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A pair of dads
Benny Lai
33 episodes
5 days ago
Raising kids, strengthening relationships, and finding joy in the everyday—A Pair of Dads is where fathers come together to talk about it all. Hosted by Benny Lai, this podcast invites fellow dads and others to share their joy, insights, and experiences in parenting and life. Sometimes, we step back to observe the world around us, but at its core, this is a podcast about fatherhood, family, and the pursuit of a meaningful life.
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Raising kids, strengthening relationships, and finding joy in the everyday—A Pair of Dads is where fathers come together to talk about it all. Hosted by Benny Lai, this podcast invites fellow dads and others to share their joy, insights, and experiences in parenting and life. Sometimes, we step back to observe the world around us, but at its core, this is a podcast about fatherhood, family, and the pursuit of a meaningful life.
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Episodes (20/33)
A pair of dads
The 10-Year Itch: Escaping Your Hewlett-Packard Moment and The Challenge of Friend-Colleagues
5 days ago
1 hour 34 minutes

A pair of dads
(GTD Series) Appearance vs. Ethics: The Night Hike That Went Deep
1 week ago
1 hour 45 minutes

A pair of dads
"More Conversations, Less Wokeism": Chermaine Kumar on Bridging the Divide
2 weeks ago
1 hour 40 minutes

A pair of dads
"Don't Be a Burden!": Roel's Simple Advice for Guiding Your Children’s Big Choices
3 weeks ago
1 hour 19 minutes

A pair of dads
(GenZ Series) The Big Question: Why Do We Want to Leave Singapore?
1 month ago
2 hours 3 minutes

A pair of dads
Has City Life Made Us Soft? A Conversation with Michelle Wee
1 month ago
1 hour 15 minutes

A pair of dads
Is Your Purpose Your Paycheck?
1 month ago
1 hour 19 minutes

A pair of dads
Can We Learn to Love? The Case for Relationship Courses
1 month ago
1 hour 40 minutes

A pair of dads
From Outfield to Forest School: A Father's Leap of Faith
2 months ago
1 hour 19 minutes

A pair of dads
Confessions of a Former Bully
2 months ago
59 minutes

A pair of dads
Maslow's Modern Crisis: Is the Pursuit of Self-Achievement Making Us Unhappy?
In a world of constant connection, why do we feel more isolated than ever? Join Benny and father-of-two, Roel, on a powerful episode of "A Pair of Dads" as they tackle a modern paradox: are we so focused on climbing the ladder of self-achievement that we're sacrificing the very things that make us happy? Inspired by acts of graciousness displayed crowded trains, they dive into Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and question if our pursuit of personal success is coming at the cost of love and belonging. This episode is a wake-up call to re-prioritize empathy and connection, challenging listeners to reconsider what truly matters in a hyper-individualistic world. Tune in to find out if small acts of kindness can be the key to rediscovering our humanity.
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2 months ago
1 hour 21 minutes

A pair of dads
(GenZ Series) From Self-Harm to Self-Love: A Journey Through Youth Mental Health
In a powerful "A Pair of Dads" session, Benny, Ian, and Sarah explore the profound challenges facing youth mental health. Featuring a poignant personal story of a friend's battle with self-harm and recovery through faith and support, this episode shines a light on the critical role of understanding, empathy, and professional help. They discuss the surprising awareness of mental health issues even in young children , the journey of cultivating self-confidence, and practical ways to navigate the pressures of modern life.
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3 months ago
1 hour 20 minutes

A pair of dads
Beyond the Screen: Navigating Intelligence, Dependency, and the Human Edge in a Digital Age
What defines 'smart' in a world where technology does so much for us? Benny, CK, and Jermyn of "A Pair of Dads" engage in a lively debate about the true meaning of intelligence and the growing dependency on digital tools. From contrasting old-school taxi drivers with modern Grab drivers to questioning if we still need to memorize phone numbers, this episode challenges listeners to consider what core skills remain essential when technology offers boundless convenience
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3 months ago
46 minutes

A pair of dads
(GenZ Series) From Catwalk to Critical Thinking: A Gen Z Model's Take on Career & Society
How does a young model's journey in Singapore’s dynamic industry offer a unique lens on broader societal shifts? "A Pair of Dads" welcomes Ian to explore not just the ins and outs of his modeling career—from casting calls to career progression—but also his insightful Gen Z perspective on critical issues like income expectations, the job market, and the impact of digital media on public discourse. Get ready for a conversation that blends glamour with deep societal reflection.
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3 months ago
1 hour 34 minutes

A pair of dads
The Crossroads of Legacy: Career Choices, Cost of Living, and Cultivating Resilience in the Next Gen
How do modern career paths intertwine with the surging cost of living, and what does this mean for raising resilient, independent children? In this episode, "A Pair of Dads" openly explores the surprising reasons behind contemporary career decisions, grapples with the practicalities of managing household finances (including cross-border opportunities!), and shares their own journeys in fostering independence and grit in their children. Tune in as these two fathers candidly unpack these critical connections and uncover insights that link today's choices to tomorrow's lasting legacies.
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3 months ago
1 hour 39 minutes

A pair of dads
"Excuses, Reasons & Roadworks: A Dad’s Journey from Johor to Fukuoka"
What starts as a hilarious tangle of late arrivals and traffic lights quickly dives into deeper discussions—from the logistics of road trips in Japan to how we judge others’ reasons (or excuses). Join Benny and Roel in navigating between everyday annoyances and big-picture reflections.
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3 months ago
1 hour 7 minutes

A pair of dads
(GenZ Series) Not a Victim: One's Challenge to Those Who Whine Louder Than They Try
Hana doesn’t want your pity. She wants you to think. In this episode, she calls out the culture of victimhood and entitlement she sees around her—and urges listeners to humble themselves, appreciate what they have, and stop comparing wounds. This is the first of what will be a series of episodes with guests from Generation Z to offer their perspectives on parenting, relationship management and make and comment on various societal observations.
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3 months ago
54 minutes

A pair of dads
Talent, Tests & Tech: Raising Kids in a Confusing World
Can doing three things make you talented? Should PSLE still decide a child’s fate? And is critical thinking just code for questioning everything? Benny, CK, and Jermyn take on the complex task of parenting in a world full of contradictions, cultures, and crazy gadgets.
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5 months ago
1 hour 2 minutes

A pair of dads
Shaping Young Minds: Can Educators Navigate a Polarized World Without Bias?
As Singapore pulses with election fervor, host Benny and educator Chee Keong confront a burning question: Should teachers tackle politics in the classroom, or is silence the safer path? In a world where social media algorithms amplify divisive narratives, they wrestle with the educator’s role in fostering critical thinking without fueling bias. From the absence of moral education to the risks of radicalization, this gripping episode challenges listeners to rethink how we prepare young minds for a fractured society.
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6 months ago
1 hour 5 minutes

A pair of dads
Elections, Youth, and the Vanishing Kampung Spirit
Why are so many young people today turning away from hard work and community values? Are we losing the very spirit that built our societies? In this lively and thought-provoking episode, Benny and Roel dive into packed election rallies, Italy's unexpected worker shortage, and the growing tension between gratitude and entitlement. Packed with personal stories, sharp insights, and plenty of laughs, this conversation will leave you thinking about what really matters — at the ballot box, at work, and at home. If you’ve ever wondered where society is headed, this is the episode for you.
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6 months ago
1 hour 40 minutes

A pair of dads
Raising kids, strengthening relationships, and finding joy in the everyday—A Pair of Dads is where fathers come together to talk about it all. Hosted by Benny Lai, this podcast invites fellow dads and others to share their joy, insights, and experiences in parenting and life. Sometimes, we step back to observe the world around us, but at its core, this is a podcast about fatherhood, family, and the pursuit of a meaningful life.