Family isn’t just about where we come from—it’s about the patterns and lessons we pass down.
In this episode, Ruth shares the stories of three generations of women in her family who shaped her life. We talk about mother-daughter relationships, what it has taught her about being a ‘good enough’ parent and how to break the cycle.
If you’ve ever wondered why your family does things the way it does—or dreamed about choosing a new way forward—this is for you.
00:00 Trailer01:26 Introduction 04:35 Childhood experiences07:49 Mother-daughter relationships11:14 The story of Ruth's Grandmother15:03 Family patterns across generations18:35 Mother's betrayal21:46 Reflections on relationships and growth22:37 The process of writing25:00 Researching family stories30:20 Mother's accountability32:44 Lessons for all35:56 How to find 'Where Are the Grown Ups?'
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Join Anna for the first-ever interview she conducted for a Normal Family, featuring Tommy from California. At 66, Tommy discovered the man who raised him wasn’t his biological father—a story shared by many as DNA testing uncovers family secrets.
In this episode:
• Navigating DNA surprises and paternity revelations
• Compassion and forgiveness in families with hidden secrets
• Reflections on fatherhood, legacy, and healing from the past
If you’re intrigued by stories of family, identity, and personal discovery, you’ll find inspiration and connection here.
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Welcome to A Normal Family - a mini-series packed with intriguing stories, relatable experiences, and a fresh perspective on what family really means in the 21st century.
In this full length interview, Denise shares her story from adoption to becoming a teenage mum to finding her family with Tarot. She talks about the power of therapy and her healing from years of shame.
Stories help us understand ourselves and the world around us. For more like this, like, subscribe and share with your friends.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction
01:10 Falling pregnant at 14
04:47 Being a teenage mum
07:47 Denise's search for her biological family
09:42 How Tarot helped Denise find her family
12:44 Meeting her biological family for the first time
17:41 Complex feelings towards her mum
19:52 Breaking the cycle of neglect
22:21 Facing shame and seeking help
28:03 Overcoming shame through EMDR
30:02 The power of therapy
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