Yearning for love that goes beyond fleeting emotions? Longing to unlock your true potential and build fulfilling relationships? Join Cynthia Marks on a transformative journey guided by the groundbreaking teachings of her late husband, Dr. Bernard Bail.
Dr. Bail believed love was not just a feeling, but a cornerstone of human existence, woven into the very fabric of our dreams. Each episode delves into his ”Love, Dreams, Imprint” paradigm, offering a roadmap to navigate the emotional landscape and rewrite the limiting narratives ingrained within us.
Dive into the mystical realm of dreams and decipher their hidden messages. Uncover the unconscious patterns, or ”imprints,” shaping your reality, and learn to break free from their hold. Renowned experts join Cynthia, illuminating love’s multifaceted nature, from self-love to romantic and familial bonds.
Discover Dr. Bail’s practical tools for healing past wounds, cultivating joy, and forging connections that transcend distance and time. Together, we embark on a mission to rewrite the script of love, transforming it from a fleeting feeling into a potent force for personal and collective transformation.
”And Now, Love” is your sanctuary for exploration, your laboratory for growth. Find your haven, join the conversation, and embark on a journey with immeasurable rewards. Listen now and discover the love that has the power to rewrite your story.
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Yearning for love that goes beyond fleeting emotions? Longing to unlock your true potential and build fulfilling relationships? Join Cynthia Marks on a transformative journey guided by the groundbreaking teachings of her late husband, Dr. Bernard Bail.
Dr. Bail believed love was not just a feeling, but a cornerstone of human existence, woven into the very fabric of our dreams. Each episode delves into his ”Love, Dreams, Imprint” paradigm, offering a roadmap to navigate the emotional landscape and rewrite the limiting narratives ingrained within us.
Dive into the mystical realm of dreams and decipher their hidden messages. Uncover the unconscious patterns, or ”imprints,” shaping your reality, and learn to break free from their hold. Renowned experts join Cynthia, illuminating love’s multifaceted nature, from self-love to romantic and familial bonds.
Discover Dr. Bail’s practical tools for healing past wounds, cultivating joy, and forging connections that transcend distance and time. Together, we embark on a mission to rewrite the script of love, transforming it from a fleeting feeling into a potent force for personal and collective transformation.
”And Now, Love” is your sanctuary for exploration, your laboratory for growth. Find your haven, join the conversation, and embark on a journey with immeasurable rewards. Listen now and discover the love that has the power to rewrite your story.
Masochism & The First Lie: Why We Punish Ourselves with Dr. Loren Weiner
And Now Love Podcast
52 minutes
5 days ago
Masochism & The First Lie: Why We Punish Ourselves with Dr. Loren Weiner
In this riveting session, Cynthia Marks and Dr. Loren Weiner unpack masochism as a deep, often invisible style of living driven by unconscious guilt—the felt sense that we “deserve” to suffer or deny ourselves good things. Loren traces the guilt back to Dr. Bernard Bail’s imprint theory: the fetus unconsciously takes on the mother’s unprocessed pain and wrongly concludes, “it’s my fault,” a “first lie” that later fuels self-sabotage, procrastination, and staying in punishing relationships. They show how dreams reveal this pattern—from lost purses and missed deadlines to violent head blows—mapping the original psychic “blast” and the mind’s attempt to wall it off. Cynthia shares personal dreams (like a book titled “Life Is Torture”) that capture resistance to joy and the pull toward old operating manuals. Loren explains how this inner guilt scales up into culture—why groups, institutions, even nations repeatedly choose policies that make everyone suffer. The antidote isn’t moralizing but honest dreamwork, daily self-questioning, and claiming the birthright to love and pleasure. Start inside, they insist; shift the inner operating system and the outer systems begin to change.
00:00 — What Is Masochism?07:20 — The First Lie14:40 — Head-Blow Dreams22:00 — Working the Pattern29:20 — “Life Is Torture”36:40 — Self to Society44:00 — Allowing Love & Pleasure50:49 — Closing Invitation
And Now Love Podcast
Yearning for love that goes beyond fleeting emotions? Longing to unlock your true potential and build fulfilling relationships? Join Cynthia Marks on a transformative journey guided by the groundbreaking teachings of her late husband, Dr. Bernard Bail.
Dr. Bail believed love was not just a feeling, but a cornerstone of human existence, woven into the very fabric of our dreams. Each episode delves into his ”Love, Dreams, Imprint” paradigm, offering a roadmap to navigate the emotional landscape and rewrite the limiting narratives ingrained within us.
Dive into the mystical realm of dreams and decipher their hidden messages. Uncover the unconscious patterns, or ”imprints,” shaping your reality, and learn to break free from their hold. Renowned experts join Cynthia, illuminating love’s multifaceted nature, from self-love to romantic and familial bonds.
Discover Dr. Bail’s practical tools for healing past wounds, cultivating joy, and forging connections that transcend distance and time. Together, we embark on a mission to rewrite the script of love, transforming it from a fleeting feeling into a potent force for personal and collective transformation.
”And Now, Love” is your sanctuary for exploration, your laboratory for growth. Find your haven, join the conversation, and embark on a journey with immeasurable rewards. Listen now and discover the love that has the power to rewrite your story.
