What if climbing the corporate ladder only leads you further from who you really are? After nearly 30 years leading massive teams and chasing success, Kyle McDowell realized he had built a culture he no longer believed in — and that revelation would change everything.
A former Fortune 10 executive turned inspirational speaker, bestselling author, and leadership coach, Kyle is on a mission to create cultures of excellence by reigniting leaders’ passion and purpose. With The 10 “We” Principles — his trademarked framework born from his own awakening — he helps organizations replace apathy with authenticity and transform toxic workplaces into thriving communities of impact.
In this episode, Kyle shares powerful insights from his Wall Street Journal and USA Today bestseller, Begin With We, offering a simple but radical truth: leadership isn’t about authority — it’s about impact.
Listen now to learn how great leaders build trust, inspire change, and lead without the ego.
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Actionable Takeaways:
Conclusion:
Kyle McDowell’s story is a reminder that leadership isn’t about authority, titles, or how fast you climb — it’s about the impact you leave on others. True excellence begins when leaders replace ego with empathy and busyness with purpose. By living the principles of “We,” we not only transform our workplaces but also our homes, relationships, and daily choices.
The call is simple yet profound: lead with integrity, act with authenticity, and choose to make every interaction count. Because the legacy of a great leader isn’t measured by what they built — it’s measured by the lives they’ve changed.
Call to Action:
Ready to lead with purpose and build a culture that thrives on integrity, impact, and collaboration?
📘 Grab your copy of Kyle McDowell’s bestselling book Begin With WE: 10 Principles for Building and Sustaining a Culture of Excellence — available now on Amazon.
🌐 Connect with Kyle McDowell
Website: kylemcdowellinc.com
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kylemcdowellinc
➡️ Visit kylemcdowellinc.com to explore leadership resources, keynotes, and tools that help you and your team Begin With WE.
What happens when your past keeps rewriting your future?
We all carry stories — ones we didn’t choose, ones that shaped our reactions, confidence, and leadership. But what if those stories aren’t true anymore? What if the version of you that learned to survive isn’t the same one called to lead?
In this transformative episode, Jason VanRuler, MA, CSAT — a nationally recognized therapist, speaker, and author specializing in relationships, attachment, and dating — joins the conversation to share how facing your broken places can lead to true connection and personal freedom. Jason’s journey from a chaotic, trauma-filled childhood to becoming one of the most respected voices in emotional health and leadership offers a roadmap for anyone ready to take ownership of their story.
Featured in major national news outlets, known for his strong social media presence, and having spoken on stages to thousands, Jason brings both professional insight and raw honesty to every conversation. He’s the author of Get Past Your Past (Zondervan, 2023) and the upcoming Discovering Your Communication Type, set to be released in April — a groundbreaking look at how our attachment styles shape the way we speak, lead, and love.
He reveals why truth is the ultimate kindness, how confidence is something we earn through small, consistent action, and why uncovering your origin story is the foundation of authentic leadership. Whether you’re leading a team, a family, or yourself, this episode will challenge how you view growth, success, and self-awareness.
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Actionable Takeaways:
Identify your “scale moment.”
Write down one area of your life where you’ve been avoiding the truth — your finances, health, or relationships. What would it look like to face it honestly this week?
Audit your personal story.
Reflect on a belief you’ve carried since childhood (“I’m not good enough,” “I always mess up,” etc.). Ask yourself: Is this still true today — or just an old story I’ve never rewritten?
Earn your confidence through small wins.
Choose one habit or routine you can do daily — no matter how small — that reinforces trust in yourself. Consistency, not perfection, builds authentic confidence.
Define your communication type.
Are you a Peacemaker, Advocate, Thinker, Harbor, or Spark? Notice how you naturally communicate under stress, and identify one way to better connect with someone who communicates differently.
Celebrate progress, not just results.
At the end of each week, list one thing you accomplished or handled better than before. Pause to acknowledge growth before moving on to the next challenge.
Conclusion:
Jason VanRuler reminds us that growth doesn’t begin with perfection — it begins with honesty. When we stop hiding behind stories that no longer serve us and start owning where we really are, we gain the power to change everything. Confidence isn’t something we’re given; it’s something we earn through daily discipline, reflection, and courage.
Whether you’re a leader, parent, or student of life, the path forward starts with one question:
What story about yourself needs to change — and what truth are you finally ready to face?
Call-to-action:
If this episode inspired you, take the next step: dive deeper into Jason’s work through his books Get Past Your Past and Discovering Your Communication Type, and begin building a more intentional, truthful, and connected version of yourself.
📘 Order Jason’s book:
➡️ Get Past Your Past
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Are you living by your own design—or following invisible programs that keep you small? In this episode, we sit down with Tom Barnett, a teacher of natural law and former holistic health practitioner whose work challenges the illusions that keep people trapped in fear and limitation.
Tom first gained attention in 2020 for his viral video “Can You Catch a Virus?” and has since dedicated his life to helping others break free from conditioned beliefs and reclaim their sovereignty of mind and body. He teaches that life operates by simple, universal principles of cause and effect—and that mastering what we consume, think, and believe transforms how we live.
In this conversation, you’ll discover:
How to recognize and rewrite the “programs” running your life.
The mindset shift from have to → choose to.
What true authenticity looks like—and why humility is its key.
How self-mastery connects to healing, purpose, and legacy.
If you’re ready to challenge the illusions of safety and step into your own creative power, this episode will open your eyes to what freedom truly means.
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Actionable Takeaways:
Audit your inputs.
Examine what you consume—food, media, conversations, and environments. Ask yourself: Is this elevating my energy or draining it? Make one conscious change this week to replace “junk input” with something that nourishes you.
Rewrite your internal story.
Identify one recurring belief that keeps you stuck (e.g., “I have to do this” or “I can’t change”). Journal the opposite truth and read it daily for seven days to begin reprogramming your mindset.
Shift from “have to” → “choose to.”
Replace every “I have to” statement with “I choose to” or “I get to.” This simple linguistic shift transforms obligation into empowerment and reframes your relationship with daily responsibilities.
Identify your inherited programs.
Reflect on which habits, fears, or values you’ve absorbed from family, school, or society that don’t truly belong to you. Which of these will you release to become who you really are?
Practice stillness and observation.
Set aside 10 minutes each day to quiet your mind and listen without reacting. Ask: What part of me is responding—my true self or my programming? Use that awareness to act with intention instead of impulse.
Conclusion:
Tom Barnett reminds us that freedom begins within. True self-mastery isn’t about rejecting the world—it’s about understanding the natural laws that govern it and consciously choosing how we engage with them. By questioning the systems that shape our thinking, rewriting our inner stories, and aligning our actions with truth rather than fear, we reclaim authorship over our lives.
As Tom emphasizes, every choice is an offer, not an obligation. When we move from reaction to creation, we stop living as victims of circumstance and start living as intentional creators of our reality. The invitation is simple yet profound: step out of the illusion, listen to your inner authority, and live by design—not default.
Call to Action
Want to dive deeper into Tom Barnett’s work?
👉 Connect with Tom:
🌐 Website: thehumblekingdom.com
📺 YouTube: The Humble Kingdom
📷 Instagram: @tombarnett.tv
Follow him online to explore more of his teachings on natural law, sovereignty, and holistic living.
What do you do when life blindsides you—literally?
When everything you’ve built is taken away in an instant, do you let it break you… or rebuild stronger than before?
In this inspiring episode, Aaron Hale shares his incredible journey from tragedy to triumph. A U.S. Army EOD veteran, real estate investor, entrepreneur, podcaster, and ultra-endurance athlete, Aaron lost both his eyesight and hearing after a devastating explosion overseas.
But instead of giving up, he rebuilt his life with purpose. Today, he’s a husband, father, and the first blind and deaf person to complete the Badwater 135, the world’s toughest foot race. He’s also the host of the Point of Impact Podcast, where he motivates others to push past limits and create change.
Aaron’s story will challenge you to ask:
This conversation is proof that while we can’t always choose what happens to us, we can choose what happens next.
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Actionable Takeaways:
Ask “How can I?” instead of “I can’t.”
When faced with challenges, shift your mindset from limitation to possibility. Reframe every obstacle as a question that invites creativity and action.
Do something hard on purpose.
Choose a challenge that stretches you — whether it’s physical, mental, or emotional. Growth happens when you deliberately step outside your comfort zone.
Find strength in service.
When you’re feeling low or lost, look for ways to help someone else. Turning your pain into purpose can reignite meaning in your own life.
Build momentum through small, daily actions.
Motivation fades, but discipline compounds. Take one small, consistent step each day toward a goal that matters to you.
Use your story to inspire others.
Reflect on a struggle you’ve overcome and share the lesson. Someone else may be waiting for the hope only your experience can give.
Conclusion:
Aaron Hale’s journey is a reminder that even in total darkness, you can still choose light. His story proves that strength isn’t about what happens to you—it’s about how you respond. The habits you build, the attitude you choose, and the courage to keep going will define your future far more than any setback ever could.
Let Aaron’s example push you to take ownership of your story, face challenges head-on, and live with purpose—because the limits you think you have might only be the ones you’ve accepted.
Connect with Aaron Hale
Be inspired to push past limits and turn challenges into purpose.
Follow Aaron’s journey, tune in to the Point of Impact Podcast, and discover more stories that remind you what’s truly possible.
🌐 Website: pointofimpactpod.com
🍏 Apple Podcasts: Point of Impact with Aaron Hale
▶️ YouTube: @pointofimpactpodcast
🌲 Linktree: linktr.ee/aaronhalepointofimpact
📘 Facebook: facebook.com/aclayhale
📸 Instagram: @aclayhale
Are your relationships built on conscious connection—or silent assumptions?
Most couples, parents, and even leaders don’t realize they’re operating on unspoken rules and old programming that quietly sabotage communication, intimacy, and trust.
So how do we break free from those reactive patterns and build relationships that actually grow with us?
In this episode, host Matt Beaudreau sits down with Michael Ostrolenk, a Master Coach in Resilience, Leadership, and Elite Performance with over three decades of experience guiding high-achieving individuals, couples, and teams. A former Director of Human Resilience at Apeiron Zoh and co-creator of SEALFIT’s Unbeatable Mind Academy, Michael integrates psychology, physiology, and spiritual development to create holistic transformation. Through his groundbreaking Relationship Dojo framework, he helps couples cultivate conscious communication, emotional safety, and co-evolution in love and partnership.
Whether you’re a spouse, a parent, or a leader, this conversation will challenge you to slow down, tune in, and start creating relationships with awareness instead of habit.
Listen now and learn how to move from “me vs. you” to “we’re in this together.”
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Actionable Takeaways:
Audit Your Unspoken Rules: Reflect on what “unwritten agreements” exist in your relationship or family. Which habits or assumptions are you still following from your upbringing that no longer serve you?
Create One Conscious Agreement: Sit down with your partner or team and intentionally redefine how you’ll handle a recurring challenge—whether it’s communication, money, or conflict. Make it clear, mutual, and revisited regularly.
Practice Co-Regulation Daily: The next time tension rises, pause. Make eye contact, breathe together, or simply place a hand on your partner’s heart. Regulate before you respond.
Optimize Your Human System: Track your sleep, nutrition, and stress this week. Notice how your physical energy affects your patience, empathy, and ability to connect with others.
Conclusion:True connection isn’t built through perfect communication—it’s built through awareness, intention, and growth. As Michael Ostrolenk reminds us, thriving relationships require continuous excavation, conscious agreements, and the willingness to evolve together. When we learn to regulate ourselves, support our partners, and approach life with curiosity and playfulness, we move from reacting out of habit to responding with purpose.
Start small. Have one intentional conversation, take one deep breath before you respond, and watch how even the smallest shifts can transform your relationship—and yourself.
Are you running out of energy before you run out of ideas?
You’ve got the vision, the drive, and maybe even the team — but somehow, your business still feels stuck in neutral. What if the problem isn’t your strategy… but your momentum?
In this episode, we dive deep into the science — and the soul — of small business growth. Our guest, Chip Higgins, knows exactly what it feels like to hit that wall. After decades in executive leadership and banking, Chip saw a critical gap: small business owners weren’t getting access to the same strategic insight and momentum-building tools that corporations rely on.
So he built a solution.
As the Founder of Bizzics and author of The Bizzics Way: Powering Your Small Business to Maximum Momentum, Chip has turned the timeless laws of physics into a powerful framework for entrepreneurs — showing how mass, velocity, and energy apply to leadership, team building, and purpose-driven growth.
Chip’s passion is contagious. He believes small businesses don’t need to be big to be massive — they just need the right momentum. In this inspiring conversation, he reveals how to create lasting energy in your business, overcome burnout, and build something that truly lasts.
If you’ve ever wondered how to turn your passion into purposeful movement — this episode is your roadmap.
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Actionable Takeaways:
Audit your business momentum. Ask yourself: Where is my energy going—and is it creating forward motion or just friction? Identify one area where effort isn’t translating to progress and refocus it.
Shift from passion to purpose. Passion gets you started, but purpose keeps you moving. Define why your business exists beyond profit—and make sure every decision aligns with that mission.
Build “mass” before “velocity.” Strengthen your team, culture, and systems first. Sustainable growth comes from density—creating a business that can handle acceleration without falling apart.
Monitor your energy management, not just time. Track what drains and fuels your energy daily. Replace one draining task this week by delegating or automating it.
Reflect on your authenticity. Ask: Am I building a business that truly reflects who I am and what I believe? Authenticity is momentum fuel—without it, burnout is inevitable.
Conclusion:
Momentum isn’t just about moving faster—it’s about moving with purpose. Chip Higgins reminds us that small businesses don’t need to be big to make a massive impact. What matters is direction, energy, and authenticity. When you align your passion with purpose and lead with intention, you create a force that doesn’t just sustain your business—it transforms it.
So take a breath, refocus your energy, and start building the kind of momentum that lasts.
Are you truly preparing yourself—and your family—for the future? Or are you following traditional paths like college and career that may actually be leaving you vulnerable?
Today's guest, Matt Smith, is an American entrepreneur and economic commentator who walked away from convention to build a resilient life. Now based in Uruguay running a regenerative cattle ranch, he co-hosts Doug Casey’s Take podcast, publishes the Crisis Investing newsletter, and just co-authored The Preparation: How to Become Competent, Confident, and Dangerous with Doug Casey and his 20-year-old son.
In this conversation, Matt shares how to become truly self-reliant in uncertain times—covering education, economics, and the timeless virtues that build competence and confidence. If you’ve ever wondered how to thrive, not just survive, this is an episode you can’t afford to miss.
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Actionable Takeaways:
Question the Default Path: Ask yourself, Am I pursuing this career, degree, or lifestyle because I chose it—or because culture told me to? Write down what you truly want versus what you’ve been conditioned to want.
Design Your Peer Environment: Evaluate the five people you spend the most time with. Do they push you toward competence, confidence, and independence—or keep you stuck in mediocrity? Make one intentional change this week.
Lower Your Time Preference: Practice delaying gratification. Instead of chasing short-term comfort, invest time, money, or effort into something that will make you stronger in 5–10 years.
Build Competence in One Area: Pick a skill—physical, financial, or intellectual—and commit to deliberate practice. Confidence flows from demonstrated competence.
Create Your Personal Code: Draft a short written set of principles (3–5 lines) that define who you are and the kind of man or woman you want to become. Revisit it weekly.
Conclusion
In a world where uncertainty is the only guarantee, Matt Smith reminds us that true preparation isn’t about credentials or checking boxes—it’s about becoming the kind of person who can adapt, lead, and thrive no matter what comes. Competence, confidence, and resilience don’t happen by accident; they’re built through intentional choices, delayed gratification, and surrounding yourself with the right people and principles.
The challenge is simple yet profound: Are you preparing to merely survive, or to live with strength, independence, and purpose? The time to start building that future is now.
Do you ever feel like you’re constantly rushing, juggling everything, yet never truly present? Stress, anxiety, and screen addictions aren’t just bad habits—they’re rewiring your brain.
This week’s guest, Dr. Trish Leigh, a neurofeedback expert and brain health coach, reveals how to retrain your brain for focus, calm, and authentic joy. With her unique blend of cutting-edge science and lived experience as a mother of five, she helps people break free from overwhelm, screen dependence, and unhealthy patterns.
Discover how multitasking sabotages your well-being, why screen use is reshaping kids’ brains, and the practical steps you can take today to rewire your mind for resilience, presence, and lasting performance.
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Actionable Takeaways:
Audit Your Daily Schedule: Identify the moments that leave you feeling rushed or dysregulated, then restructure your day to reduce rushing and create space for calm focus.
Rewire Your Brain for Regulation: Practice recognizing your stress “cues” (e.g., feeling rushed, tightening finances, snapping at loved ones) and use grounding techniques—like pausing, breathing, or stepping back—to reset before burnout.
Digital Dopamine Detox: Take inventory of your screen habits and replace one “quick dopamine hit” activity (doom-scrolling, binge-watching) with a real-life joy activity that brings deeper fulfillment.
Redefine Joy vs. Dopamine: Ask yourself, “Am I chasing quick stimulation, or choosing experiences that give me true joy?” Then schedule at least one authentic joy activity this week.
Break Multitasking Habits: Commit to being fully present in one area of your life—work, family, or rest—rather than juggling everything at once. Notice how your energy and focus shift.
Conclusion
At the end of the day, your brain is your most valuable asset—and the way you train it determines how you show up in every part of your life. Dr. Trish Leigh reminds us that stress, screen dependence, and constant multitasking don’t just make us tired; they rewire us for burnout. But with awareness, intentional practices, and the right tools, we can rewire for focus, calm, joy, and resilience.
The challenge—and the opportunity—is to ask yourself: Am I living the life I truly want, or the one I’ve been programmed to accept? The choice to reshape your brain and your future starts today.
What happens when you do everything society tells you—earn the degrees, land the secure job, build the perfect life—only to find yourself feeling empty? Why do so many men chase grit, competition, and accomplishments, yet still end up lost? And what if the real answer isn’t in choosing between education or trade skills, city or wilderness, but in forging a life that blends both?
Our guest today, Zach Hanson, has lived that journey. A former AI and machine-learning product management expert who helped build technology at the cutting edge, Zach walked away from the “safe” path to pursue something deeper. His story took him from competitive Jiu Jitsu and a tech career to the most remote town in Idaho, where he rebuilt his life after divorce through hunting, trapping, writing, and faith.
Zach is not only an avid hunter, trapper, and trade advocate, but also a thought leader who bridges two worlds—the resilience of hands-on trades and the innovation of artificial intelligence. Today, he lives with his wife and three children at the base of the Sawtooth Mountains in rural Idaho, proving every day that success isn’t about titles or paychecks, but about discipline, curiosity, and a God-centered life.
In this conversation, Zach shares hard-won lessons on self-reliance, the dangers of over-education without real skills, and why rediscovering community, faith, and practical knowledge may be the antidote to the frustrations so many men face.
Quotes:
"The arc of the book is, what I found out is I actually found community there. I found God there. And it was all through my trying to run away and have these experiences which were great, but took me full circle to realize that I actually really need community."
Key Takeaways:
Expand your definition of education – Don’t settle for “college or bust.” Ask yourself: What practical skills could I learn right now that would make me more self-reliant? Start with something simple like changing your own oil, learning basic welding, or even gardening.
Audit your identity – How do you introduce yourself? Do you define yourself only by your job title, or by the passions and skills that truly bring you joy? Reframe your identity around what aligns with your values and long-term vision.
Practice relentless curiosity – Treat everyday tasks as opportunities to learn. Instead of outsourcing everything, ask: Could I figure this out myself? Watch a tutorial, take a class, or shadow someone skilled.
Prioritize communication and honesty in relationships – Daily devotionals, hard questions, and open dialogue can prevent small frustrations from eroding intimacy. What’s one honest conversation you’ve been avoiding? Have it this week.
Balance grit with desire – Discipline will get you far, but true growth comes when your actions align with what you deeply desire. Reflect: Am I grinding out of obligation, or pursuing something I truly want?
Zach’s story is a reminder that fulfillment doesn’t come from following a prescribed path, but from daring to carve out your own. Whether it’s through sharpening practical skills, deepening your faith, or embracing relentless curiosity, the challenge is the same: stop outsourcing your growth and start owning it. His journey—from artificial intelligence labs to the remote mountains of Idaho—proves that resilience and wisdom are forged not in comfort, but in the willingness to step into the unknown.
Do you feel like the stock market is a game rigged against everyday people? Maybe you’ve tried dabbling in stocks, only to be overwhelmed with emotions, paralyzed by indecision, or burned by losses. Why do some investors consistently win while most struggle to even get started? And what if the key to building wealth isn’t luck—or insider knowledge—but a proven system that takes the guesswork out of investing?
Enter Sean Tepper. Sean is the Founder and CEO of Tykr, a platform empowering over 12,000 customers across 50+ countries to confidently navigate the stock market. His journey reflects a deep understanding of both business and investment, honed over 20+ years in the corporate world and 15+ years dedicated to building wealth. He built and successfully merged a thriving agency in the 2000s, followed by a decade (2011–2023) as a highly sought-after project management consultant for industry giants like GE, Kohler, Kohl’s, and Direct Supply.
What makes Sean unique is not just his experience, but his passion for making financial literacy accessible to all. In 2016, he created a simple Excel-based investment tool that generated over 15% returns for himself. By 2020, he transformed it into Tykr, a sophisticated yet user-friendly software platform designed to take emotions out of investing and empower people to grow wealth with confidence.
In this episode, Sean shares how he went from corporate consultant to entrepreneur, why most traders fail while investors succeed, and the principles behind Tykr that can help you achieve greater financial freedom—and a more fulfilling life.
Quotes:
“People really want more than anything, and you hit on the word, which is confidence—they want the ability to know what stocks to look for, what to avoid. It’s literally the rest your head on your pillow at night and sleep better than you ever had before.”
“Let us not become weary in doing good, because at the right time, you will reap a harvest if you don’t give up. If you’re providing value and there are people that are verbally saying thank you, or like you’re seeing people that are getting results, but you’ve got no fruit out of it—not yet—keep doing it.”
“It’s the little steps. There’s too many people set like, these massive goals, and then if they don’t hit it, they’re disappointed and disappointed stop. It’s the little steps, that’s what you want to chip away at.”
Key Takeaways:
Invest, don’t trade → Ask yourself: are you trying to “get rich quick” by trading, or building long-term wealth through disciplined investing? 99% of traders lose money—investors win by letting their money work for them.
Focus beats diversification (at first) → Instead of spreading thin across dozens of stocks, concentrate on 10–15 strong businesses if you’re in growth mode. Diversification is for wealth protection later, not wealth building now.
Use math, not emotions → Before making your next investment move, ask: Am I reacting emotionally, or am I following a proven system? Building confidence starts by trusting data over feelings.
Conclusion
Sean Tepper proves that investing doesn’t have to be overwhelming, emotional, or reserved for Wall Street insiders. With the right system, the right mindset, and a commitment to values, anyone can build wealth and confidence in the stock market. His journey with Tykr is a reminder that financial literacy is not just about numbers—it’s about empowerment, freedom, and creating a life of greater impact.
If you’ve been waiting for the “perfect time” to start investing, this episode shows you that the best time is now—and that you don’t have to do it alone.
Are you tired of chasing quick fixes for your health—pills for every symptom, supplements that don’t work, and doctors who never really ask why you’re struggling? What if the real answers to your pain, fatigue, or hormonal issues aren’t in another prescription, but in discovering and healing the root cause?
Today’s guest, Kelsey Koehler, knows this firsthand. From surviving a controlling cult and an abusive marriage to secretly pursuing her education in functional medicine, her story is nothing short of extraordinary. Kelsey turned personal adversity into a mission: helping people reclaim their health, longevity, and freedom through functional medicine that actually works.
She’s the founder of Profit High Performance Medicine, where she and her team blend advanced lab testing, root-cause analysis, nutrition, and hormone optimization to restore the body from the inside out. Her work doesn’t stop there—Kelsey is also pioneering new ways to serve veterans through a nonprofit that provides holistic solutions for PTSD, TBI, and other service-related health challenges.
If you’ve ever wondered why your body still struggles despite doing “all the right things,” or if you want to learn how to build true resilience—physically, mentally, and emotionally—this episode will challenge what you thought you knew about health and give you a glimpse of what’s really possible.
Quotes:
“I define functional medicine as looking at the body as a whole, instead of siphoning it into a set of symptoms.”
Key Takeaways:
Stop masking symptoms—ask “why?” → Before reaching for another prescription or supplement, dig deeper into the root causes of your health issues. What patterns, habits, or stressors might be driving them?
Audit your daily environment → Look at your sleep, nutrition, toxins, and stress load. Which of these areas could be quietly sabotaging your energy, hormones, or mental health?
Invest in testing, not guessing → Consider comprehensive lab work (blood, stool, genetics) to uncover the real story behind your symptoms instead of relying on one-size-fits-all treatments.
Rewire your thinking → Explore tools like Neuro-Linguistic Programming or guided meditation (such as Dr. Joe Dispenza’s work) to help calm your nervous system and retrain your brain’s stress response.
Build resilience through values → Ask yourself: Am I operating from integrity, or just following what others say works? Living by your own clear internal code is the foundation for lasting health, relationships, and leadership.
Conclusion:
Kelsey Koehler’s story is proof that even in the face of trauma, abuse, and broken systems, resilience and integrity can lead to true transformation. Her approach to functional medicine isn’t just about healing the body—it’s about restoring the whole person, inside and out. This conversation challenges us to stop settling for surface-level fixes and instead take ownership of our health, values, and future.
If you’re ready to rethink what’s possible for your body, your mind, and your life—this episode is where that journey begins.
Do you ever feel trapped by the same old script—go to college, get the job, chase security—only to wonder if you’ll end up unfulfilled and unprepared? What if there was a different path—one that builds real skills, character, and opportunity?
In this episode, we sit down with Maxim Smith, the very first beta tester of The Preparation—a four-year alternative to college designed to shape capable, virtuous leaders. At just 20 years old, Maxim has already become an EMT, fought wildfires, sailed through the Strait of Magellan, packed mules in the Rockies, flown planes, and worked on geophysics crews—all while studying economics, agriculture, and languages.
Maxim’s mission is simple yet powerful: to become the man he wants to be—and inspire others to start their own preparation. His story will challenge how you think about education, success, and what it really takes to thrive in today’s world.
Quotes:
"I think one of the benefits of going on your own path at a young age is that you can lean heavily on the people around you without them pitying you for not knowing what to do."
"Almost every experience is different than you think it's going to be. The deeper you get in, the more you realize, gosh, there's so much I don't know."
"The purpose of activities is not just to do fun stuff, but it's also to build smaller competencies in areas that are more fun."
Key Takeaways:
Redefine success: Instead of asking “What do I want to have?” start asking “Who do I want to be?” and let that guide your daily actions.
Create your own preparation cycle: Pick one skill or challenge you’ve been avoiding—physical, intellectual, or creative—and dedicate the next 90 days to immersing yourself in it.
Build your personal code: Write down the virtues and principles you want to live by. Use this as a compass when making difficult choices.
Share your journey publicly: Start a Substack, blog, or simple weekly update on social media. Reflection plus accountability will accelerate your growth.
Question the illusion of security: Ask yourself, Am I pursuing the safe path because it’s right—or just because it’s expected?
Conclusion:
Maxim Smith’s journey proves that growth doesn’t come from following a scripted path—it comes from embracing challenges, building skills, and pursuing virtue over comfort. His story is a reminder that the most important question isn’t “What will I achieve?” but “Who will I become?”
The Preparation isn’t just an alternative to college—it’s a blueprint for becoming capable, confident, and ready to seize opportunities in an uncertain world. Whether you’re 18 or 48, the challenge remains the same: step into discomfort, create your own preparation, and start building the life—and the character—you were meant for.
Do you ever feel like leadership is reserved only for people with titles, positions, or big personalities? Maybe you’ve doubted yourself, wondering if you’re “enough” to step up—or feared that mistakes and emotions might disqualify you from leading. What if leadership wasn’t about power or perfection, but about ownership, influence, and the small choices you make every day?
Today's guest, Jamie Cochran, proves exactly that. Jamie is the Chief Operating Officer at Echelon Front, the premier leadership consultancy founded by former Navy SEALs Jocko Willink and Leif Babin. Over the last 12 years, Jamie has helped organizations of every size—from startups to global enterprises—develop leaders at every level. She not only runs the operational side of the business but also teaches leadership principles in the field, guiding teams to adopt practical tools for real-world challenges.
What makes Jamie unique is her belief that leadership is the solution to every problem. She shows that anyone—whether you’re a student, a parent, a CEO, or a teammate—can lead with courage, humility, and clarity. Drawing on principles like Extreme Ownership, detachment from emotion, and the power of the “read back,” Jamie equips people with tools to influence others positively, solve problems effectively, and grow through mistakes rather than fear them.
Her passion is clear: helping people realize they already have what it takes to lead, and showing them how to practice leadership in every corner of life—at home, at work, and within themselves.
Quotes:
"Leadership exists at every level. Any human being who's interacting with other human beings has an opportunity to influence them, and so you're a leader in whatever capacity that might be."
"Leadership is something that can be learned. Even the best leaders have more opportunity to grow."
"Our tendency as human beings is to let our emotions or our ego or our own opinions and perspectives sort of prevent us from seeing the truth of a situation."
Actionable Takeaways:
Practice Extreme Ownership. Instead of making excuses or blaming others, ask yourself: What part of this situation can I own? Write down one mistake you’ve made recently and identify one step you can take to fix or learn from it.
Detach before deciding. Emotions cloud judgment. Build your own “detachment action plan” (like Jamie’s daughter did)—three quick things you can do to reset when you’re angry, stressed, or overwhelmed (e.g., take a walk, breathe deeply, write it out).
Use the “read back” method. When someone gives you instructions, repeat back what you heard in your own words. This not only prevents miscommunication but also builds trust and shows you’re fully engaged.
Look for leadership opportunities everywhere. Ask: Where can I step up today without being asked? Whether at home, school, or work, find one area where you can take initiative and serve others.
Redefine failure as growth. Instead of fearing mistakes, view them as training reps. Journal: What’s one recent failure, what did it teach me, and how can I apply that lesson moving forward?
Conclusion:
Jamie’s journey reminds us that leadership isn’t about rank, title, or perfection—it’s about responsibility, humility, and the willingness to own our actions. Through Extreme Ownership, detachment from emotion, and practical tools like the read back, she shows that anyone can step into leadership right where they are. Her message is clear: the problems we face are really leadership problems, and the solutions begin with us.
Do you ever feel like you don’t quite fit into the traditional mold—whether in sports, school, or even life? Maybe you’ve tried the “standard” path but never felt at home, and deep down you wonder if there’s something more—something uniquely yours. What if the obstacles you face aren’t there to stop you, but to reveal your true strength? And what would it look like to transform those setbacks into a platform for purpose, impact, and leadership?
Today's guest, Karsten Williams, embodies that very journey. From humble beginnings to becoming an 11-time American Ninja Warrior national finalist, Karsten has proven that resilience, creativity, and grit can carry you far beyond conventional boundaries. He turned his passion for movement into not only personal success, but also a mission to inspire others through mentorship, leadership, and community.
Karsten Williams is an 11-time American Ninja Warrior national finalist, elite coach, and founder of Ninja Project—a movement platform redefining youth fitness and functional entertainment. With over a decade of experience across 50+ ninja gyms and events, he’s on a mission to turn everyday people into champions through movement, mindset, and mentorship.
What makes Karsten unique is not just his decorated Ninja Warrior career, but his passion for creating spaces where belonging meets possibility. He’s leading a new generation to see obstacles not as limitations, but as opportunities to grow stronger, more confident, and more resilient. His story reminds us that failure isn’t the end—it’s the very foundation of greatness.
Quotes:
"Always stay true to you, don’t compare yourself, and don’t try to do what others can do. They might have a unique skill set that I don’t necessarily have."
"I want to create a space for those people that feel like they’re maybe underserved, can come in and have their own experience, and have someone that can love on them, pour into them, encourage them, and it’s a win for everybody."
"When you do get to the top or experience that success, it’s that much more meaningful and impactful because you know what the bottom feels like."
Actionable Takeaways:
Turn failure into fuel. Ask yourself: Where have I let a setback define me instead of refine me? Write down one failure you’ve experienced and list three lessons you gained from it.
Run your own race. Don’t copy someone else’s path. Identify one area of life where you’ve been comparing yourself to others—then outline one action that reflects your strengths and style instead.
Redefine obstacles. Each challenge is an opportunity to grow. This week, reframe a personal or professional obstacle by writing how it could actually serve as preparation for a future win.
Create belonging for others. Who in your circle feels “on the outside” or like they don’t have a place? Reach out and invite them into an activity, group, or conversation that builds connection.
Conclusion:
Karsten’s journey reminds us that obstacles aren’t roadblocks—they’re invitations to grow stronger, wiser, and more resilient. From crashing on his very first Ninja Warrior course to becoming an 11-time national finalist and mentor to thousands, he proves that success is built on perseverance, humility, and the courage to run your own race. His story challenges us to see every setback as a setup for impact—and to pursue a life that inspires others to rise above their own obstacles.
Are you stuck trying to figure out your next move? Maybe you’ve got the talent, the passion, and even the drive—but you’re wrestling with doubt, outside pressure, or the fear of failure. What if the real problem isn’t the obstacles in front of you, but the mindset you carry into the fight? What would it look like to bet on yourself fully—no plan B, no safety net—and actually win?
Today's guest, Greg Siewers, knows that battle better than most. Known to many as the Michael Jordan of paintball, Greg turned an obsession he discovered at age nine into a professional career that took him around the world, earning multiple world championships and representing Team USA. But Greg’s story doesn’t stop with sports. He’s a serial risk-taker who carried the lessons of elite competition into entrepreneurship—building gyms from scratch, scaling them to six-figure revenues, selling them at a profit, and now launching a supplement brand with the same relentless drive.
Greg Siewers is a former World Champion paintball player, multi-gym owner, and now CEO of MAPtrition Supplements. His goal is to simplify fitness and nutrition for all levels as he works toward reaching 1,000,000 people, helping them become healthier, happier, and more dangerous versions of themselves. Known as the Michael Jordan of paintball by fans of the sport, Greg has translated the mindset of elite competition into entrepreneurship—building gyms, scaling them to six-figure revenues, selling them for profit, and now creating a supplement brand rooted in integrity and performance.
What makes Greg unique isn’t just his achievements—it’s the way he translates the high-pressure mindset of world-class athletics into the everyday grind of business and life. He knows what it means to silence doubt, push past resistance, and take risks others wouldn’t dare to try. And in this conversation, he shares exactly how you can apply those same principles to your own journey—whether you’re building a business, chasing a dream, or simply trying to lead yourself and others with confidence.
Quotes:
"If I just keep trying. As miserable as it is, it's okay if it's miserable, but if I keep trying, it'll work."
"There was no plan B. If everything burned to the ground, I'm so able and willing to work hard to build it again that it won't matter."
"No one can teach you that. So the fact that you failed and are willing to do it again, you now have a stack of undeniable proof that you are willing and able to do that thing."
Actionable Takeaways:
Bet on yourself with no plan B. Ask: If I stripped away the safety nets, would I still go all in? Write down one area of your life where you’ve been holding back out of fear—and commit to a decisive action this week.
Focus on the “first 10 seconds.” Like Greg visualized the opening play in paintball, break down your next big challenge into the smallest first step. What’s the single action that will get you moving forward today?
Reframe failure. Instead of asking, What if I fail? ask, What would I learn if I failed—and how would I rebuild? Journal through both the worst-case and best-case outcomes of a risk you’re considering.
Surround yourself with A-players. Evaluate your circle—are the people closest to you challenging you to grow, or are you the smartest person in the room? Commit to connecting with one mentor, peer, or network that’s operating at the next level.
Conclusion:
Greg’s journey proves that greatness isn’t about avoiding failure—it’s about having the courage to step into uncertainty, commit fully, and outlast everyone else. Whether on the paintball field, in the gym, or in business, his story is a reminder that betting on yourself is the most powerful investment you can ever make.
Are algorithms controlling your voice, your reach, and even your freedom? Have you wondered why so many leaders, creators, and even ministries struggle to connect authentically in a digital world built on distraction?
This week’s guest, Adam Curry, has lived through it all—and shaped much of it. Known as the “Podfather,” Adam went from MTV VJ to pioneering podcasting, transforming how millions consume media. With an uncanny ability to “see around corners,” he’s always been ahead of the curve—whether in pirate radio, television, podcasting, or now decentralized platforms like The Godcaster.
Born in Washington, DC, and raised in Amsterdam, Adam has been a trailblazer at the intersection of media and technology for over 30 years. He became a household name as an MTV VJ (1987–1993), created one of the first digital agencies (On Ramp Inc.), co-invented podcasting with Dave Winer, and later launched Podcasting 2.0 to preserve free speech and independence in media. Today, through Podcastindex.org and Godcaster.fm, Adam is pioneering platforms that empower creators, churches, and communities to reclaim their voices. He also co-hosts the award-winning No Agenda Show podcast.
If you care about leadership, responsibility, and preparing the next generation to thrive in an age of noise, you won’t want to miss this conversation.
Quotes:
"If you really go for platforms like YouTube, Instagram, X, Twitter, Facebook or TikTok, you're really at the mercy of their system."
"Podcasting was so interesting because it's completely decentralized. You have a little file that you need to serve from a web server somewhere, known as an RSS feed, and that controls your destiny."
"There is no such thing as artificial intelligence. There's Almighty intelligence—that certainly exists. There is artificial intimacy. That's what these things are selling, mainly right now."
Actionable Takeaways:
Reclaim your voice from platforms – Don’t rely solely on centralized platforms like YouTube, Instagram, or TikTok. Explore decentralized tools such as podcasting or The Godcaster that let you own your content and control your audience connection.
Practice Value-for-Value – Instead of chasing ads or algorithms, ask: How can I deliver value directly to my audience, and invite them to reciprocate? Consider small ways to implement this model in your own work, family, or community.
Teach responsibility through technology – When introducing kids or students to tech, focus less on consumption and more on creation. Ask: Am I raising passive scrollers or active builders? Create small projects together—record an audio story, start a blog, or make a simple podcast.
Audit your relationship with AI and media – Reflect on how much time and trust you’re giving to chatbots, algorithms, and social feeds. Where are you letting them think or feel on your behalf? Take one intentional step this week to reduce dependency—whether that’s journaling, reading scripture, or having a real conversation instead of defaulting to digital interaction.
Conclusion:
Adam Curry’s journey reminds us that media and technology can either enslave us to algorithms—or empower us to lead with truth, freedom, and responsibility. His story challenges us to reclaim control of our voices, embrace personal accountability, and prepare the next generation to thrive in an uncertain digital world. The tools are in our hands, but the question is: will we use them to conform to the system, or to create something that truly matters?
Why do so many entrepreneurs struggle with overwhelm, self-doubt, and the relentless pressure to “do more”—yet still feel like they’re not moving forward? Have you ever wondered why some leaders seem to thrive under pressure while others burn out? And what if the missing ingredient isn’t strategy or hustle, but something deeper—how we show up, lead ourselves, and align with our values?
In this episode, Brighton Dance, is no stranger to these challenges. With a background that blends entrepreneurship, psychology, and personal transformation, Brighton has made it his mission to help high-achievers break free from limiting patterns and step fully into the life and business they’re meant to lead. His passion is contagious, and his unique approach combines hard-won business lessons with powerful mindset shifts—making him especially qualified to speak to anyone who feels stuck in the cycle of stress and striving.
Brighton doesn’t just talk about success—he lives it. From building businesses to coaching leaders through personal and professional crossroads, he’s developed a proven framework that helps people cultivate clarity, resilience, and authentic growth.
If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why am I working so hard but still not feeling fulfilled?” or “How do I create a business that truly reflects who I am?”—this conversation will challenge your perspective and give you a roadmap to lasting change.
Quotes:
“If you’re just running in your own self-interest, when it gets hard, you want to go easier. But if you’re thinking about your teammates, you want to win as a team, and that pushes you so much farther.”
“Once you finish a race, it doesn’t really matter how well you do—you’re just so happy that you did it. It’s the best feeling ever.”
“Your mind is so powerful—if you think anything negative when you’re in pain, it’s going to impact you a lot. You really need to drill in positive thoughts, even if it feels over the top.”
Key Takeaways:
Audit your daily alignment. Ask yourself: Am I living and working in a way that reflects my true values, or am I stuck in patterns of “shoulds” and external expectations? Write down one activity you’ll eliminate this week that drains you but doesn’t serve your purpose.
Reframe burnout as a signal, not a weakness. Instead of pushing through, pause to identify what your exhaustion is telling you about boundaries, priorities, or unresolved inner conflicts. Create one new boundary in your schedule that protects your energy.
Practice self-leadership before business leadership. Spend 10 minutes each morning setting an intention not just for what you’ll do today, but for how you’ll show up. For example, choose qualities like “calm,” “decisive,” or “compassionate” and consciously embody them.
Redefine success on your terms. Reflect on Brighton’s challenge: What does fulfillment look like for me outside of money, titles, or growth metrics? Write a personal success statement that you revisit weekly to stay grounded.
Conclusion:
Brighton Dance reminds us that real success isn’t about doing more—it’s about becoming more aligned, intentional, and authentic in the way we live and lead. The strategies and systems matter, but without clarity of purpose and self-leadership, they’ll never bring the fulfillment we’re seeking.
The invitation is clear: pause, reflect, and ask yourself if the life you’re building truly matches the person you want to become. Because when you lead yourself first, everything else—your business, your relationships, your impact—falls into place.
Are our schools truly preparing the next generation for freedom, critical thinking, and real-world success—or are they quietly producing dependency, debt, and disconnection? Why do so many young people leave the classroom with diplomas in hand but little confidence, purpose, or practical skill? And if the system is broken, what responsibility do families and leaders have to create something better?
This week’s guest, Brett Pike, has not only asked these hard questions—he’s acted on them. Once a top student in the very system he now critiques, Brett’s awakening to the failures of modern education pushed him to reimagine what learning could look like. He is the founder of Classical Learner and creator of Homeschools Connected, where he equips families with the tools to raise critical thinkers, independent leaders, and skilled young adults.
Brett’s passion is contagious, his message is urgent, and his track record speaks volumes: from exposing “fake history” and faulty teacher training, to building a thriving community of parents reclaiming responsibility for their children’s development. He believes in education that fosters resilience, entrepreneurship, and strong families—foundations for a free and flourishing society.
If you’ve ever questioned the traditional school path, wondered how to protect your kids from cultural chaos, or simply asked yourself, “What skills actually matter before adulthood?”—this conversation is for you.
Quotes:
“You have to meet people where they're at and then within that, you could plant little seeds in their consciousness.”
“With proper leadership from older people, young people could view dating and the opposite sex and marriage in a much healthier way.”
“Your children should know their rights. That's just fundamental. They should not only know their rights, but they should have at least a basic idea of how to exercise and defend those rights.”
Key Takeaways:
Reclaim responsibility for education – Ask yourself: Am I outsourcing too much of my child’s development to institutions? Identify one area this week where you can directly guide your child’s growth (e.g., teaching financial basics, involving them in home projects).
Practice intellectual self-defense – Learn and teach your kids the basics of logical fallacies and source evaluation. Start small: pick one news article together and break down whether its claims are supported by primary sources or emotional persuasion.
Strengthen family leadership – Reflect on your own household: Am I leading with calm strength, or reacting with panic? Take one step to model leadership at home—such as setting a clear family goal, removing a personal vice, or intentionally spending time teaching a value.
Prioritize real-world skills – Choose one practical skill (gardening, carpentry, entrepreneurship, or financial literacy) and commit to practicing it with your kids this month. Tie it to a real project, like building a simple item, selling something at a market, or setting up a budget.
Build community intentionally – Evaluate your current circle of friends and peers. Are they aligned with your values, or are they pulling you and your family off course? Make it a goal this week to attend one local activity, club, or homeschool group that better reflects the culture you want for your children.
Conclusion:
Brett Pike challenges us to rethink what true education looks like—and more importantly, who is responsible for it. Schools may teach compliance, but families can cultivate freedom, resilience, and purpose. By reclaiming our role as the primary educators of our children, instilling critical thinking, and modeling strength in our own lives, we prepare the next generation not just to get by in the world, but to lead it.
The real question isn’t whether the system will change—it’s whether we will step up and build something better.
Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you push, something invisible is holding you back from the life you know you’re capable of living? Maybe it’s fear of failure, maybe it’s self-doubt, or maybe it’s the weight of old wounds you’ve never healed. What if the real obstacle isn’t outside of you—but inside?
In this episode, we sit down with Dustin Fleming, a U.S. Army veteran, speaker, and transformation coach who has turned his own battles with trauma, adversity, and self-sabotage into a mission of helping others break free. Dustin’s journey from combat to personal collapse—and ultimately to healing and leadership—is proof that your past does not define your future.
With a unique blend of raw honesty, hard-won wisdom, and practical strategies, Dustin challenges us to confront the stories we tell ourselves, dismantle limiting beliefs, and build a mindset rooted in resilience and purpose. His passion is helping people realize that freedom begins when you stop running from your pain and start using it as fuel.
If you’ve ever asked yourself “Why can’t I get out of my own way?” or wondered what it really takes to rebuild from the ground up, this episode is for you.
Quotes:
Key Takeaways:
Face the Stories You Tell Yourself: Write down the negative beliefs or fears that play on repeat in your mind. Then ask, Is this story serving me, or is it keeping me stuck?
Reframe Your Pain: Instead of asking “Why did this happen to me?” start asking “How can this experience fuel my growth?” Make a list of challenges you’ve overcome and the strengths they revealed.
Create a Daily Reset Practice: Dustin emphasizes discipline and self-mastery. Start small—commit to one non-negotiable daily habit (journaling, prayer, exercise, or meditation) that grounds you and keeps you moving forward.
Conclusion:
Dustin Fleming’s story reminds us that the battles we fight within ourselves can be just as fierce as any fought on the outside. But they don’t have to define us. By facing our pain, rewriting the stories we tell ourselves, and choosing discipline over despair, we can create a life rooted in resilience and purpose.
This conversation challenges us to pause and ask: Am I letting my past hold me hostage, or am I using it as fuel to become the person I was meant to be?
The choice is always ours—and the time to choose is now.
What happens when you lose everything—your job, your money, your relationships—and the identity you thought defined you? How do you rebuild when rock bottom isn’t just a phrase, but your daily reality?
In this powerful conversation, we sit down with Taylor Cavanaugh, the only man to serve as both a U.S. Navy SEAL and a member of the French Foreign Legion—a rare path of resilience, grit, and transformation. But his story isn’t just about military titles; it’s about stripping away labels, confronting suicidal lows, and discovering that the foundation of a strong identity lies in something deceptively simple: daily habits, discipline, and alignment.
Taylor shares his journey from homelessness and despair to finding clarity through stoic philosophy, discipline in the Legion, and personal growth rooted in deliberate action. Today, he coaches men to reclaim their power, rebuild their lives, and live with intentionality—proving that no man is ever truly out of the fight unless he chooses to quit.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or overwhelmed by life’s chaos, this episode will challenge you to ask: Who is your 10.0 self? And what habits are you stacking to become him?
Quotes:
"It’s my daily habits that are the only thing that can make me confident about who I am, and that’s where the change really happened."
Key Takeaways:
Audit Your Daily Habits: Ask yourself, Do my daily actions align with the man I want to become? Write down your “10.0 self” and list the habits he lives by—then start practicing one of them today.
Start With the Morning: Structure your wake-up routine to set the tone for the rest of the day. Wake up earlier, avoid looking at your phone, move your body, and take 15 minutes for reflection or visualization.
Return to Factory Settings: When life feels chaotic, strip back to the basics—nutrition, movement, sleep, and discipline. Check if you’re slipping on any of these before blaming outside circumstances.
Conclusion:
Taylor Cavanaugh’s story is proof that even in the darkest seasons of life, transformation is possible when we commit to discipline, clarity, and deliberate action. Titles and circumstances may come and go, but true strength is built in the habits we practice daily and the identity we choose to embody.
This episode challenges us to look inward, strip back the noise, and ask: Am I living in alignment with the man I aspire to be? The answer doesn’t lie in waiting for the perfect moment—it’s found in the small, intentional steps you take today.
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