In this episode of the Aligned Alchemy Podcast, Ichel dives into a powerful truth that came through under the moon’s energy: you can’t lose what you never had.
Exploring how attachment to ideas, identities, relationships, and illusions of security keep us stuck in fear and how to release them so you can step into alignment and freedom.
You’ll learn:
Why fear of “losing” is often tied to illusions and attachments
How this shows up in relationships, careers, and even politics
The danger of rose-coloured glasses and clinging to the past
Why security is an illusion — and what you can trust instead
The deeper spiritual question: who is shaking the jar?
This episode is a wake-up call to see things clearly, break free from false attachments, and step fully into your power.
Listen now and reclaim your truth.
Do you really trust the universe or are you holding on “just in case”?
In this episode of the Aligned Alchemy Podcast, we explore the profound spiritual lesson of trust: why it can’t be partial, how surrender shifts everything, and what happens when you finally let go of control.
Inside this episode you’ll discover:
Why trust can’t be 50% . It’s all or nothing.
The difference between understanding a lesson and truly knowing it.
How life’s hardest moments (the ones that bring you to your knees) become the gateway to trust.
Why surrendering control activates the laws of the universe in your favor.
How to spot the ways you’re not trusting and shift into full alignment.
Practical wisdom on letting go, releasing attachments, and stepping fully into flow.
If you’ve been clinging to backup plans, second-guessing yourself, or trying to control every outcome, this episode will help you surrender, trust, and move into alignment with the universe.
As always, I apprecaite you listening and would love to hear your shares and thoughts!
In this episode of the Aligned Alchemy Podcast, we’re exploring the power of your words, the frequency, tone, and energy behind everything you speak.
Inside you’ll discover:
How your words create your reality (for better or worse)
Why self-talk impacts your body on a cellular level
The “plant experiment” that proves tone changes everything
How to shift from self-sabotage to self-mastery through language
Your word is your wand — are you speaking yourself into expansion, or limitation?
Episode 86: Who are you getting into bed with? Energetic entanglements explained
In this juicy and eye-opening episode of Aligned Alchemy, we dive deep into the truth about energetic entanglements.
From the physical to the spiritual. It’s not just about who you share your bed with, but also who you share your energy, dreams, and intentions with every single day.
What you’ll learn in this episode:
Why sex and intimacy leave energetic imprints that linger long after the moment
How friendships, business partners, and even online communities impact your energy field
The hidden costs of entanglement (not just the gains we focus on)
Why sharing your future plans can dilute your manifestation power
A simple practice: pause, breathe, and ask — Who am I really getting into bed with, and what will it cost me?
Every connection leaves a mark. It’s time to get conscious about who you’re entwining with, physically, emotionally, and energetically.
In this heartfelt and uplifting episode, we dive into the simple but profound truth: happiness is your natural state.
Too often, we get stuck in cycles of grumpiness and suffering, forgetting that joy is our birthright.
What you’ll learn:
How we get attached to misery and why it becomes habitual
The power of gratitude to shift your mindset instantly
Simple daily practices to amplify happiness and joy
Why your energy is contagious. Spread your joy and watch it ripple out
A reminder that happiness is your default setting and it’s waiting for you
If you’ve been feeling stuck or disconnected from joy, this episode is your gentle, encouraging nudge back to happiness.
Holding onto the past out of fear?
In this episode of Aligned Alchemy, we explore why letting go of the past is essential for personal transformation, how to navigate the void with trust, and what happens when you fully align with your purpose.
You’ll discover how to:
Overcome fear of change and trust the universe
Stop “just in case” thinking that blocks manifestation
Close energetic loops so abundance and new opportunities can flow in
Whether you’re leaving a job, ending a toxic relationship, or stepping into your spiritual growth journey, this is your invitation to close the chapter and embrace the new.
A 5 part mini-series to cover the fifty spiritual words of wisdom I'd tell my 20-year-old self if I could go back in time!
Episodes 79-83 cover all 5 parts, all 50 things!
A 5 part mini-series to cover hte fifty spirituaal words of wisdom I'd tell my 20-year-old self if I could go back in time!
Episodes 79-83 cover aall 5 parts, all 50 things!
Fifty Things I'd Tell My 20-Year-Old Self - Part 3
A 5-part miniseries to cover the fifty spiritual words of wisdom I'd tell my 20-year-old self if I could go back in time!
A 5-part miniseries to cover the fifty spiritual words of wisdom I'd tell my 20-year-old self if I could go back in time!
Ok so let's rattle some cages, rock some boats and shake some people by the collars to wake up because this one needs to be spoken about.
Notice how it's mostly women who are told they are selfish?
When you know what is in alignemnet, when you identify your own wants and needs?
Isn't that what we are here for? To live OUR lives?
And yet the same people who say you are selfish are the ones who are selfish as they have an expectation that you should put THEIR wants, their expectations, their interpretations of how your life should look before their own.
Food for thought, right?
Anytime you are getting into worry you are getting into control and you are exisiting in the future.
Neither place will bring you the solutiions you are looking for, rather they will keep you attracting more things to worry about!
In this episode, discover how to get out of the worry loop and live from a place that actually brings solutions to you.
Absolutely everything that happens in your life is medicine for you to learn, grow and evolve.
Listen to this podcast to discover the most recent personal example and how these metaphors also apply to you and your life.
As your grow and evolve throughout life, you will most likely find that the circles around you change.
Do you allow this with no resistance or do you create stories about what it means, what others will think of you, and so make yourself small to stay in the same circles?
It is a beautiful and powerful thing to be supported and understood, exactly where you are. When you grow and change make sure those circles around you are changing, too.
As the shaman I work with says, the most difficult journey for most people to make is the 17 inches from their head to their heart.
Why?
When you're living from a level of low-grade anger or fear, you're not living in your heart - you're likely living in your head. In your heart there is no anger, there's no passive-aggressiveness, and there's no fear.
I'm not saying that if somebody physically, verbally, or emotionally abuses you, you should respond with a "love and light" attitude.
Absolutely NOT! Always put boundaries in place and protect yourself at all costs.
I simply suggest thinking about what you're absorbing on the daily as you interact with your close circles. Is this really how you want to operate for the rest of your life?
What head-based behaviors do you no longer wish to tolerate (in yourself and others)?
Value your thoughts and your mind, but always remember to make the journey back down to the heart.
If you are asking if you are overthinking the short answer is yes!
In this episdoe we explore why you are overthinking and how it's not your fault.
If you're like most people who listen to this podcast, you are a light worker and an empath.
So sometimes when we are feeling big emotions like fear, it's energy we have absorbed and taken on from the collective, not even our own.
Sometimes when we feel big emotions like fear, it's simply energy that we've absorbed and taken on from the collective or our closest circles.
It's not even our own.
Immersing yourself in social media and the mainstream news in particular is detrimental to your wellbeing, so my suggestion is to put down the phone and step away...
You may consider it harmless to doom scroll on Instagram, TikTok, etc., but beware that these programs are designed to create an echo chamber around you.
For instance, if you find a story on social media that makes you pause and say, “Oh my goodness, that's awful! What if that happens to ME?”
...the algorithm will notice that you watched and reacted, so it will feed you more of the same. Before long, your entire feed is filled with stories that are reaffirming your worst fears and anxieties.
Fears that never would've been introduced into your life had you, say, spent that doom scroll time tending to your garden, or choosing to play with your kids or pets.
Whether it's social media, the news, or your gloom and doom next door neighbor, it's essential to separate what is yours from what is not.
How much personal power and energy do you leak by arguing with someone who is so committed to their opinion they will never see your perspective?
Want to hear one of my favorite pieces of advice about this? I learned it from my shaman.
“If you don't want to get wet, stay out of the water.”
What many of us do is dive straight into the water. We have an urge to get involved, we want to help our friends and family, we desperately want to save the other person.
As a result, we make ourselves wet by getting in that water, into that drama.
The truth is, you can choose to be on the riverbank where it's dry and leave everybody else is in the water to live their own life experiences…
In their stuff, in their stories, in their entanglements and attachments.
It's got nothing to do with you.
The power is within the observer. The power is within the unattached.
It is ALWAYS about you and your energy.
One foot in, one foot out energy will attract exactly that back to you.
You have to take a hard look at yourself. Where is your energy going? What is your focus like? Is it scattered about or is it laser beam zeroed in?
The reason why a laser works the way it does is because all of its energy is focused onto one spot.
But if you take those same beams of energy and scatter them them all over the room, the laser is going to have no power at all.
So, is your energy a scattered, fractalized laser beam?
Or is it super focused and showing the universe what it is that you want?
