In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman is joined by Rob Kancler to discuss the potential for human sexual experience and the steps needed to enhance intimate relationships. Rob shares insights on how individuals often start with the wrong paradigm about sex and offers practical strategies to think differently about sexual fulfillment, connect with partners, and achieve true intimacy. He delves into the importance of downregulating the nervous system, using body intelligence over cognition, and the integration of ancient sexual traditions. The episode also covers practical exercises like 'belly to belly' and other co-regulation techniques that couples can implement to improve their sex lives. Rob emphasizes that sexual mastery can lead to overall personal development, enhancing one's life and relationships.
00:00 Introduction to Better Sex
00:50 Exploring Human Sexual Experience with Rob K.
01:20 Rob K.'s Journey and Passion
03:52 Defining Sexual Fulfillment
04:14 Theories on Sexuality and Orgasm
06:21 Masculine and Feminine Sexual Needs
09:39 The Role of Intuition in Sexuality
17:16 Body Intelligence vs. Cognition
26:12 Practical Exercises for Intimacy
30:37 Understanding Sexual Operating Systems
33:01 Unlocking Hidden Potential: Pelvic Work and Sexual Shame
33:56 The Need for Cultural Change in Sexual Health
35:04 Misconceptions About Sexual Exploration
38:18 The Path to Sexual Mastery: Programs and Processes
39:48 The Importance of Integrity and Responsibility in Relationships
42:02 Exploring Masculine Sexual Expression and Group Learning
43:31 Personal Journey and Overcoming Sexual Shame
44:13 The Three Levels of Sexual Mastery Programs
47:33 Final Thoughts and Contact Information
49:18 Practical Exercises for Couples
52:18 The Science of Connection and Entrainment
Bio:
Rob Kancler is an artist, athlete, entrepreneur, and modern mystic. He runs Men of Substance™, a sexual mastery program serving men worldwide. His revolutionary work gives all people access to the profound sexual experiences hidden in the most obscure spiritual traditions—radically expanding a conversation most people take for granted and revealing the blind spots about sex that everyone carries but no one sees. The truth is this quietly keeps men and women from the confidence, vitality, love, meaning, and deeper fulfillment available in every part of life. Check him out at robkancler.com, take the free assessment at bedroomcompass.com, or explore the foundational Men of Substance™ program at robkancler.com/blueprint.
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More info and resources:
Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast
Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast
How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com
The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com
The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com
Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com
Access the Free webinar: Intimacy Made Easy: 3 Secrets to Bridging Libido Differences: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass