This one’s for the people-pleasers, the peacemakers, and especially the women who’ve been told their whole lives to “be the bigger person.”

But let’s be real: sometimes being the bigger person just makes you the most drained person in the room.

In today’s episode, I’m breaking down why some folks just can’t be reasoned with and why trying to “talk it out” with someone who thrives on confusion and chaos will only leave you exhausted.

Because the hard truth is this: communication don’t cure crazy.

You’ll hear:
🔹 Why explaining yourself to the wrong people is emotional labor that goes unpaid
🔹 How “the high road” costs more than we think
🔹 What real maturity looks like (hint: it’s not endless self-sacrifice)
🔹 When to stop talking, start acting, and cut ties for good

If you’ve ever found yourself over-explaining, replaying arguments, or chasing closure with someone who just doesn’t get it — this episode is your permission to let that go.

✨ Take this as your sign to stop wasting words on the wrong people, protect your peace, and reclaim your energy.

🎧 Hit play, share it with a friend who needs to hear it, and DM me your own “no more explaining” moment.

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