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YOUNG IN LOVE
Kezia Vilawa
60 episodes
4 days ago
As young people, we’re constantly experimenting with love. Sometimes we get hurt, other times, we get it right. This podcast is a platform where young people get to share their opinions and experiences on a variety of topics; heartbreak, sex, marriage, dating preferences, etc. all of which centre around love, lust OR NOT! Have fun listening! 💚💚
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As young people, we’re constantly experimenting with love. Sometimes we get hurt, other times, we get it right. This podcast is a platform where young people get to share their opinions and experiences on a variety of topics; heartbreak, sex, marriage, dating preferences, etc. all of which centre around love, lust OR NOT! Have fun listening! 💚💚
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Episodes (20/60)
YOUNG IN LOVE
Friendship with the Opposite Sex: The Fine Line in Marriage

This episode tackles the real tensions, silent struggles, and important boundaries that come with maintaining cross-gender friendships when you're married. We unpack the risks, share personal insights, and explore what healthy connection really looks like. It’s honest, reflective, and might just challenge what you thought you knew.


Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.


From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,

Kezia Vilawa. ❤️



https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast

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3 months ago
1 hour 19 minutes 45 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Pt.2 Exclusive with David Hundeyin- Abortion of the Child that Never Was

In this raw and deeply personal episode, David shares the emotional aftermath of abortion, the haunting sense of loss, the psychological toll, and the profound betrayal that left him shattered. For David, this wasn’t just another difficult moment, it was his breaking point. But unlike many men who feel unready and choose to walk away from an unplanned pregnancy, David’s response is different — more complex, more human.


Continuing from part 1 of this interview, David reflects on the impact of growing up in a household marked by his parents dysfunctional marriage. Did it shape the way he loved? Did it sabotage his relationships? With honesty and insight, he speaks about past romantic struggles and the surprising qualities he now values in a partner — far from what you'd expect.


This isn’t just a story, it’s a journey through heartbreak, healing, and rediscovering what truly matters in love.

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6 months ago
1 hour 7 minutes 10 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Exclusive with David Hundeyin: Love, Women & Fame

David Hundeyin shares his relationship and marriage life in this interview. He details the impulsive decisions he made with women that almost cost him everything, as well as the dire consequences of ignoring mental health cues. David shares vulnerable moments about intimate aspects of his personal love life and marital shenanigans. If you think you read it all in his book titled 'Breaking Point', wait till you see this interview.

This is only the first part. Stay tuned for the second part. Available also on Youtube.


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7 months ago
1 hour 3 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Keeping your relationship private, NOT a secret

In this final episode of the #findinglove series, Kezia discusses why secrecy is dangerous for relationships. She also emphasises the importance of walking in love, as opposed to falling, and how the best relationships are founded on the principle of positive reciprocity.


Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,

Kezia Vilawa. ❤️


https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast


Slow Music credit: Fesliyan Studios

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10 months ago
32 minutes 59 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Minimising Distractions (Finding Love series) E10

Remember that you are not married until you are married. Dating? Single. Engaged? Still single.


So when is it safe to ‘cut off’ all others and focus on your partner? Especially knowing that the risk of a breakup is inevitable?


Listen to find out.


Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,


Kezia Vilawa. ❤️


https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast


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1 year ago
15 minutes 29 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Understanding the Trade-offs (Finding Love Series) EP9

Love is a logical decision as much as it is an emotional one. Knowing when to lower your expectations and when to be realistic with those expectations is an important step in finding love. Tradeoffs will be required, depending on the type of partner you desire.


Listen to this episode to understand the tradeoffs necessary in the search of genuine and sustainable love.


Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,

Kezia Vilawa. ❤️


https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast

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1 year ago
24 minutes 58 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Staying Humble: You are NOT the Prize! (Finding Love Series) E8

Ever felt like you're the catch and your partner should be lucky to have you? It's time to check your ego at the door. Love blossoms when the two individuals recognise the unique qualities they each bring to the table. Listen to find out why thinking you’re the prize can hinder the progress of your search for love.

More-so, in a world that often pressures us to rush into commitments, Kezia emphasises the benefits of slowing down and truly getting to know one another. Learn how slowing down can give you clarity by allowing prospective lovers reveal themselves in different contexts.

Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, 


Kezia Vilawa. ❤️


https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast

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1 year ago
25 minutes 2 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Assessing Medical Compatibility (Finding Love Series) E7

Is your heart's desire also a genetic match? On this episode, two medical doctors discuss the latest medical advancements and the importance of pre-relationship health screenings for genetic compatibility and infectious disease testing.

Medical compatibility goes beyond just genotype. Listen to find out what else you might be missing.


Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, 

Kezia Vilawa. ❤️

https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast


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1 year ago
25 minutes 57 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Holding Your End of the Conversation & Keeping in Touch (Finding Love series) E6
When you meet a potential partner, conversations become the primary method to knowing and understanding each other. If you do not hold your end of the conversation, the potential partner may eventually lose interest and take a walk. Good conversations take two people. How do you contribute to making a conversation 'good' and 'interesting'? How long should the talking stage last? Listen to find out. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast
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1 year ago
36 minutes 3 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Making the First Move: Breaking the Ice (Finding Love series) E5
This episode explores why taking the initiative, making the bold move & breaking the ice is important to find love. You’ll learn about overcoming shyness, effective icebreakers and putting yourself out there with confidence. By the end of this episode, you should be able to spark interesting conversations & peak genuine interest. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast
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1 year ago
19 minutes 1 second

YOUNG IN LOVE
Positioning Yourself to be Seen (Finding Love series) E4
Learn why ghost profiles & the absence of a persona in social spaces do not get any bonus points when seeking love. Strategically positioning yourself in love’s path can work in your favour, so do it now.
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1 year ago
23 minutes 6 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Become Who You Want to be With (Finding Love series) S1 E3
You want a slim thick woman when you have a sugar daddy bod? Do you have the money to match? You want a man living in his OWN home and driving his own car. Did your daddy have a house when he married your mother? Do you have your own home? Or are your standards applicable only when it is on another person's pocket? This episode drives home the importance of working towards being the kind of person that you desire your partner to be- rich, educated, athletic, compassionate, prayerful and so on. ‘Becoming who you want to be with’ is the third and important step in finding love. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia❤️
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1 year ago
13 minutes 14 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Narrowing down on the non negotiables (Finding Love series) S1 E2
Don't settle for less than you deserve – it's time to define what truly matters to you in love and relationships. By crafting clear non-negotiables that filter out incompatible matches, you stop wasting time on people that lead nowhere which frees up your schedule for the good stuff! Tune in on the next episode for step 3 of Finding Love: becoming who you want to be with. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast
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1 year ago
19 minutes 29 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Defining What You Want (Finding Love Series) - S1 EP1
The importance of defining what you truly desire in a partner is that you automatically start to recognise what you don't want, guiding you closer to your ideal match and saving you precious time and emotional energy. Finding love has become painfully challenging given limited quality options, despite an abundance of people. But what if the very first step in finding love is surprisingly simple? This episode dives into the power of admitting that you WANT love, and embracing your desire for connection. Enjoyed this? Tune in on the next episode for step two: identifying your non-negotiables – the dealbreakers that absolutely cannot be compromised. Let's find love together, one episode at a time. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️
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1 year ago
21 minutes 57 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
UNFORGIVENESS: Why your partner is the worst
Holding onto grudges can transform your partner into a villain, when in reality, it's your own inability to forgive that's consuming you. Grievances create a distorted view of your partner, making them seem worse than they are. But the real monster? Unforgiveness itself. Learn how to break free from the cycle for a happier, healthier relationship. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast
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1 year ago
26 minutes 6 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
Borderline Cheating: Cheating without really Cheating
From the undeniable betrayal of physical infidelity to the subtle transgressions of emotional entanglements, I discuss the nuances of each form. Whether you're grappling with the aftermath of cheating yourself or seeking to understand its complexities, this episode will challenge your perspective and make you question the boundaries of trust. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that might just redefine your perception of cheating! Link to article referencing the research on high IQ men and cheating - https://www.businessinsider.com/intelligence-and-cheating-2017-10 Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast
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1 year ago
33 minutes 9 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
The Privilege of Love and the Abuse of Access - E45
I discuss the privilege of genuine love - how exciting things usually are at the beginning of love, relationships and marriage - and the eventual, sometimes unintended descent into the abuse of access. One of the fastest ways to ruin the beauty of love is to take the access you have to your partner for granted. Genuine love demands that you never trivialise the privilege of access even when the relationship has lost its spark or after your partner has been demystified. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast
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1 year ago
54 minutes 48 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
LET A MAN CHASE AFTER YOU, NOT AFTER A CONVERSATION WITH YOU
Do you have what it takes to hold the attention of the man you love? Good conversations do not happen by chance; they are the result of a willing heart and a curious mind. Listen to 4 basic tips to get you off to a good start in that conversation with your crush. He is supposed to chase after you, NOT after a conversation with you. I hope you know the difference. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast
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1 year ago
15 minutes 6 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
GOD STILL HAS SONS, But You Don’t Know What You Want
How ‘cheap’ is your man? It sounds like all men lack control and discipline- but I would like to believe that God still has sons. Unsuspecting men falling prey to the seductive whims of women who aren’t their partners is the new order of the day. Is he safe with your wig vendor for even a day? Or will he be ‘snatched’ from you just like that? Where are the men who master discipline? Where are the men who understand boundaries? Where are the men who shun infidelity? Where are the sons of God? When you find them, are you able to recognise them? Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast
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2 years ago
15 minutes 18 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
My Father Left, You will too: The Impact of Absentee Fathers on their Daughter’s Relationships
The absence of my father has influenced the way I interact with my romantic partners. The fatherless daughter syndrome is real and it manifests in more ways than we know. Constantly seeking validation, feelings of insecurity, clinginess, hyper vulnerability and a host of many others, could be signs that you are yet to heal from the psychological damage caused by a father who walked out on you as a kid. Emily (name changed) and I discuss our trauma response to absentee fathers in our relationships. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast
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2 years ago
53 minutes 26 seconds

YOUNG IN LOVE
As young people, we’re constantly experimenting with love. Sometimes we get hurt, other times, we get it right. This podcast is a platform where young people get to share their opinions and experiences on a variety of topics; heartbreak, sex, marriage, dating preferences, etc. all of which centre around love, lust OR NOT! Have fun listening! 💚💚