“I’m not living the life I thought I would—but I *am* living. I’m no longer just existing.
It’s hard. It’s painful. But it’s real. This is my reality.
”Nothing in my life feels "normal." There’s no roadmap. Just the cards I’ve been dealt—and I’m learning to play them, even when the deck feels stacked against me.
I’ve faced adversity that’s shaped me into the person I am today.
One moment that really stands out is being dismissed by a doctor when I raised concerns about breast cancer. That experience taught me a powerful lesson: "your gut is gold".
You have to trust it—even when others won’t listen.
Key TakeawaysListen to your gut — It’s there for a reason.
Don’t silence it to keep others comfortable.
Take note of who shows up— When the sh*t hits the fan, you learn who’s truly in your corner
Be your own advocate — Doctors are not gods. You know your body better than anyone.
"You do you” in health battles — There is no one-size-fits-all.
Do what you need to survive, heal, or just make it through the day.
Existing vs. Living — There’s a world of difference. I’ve learned that choosing to "live"—even if it’s messy or painful—is worth everything.
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