📌 Chapters00:02:09 — key difference00:02:30 — middle of trauma healing00:04:00 — types of internal hardships00:04:46 — repeating generational trauma00:07:06 — relationship with yourself00:08:45 — self compassion00:09:24 — self regulation with the body00:10:17 — practice #1 heart & womb00:13:41 — practice #2 release criticism00:16:10 — practice #3 tune into your heart00:18:35 — you’re not alone00:20:48 — a safe space
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📖 Book mentioned: It Didn’t Start With You by Mark Wolynn
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In this video, I dive into my own personal experience of Spiritual Awakening. Here are the 5 signs: 1. Ask deeper questions about life and who you are 2. Deep emotional turmoil despite everything seems okay on the outside 3. Urged to do something completely different with your life 4. Called to change your identity, and change past toxic patterns 5. Intuitive guidance to connect with a higher power
In this deeply personal episode, I invite you into my world as I navigate the messy, raw, and transformative journey of overcoming perfectionism to start creating from a place of authenticity and love. This isn’t about achieving a polished final product or waiting until everything feels “right.” Instead, it’s about learning to honor the process, even when it feels vulnerable and imperfect.
I open up about how perfectionism used to keep me stuck—how the fear of being judged or not meeting impossible standards silenced my creativity. But through profound inner work, I’ve begun to rewrite that story. A big part of this transformation has come from reconnecting with my inner child, a version of me that longed for unconditional love and acceptance. By learning to validate her feelings, offer her compassion, and become the nurturing presence she needed, I’ve started to heal wounds that once held me back.
In this episode, I share:
This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt paralyzed by the pressure to be perfect, anyone who has silenced their voice out of fear, or anyone who is searching for the courage to show up just as they are. My hope is that through my story, you’ll feel inspired to begin—or continue—your own journey of healing, creating, and loving yourself more fully.
Perfection isn’t the goal; wholeness is. Let’s explore what that means together.
In this episode, I open up about my journey to break free from perfectionism and overcome my fear of being seen—a journey that has been challenging yet incredibly rewarding. I’ll share how perfectionism kept me in a cycle of self-criticism, holding back my creative expression, and fearing what others might think. Through vulnerability, mental strength, and redefining success on my own terms, I slowly began to embrace my imperfections and release the pressure to appear perfect.
We’ll dive into the healing practices and mindset shifts that allowed me to step into the spotlight and share my voice, my work, and my story with the world.
Whether you're a creator, entrepreneur, or simply someone struggling with similar fears, I hope this episode inspires you to release self-doubt, redefine what it means to "show up," and start creating from a place of authenticity and self-compassion.
Let’s explore how we can all find courage in imperfection and discover the beauty in simply being seen.
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In this podcast episode, we embrace the exhilarating thrill of taking risks, diving headfirst into the unknown, and embracing the adventure that life has to offer.
Join me as we explore the liberating concept of saying "fuck it" to fear, doubt, and hesitation, and instead, wholeheartedly embracing the journey of discovery, growth, and transformation. We will delve into stories of daring to defy the status quo, pushing boundaries, and charting our own path in pursuit of our dreams and passions.
So, if you're ready to cast aside the shackles of conformity, ignite your inner fire, and embark on a wild, unapologetic adventure through life – then buckle up and tune in to this episode. Because sometimes, the greatest rewards lie on the other side of fear.
In this deeply personal video, I open up about the emotional rollercoaster I experienced after making the bold decision to leave behind my corporate career. It wasn't all sunshine and rainbows; in fact, I found myself grappling with unexpected feelings of exhaustion and uncertainty. But amidst the chaos, I discovered a powerful lesson: the art of surrendering to something greater than myself. Join me as I share my raw and unfiltered journey of learning to let go and trust in the divine guidance of both God and the universe. From the initial fear of the unknown to the eventual peace that comes with surrender, I delve into the transformative power of releasing control and embracing faith. If you've ever felt lost or overwhelmed in your own journey, this video is for you. Together, let's explore the profound wisdom that can be found in surrendering to the cosmic forces that guide our paths. Watch now and join me on this empowering quest for inner peace and fulfillment.
1:21 - : what is money mindset?
Money transformation is a mind-body connection
What does it mean to work on your money mindset: how it’s not just at an intellectual level, but must be emotional, energetic in order for it to transform and heal your life.
Sharing my personal story about how learning money at an intellectual level from reading books alone did not help to transform my patterns. Money IQ vs. EQ. When I changed my money EQ (emotional patterns), that’s when things really shifted for me.
The real work when it comes to money mindset is to go into meditation and contemplation with it.
6:20: the most important thing when it comes to money mindset: fixed vs growth mindset
8:00 : how your money mindset formed: past patterns, upbringing, conditioning.
Making money and spending it all is a deep upbringing conditioning, a trauma re-enactment.
What are your conditioning around money?
What are your habits?
How do you view money habits as pleasure vs. pain?
Redefining saving, earning, spending from pain to pleasure.
Started reframing “saving money” from pain to pleasure, and saved more
Do things because you want to, not because you feel like you should.
Change your words, change your emotional connection to the topic
16:20: changing money patterns from feast and famine, to consistency and stability
Having chaotic financial life is having chaotic emotional life
How I use the mountain meditation to create financial stability and emotional stability
18:18: face your fears
Your fears are the gateways to your greatest growth
The difference between real fears and opening fears
Fear is not going away, it’s a part of how humans operate. It’s not whether we have fears, it’s how we handle our fears that matter.
What opening fears can you learn to walk with?
Look at your fears: spending habits, saving or lack of saving habit, investments, etc.
This changed the game for me
What are you afraid of? Look at it in the eyes and work with it. It’s incredibly powerful
27:22: what you measure gets improved
Tracking, measuring, budgeting your finances
30:20: failing to plan is planning to fail
Going with the flow vs. planning
Do the simple, common knowledge thing to create foundation for your financial wellbeing
34:00: money boundaries
Allow other people to take responsibilities for their lives
Defining what is helping vs. what is unhealthily enabling people’s lack of responsibilities
39:56: money manifestation
With your intention, you can manifest anything you want
How I manifested consistent income through intention, and journaling
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In this video, I use business as a context to transmit the message. However, I believe this can be applied in any area of life. The key to overcoming any challenges, is to remember that mistakes are inevitable. All you can do is, to fall 7 times, and get up 8. You cannot be perfect, ever. But you can for sure learn, grow and continue to move forward with your goals, dreams and vision. I wish you all of the best. I wish you strength, courage and vitality. I wish you peace, success and happiness to continue with all of your heart's endeavours. *** CONTACT ME: Website: https://www.axtaxiakara.com/ Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/axtaxia.per... Coaching : https://www.instagram.com/axtaxiakara/
What decisions do you need to make? Decisions that would greatly expand you, take you to the next level of your growth? Is it having an uncomfortable conversation? Is it expressing your needs, and how you truly fee? Or is it deciding that from this moment forward, you are going to walk on your path in life? My respectful wish for you, is that you find the courage within to make the most difficult, challenging, and empowering decisions in your life. For you to grow, expand, and fully tap your potential. #takerisks #decisionmakingprocess #couragemotivation *** CONTACT ME: Website: https://www.axtaxiakara.com/ Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/axtaxia.personal/ Coaching : https://www.instagram.com/axtaxiakara/
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