gentleness isn’t weakness—it’s Christ-like strength under control.We’ll unpack:✅ Why anger is a symptom, not the root✅ How pride and insecurity fuel outbursts✅ Biblical insight from Jesus, Paul, and Proverbs✅ A real-life roleplay of gentleness in action✅ A challenge to practice one part of the GENTLE method this week00:00 Introduction: The Power of Gentleness00:17 Understanding Anger and Its Roots00:58 The Biblical Perspective on Gentleness02:00 The Impact of Anger on Relationships04:04 Practical Steps to Cultivate Gentleness09:35 The GENTLE Method Framework12:06 Applying Gentleness in Real Life13:43 Conclusion and Weekly Challenge👊 Let’s flip the script and build homes, marriages, and legacies that don’t burn down—but stand firm in Christ.👇 Drop a comment: Who in your life is waiting on a gentler version of you?📌 Watch next: Fruit of the Spirit Series → https://youtu.be/cp9ZoR_Zc8k?si=rRh8wfT7HvIJnK0A📍 Apply for The Redprint Coaching Intensive: https://forms.gle/xMqF5dD8M29t8nhq7🔔 Subscribe & Turn On Notifications for more faith-based content that changes lives.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Procrastination isn’t a productivity problem — it’s a faithfulness problem.In this video, Coach Red Wallace unpacks the true cost of delay — not just to your schedule, but to your marriage, your kids, and your calling. With raw stories, biblical insight, and practical tools, you’ll discover:Why “I’ll do it later” is slow-motion disobedienceHow procrastination disconnects you from your purpose4 actionable steps to live with unshakable faithfulnessIf you’re tired of spinning your wheels, doubting your direction, or postponing what God’s called you to — this message is your wake-up call.🔥 DM me “FAITHFUL” on Instagram to join The Redprint Intensive📲 https://www.instagram.com/coach.redwallace/👇 Drop “NO MORE DELAY” in the comments if you’re starting today.🙌 And don’t forget to encourage someone else while you’re there.—📍 Chapters00:00 Overcoming Procrastination with Radical Faithfulness00:47 Introduction to Better Than Best Academy01:08 The Truth About Procrastination01:18 A Personal Story of Radical Obedience03:13 The Cost of Procrastination03:59 Identifying and Overcoming Delays05:20 Faithfulness in Different Roles09:45 Practical Steps to Destroy Procrastination13:22 Final Encouragement and Call to ActionWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
What does it really mean to be a good man? Spoiler: it’s not about being nice—it’s about living with conviction, integrity, and compassion.In this episode of the Fruit of the Spirit series, mindset coach and worship drummer Red Wallace breaks down the power of GOODNESS—not as a personality trait, but as a calling for godly men.You’ll learn:* The difference between kindness and goodness* How to lead your family with quiet strength* What to do when your actions don’t match your words* 4 practical ways to live a life of goodness, starting today▶ Download the FREE Goodness Action Sheet:https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/goodness💬 Take the 7-Day Goodness Challenge!Drop “Day 1 ✅” in the comments and let’s grow together.🔔 Subscribe for more weekly messages on leadership, legacy, and faithWATCH the rest of the fruit series: https://youtu.be/cp9ZoR_Zc8k?si=qJSCvchVriC1xwsB📌 Next Week: “FAITHFULNESS – The Strength to Stay When It’s Hard”00:00 Introduction: The Essence of Goodness01:16 Defining Goodness: Beyond Morality02:02 Cultural vs. Godly Goodness02:52 Personal Anecdote: Living Out Goodness04:09 Goodness in Family Life07:26 Practical Steps to Cultivate Goodness12:49 Seven-Day Goodness Challenge14:02 Conclusion: The Strength of Goodness#ManOfGod #ChristianMen #FruitOfTheSpirit #GodlyLeadership #BetterThanBest #RedWallace #GoodnessChallengeWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Are you holding your family together but feel like you're falling apart inside?In today’s video, we're diving deep into why kindness isn’t weakness—it's a spiritual superpower. Especially for Christian men leading their homes, kindness is how we set the atmosphere, heal wounds, and reflect the heart of Christ.🛠️ You'll discover:- The difference between being "nice" and being truly kind- How to correct with compassion, not control- The 3 practical steps to live out godly kindness in your home- Real talk on tone, parenting, and leadership under pressureWhether you're a husband, father, or leader — this message will hit home.🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on the bell to follow the entire Fruit of the Spirit series. See the rest of this series here: https://youtu.be/VV_vdJ2bNLI?si=nXp7E8dnY8dxjPqp👉 Join the Better Than Best Academy newsletter for weekly encouragement and Download your complimentary gift for Christian men and leaders: https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/legacyletter📲 Follow me on social media: IG & TT: @coach.redwallace👇 Drop a comment: What act of kindness are YOU going to commit to this week?00:00 Introduction: The Weight of Responsibility00:30 Personal Struggles and Realizations01:03 The Power of Kindness02:33 Redefining Leadership Through Kindness04:18 God's Kindness and Our Response08:33 Practical Steps to Live Out Kindness10:28 Parenting with Kindness11:58 Final Thoughts and ChallengeWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Are you struggling with patience and feeling disconnected from God's plan? In this impactful video, Coach Red Wallace from Better Than Best Academy reveals why patience is crucial for strong leadership at home. Discover how patience, defined as self-discipline plus time, can transform your relationships, lead to spiritual maturity, and build a lasting legacy. Learn practical strategies to replace hasty reactions with thoughtful, diligent actions, and embrace God's timing in your life.00:00 Introduction: Struggling with Patience and Purpose01:19 The Power of Patience: Self-Discipline Over Time02:34 Biblical Insights: Patience as Love in Motion03:11 Real-Life Challenges: Patience in Everyday Situations04:06 Expectations vs. Reality: The Root of Patience Problems06:01 Proverbs Wisdom: Diligence Over Haste09:05 Practical Steps: Building a Legacy Through Patience12:18 Conclusion: Reflect and Choose Your Path💡 Take your free Redprint Legacy Assessment to gain clarity on your purpose and start leading with limitless love today. ➡️ https://forms.gle/HHfiEVDiyLnRfsFT9WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
You were never meant to carry it all alone. The performance. The pressure. The pride.This video is for every man who’s been holding it together on the outside but breaking down on the inside.We dive into the story of Jairus and how humility—not strength—was the turning point that brought healing.You’ll learn the 4 steps to truly lay down your pride and pick up peace through a powerful metaphor: the backpack full of invisible stones.⚔️ It’s time to drop the weight.⚔️ It’s time to stop surviving and start surrendering.⚔️ It’s time to live free.👇 Drop a comment below: What are YOU laying down today?🙏 I’d love to pray with you and walk with you in this.💡 Take your free Redprint Legacy Assessment to gain clarity on your purpose and start leading with limitless love today. ➡️ https://forms.gle/HHfiEVDiyLnRfsFT900:00 Introduction: The Burden of Expectations00:48 The Power of Surrender02:40 Meet Jairus: A Lesson in Humility06:06 The Backpack: Unpacking Our Burdens10:22 Four Steps to True Freedom14:13 Conclusion: Embrace Peace Over PerformanceWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
What if fear wasn’t your enemy, but the doorway to unshakeable joy? 🕊️In this video, Red Wallace explores how fear and joy walk hand-in-hand in God’s Kingdom. From the Grand Canyon Skywalk to neuroscience to scripture, discover why the fear of the Lord builds resilience and grounds your joy in eternity.You’ll learn:✅ Why fear can elevate your joy into worship✅ How awe and fear activate the same pathways in your brain✅ Practical ways to cultivate holy joy daily✅ Why happiness fades but joy remains💡 Take your free Red Print Legacy Assessment to gain clarity on your purpose and start leading with limitless love today. ➡️ https://forms.gle/HHfiEVDiyLnRfsFT9Don’t settle for fleeting happiness. Step into a joy that’s unshakeable.🔔 Subscribe for more teachings on the fruit of the Spirit: joy, peace, love, and more to grow your leadership, marriage, and spiritual life.#holyjoy #fearoftheLord #ChristianMotivation00:00 Introduction: Standing on the Skywalk00:24 Exploring Unusual Fears01:12 The Intersection of Fear and Joy01:57 Introducing Holy Joy02:44 The Neuroscience of Awe and Fear03:52 Biblical Insights on Fear and Joy04:29 Personal Reflections on Joy05:38 The Foundation of Wisdom and Joy06:26 Counterfeit Joy vs. True Joy12:41 Practical Steps to Cultivate Joy15:09 Conclusion: Embracing Holy FearWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
My Son’s Face After I Yelled Changed Everything
When Coach Red Wallace yelled at his son, he saw a look that shattered his heart – and it changed him forever. In this powerful episode, Red shares the moment he realised anger was breaking the very bond he wanted to build. Discover how he transformed his approach to fatherhood, leadership, and marriage by learning to lead with a love stronger than anger.
You’ll learn:
✅ The life-changing lesson from his son’s silent reaction
✅ Biblical wisdom on anger and love
✅ CALM: A strategy to replace yelling with connection
✅ Practical love drills for fathers, husbands, and leaders
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00:00 Introduction: A Life-Changing Question
00:31 The Red Print Legacy Assessment
01:54 A Father's Regret: The Yelling Incident
04:16 God's Whisper: Learning to Love
04:47 Biblical Insights on Anger and Love
12:01 Practical Love Drills for Fathers
13:28 Practical Love Drills for Husbands
14:13 Practical Love Drills for Leaders
15:31 CALM: A Strategy to Replace Yelling
17:02 Conclusion: Lead with Limitless Love
Are you tired of performing, striving, and still feeling empty?In this video, I share my personal journey from burnout and spiritual exhaustion to learning how to truly abide in Christ—and what real, lasting fruit looks like when it's born from presence, not pressure.Jesus didn’t call us to hustle harder. He called us to abide.Here’s how to stop taping fake fruit to a dead tree and start living a life rooted in the Vine.🌱 You’ll learn:- The difference between striving and abiding- 3 practical rhythms of grace to reconnect with God- Why “quiet time” isn’t about checking a box- How real fruit only grows from spiritual intimacy, not spiritual performanceThis is the intro to a 9-part series diving into each Fruit of the Spirit—so be sure to subscribe and follow along.🔔 Subscribe + hit the bell for the full series on love, joy, peace, patience, and more.🙏 Let’s grow together—not from effort, but from abiding in Him.00:00 My Journey from Striving to Abiding00:53 The Illusion of Busyness and Performance01:17 Understanding True Abiding in Christ01:45 Personal Struggles and Realizations02:27 Choosing Everlasting Fruit Over Seasonal Fruit03:02 Three Rhythms of Grace for Daily Abiding03:41 Scripture Meditation: Deepening Your Devotion04:10 Silent Prayer: Listening to God's Whisper05:26 Daily Surrender: Giving God the First of Your Day06:21 The Power of Abiding: Real-Life Testimonies07:05 Introduction to the Nine-Part Series on Spiritual Fruits08:22 Final Thoughts and Prayer08:52 Call to Action: Subscribe and Join the Journey📖 Verses referenced:John 15:4-5, Galatians 5:22-23#StrivingVsAbiding #AbideInChrist #ChristianEncouragement #FruitOfTheSpirit #christianyoutuber WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Why are you still stuck even though you're praying more, reading more, and trying harder?In this video, I’m unpacking the real reason you're not growing — and it has nothing to do with how hard you're working.We often chase self-help strategies, but God isn’t asking us to be more impressive. He’s inviting us to be more surrendered.🛑 Correction isn’t rejection — it’s refinement.🛠️ If you’re ready to be chiseled into who God created you to be, this one’s for you.🔔 Subscribe for weekly encouragement to help you renew your mindset, rediscover your identity, and rise into your God-given calling.👇 CHAPTERS & LINKS 👇00:00 Introduction: The Struggle of Growth00:17 The Truth About Transformation01:17 A Pivotal Moment: Personal Story02:40 The Power of Correction03:00 Three Reasons We Resist Correction04:19 Clearing Toxic Lies About Correction06:22 Practical Examples of Correction08:08 God's Three Ways of Speaking11:03 Cultural Resistance to Correction12:49 Welcoming Wisdom and Refinement15:44 Conclusion: Embracing Teachability📩 Join the Better Than Best email community for weekly growth tools & encouragement:👉 https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/waitinglist💬 Drop a prayer in the comments: “Lord, make me teachable.”🎯 Share this with a brother who’s ready to grow.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!