What should you be saying to your kids? In a time of gentle parenting, the come back of authoritative styles and more, it can be confusing to know how to talk to your kids and how to correct them. Amy Hughes joins Julie Lyles Carr on this episode of the AllMomDoes podcast to unpack what's up with parent speak.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/47gtJO3 

Takeaways:
Writing is often a reflection of what we need to hear ourselves.
Gentle parenting is a response to authoritarian styles of parenting.
Language choices can significantly impact a child's emotional health.
Phrases like 'don't be sad' can shame children for their feelings.
Encouraging children to express emotions is crucial for their development.
The balance between authority and gentleness is a common struggle for parents.
Children need to learn how to navigate different communication styles.
Role-playing can help prepare children for real-world interactions.
Awareness of harmful phrases can lead to better communication.
Parenting is a journey of learning and growth for both parents and children.

Sound bites:
"This needs to be its own book."
"Don't be sad is shaming."
"Hurry up can cause anxiety."

Chapters:00:00 
Introduction to Parenting Dynamics
02:51 The Importance of Language in Parenting
05:53 Navigating Emotional Expression
10:00 Replacing Harmful Phrases
12:07 Building Emotional Resilience
16:32 Trends in Parenting Challenges
19:07 Engaging with Community Language
22:43 Understanding Rising Childhood Anxiety
25:43 Preparing Kids for the Real World
27:54 The Role of Repair in Parenting

Keywords:parenting, communication, childhood emotions, language impact, gentle parenting, childhood anxiety, emotional intelligence, parenting challenges, family dynamics, child psychology

Parents are spending billions of dollars and countless hours on their kids' sports activities. But have we stopped to consider spiritual growth and family life in the midst of all things sports? Ed Uszynski, sports coach, author, and parent, joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to unpack how to keep the holy in hockey, blessing in the basketball, and faith on the field.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4o7maiI 

Takeaways:
The youth sports landscape has dramatically changed over the years.
Parents often feel overwhelmed by the demands of youth sports.
The shift from play to performance has led to a more competitive environment.
Parental identity can become intertwined with children's performance.
The youth sports industry is a multi-billion dollar complex.
Many parents feel pressured to ensure their children succeed in sports.
Character development is as important as athletic performance.
Most kids quit sports by their teenage years due to pressure.
The lessons learned in sports can impact life beyond the field.
Parents should focus on their children's growth rather than just performance.
Discipleship in parenting is crucial for guiding children.
Character development should be prioritized over performance in sports.
Parents should expect more from youth sports experiences.
It's important to model faith and community involvement for children.
Coaches may not always have the best interests of families in mind.
Parents can and should make choices about their children's activities.
It's okay to leave a sports team if it's not a good fit.
Youth sports should be fun and not a source of stress.
Families should communicate and pray together about sports commitments.
There are resources available to help parents navigate youth sports.

Sound Bites:
"We need help."
"This is to enhance our kids' lives."
"Where do you think that comes from?"
"The clock is ticking."
"We should expect more for our dollar."
"I really am my child's primary discipler."
"You can fire the coach."

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to the Youth Sports Landscape
02:54 The Shift from Play to Performance
06:48 Understanding the Youth Sports Industrial Complex
08:36 Parental Identity and Expectations
12:01 The Pressure of Performance and Its Consequences
16:39 Life Lessons Beyond the Field
19:45 Discipleship in Youth Sports
21:56 Balancing Passion and Priorities
25:13 Navigating Youth Sports Commitments
30:04 The Importance of Family Dynamics
33:48 Course Correction in Youth Sports
36:59 Resources for Parents in Youth Sports

Keywords:
youth sports, parenting, extracurricular activities, performance pressure, sports industry, parental expectations, youth sports culture, character development, sports parenting, sports ministry, youth sports, parenting, discipleship, character development, family dynamics, sports commitments, decision making, youth athletics, sports culture, faith and sports

Maybe it's not your compatibility; maybe it's your game plan...or lack thereof. Marriage coach Tondra Gregory joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to explore where marriages are struggling today and why you need a game plan to help you succeed in love.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/48Pbsc3 

Takeaways:
Churches often lack dedicated marriage ministries.
Marriage is a key part of reflecting God's image.
Conflict resolution is a critical skill for couples.
Social media presents new challenges for trust in relationships.
Setting boundaries around technology is essential.
Couples need to adjust their roles as life changes.
Communication is vital for a successful marriage.
Using sports analogies can help men understand marital concepts.
Flexibility in marriage plans is necessary for success.
Resources and tools are available to help couples thrive.  

Sound bites:
"We need to talk about all of this."
"We need to adjust our game plan."
"We are always looking for more tools."    

Chapters:
00:00 The Importance of Marriage in Faith Communities
02:53 Conflict Resolution: A Timeless Challenge
05:57 Navigating Modern Relationships in the Digital Age
09:05 Balancing Responsibilities in Marriage
11:58 Using Sports Analogies to Enhance Communication
15:01 Resources for Strengthening Marriages  

Keywords: marriage, faith communities, conflict resolution, social media, relationship advice, communication, marriage ministry, modern challenges, responsibilities, sports analogies

She was the host of a popular parenting podcast and good church girl. So why did it make her have a panic attack? Heather MacFayden joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an honest and vulnerable conversation about the one thing we're doing as moms that is working against us.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46RdzdN 

When you're used to working off of blueprints, production schedules, and closing dates, holding it all with an open hand and trusting God's timing can be tricky. Star of HGTV's Fixer to Fabulous Jenny Marrs joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an insightful look into what it means to trust God when your personality and your profession is built on to-do lists and timelines.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46vGmV8 

Ever dream of moving out on some land, raising some chickens, and writing some romance novels? Melissa Ferguson, TikTok phenom and all-around fascinating person did just that! Check out how her faith guided her through making big changes in her life in this episode of the AllMomDoes podcast with Julie Lyles Carr.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46NQoQq 

Do you sometimes think you should have been named something else? Spoken poet and author Hosanna Wong joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an insightful look at the names we give ourselves contrasted with what God calls us.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3VmhyZj 

She's a fellow podcaster and author and she's also a champion of making motherhood fun again! Courtney DeFeo of Pardon the Mess joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr with powerful reminders and tips about making motherhood joyful...and funny!

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3VOMYHR 

Ever feel leftout, overlooked, and like you don't fit at the 'cool kids' table? Challenges in friendships don't just happen in elementary school; adult women struggle too, and sometimes struggle the most in faith circles. Bestselling author and faith leader Natalie Runion is on the AllMomDoes podcast today with important truths about why our friendships in God can be and why we too often let lies, past hurts, and our own triggers get in the way.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46oaLEA 

Key Topics:

1. The journey from pastor's kid to ministry leader
2. The impact of social media on faith and community
3. Overcoming stereotypes and embracing female friendships
4. The importance of multi-generational mentorship

Guest Information:
Follow Natalie Runyon on Instagram and Facebook under "Raised to Stay" Natalie's books are available on Amazon, Books-A-Million

Dave and Ashley Willis bring insight, wisdom, and experiences in their own marriage to the podcast today! They join AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to talk about why gaming is becoming a big issue for couples, how apathy in relationship has become the new 'conflict,' and what you can do to enrich your relationship now.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4moDIWJ 

Why do we think things have to be perfect? What are we trying to avoid in our attempts to make things perfect? Co-founder of Sister I'm With You Jess Johnston is on the AllMomDoes podcast with Julie Lyles Carr to talk about why we are afraid to show up as our true selves, what role boundaries play in authenticity, and why letting go of perfectionism can be the best thing you can do to find community.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4kwu6au 

We are so excited about this summer series. If you are headed out on a road trip or lounging in the yard, get those ear buds in and fill yourself up with this content. We want you to have all this in one place.She runs a successful estate sales business in Austin, TX. And she's learned some fascinating things about how we move through our seasons of life and what it has to do with all of our stuff. Allison Armstrong joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr on the podcast!

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4nIta5S 

Stress is a part of every day life. We're never going to outrun it. But that doesn't mean it has to take us down. Barb Roose joins Julie Lyles Carr on the AllMomDoes podcast for an in-depth look at what stress is, how to know when you're headed for overwhelm, and how you can be stronger than stress.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/40GFo4T 

What does soup have to do with clutter, self care, and Sabbath rest? A whole lot more than you'd think! The incredible Kathi Lipp is back on the AllMomDoes podcast with Julie Lyles Carr and she's serving up great recipes and powerful wisdom in this timely conversation!

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/44URytv 

You're making all the things happen. You're juggling the kids, the job, the marriage, and the expectations of the people around you. And slowly, you're coming undone. Author Alyssa Joy Bethke and AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr talk about how to get out of the cycle of all the things while stil honoring the things God is asking you to do.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/45Yrm2c 

This is the first in a 6-part Summer '25 Simplify Series! Enjoy these top 6 episodes that were fan favorites from this past year. It started when all her stuff became completely overwhelming and led to a deeper understanding about how to be rich in what matters. Julia Ubbenga joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a fresh perspective on what the average 300,000 items in our house say not just about our ability to organize but about the state of our spiritual lives.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4kAe4g7 

Wondering how to pray for your teen son? Are you not sure what to pray for your teen daughter? Million Praying Moms founder Brooke McGlothlin and women's ministry lead Stacey Thacker joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr on the podcast with empowering ideas for making prayer a powerful part of your parenting in those exciting and challenging teen years.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4eseqE5 

Feeling anxious, stressed, overwhelmed, it's not all just in your head. There are times that life comes out us with incredible challenge, loss, and hardship. How do we stay trusting in God, how do we reclaim peace, when our circumstances don't make sense? Kara Stout joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a vulnerable conversation about bringing questions and hurts to God.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46itVfC 

What started as a journey of doubt and question led to a deep fascination of the Bible for Zach Windahl. Founder of The Brand Sunday and a passionate leader for making scripture accessible and understandable for people, Zach joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a refreshing and insightful conversation about the life and times of the Bible and God's Word speaks into our today.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4ndHqmZ 

Second-guessing, playing small, self-sabotaging, chasing perfectionism or overthinking to the point of overwhelm? Sound familiar? Podcaster and bestselling author Mary Marantz joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a conversation that will help you uncover why you minimize what you do, why you hide behind perfectionism, and why calling something 'good' is something God taught us first.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4edjjAz