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Accidentally Intentional

Zoe Asher

107 episodes

23 hours ago

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! Starting a hard conversation with a friend can feel impossible. In this video, I’ll show you the best way to start THAT talk so it doesn’t blow up and ruin your friendship. You’ll learn practical steps to ease tension, open the door for honesty, and create trust instead of defensiveness. This is Part 1 of a 2 Part series, so be sure to subscribe and turn on your notifications to get Part 2 next week! The Beyond Small Talk cohort is coming this fall! H...

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Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! Starting a hard conversation with a friend can feel impossible. In this video, I’ll show you the best way to start THAT talk so it doesn’t blow up and ruin your friendship. You’ll learn practical steps to ease tension, open the door for honesty, and create trust instead of defensiveness. This is Part 1 of a 2 Part series, so be sure to subscribe and turn on your notifications to get Part 2 next week! The Beyond Small Talk cohort is coming this fall! H...

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Society & Culture,

Self-Improvement,

Health & Fitness,

Episodes (20/107)

Accidentally Intentional

Marvel's Thunderbolts Movie Wrecked Me More Than I Expected (Reaction)

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! I love superhero movies, but Marvel's new Thunderbolts movie hit different. I was stunned by what the secret theme and message of the movie was all about, and I'm giving my full reaction in this episode. Support the show Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional. Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the...

2 weeks ago

18 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

This is why you're struggling to make friends (& here's how to fix it)

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! Struggling to make friends? You’re not alone—and it’s not because something is wrong with you. In this episode, we’re unpacking the five sneaky reasons why you might be having trouble building close friendships, and more importantly, what to do about it. Help me (Zoe) get to know YOU (yes, you, the person behind this screen) with this quick 2-minute form . As a thank you, I’ll email you my "Asking Better Questions" guide with my 15 favorite conversat...

4 weeks ago

11 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

5 ways to make a great first impression (and become more memorable too)

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! Struggling with how to make a great first impression? Want to feel more confident when meeting someone new? In this video, you’ll learn five powerful, science-backed ways to make better first impressions, boost your confidence instantly, and stop feeling awkward in social situations. Whether it’s a networking event, a first date, or a casual conversation with a stranger, these simple yet effective techniques will help you connect faster and leave a la...

1 month ago

8 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

Why We Should All Send More Voice Notes To Friends (Reaction To TIME Article)

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! If you've ever wondered whether hitting "record" on a voice memo was worth it, this video is your answer. In this heartfelt and insightful reaction, Zoe takes us through a TIME article that argues voice notes aren’t just convenient communication tools—they’re small acts of love. From the very first words, she explores how sending a quick voice message can become a deeply human way to connect, especially in a world that’s increasingly fast, digital, an...

1 month ago

19 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

How To Know If You Have A Trustworthy Friend (8 Signs To Watch For!)

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! Can you really trust them? These signs will reveal someone's true character. In this episode, Zoe shares how to spot the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs that someone is truly trustworthy and a safe friend. If you’ve ever questioned someone’s intentions, felt anxious in a friendship, or had your trust broken in the past, this video gives you clarity on what to look for in real, honest relationships. Help me (Zoe) get to know YOU (yes, you, the person ...

1 month ago

12 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

Asking Friends For Help (Without Feeling Guilty Or Needy!)

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! We're tackling a feeling we’ve all had but rarely talk about—what it’s like to need help but feel paralyzed by guilt, fear, or pride. Asking friends for help can feel uncomfortable, awkward, or even shameful. Whether you’re afraid of seeming too needy, being rejected, or coming off as incapable, Zoe shows how to push through that discomfort and actually create deeper, more authentic relationships by reaching out. Help me (Zoe) get to know YOU (yes, yo...

2 months ago

13 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

How Do I Find Time For Adult Friendships? I’m Already Too Busy!

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! As adults, finding time for friendships can feel impossible. Between work, family, responsibilities, and personal commitments, maintaining social connections often takes a backseat. But research shows that strong friendships are not just a luxury—they’re essential for mental and physical health. In fact, studies suggest that loneliness can be as harmful as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. So how do you prioritize friendships when your schedule already fee...

2 months ago

8 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

How To Go To A Bar Alone & Make Friends With Strangers (Without Looking Creepy!)

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! Yes, it's possible to go to a bar by yourself and enjoy making friends with strangers (even if you're an introvert like me!) But how do you confidently strike up conversations with strangers without looking creepy? In this episode, I'm sharing real-life strategies that will help you start meaningful conversations, overcome social anxiety, and make new friends at a bar—without the fear of rejection. Support the show Remember, you're worth having and bu...

2 months ago

18 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

What to do when you’re always the friend that initiates (& makes plans) first…

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! After a while, it gets exhausting and unnerving. We're always the ones making the plans! It makes us feel like our friends don't care about us because...if they did, they would initiate plans sometimes too! Right?! Let's break down what could be going on, and how to navigate this situation in your friendships Support the show Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all s...

3 months ago

8 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

How To Overcome A Fear Of Rejection In Friendship (From Someone Who Was Rejected 50x)

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! It's the worst. We put ourselves out there, only to get so anxious, paranoid, and ultimately risk feeling rejected by someone else. So, when it happens, how do we overcome the fear? And, how can we think about rejection differently so that it doesn't stop us from building meaningful friendships? Let's go! Support the show Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all start...

3 months ago

7 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

How To Make Friends As An Adult In 2025 (3 Steps That SQUASH Your Insecurities!)

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! It sucks so bad. AND, it doesn't need to continue sucking. 2025 is a wild ride so far...the last thing we need is more complexities in friendship. I'm breaking down the 3 steps you need to build meaningful adult friendships this year, and if followed, these steps will not only help you make true friends, but build your confidence and courage too! (And yes, I am also an introvert :) Support the show Remember, you're worth having and building rich frien...

3 months ago

10 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

15 BEST Questions to Ask Someone New After Small Talk Ends

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! A familiar scene: you're meeting someone new and don't know what questions to ask! And small talk sucks! Yes, I totally agree, so let's talk through 15 questions that you can ask to help get PAST small talk when you're having a conversation with someone new so that you can build a real connection and have a meaningful conversation! These ALL work and they are ALL my go-to questions! Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the ...

4 months ago

27 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

The New Year’s Resolution that changed my life (and ended my loneliness) | STEAL THIS IDEA!

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! This is the exact method I used to execute my New Year's resolution to stop being lonely. If you watch this video, you will not only leave feeling encouraged but will be able to steal the exact same method I used and implement it in your own life this year. You're worth it! Support the show Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentio...

4 months ago

13 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

Why We're A Nation Of HOMEBODIES | The Truth About Loneliness In America (Zoe Reacts to NYT Article)

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! Houston, we have a problem. A New York Times article recently revealed some alarming new research about the drastic shift in how and where Americans are spending their time...and the impact its going to have on us in the next decade. I'm doing a live-time reaction to the article, and figuring out how we can destroy our loneliness in spite of the obstacles in front of us. Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app tha...

6 months ago

25 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

The Biggest Friendship Turn Offs (Beware Of These Red Flags!)

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! Hopefully we all have figured out our "green flags" in friendship, but the red flags can be a little bit sneakier. We are unpacking 8 absolute EW'S (friendship turnoffs) that are red flags to look out for when you're forming a new friendship. And, we discuss what to do if you do experience one of these red flags, and how you can navigate it through conversation. Let's go. Support the show Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! Th...

7 months ago

15 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

How To Navigate Political Conversation With Family + Friends This Election (& Holiday) Season!

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! How on earth can we discuss politics when we disagree? When everything feels so divisive, is there a way to talk about political differences without ending a relationship over it, and keeping your friends? Good news - YES there is, and we will discuss the best ways to navigate these conversations, including how to start them, redirect them if it gets heated, and keep the friendships intact! Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's Ap...

7 months ago

15 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

9 Lies We've Been Believing About Friendship & The TRUTH You Need To Hear!

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! Adult friendships are hard. It's not nearly as easy as it used to be when we were in school. And yet, with the different friendship landscape, we easily fall into the trap of believing lies about friendship that are ultimately holding us back from having the RICH friendships we desire! So, no more. We are taking those lies and replacing them with the truth we need to hear in this video. Support the show Remember, you're worth having and building rich ...

7 months ago

20 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

How To Overcome and DESTROY Your Loneliness in 90 Days!

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! No, this is not an exaggeration. I'm giving you the exact 5 steps I used to go from zero friends to more adult friendships than I could handle in just 90 days...and teaching you how you can replicate these steps and get the same results! You're worth having incredible friendships - so let's begin! Support the show Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts ...

8 months ago

24 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

What I learned from eating 250 meals with strangers! If you're secretly lonely & seeking connection...this is for you.

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! In this episode, I open up about hitting rock bottom and feeling incredibly lonely, which pushed me to make one of the most uncomfortable decisions of my life—eating 250 meals with strangers. That experience transformed everything for me. Come along as I share what I learned and how it ultimately helped me build deeper, more meaningful friendships...and how you can do the same...without needing to eat 250 meals (haha)! Support the show Remember, you'r...

8 months ago

20 minutes

Accidentally Intentional

The #1 Mistake That Could Be DESTROYING Your Friendships!

Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me! It's the most common mistake that might be secretly sabotaging your friendships. It’s something we all do, often without realizing it, and it can have a huge impact on how we connect with others. Before you haul off making assumptions about what it is...watch this video. Support the show Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Inten...

9 months ago

14 minutes