Difficult conversations. I hate them. Especially if it's one sided and you are not being heard. But we need them in order to find alignment, to better understand each other, to bounce off each other and give ideas to making things better. To know your boundaries with each other. If you've never had any difficult conversations in your relationships, you are not in a relationship. You are in a "situationship" where it's only convenient to them and you've never discussed healthy boundaries.

Having difficult conversations will make you and your partner more assertive in problem solving because marriage is a battle and you need someone you can go to war with. Critical thinking, giving inputs and to understand if this person is a right fit to your long term goal which not only includes your dream goal but marriage goal. A team by your side. So this person has got to be your ride or die even at your worst (which not many people survived). It also gives you the perspective of what you can and will tolerate when it comes to ones bad traits or habits. A bad habit that you will be tolerating long term. And if you can compliment that bad trait of theirs. And if their strength is what you need. It sounds weird but once you have these difficult conversations, you will understand what i mean. It all takes certain skills to maneuver it but with the right partner, it can work. So, have those difficult conversations. And never settle for less.

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