Are you the “nice one” who always shows up even when nobody shows up for you?
In this episode of 40 Something and Nothing, host Elisha Maria Grey (44 going on 45 and accepting birthday wishes on Oct 17 😌🎉) breaks down the real cost of being too nice emotionally, financially, and spiritually.
We’re talking:
•💳 When “Sure, I got it” turns into “Why am I paying for everyone’s life but my own?”
•🧍🏽♀️ Being everyone’s emergency contact but having no one to call when you’re the one in need
•🙅🏽♀️ Learning that “No” is not mean, it’s maintenance
•💡 How to be kind without being used
With relatable boundary-setting tips, real-life stories (yes… including a ex and his parents 😩), and end-of-episode affirmations to refill your cup…. this one’s a must-listen for every recovering people-pleaser.
If you’re tired of being over-drafted in every area of life, this is your episode.
✨ Press play, protect your peace, and let “Sorry, I can’t” become your new love language.
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