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In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Jaime Zuckerman, a nationally recognized clinical psychologist who specializes in narcissistic abuse and relationship trauma. Together, we dive deep into one of the most painful and confusing stages of recovery- learning to detach from the abuser’s narrative.
We explore questions so many survivors wrestle with: Will the abuser change for the next person? Why does it feel like they’re thriving while you’re left in pieces? And most importantly, how can you begin to reclaim your truth after so much manipulation and emotional chaos?
Dr. Jaime Zuckerman's links:
LinkTree for all links: https://linktr.ee/drzpsychologist?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAad7NNTCigjpDAiBeChMvfyAgR-y93OH9X-jCXHbD55VYt9YJaT1_SxIKA5wwQ_aem_YPJ2kBTJJcEnBmKCKOSYkw
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.z_psychologist/
Dr. Z's podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1aeBenKtsnHZcAMy4JekqP
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In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Catherine opens up about the years she spent trapped in an abusive marriage marked by emotional abuse, infidelity, and alcohol use by her former spouse. What began as a hopeful relationship spiraled into something she never imagined when she discovered her husband’s shocking attempts to secretly poison her with abortion pills in an effort to end her pregnancy.
With courage and honesty, Catherine shares how she uncovered the truth, the steps she took to protect herself, and the journey toward rebuilding her life after trauma.
Together, we talk about the complexities of abuse, the warning signs that are often overlooked, and the strength it takes to break free.
Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of domestic abuse, substance abuse, and physical harm through abortion pills.
For more about Catherine's story, please visit her social media pages and links related to her story:
Socials:
@catherinepresslyherring
@sayhmfoundation
Articles:
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/texas-attorney-poisoned-pregnant-wife-abortion-medication-sentenced-18-rcna138065
https://www.shreveporttimes.com/story/news/2024/03/06/shreveport-senator-files-bill-after-sisters-husband-tried-to-secretly-abort-baby-with-abortion-pill/72863621007/
https://sbaprolife.org/newsroom/press-releases/the-catherine-and-josephine-herring-act-heads-to-gov-landrys-desk
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In this episode, I’m joined by Wendy as she bravely shares her story of surviving abuse and how it manipulates your sense of duty, love, and identity.
Wendy opens up about how her abuser made her feel responsible for his well-being, and how that emotional weight kept her trapped in a cycle of guilt and silence. We explore why so many survivors feel sorry for the very people hurting them, and how that misplaced empathy is a product of manipulation by the perpetrator.
We also dive into the more subtle and often overlooked signs of financial control, the ways abusers rationalize physical violence, and how Wendy’s experience as a Latina woman added a layer of cultural confusion around expectations, and what it means to “stand by your man.”
This conversation is a testament to resilience, clarity, and the power of naming what we’ve survived.
Wendy's Instagram: @wendyc0rtes
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In this episode, I sit down with Alissa to talk through the painful reality of surviving not one, but two abusive relationships, and the patterns that emerged between them.
We dive into the emotional and financial toll of being made to feel responsible for the very people who were hurting us. Alissa shares how she was expected to take care of her abusers- emotionally, financially, and even physically, all while her own needs were ignored or weaponized against her.
We talk about:
If you’ve ever asked yourself “How did I end up here again?”, this episode is for you.
Content warning: This episode discusses abuse, stalking, and physical violence. Please listen with care.
Alissa's Instagram Pages:
@makeituncomfortable
@absolute_gray_media
Other creator (Kimya) mentioned in the episode:
@kimyamotley
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"I didn't think it could happen to me."
In this deeply personal and courageous episode, Beverly Hallberg — founder and president of District Media Group — shares her powerful story of surviving abuse. What began with subtle glimpses of control eventually unraveled into something much deeper, finally exposed by the unimaginable loss of her baby.
As we acknowledge Domestic Violence Awareness Month this October, Beverly’s story is a vital reminder that abuse often wears a mask - and that mask can be both convincing and devastating. Through her long-form essay and now this conversation, she sheds light on how abuse can be insidious, and how leaving is never easy — but healing is possible.
This episode is for anyone who has ever questioned their reality, felt isolated in their grief, or needed to know they are not alone.
Beverly's Substack post: "How Losing Our Child Exposed the Depth of My Husband’s Abuse and Gave Me the Strength to Leave"
https://open.substack.com/pub/beverlyhallberg/p/how-losing-our-child-exposed-the?utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web
Beverly's social media & sites:
X: @BeverlyHallberg
Instagram: beverlyhallberg
Facebook: BeverlyHallberg
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This is a solo full Q&A episode where I answer the following questions:
1.) How long did it take for you to no longer feel the need for him to see your worth?
2.) How to not care that you're painted as the villain by abuser?
3.) How do you get over the discard, and how happy they seem to be doing it to you?
4.) How to stop spiraling when they seem to be giving the next partner everything you wanted.
5.) How can one break out of cognitive dissonance when in the thick of it?
6.) When the abuser claims to have PTSD, is that a reason/ excuse for abuse?
7.) Sleep abuse/ abuser claiming to have "violent dreams"
8.) Did u/anyone u speak with feel like their abuser was gay and that's why they hated women?
9.) Is it real love when he goes to the extreme of doing crazy stuff to show undying love?
10.) How to support a friend who says they know it's abuse but they're not scared of him?
11.) How to deal with people who just don't get it
12.) Your opinion on a relationship/marriage between a believer and an atheist
Articles & other creator credits:
Abusive Men Describe The Benefits of Violence: https://voicemalemagazine.org/abusive-men-describe-the-benefits-of-violence/
Creator's post mentioned: @healingbythenumbers on Instagram
Grace's Instagram: @gracestuart26
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Alexis Ruhlen and I discuss life post- abuse as a part 2 episode. We cover topics such as: emotions that come with reporting our abusers to law enforcement, dealing with the opinions of others, survivor imposter syndrome, how long it took us to make progress, and breaking the bond for the final time.
Lex's original podcast episode of her FULL story is episode #18.
If you would like to follow Alexis or I, please see our socials below:
Lex's IG: @lexruhlen
Grace's IG: @gracestuart26
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On this episode, Lynn and I speak about topics such as sadistic behaviors, sexual abuse/ boundary pushing, and how abusers coerce you by giving the illusion of choice. To work with Lynn or send her a message, please see the links below:
Lynn's Website: https://www.echoismrecovery.com/
Lynn's Instagram: theechochamber2024
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On this episode, Monica Smith shares pieces of her abuse story and detailed examples of how an abuser grooms us to no longer trust our own inner dialogue and perceptions. We talk about how they slowly make themselves the only source of truth we feel we can rely on and why it's so hard to believe ourselves.
Monica's Instagram: @monicamooresmith
Monica's Tiktok: @monicamooresmith5
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Taylor shares her abuse story and how her reality became completely distorted and shaken over time. We discuss how she was made to feel like the offender and how she was often recorded, shamed, and blamed as a form of control. We discuss topics of emotional, financial, & sexual abuse throughout the episode.
Guest details will be private for now until further notice.
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On this episode, I am joined by podcast host and abuse recovery coach Laura Richards. Laura is the host of That's Where I'm At Podcast and we dive deep into both the addictive nature of the cycle of abuse and her personal story. We speak about the trauma bond, gaslighting, and abusers who frequently talk to other women as a form of punishment.
If you would like to get in touch with Laura, visit her social media pages:
Instagram: @thatswhereimatpodcast
TikTok: @thatswhereimatpodcast
Podcast: That's Where I'm At Podcast
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Erin shares her abuse story of enduring physical, emotional, verbal & financial abuse. She describes how her abuser blamed the mistreatment on "stressors" and kept her in a cycle of hoping it was always just about to get better.
Erin's Instagram:
@love_doesnt_destroy
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Sarah shares her story of the many years of abuse she endured throughout her marriage and how spiritual and emotional abuse played a big role in keeping her trapped. She also shares how she navigated with 3 children including one special needs child and how she clung to her faith even when it was used against her as manipulation. Lastly, we discuss when an abuser says they didn't "mean" to hurt us and why it is still intentional abuse.
If you would like to connect with Sarah she has provided her Instagram below:
@hopperbunch4
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Christa shares her story of experiencing high forms of covert abuse and how that led to a complete mental breakdown and loss of self. We dive into many examples of manipulation and how she eventually saw through the fog, overcame the confusion, and walked away for good.
If you would like to get in touch with Christa, please see her Instagram below:
@christarealba
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On this episode, Jess shares her story about how abusers can weaponize mental health claims as an excuse to accuse you and gain control in very covert ways. We also discuss how perpetrators who are very charismatic triangulate people around them to feed into the manipulation and lies.
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On this episode, I am joined by trauma therapist and abuse recovery coach- Quinn Padilla. We discuss topics such as what is a "one-off" mistake vs. a pattern, intent vs. action, and how an abuser will attempt to control the narrative.
Get in touch with Quinn:
Instagram: @itsquinnpadilla
Website: https://www.itsquinnpadilla.com/
Grace's socials:
Instagram: @gracestuart26 @whyshestayedpodcast
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On this episode, I am joined by life coach Bethany Comerford as we discuss red flags in manipulation, why survivors often stay for so long, ways to practically help a loved one, and how grief plays a role even when this person has abused you.
This week we experienced several technical difficulties, but episodes will return to the normal day and pattern over the course of the weeks ahead.
To get in touch with Bethany here are her links:
Website: https://www.positiveconnectionscoaching.com/
Instagram: @bethanylifecoach
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Today I am joined by Lindsay Abernathy host of Bitch Is A Bad Word podcast as she shares her personal story of surviving domestic abuse. We discuss topics of love bombing, future faking, how control escalates over time financially, emotionally, physically, and much more. Please see links below to connect with Lindsay or to check out her podcast:
Instagram: @bitchisabadwordpod
Tiktok: @bitchisabadword
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bitch-is-a-bad-word-a-domestic-abuse-survivors-guide/id1780948251
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BitchIsABadWord
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