Lisa Limehouse - Christian Betrayal Trauma Specialist, Affair Recovery Coach, Certified Life Coach, Phoenix Rising
100 episodes
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Hope and Healing for Christian Women
Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again?
In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal.
If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place.
Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought.
Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair.
The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?”
I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan.
I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level.
But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal.
If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you!
So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire.
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Hope and Healing for Christian Women
Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again?
In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal.
If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place.
Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought.
Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair.
The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?”
I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan.
I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level.
But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal.
If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you!
So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire.
Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/
Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/
Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
When a pastor commits adultery, the fallout ripples through marriages, ministries, and entire faith communities. But does moral failure mean permanent disqualification—or can God truly redeem what’s been broken?
In this powerful episode, Lisa unpacks what Scripture teaches about restoration after adultery, the difference between forgiveness and fitness for leadership, and the slow, sacred process of repentance, accountability, and rebuilding trust. You’ll learn why genuine restoration begins not with returning to the pulpit—but with returning to God.
If you or your spouse are walking through the aftermath of infidelity and wondering if healing or restoration is even possible, there is hope. Inside Marriage Redesigned, Lisa and her husband Britt guide couples through a Christ-centered process to rebuild trust, restore connection, and redesign their marriage God’s way.
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Ever wonder why you didn’t see the betrayal coming—or why you feel so angry now that you know the truth?
In today's episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, we’re diving deep into betrayal blindness—a term developed by Dr. Jennifer Freyd as part of Betrayal Trauma Theory. You’ll discover how this unconscious survival mechanism causes many women to “not know” what’s happening right in front of them when infidelity or deception is taking place.
Lisa unpacks:💔 What betrayal blindness really is and why it’s not simple denial, but a complex psychological and spiritual adaptation.🔥 Why anger after infidelity feels so explosive—and how it’s connected to years of suppressed pain, lost intuition, and shattered trust.🧠 What the latest trauma research says about the brain’s “freeze” and “fight” responses after betrayal.🙏 How to move from suppressed pain to empowered clarity through God’s truth and grace.
You’ll also hear practical, biblical steps to help you:✨ Rewire false beliefs that kept you in emotional denial.✨ Validate your righteous anger and process it in a healthy, God-honoring way.✨ Begin trusting your intuition again as you rebuild your sense of safety and identity.
If you’re ready to stop blaming yourself, see the truth clearly, and walk in freedom, this episode will help you take your next step toward healing.
➡️ Learn more about Lisa’s 7 Pillars of Healing program—a Christ-centered pathway for Christian women overcoming betrayal trauma.
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What Exactly Is an Emotional Affair? Understanding the Hidden Betrayal That Can Destroy a Marriage
Emotional affairs can be just as devastating as physical ones—because they break trust where it matters most: the heart. In this powerful 20-minute episode, betrayal trauma expert Lisa Limehouse unpacks what an emotional affair really is, how it begins, and why secrecy and misplaced emotional energy can fracture a marriage long before physical infidelity ever occurs.
You’ll discover:💔 The 7 stages of an emotional affair — and how “harmless friendship” can cross sacred lines⚠️ The red-flag behaviors that signal emotional infidelity💡 What to do immediately if you realize you’re having one (or your spouse is)📖 Biblical truth for repentance, restoration, and rebuilding trust
If your marriage is suffering from the pain of emotional betrayal, there is hope. Inside Marriage Redesigned, Lisa guides couples through a proven, Christ-centered process to heal from infidelity, rebuild safety, and restore intimacy that lasts.
👉 Visit MarriageRedesigned.org to begin your healing journey today.
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Why Am I Experiencing Physical Symptoms Like Anxiety, Insomnia, or Nausea After Betrayal?
Your body remembers what your mind can’t process.
In this episode, Lisa unpacks how betrayal trauma impacts your nervous system and why symptoms like anxiety, insomnia, or nausea are actually normal trauma responses—not signs of weakness.
Discover how somatic and biblical healing can bring peace back to your body, restore your sleep, and help your nervous system finally exhale.
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What’s the Difference Between Forgiveness and Reconciliation After Betrayal?
Forgiveness and reconciliation are not the same thing—especially when you’re healing from infidelity, sexual betrayal, or broken trust. In this powerful episode, Lisa unpacks the biblical difference between letting go and rebuilding trust after betrayal.
You’ll learn what true forgiveness means (and what it doesn’t), how reconciliation requires repentance and safety, and why God never asks you to reconcile with unrepentant behavior. Lisa walks you through the nuanced steps between releasing the debt and discerning when it’s safe to rebuild the relationship.
Grounded in Scripture and trauma-informed wisdom, this episode gives you hope, healing, and clarity for your next step. Whether you’re in the early shock of discovery or months into recovery, you’ll gain biblical truth and practical guidance to protect your heart while walking in freedom.
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Can the unfaithful truly recover from sexual betrayal? In this powerful mini episode, Lisa dives into one of the most misunderstood questions in the healing journey after infidelity.
So often, the spotlight shines on the betrayed spouse—and rightfully so. But the truth is, the unfaithful spouse also carries deep emotional, spiritual, and psychological wounds that must be addressed if true transformation is ever going to happen.
Lisa unpacks what real recovery looks like for the one who betrayed trust—breaking free from denial, shame, and secrecy, and learning to live in radical honesty, empathy, and full repentance. Using her Roadmap to Recovery and Marriage Redesigned frameworks, she explains the critical difference between confession and true repentance, why both partners must grieve, and how God can redeem even the darkest parts of a marriage.
If you or your spouse are asking questions like:
“Can the unfaithful really change?”
“What does repentance look like after infidelity?”
“Is it possible to rebuild trust after sexual betrayal?”
This episode will give you hope, truth, and a roadmap for real heart transformation.
Discover how couples rebuild together through the Marriage Redesigned program.
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After betrayal, fear and anxiety can feel like constant companions—keeping you up at night, flooding your thoughts, and robbing you of peace. But what if one of the most powerful healing tools was already in your hands?
In this episode, Lisa shares how journaling can help you process fears and worries, release trauma from your body, and renew your mind through God’s truth. Backed by the latest research from Dr. James Pennebaker (University of Texas at Austin) and the Journal of Traumatic Stress (2023), you’ll discover how writing integrates your emotional and logical brain, helping you move from chaos to clarity.
You’ll also learn:
Why journaling is both scientifically and spiritually proven to reduce anxiety and fear
How writing helps you process emotions safely and rewire your thoughts toward truth
3 powerful journal prompts to help you pour out your heart before God and find peace again
If you’re ready to move beyond fear and start healing your heart, mind, and spirit, this episode will guide you there.
👉 Dive deeper inside Lisa’s 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma program — your 30-day, self-guided journey to renew your mind, release trauma, and rediscover hope through biblical truth.
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When your marriage has been shattered by infidelity or sexual addiction, you don’t just feel heartbroken—you feel unsafe, disoriented, and disconnected from your own body and faith. That’s the power of betrayal trauma—it impacts your brain, your nervous system, and your spirit.
In this episode, Lisa Limehouse—betrayal trauma and infidelity recovery specialist—explains how trauma-informed care can help you heal the whole person: mind, body, and spirit. She unpacks how approaches like EMDR, somatic therapies, and Christian trauma recovery restore safety and peace after betrayal.
You’ll discover:💔 Why working with a trauma-informed professional who specializes in betrayal and sexual addiction is essential🧠 How your brain and body respond to betrayal—and how to rewire them for healing💨 The power of somatic release and nervous system regulation to calm trauma responses🙏 Why your faith must be part of your recovery if you’re healing God’s way📖 How Lisa integrates Scripture, neuroscience, and soul restoration in her Marriage ReDesigned Program
If you’re ready to stop just surviving and start truly healing, and you're ready to learn more about the 6-month trauma-informed, faith-based program designed to help couples rebuild trust and intimacy after betrayal - CLICK HERE
Because you were never meant to heal halfway—God wants to restore your whole heart.
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Betrayal trauma leaves deep emotional and spiritual wounds — but healing is possible. In this powerful episode, Lisa shares five evidence-based, biblically grounded strategies to help you begin recovering from the devastation of betrayal.
You’ll learn how to:
Rebuild safety and stability after betrayal
Reconnect with your true identity in Christ
Process your pain instead of numbing it
Set healthy boundaries that protect your heart
Rewire your mind with God’s truth using neuroscience and Scripture
Grounded in research from Dr. Bessel van der Kolk (The Body Keeps the Score), Dr. Caroline Leaf, and Drs. Cloud & Townsend (Boundaries in Marriage), this episode equips you with the tools to move from surviving to thriving — one faith-filled step at a time.
💗 Ready to go deeper? Enroll in The 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma — a 30-day, self-guided online program designed to help Christian women rebuild safety, identity, and trust God’s way.
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Grief is often misunderstood in the healing journey after betrayal—but it’s absolutely essential. In this episode, Lisa unpacks why grief plays such a central role in recovery from betrayal trauma.
When infidelity or sexual addiction is exposed, the betrayed spouse isn’t just grieving an event—she’s grieving the loss of the marriage she thought she had, the loss of safety and security, the loss of identity as a cherished wife, and even the future she once envisioned.
Lisa helps you understand that grief isn’t a one-time step—it’s a process. You’ll learn why moving through denial, anger, bargaining, sadness, and eventual acceptance is not only normal but necessary for true healing.
You’ll also discover how couples in the Marriage Redesigned program learn to grieve together—the betrayed spouse grieving what was lost, and the unfaithful spouse grieving the false self and the destruction caused.
Grief, when embraced, becomes the bridge between devastation and hope—the pathway God uses to move you from ashes to beauty.
Tune in to learn how to let grief do its sacred work in your healing journey so restoration can begin.
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Why do some men betray the ones they love while others remain faithful? In this 12-minute mini-teaching, betrayal trauma specialist Lisa Limehouse breaks down the five core reasons men cheat—using the latest neuroscience, research, and biblical truth to uncover what’s really behind infidelity.
You’ll learn how unhealed childhood wounds, emotional immaturity, lack of integrity, poor self-regulation, and disconnection from God create the perfect storm for betrayal—and why it’s NEVER the wife’s fault.
Lisa explains how the brain’s reward system (dopamine) drives secret behavior, what Scripture says about moral compromise, and why heart transformation—not behavior modification—is the only real path to lasting change.
If your marriage has been rocked by infidelity or pornography, this episode will give you clarity, peace, and hope for redemption.
🎯 Tune in to discover:
The #1 brain mechanism that fuels cheating behavior
How trauma, shame, and isolation make men vulnerable
The biblical difference between remorse and repentance
Why some men transform—and others repeat the cycle
💔 If you’re ready to rebuild trust and restore your marriage through true heart transformation, visit MARRIAGE REDESIGNED today. Spots for the next round are filling quickly—don’t wait to begin your healing journey.
Keywords: betrayal trauma, infidelity recovery, why men cheat, neuroscience of infidelity, Christian marriage restoration, healing after an affair, rebuilding trust, repentance vs confession, marriage coaching, Marriage Redesigned
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In this mini episode, Lisa answers one powerful question: How does betrayal trauma differ from other traumas?
Betrayal trauma isn’t like any other kind of pain — it strikes at the very foundation of safety, trust, and identity within your most intimate relationship. When the one who vowed to love and protect you becomes the one who causes the deepest wound, it shatters more than your heart — it shakes your entire sense of reality.
Lisa explains why betrayal trauma feels so different, how it impacts your mind, body, and spirit, and why healing requires a specialized approach that goes far beyond behavior change. You’ll discover how to begin rebuilding safety, regulating emotions, restoring identity, and allowing God to take the ashes of your story and create something brand new.
If you’re walking through the aftermath of infidelity or sexual betrayal, this short but powerful episode will help you understand what’s really happening inside you — and where true healing begins.
✨ Learn more about healing from betrayal trauma through Lisa’s Roadmap to Recovery program for women or Marriage Redesigned for couples at lisalimehouse.com.
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When betrayal hits, it doesn’t just break your heart—it plants toxic beliefs in your mind. Maybe you’ve caught yourself thinking, “I wasn’t enough,” “I’ll never be able to trust again,” or “My future is ruined.” These lies feel real, but they are not the truth of who you are in Christ.
In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa unpacks the top three destructive beliefs betrayed spouses often take on after infidelity or sexual betrayal. You’ll discover:
Why these beliefs are false and how they keep you stuck in shame, fear, and hopelessness
The biblical truths that dismantle each lie and remind you of your God-given worth, hope, and future
Science-backed techniques to rewire your thoughts and renew your mind through neuroplasticity
3 practical action steps to help you shift from lies to truth starting today
You don’t have to live defined by betrayal. God has a way to renew your mind, restore your heart, and reclaim your future.
✨ Ready to go deeper? Start healing today with Lisa’s 7 Pillars Self-Guided 30-Day Online Program—a step-by-step biblical framework to move from survival to true recovery.
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What really happens to a marriage after infidelity, porn addiction, or emotional affairs?
In this eye-opening episode, betrayal recovery expert Lisa Limehouse breaks down the connection between sexual addiction, emotional affairs, pornography, and the impact of betrayal trauma on both spouses. You’ll gain biblical insight, clinical truth, and practical steps for healing after betrayal.
Lisa shares:
What betrayal trauma is and how it affects the brain, body, and spirit
The difference between sexual addiction, emotional affairs, and porn use
How fantasy cycles distort reality and keep couples disconnected
Tools for the betrayed spouse to process trauma and reclaim safety
Tools for the betrayer to take ownership and begin heart-level recovery
How mutual understanding leads to lasting transformation in marriage
This episode is for any Christian couple rebuilding trust and emotional safety after sexual betrayal.
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When betrayal shatters your marriage, trust doesn’t automatically come back with time—it must be rebuilt with intention. In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa unpacks the critical difference between blind trust and informed trust.
You’ll learn why blind trust leaves you vulnerable, what informed trust actually looks like, and six powerful steps to begin rebuilding confidence in your spouse after infidelity or betrayal.
This episode covers:
What trust is in marriage—and how betrayal destroys it
Why blind trust can’t heal a broken relationship
The 6 key ways to practice informed trust: transparency, reliability, communication, accountability, empathy, and professional support
How informed trust creates a new normal in your marriage, one rooted in truth and consistency
If you’re ready to move beyond broken promises and start building a marriage grounded in honesty, integrity, and God’s design—this episode is for you.
👉 Learn how to restore your marriage after betrayal through our Marriage Redesigned program
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In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa speaks directly to the unfaithful spouse about one of the biggest misconceptions after infidelity: the idea that respect will automatically return just because you’re “good now.”
Lisa unpacks what true respect is—and what it isn’t—why betrayal shatters respect in marriage, and why being “good” for a short season isn’t enough to restore it. You’ll discover five powerful, biblical steps every unfaithful spouse must take to begin earning respect again:
Taking full ownership without excuses
Showing consistency over time
Choosing humility over entitlement
Living in transparency and accountability
Investing in her healing and the marriage
If you’re serious about becoming a man your wife can truly respect again, this episode will show you what it takes to move from empty promises to lasting transformation.
Ready to rebuild trust, intimacy, and respect in your marriage? Learn how inside our Marriage Redesigned program
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How can you reconcile with a husband who cheated and broke your heart into a trillion pieces? In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa unpacks one of the hardest questions betrayed wives face.
Discover:
Why betrayal through infidelity or pornography is so devastating to a woman’s heart.
Why you cannot reconcile with the old man who betrayed you—but only with a husband who has experienced true transformation in Christ.
What real heart change looks like, backed by scripture and research on recovery.
How reconciliation becomes possible when the old man dies and a new man rises through repentance, consistency, and surrender to God.
If you’re longing for clarity, hope, and a path forward, this episode will give you the truth that sets you free: reconciliation is not with who he was, but with who he is becoming in Christ.
Learn how couples can walk this journey of transformation inside Lisa's Marriage Redesigned program
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When betrayal first hits, the shock is overwhelming—you feel frozen, gasping for air, and wondering if life will ever feel normal again. That’s the power of trauma: it shakes your very foundation.
But here’s the hope—God can bring you through it. In today’s episode, Lisa walks you through 5 signs you’re moving from the shock of betrayal into true healing. You’ll discover how to recognize emotional progress, why your brain and nervous system respond the way they do, and how biblical truth anchors you in the process.
Inside, you’ll learn:
How to face your emotions with God instead of numbing them
Why triggers lose their grip as your brain rewires for peace
The shift from “betrayed wife” to your true identity in Christ
How boundaries become natural and life-giving
Why glimpses of hope are a sure sign of God’s healing work
If you’ve been asking, “Am I really healing, or am I still stuck in the pain?”—this episode will give you the clarity and encouragement you need.
👉 Want a proven biblical roadmap to move from devastation to restoration? Join Lisa inside the 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma program—a step-by-step journey of hope and healing.
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After betrayal, trust can feel impossible to rebuild. But here’s the truth: trust isn’t restored through perfection—it’s rebuilt through consistency.
In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa dives into why consistency matters more than perfection when it comes to rebuilding trust after infidelity. You’ll discover:
Why trust is essential to a thriving marriage after betrayal
The difference between trying to be “perfect” and choosing to show up consistently
3 practical steps the unfaithful can take to rebuild trust day by day
If your marriage has been rocked by infidelity or sexual addiction, this episode will give you the encouragement and direction you need to take the next step toward healing.
✨ Ready to rebuild your marriage on a stronger foundation? Learn more about our 6-month couples program, Marriage Redesigned,
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How do you talk about betrayal without causing more pain? After infidelity, every conversation about what happened can feel like walking into a battlefield. In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa shares how couples can discuss the betrayal in a way that promotes healing rather than retraumatization.
You’ll discover:
Why creating a safe space is essential before discussing the betrayal
The importance of setting ground rules and respectful communication
How “I” statements reduce defensiveness and foster connection
Practical boundaries around timing and duration of conversations
5 steps to move into non-traumatizing, healing-focused dialogue
These tools will help you and your spouse begin rebuilding trust, restoring communication, and moving forward on your healing journey. And if you’re ready to go deeper, this is exactly what we walk couples through inside Marriage Redesigned—our faith-based coaching program that helps you move beyond behavior fixes into true heart transformation so your marriage can be rebuilt on a stronger foundation than before.
If you’re ready to rebuild your marriage God’s way, start here.
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MARRIAGE REDESIGNED PROGRAM
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
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Hope and Healing for Christian Women
Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again?
In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal.
If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place.
Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought.
Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair.
The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?”
I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan.
I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level.
But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal.
If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you!
So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire.
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