Why do so many men suffer in silence when it comes to mental health, especially around work, identity, and purpose?
This episode explores the emotional cost of job loss, the stigma around seeking help, and the silent battles many men face. It’s based on the research study “Beyond Workers’ Compensation: Men’s Mental Health In and Out of Work” by John L. Oliffe, PhD, RN and Christina S. E. Han, MA, published in the American Journal of Men’s Health.
Through reflection and analysis, we discuss how work-related mental health struggles often go unseen — and why men deserve better support, beyond compensation.
This episode was produced with the help of NotebookLM, supporting our mission to raise awareness around men’s mental health.
n this episode, we challenge the conventional narrative that masculinity is the root of men’s mental health struggles. Drawing from the article “Redefining Men’s Mental Health Approaches” by John Barry, we explore why many well-intentioned interventions fall shortת and how shifting the focus can lead to more effective support.
Using a compelling marine biology analogy, Barry makes the case for four key ideas: masculinity isn’t the core problem, current research needs a new and less biased direction, masculinity can be a strength, and truly male-centred approaches are essential for meaningful therapy.
This episode was created with NotebookLM and calls for a smarter, more compassionate way to support men’s mental health—one that moves beyond blame and toward real understanding.
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This episode unpacks key findings from a national study on men who present at hospitals with suicidal thoughts or self-harm. The research reveals that more men arrive with suicidal ideation than with physical self-harm—and that drug and alcohol overdose is the most common method. Alarmingly, many of these men had no prior contact with mental health services before their crisis.
We discuss the critical role of emergency departments as intervention points, the urgent need for follow-up care, and the importance of community-based support and substance use programs tailored to men’s needs.
This episode was created with NotebookLM and is based on the article “Understanding the Crisis: Hospital Presenting Suicidal Ideation and Self-Harm Among Males.”
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In this episode, we focus on practical ways men can care for their mental health—from recognizing early symptoms to the power of physical activity, social connection, and seeking professional support. We also explore the role of mindfulness and the importance of breaking the stigma around men’s emotional struggles.
This episode was created with NotebookLM and draws from the article “What Helps Men with Mental Health?”, offering insights and actionable steps for men looking to take care of their minds and lives.
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In this episode, we explore the often-overlooked barriers preventing men from seeking professional mental health support. From societal stigma to the lack of gender-sensitive services and biases in diagnosis and treatment, we dive into the silent struggles many men face, and the unique ways distress can show up in their lives.
This episode was created with NotebookLM and is based on the article “Where Are All the Men? A Model for Explaining the Barriers to Men’s Access to Professional Mental Health Support” by Dr. Yair Apter.
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In this powerful episode, Paul shares his deeply personal journey of meeting his ex-wife and how their relationship evolved into one of domestic abuse. He reflects on the red flags he now recognizes, how he ultimately found the strength to leave, and the profound impact the abuse had on his family. Paul’s goal is to inspire and support other men who may be facing similar experiences, offering them insight, understanding, and hope for a way forward. This is a story of resilience and a call to break the silence around domestic abuse against men.
About the Podcast:
What Happened to Me is produced by Hope for Men, a mental health platform dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual violence. We connect survivors with therapists who truly understand their experiences. To find the right therapist for you, visit our Therapist Directory.
If you’d like to share your story on our podcast, reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org. We’re here to help you be heard.
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you can visit this webpage to record a message and share your story. You can choose to remain anonymous, and your story may be featured in one of our upcoming episodes. It doesn’t need to be a big or sad story—just something you feel like sharing. It could be about how you’re feeling today, your first love, your relationships, a memory of grief, or anything you think might resonate with or help someone else. No story is too small
Host, Edit and Production: Tom Garber
Original Music: Ori Alboher, Yotam Agam, Damon Power, James Forest, Kyle Preston.
If you’d like to support our mission, please visit our Patreon page.
In this episode of What Happened to Me, I had the privilege of speaking with Gregory David, who courageously shared his healing journey. We explored the challenges he faced, what helped him move forward, and the approaches that fell short. His story offers valuable insights and inspiration for anyone navigating their own path to recovery.
Please note that this episode includes discussions the topics of childhood sexual abuse, addiction, depression, and suicide ideation. Listen with care, and if you need support, resources are available
If you’d like to purchase Gregory David’s book, Trauma Recovery Manual, you can find it here: https://amzn.eu/d/auM5tVe.
About the Podcast:
What Happened to Me is produced by Hope for Men, a mental health platform dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual violence. We connect survivors with therapists who truly understand their experiences. To find the right therapist for you, visit our Therapist Directory.
If you’d like to share your story on our podcast, reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org. We’re here to help you be heard.
Credits:
Host, Edit and Production: Tom Garber
Original Music: Ori Alboher, Amulets, Jonny Hughes, Kyle Preston, Michael Vignola, VESHZA and Yotam Agam.
Support Us:
If you’d like to support our mission, please visit our Patreon page.
In this episode of What Happened to Me, Michele Battistioli sits down with Bob Welch to discuss his experience co-writing Boy in the Mirror: An Athletic Director’s Struggle to Survive Sexual Abuse as a Child. Together, they explore the moving story of Jimmy Bartko, former athletic director who in 2017 publicly revealed that a priest had abused him when he was a child, keeping this secret for over 40 years. We asked Bob Welch what the book meant to him, how the connection between him and Jim Bartko developed, and we discussed how the story of a survivor of abuse can be told.
To learn more about Bob’s work, visit bobwelchwriter.com.
About the Podcast:
What Happened to Me is produced by Hope for Men, a mental health platform dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual violence. We connect survivors with therapists who truly understand their experiences. To find the right therapist for you, visit our Therapist Directory.
If you’d like to share your story on our podcast, reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org. We’re here to help you be heard.
Credits:
Host: Michele Battistioli
Editing: Tom Garber
Original Music: Ori Alboher (explore more of his work on Spotify)
Special Thanks: Ali Pourrahim
Support Us:
If you’d like to support our mission, please visit our Patreon page.
In this episode of What Happened to Me, Dylan St. Gabriel courageously shares his personal story of surviving sexual violence and the journey that followed.
Dylan’s story is one of resilience, healing, and hope.
Tune in to hear his powerful message, and if you’re moved by his story, show your support through these channels -
YouTube: Dylan St. Gabriel
Instagram: @_dylanstgabriel
Cashapp: $dylangabriel13
About the Podcast:
What Happened to Me is produced by Hope for Men, a mental health platform dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual violence. We connect survivors with therapists who truly understand their experiences. To find the right therapist for you, visit our Therapist Directory.
If you’d like to share your story on our podcast, reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org. We’re here to help you be heard.
Credits:
Original music for this podcast is by Ori Alboher. Discover more of his work on Spotify
Support Us:
If you’d like to support our mission, please visit our Patreon page.
In this episode, I have the honor of speaking with Andrew Jeffery, author of A Small Boy Smiling. Andrew courageously shares his journey through childhood sexual trauma and the powerful healing process that followed. His story is a testament to resilience, offering hope and insight to those facing similar challenges.
To learn more about Andrew’s journey, visit his website.
To purchase "A Small Boy Smiling", follow this link to Amazon.
About the Podcast:
What Happened to Me is produced by Hope for Men, a mental health platform dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual violence. We connect survivors with therapists who truly understand their experiences. To find the right therapist for you, visit our Therapist Directory.
If you’d like to share your story on our podcast, reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org. We’re here to help you be heard.
Credits:
Original music for this podcast is by Ori Alboher. Discover more of his work on Spotify
Support Us:
If you’d like to support our mission, please visit our Patreon page.
Turning Pain into Purpose - Founders’ Roundtable
Tune in for a powerful discussion about turning pain into purpose and creating safe spaces for healing.
In this episode, we bring together three inspiring founders of organizations dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual violence. Join Tom Garber, founder of Hope for Men; Thomas Garrod-Pullar, founder of MenAsWell; and Duncan Craig OBE, founder of We Are Survivors, as they share their personal journeys and discuss the transformative impact of their work.
Also, check out Thomas Garrod-Pullar’s podcast “Queer Consent” for more insightful conversations - Listen on Spotify.
About the Podcast:
“What Happened to Me” is produced by Hope for Men, a mental health platform dedicated to male survivors of sexual violence. We connect survivors with therapists who truly understand their experiences. To find the right therapist for you, visit our Therapist Directory.
If you’d like to share your story on our podcast, we invite you to reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org. We’re here to help you be heard.
Credits:
Original music for this podcast is by Ori Alboher. Discover more of his work on Spotify.
Support Us:
If you’d like to support our mission, please visit our Patreon page.
In this special update from *What Happened to Me*, we're excited to share news about upcoming episodes featuring powerful conversations with survivors who have found meaning in their healing journey.
If you'd like to share your story, please reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org.
Stay tuned for new beginnings!
Original music by Ori
In this powerful episode, we hear from a survivor of childhood sexual abuse who bravely shares his story. One day, a forgotten memory of the abuse resurfaced, profoundly impacting his life. However, when he shared this revelation, the response from a listener was far from supportive. Join us as we delve into his journey of rediscovery, the challenges of confronting traumatic memories, and the importance of believing and supporting survivors. This episode sheds light on the complexities of memory, trauma, and the urgent need for compassion and understanding.
If you want to share your story, send us an email to info@hopeformen.org .
This episode was produced by Hope for Men, a pioneering online therapy platform dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual trauma. Visit our website to learn more - hopeformen.org
If you would like to support our show, please visit our Patreon page. Every donation makes a difference: patreon.com/Whathappenedtome.
Original music by Ori Alboher
At 15 years old, our anonymous guest bravely shares his harrowing story of survival and resilience. This episode delves into three traumatic incidents he endured, offering a raw and unfiltered glimpse into the struggles male survivors of sexual violence face. Listen as he finds his voice and begins his journey toward healing.
If you want to share your story, send us an email to info@hopeformen.org.
This episode was produced by Hope for Men, a pioneering online therapy platform dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual trauma. Visit our website to learn more - hopeformen.org
Original music by Ori Alboher
Skeeter's story is a testament to resilience and courage. On October 14th, 1974, he faced a horrific ordeal, being kidnapped and assaulted by a family friend.
To safeguard his anonymity, we've utilized an AI voice for his narrative.
As you listen to Skeeter's journey, we urge you to approach with compassion. The story may stir intense emotions and trigger you, particularly if you've experienced similar trauma.
Remember, you're not alone. Help and support are available at hopeformen.org.
For those ready to share their own experiences, we extend a warm invitation. Reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org to begin the dialogue.
If you're in need of professional guidance, we've compiled a list of specialized therapists who are equipped to support survivors like you. Explore them at https://www.hopeformen.org/search.
For additional support, resources await at https://www.hopeformen.org/resources.
Let's stand together to dismantle the silence and stigma surrounding male sexual trauma, fostering a community of healing and hope.
Welcome to the inaugural episode of "What Happened to Me", a groundbreaking podcast by Hope for Men. In this episode, we delve into a deeply personal conversation between a male survivor of sexual violence and his loved one.
Join us as we navigate through their journey, exploring the challenges they've faced, the triumphs they've celebrated, and the profound impact of their experiences on their lives. As we embark on this intimate dialogue, we honor the courage and resilience of both individuals, whose stories shed light on the complexities of healing and recovery.
To protect the privacy and confidentiality of our participants, we have chosen to keep their identities anonymous. However, their voices and experiences resonate loudly, offering solace, understanding, and hope to listeners who may be on a similar journey.
Tune in to this powerful episode of "What Happened to Me" and join us as we embark on a journey of empathy, compassion, and healing.
Produced by Tom Garber
Original music by Ori Alboher
To learn more, visit us at hopefomen.org
