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What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

Greg Oliver

53 episodes

1 week ago

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" It's always fun and encouraging to talk with other people who work in the same spaces. NICK LIBERTO is the executive director at Proven Ministries, an organization committed to "seeing a revival of sexual integrity throughout the entire Bride of Christ." They provide support and resources for men, women, and ministry leaders. Proven has created many resources to support sexual integrity, including TheSexTalk.com, an online course for parents wh...

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"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" It's always fun and encouraging to talk with other people who work in the same spaces. NICK LIBERTO is the executive director at Proven Ministries, an organization committed to "seeing a revival of sexual integrity throughout the entire Bride of Christ." They provide support and resources for men, women, and ministry leaders. Proven has created many resources to support sexual integrity, including TheSexTalk.com, an online course for parents wh...

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Episodes (20/53)

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

49 | Nick Liberto: Humility is a Secret Superpower

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" It's always fun and encouraging to talk with other people who work in the same spaces. NICK LIBERTO is the executive director at Proven Ministries, an organization committed to "seeing a revival of sexual integrity throughout the entire Bride of Christ." They provide support and resources for men, women, and ministry leaders. Proven has created many resources to support sexual integrity, including TheSexTalk.com, an online course for parents wh...

1 week ago

54 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

48 | Barbara Steffens: Be a Safe Person and Listen

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" In the category of sexual addiction recovery, there are a few people who deserve to be called pioneers. BARBARA STEFFENS is definitely one of them. Over the last quarter century she has begun and advanced invaluable philosophy and resources related to partner betrayal trauma. Previous sex addiction conventional wisdom referred to the addict's partner as a "co-addict," used phraseology that ignored the post-traumatic stress partners undergo, and...

3 weeks ago

45 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

RE-RELEASE | Adam Calvert, James Horne, Jason McNaughton: Recovery Intensives

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. RE-RELEASE. This episode originally released June 3, 2024. What is a recovery intensive? How is it different from weekly therapy or extended inpatient treatment? How could it help my recovery process? To address these important questions, Greg enlists the help of three friends, therapists who consistently staff the Roots Retreat Men's Recovery Intensive from Awaken. Adam Calvert, James Horne, an...

1 month ago

43 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

47 | Cathy Loerzel: God is Not Afraid of the Truth

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" Suffering. We don't like it. Most of us probably don't even like the word. Suffering brings to mind experiences of abuse, neglect, rejection, abandonment... traumatic events that lodged themselves into our lives as long-term traumas. How do we get away from suffering? Our guest CATHY LOERZEL gives an answer many won't like. We don't get away from suffering. It is inevitable and unavoidable in this life. We are made for perfect care, yet none of...

1 month ago

58 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

46 | Pieter Valk: Singleness - Curse or Calling?

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" The Bible presents many topics that elicit passionate and polarizing opinions. One of these is how unmarried Christians should evaluate their calling and purpose as it relates to marriage. Our guest, PIETER VALK, has a lot to say on the subject. As a Christian who for most of his life has experienced same-sex attraction and a commitment to honor a traditional Biblical sexual ethic, Pieter has embraced a life of vocational singleness. But he doe...

1 month ago

55 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

45 | Drew Boa: How We Outgrow Porn

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" People addicted to pornography often experience lots of shame and self-contempt ("What's wrong with me?!"). They often see their sexual desire, and the fact that they go to porn to try and satisfy it, as THE problem. Our guest, DREW BOA, disagrees. In his new book Outgrow Porn: Find Lasting Freedom Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle, Drew says, "Your sexuality is not the problem, and the urge to watch porn is not bad either. It's a sym...

2 months ago

47 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

44 | Kelly Bourque: Finding Your Way Back

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" When couples in conflict feel a million miles apart, are they? Are the areas of "stuckness" as insurmountable as it sometimes feels? KELLY BOURQUE, is a therapist who specializes in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), a modality of counseling that focuses on attachment science and how it shows up in romantic relationships. Kelly is the founder of Red Therapy Group in Franklin TN. EFT is a modality based in attachment theory, and is helpful in al...

2 months ago

59 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

43 | John Steakley: You Point to Your Limp

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" People walking through the wilderness of addiction can have a hard time finding places that feel truly safe to open up. Yet authentic connection is the key to freedom from addiction. One of the things that gives the safety people seek is a person who chooses to be open about their own "limp," not hiding from their personal failures. John Steakley is that kind of person. Since walking through his own addictive struggle with alcohol, John h...

3 months ago

48 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

42 | Bob Flayhart: Living the Gospel Waltz

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" For people in the Birmingham AL area, or who are part of the PCA denomination, BOB FLAYHART is probably a name you've heard. In 1989 Bob was the founding pastor of Oak Mountain Presbyterian Church, and served as lead pastor there until 2024. Bob has remained a consistent advocate for the pure message of God's unconditional love, grace, and transforming power through the gospel. Both Greg and Bobby benefitted from Bob's (and OMPC's) openne...

3 months ago

58 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

A Little Extra Helping with Corinne Vance, Greg, and Stacey (Bonus Episode)

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" When Stacey and I talked with Corinne Vance for Episode 41, we started recording early and the conversation got really interesting really quickly (at least for us). We got to know a lot about Corinne: how she came to faith, her early experiences with Christianity, and how that has impacted her as a therapist. We thought you might enjoy a little extra helping of our talk with Corinne, so here it is! Please keep listening in...we'll be giving you...

3 months ago

14 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

41 | Corinne Vance: Putting the Pieces Together

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" There are certain experiences that are excruciatingly hard to talk about, and from which healing is incredibly difficult. Sexual abuse is far more common than most people realize, yet survivors often feel isolated and carry shame over their abuse. They need kind, caring people to support their healing. Corinne Vance is that kind of person. She has worked therapeutically with men, women, and adolescents for over 20 years. She has provided traini...

4 months ago

47 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

40 | Harrison Scott Key: Do You Want to Be Married to Me?

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" What do you do when your spouse tells you she wants a divorce and is in love with another man? That was a question Harrison Scott Key never thought he'd have to answer. But it's exactly what happened. Over the course of several years he navigated an excruciating saga of fighting for his marriage and for his sanity. He tells the story in his New York Times bestselling book How to Stay Married: The Most Insane Love Story Ever Told. In our convers...

4 months ago

58 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

39 | Todd Fields: You Are Loved and Not Alone

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" During his years as a church worship pastor, Greg was heavily influenced by today's guest Todd Fields. As a worship leader associated with 7:22, a weekly worship gathering started in 1995 by Louie Giglio at Northpoint Community Church in Atlanta, and as someone who has written and led worship music and produced multiple recordings over the years, Todd is a skilled musician who knows what he's talking about with corporate worship. More important...

4 months ago

1 hour 5 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

38 | Eddie Capparucci: Going Deeper With Your Inner Child

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" When situations in life activate our emotions, it can be easy to stay on the surface, focusing on what's going on and how we can "fix it." But often, the parts of us being activated aren't above the surface. We have to go deeper. In this episode, Dr. Eddie Capparucci talks about how his Inner Child Model of therapy can give great understanding about how we process difficult and traumatic situations. Eddie is the author of several books, i...

5 months ago

45 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

37 | David Thomas: Recognize, Regulate, and Repair

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" Raising kids in a way that nurtures them and sets them up for a healthy life is SO difficult. Most parents deeply desire to provide for their kids in the best ways they can. But often they feel like they're showing up with a deficit, not having received nurture, care, and attention from their parents to the extent they needed it. Our guest, David Thomas, has been helping parents, kids, and families navigate through these types of life struggles...

5 months ago

49 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

36 | Brooks Veazey: A Friendly Emptiness

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" What do tacos have to do with making people feel valued, seen, and connected? Our guest Brooks Veazey has answers. As partner and CEO of Ladybird Taco, a Nashville-based restaurant (with locations in Birmingham AL and **soon** in Charlotte NC), Brooks is committed to cultivating an atmosphere that's about more than just good food. Providing true hospitality is in itself a means of offering connection. Brooks, and the rest of the leadershi...

6 months ago

40 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

A Little Extra Helping with Greg, Stacey, and Bobby (Birthday Bonus)

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" We've just had a birthday, and we're celebrating by giving you a "Little Extra Helping" of the podcast. Bobby, Stacey and I sat down recently to reflect on this first year of What We Really Want... all the great conversations we've had, things we've heard from our listeners, things we hope for the future, etc. One thing we talked about was how simple the idea for this show really is. Let's just talk. About ways we connect. And by doing t...

6 months ago

36 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

35 | John Eldredge: What Your Soul is Made For

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" What We Really Want for our first anniversary episode 🎂 🎉🎈 is to celebrate a year of Conversations About Connection with the one-and-only John Eldredge. John is known for his work as a therapist, for his development of the immensely popular One-Minute Pause app, and for his MANY books (like Wild at Heart, The Sacred Romance, Get Your Life Back, Resilient) including his newest book Experience. Jesus. Really. John has an important message for all...

6 months ago

55 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

34 | Chad & Melissa Barrett: Don't Edit This Out

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" We've known our guests Chad & Melissa Barrett for over 30 years. From days in Bible college to early church ministry, the Barretts and their families have been special people to us. So it was wonderful to be able to catch up with them and ask them to tell their beautiful story. Chad and Melissa have four children. One of their kids, Kristina, bravely walked through a 4-year journey with cancer before passing away in 2014. During the time of...

7 months ago

1 hour 18 minutes

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

33 | Joanna & Matthew Raabsmith: Taking the Small Wins

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" Our guests this week understand the tough path to be navigated by couples recovering from sexual betrayal. Joanna and Matthew Raabsmith walked through this themselves when, three years into marriage, Matthew confessed his sexual addiction while Joanna was in training to become a therapist. Out of their own healing experience they have created a counseling practice called The Raabsmith Team, located in Memphis TN. Joanna (as a therapist) and Mat...

7 months ago

54 minutes