having and holding mixed emotions is an indicator of emotional maturity...
things are good and bad at the same time... approach them with the improv approach rather than True/False, wrong/right assignments
no adults are adultier than other adults...
aka one White way...
one right way to continue your learning journey could be to join my Patreon community :)
if it looks good "on paper", what does that mean about how you are feeling about it "off paper"?
videos like this and much more on Patreon
things you can count are not the only things that count...
practice refraining from explaining and ending defending. critiques are just critiques.
more content and community over on Patreon
importance and urgency are separate measurements that need not be connected
"nice guys finish last"... okay??? someone has to!
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this and much more currently up on Patreon - join us on the journey of undoctrination!
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Just a little reframe for discussing and interacting with Discomfort. It isn't inherently negative, and is actually the vessel to emotional growth and healing. Embracing discomfort and leaning in to what comes next is how we become the change we want to see.
Let’s have a lil TikTokTalk about white feminism and how NOT to respond
to triggers online with some alternative options…
We process our feelings about recent events and trends we've noticed online and in our comment sections.
Shout out to Jack for starting another great conversation with his TikTok video about feminism - radical versus intersectional... and popping in at the perfect time on TikTok LIVE :)
When cultural events illuminate the gap in humane treatment between the rich and the rest, be very careful with your position both mentally and vocally.
This week, there has been a lot of news about Ocean Gate, a lost submersible with containing 5 Billionaires at the bottom of the ocean. There are many things to say, but only some are helpful.
In watching some of the discourse on TikTok, I am concerned about the energy being spent on moral outrage. There are ways to discuss current events that can move us forward together, but we have to be aware of these impact-less conversations that only serve to exhaust us.
WWWWWD? Ask questions! ;)
TikTok comments that triggered us this week, and why... with a lot of fun side-quests of course.
"What if we call them____, instead?"
"What if there was a Black woman whisperer??"
John Brown - Gate
Just a chill hangout sesh with us and chat about... so many things!
A lil chaotic catch-up, how I use Bravo, Books, and Black Women to guide my journey, and why you need to know about scientific and medical racism in order to see change.
Medical Apartheid - Harriet A. Washington
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Hey W.A.I.T. Watchers!! Let’s talk about my beef with White Fragility and how we can redirect to something more helpful.
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1D vs 3D. Be intentional. Small language changes can make a HUGE difference. More examples to come…
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