Nice guys don’t help because they’re selfless. They help because they’re scared—of rejection, of not being needed, of losing love. In this episode of Be Better, I break down how over-giving and unspoken expectations destroy connection, intimacy, and trust in your relationship. I speak directly to the men who keep doing more, hoping it’ll finally “be enough,” and show you why your wife pulls away, even when your actions are well-intentioned. If you’re tired of feeling unseen, frustrated, or co...
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Nice guys don’t help because they’re selfless. They help because they’re scared—of rejection, of not being needed, of losing love. In this episode of Be Better, I break down how over-giving and unspoken expectations destroy connection, intimacy, and trust in your relationship. I speak directly to the men who keep doing more, hoping it’ll finally “be enough,” and show you why your wife pulls away, even when your actions are well-intentioned. If you’re tired of feeling unseen, frustrated, or co...
The Reason She’s Pulling Away (And Why Being ‘Nicer’ Isn’t Working) - Chasing Her Validation Made You Weak — And What to Do Instead l EP. 38 l
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The Reason She’s Pulling Away (And Why Being ‘Nicer’ Isn’t Working) - Chasing Her Validation Made You Weak — And What to Do Instead l EP. 38 l
You’re terrified of losing her. But what if that fear is the very thing driving her away? In this episode, I open up about the old version of me — the insecure, anxious nice guy who clung to his partner like his life depended on it. I was checking her stories. Re-reading messages. Sending “casual” memes just to get a reply. All of it… just to feel some sense of control. What I didn’t realise was this: 👉 When your partner becomes the reason for your worth, your power, and your pea...
Be Better.
Nice guys don’t help because they’re selfless. They help because they’re scared—of rejection, of not being needed, of losing love. In this episode of Be Better, I break down how over-giving and unspoken expectations destroy connection, intimacy, and trust in your relationship. I speak directly to the men who keep doing more, hoping it’ll finally “be enough,” and show you why your wife pulls away, even when your actions are well-intentioned. If you’re tired of feeling unseen, frustrated, or co...
