In this episode, we’re talking about one of the most underrated relationship skills: feeling your feelings before they explode into a fight. Shiv shares a real-life moment where she caught herself feeling irritated and chose to pause and go to bed — instead of picking a fight with Dave. That one small choice shifted everything. We talk about: How to recognize when you’re emotionally charged The power of becoming the watcher of your thoughts Why naming your feelings is one of the most disarming tools in conflict How learning to feel can change the energy of your entire relationship If you’ve ever found yourself in a fight that started over something small but spiraled quickly… this one’s for you.   Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us: Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min   ⟡ Instagram:   / https://www.instagram.com/allofyoupodcast/ ⟡ TikTok:   / https://www.tiktok.com/@allofyoupodcast ⟡ Email: Hello@allofyoupodcast.com