In this episode of We’re Gonna Talk About It Podcast, host Joel Atuhaire sits down with Mary Ashley — a passionate feminist and marketing professional to have the real, unfiltered conversation about what feminism actually means in today’s world. 💬
We dive deep into the layers people rarely talk about; from internalized misogyny and benevolent sexism to patriarchy, structural inequality, and the uncomfortable conversations around misandry and catcalling. This episode isn’t about pointing fingers; it’s about understanding systems, language, and the psychology behind gender dynamics.
Mary challenges common myths and misconceptions about feminism that continue to divide conversations today. Together, they explore how feminism isn’t anti-men; it’s pro-equality, pro-awareness, and pro-human.
If you’ve ever wondered what feminism really stands for, how patriarchy shapes everyday interactions, or how both men and women can become part of the change — this episode is a must-listen.
🎧 Tune in now and join the conversation — because we’re gonna talk about it.
Join Joel and Joanna on set as they dive into the hidden layers of male loneliness, exploring the struggles men face in finding love. They ask the tough questions: do people truly love you for who you are, or do we constantly feel the need to “improve” to attract the right partner? The conversation then unpacks how shame can quietly fuel addiction, and how true communication — the kind that touches even the little, everyday things — can begin to break the cycle. Honest, thoughtful, and deeply human, this episode is for anyone navigating connection, self-acceptance, and the courage to be seen.
In this episode of the we’re gonna talk about it, Joel Atuhaire sits down with Ddumba Timothy, former Guild President of Uganda Christian University, for a raw and thought-provoking conversation on leadership in our times. Together, they unpack the hidden struggles of leaders from the weight of imposter syndrome to the dangers of narcissistic leadership and reflect on what it means for today’s youth to step into positions of influence.
Ddumba shares his personal journey: from childhood experiences that shaped him, to the role models who guided his path, to the defining moments of serving as a student leader. Along the way, Joel and Timothy explore different forms of leadership, the state of Ugandan politics, and the question every young leader faces: how do you lead with authenticity in a world that demands so much?
This episode isn’t just about titles or politics, it’s about the heart of leadership, the struggles behind the scenes, and the courage it takes to step forward. Whether you’re a student, a professional, or someone navigating your own leadership journey, this conversation will resonate deeply.
Join host Joel Atuhaire as he sits down with special guest Leighton, back by popular demand, to dive deep into the topic of Fear of Missing Out, or FOMO. In this episode, they explore how FOMO affects friendships, the role of social culture in bars and nightlife, and the pressures social media puts on our everyday lives. From navigating peer influence to understanding the psychological triggers behind constantly wanting to be “where the action is,” Joel and Leighton unpack strategies to cope, set boundaries, and find peace in your own choices. If you’ve ever felt torn between staying in or going out, or scrolling endlessly to keep up, this conversation is for you.
In this powerful episode of the We’re Gonna Talk About It podcast, we dive deep into the realities of grief, loss, and healing. Joined by our guest Kabera Angel, we explore what not to say to someone who is grieving, how to show up for a friend who has lost a loved one, the truth about the phrase “time heals all wounds,” and how loss challenges or strengthens faith and spirituality.
Whether you’ve recently experienced loss, are supporting a grieving friend, or simply want to understand the emotional and spiritual process of healing, this episode offers wisdom, honesty, and compassion. Grief is not linear. Healing is not one-size-fits-all. But conversations like these remind us that we are not alone.
If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe for more conversations on mental health, spirituality, and the human experience. Let us know in the comments what you wish people understood about grief.
In this episode of We’re Gonna Talk About It, host Joel Atuhaire sits down with Joy Mwesigwa, a final-year medical student, to unravel the science of love. From the brain’s cocktail of dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin to the subtle signals that shape attraction, we explore how biology choreographs romance and how much of “falling in love” is choice versus chemistry. Can science explain why we’re drawn to certain people? Does knowing the biology of bonding help us attract and keep our future partner? Together, Joel and Joy dive into the mystery where neuroscience meets the heart, breaking down love as both miracle and mechanism.
In this thought-provoking episode of 'We're Gonna Talk About It,' host Joel Atuhaire, with guest Kamukama Mark Trevor, delve into the intricate intersection of faith, spirituality, and human experience. From the timeless question of why suffering exists to the role of evangelism in shaping belief, we explore how the concept of God influences our lives, choices, and understanding of the world.
Join us as we unpack the nature of divine presence, the challenges of maintaining faith in times of hardship, and how spiritual practices can guide, challenge, and transform us. Whether you’re curious, questioning, or deeply rooted in your beliefs, this episode invites reflection, honest dialogue, and a deeper appreciation of the mysteries that connect us all.
In this heartfelt final episode of Season 2, Joanna and Joel dive deep into the beautiful, complicated, and often misunderstood world of friendship. From the quiet strength of empathy to the nuances of female friendships, we unpack what real connection looks like in a world obsessed with surface-level interaction.
We ask the hard questions:
What makes a friendship authentic?
Why do some bonds fade while others withstand time and tension?
And perhaps the most debated one yet—can men and women truly be “just friends”?
Whether you’re nursing an old wound, celebrating your ride-or-die, or just trying to understand your people better, this episode is a warm, unfiltered, and honest conversation about what friendship really means.
✨ Thank you for riding with us through Season 2. This finale is one you don’t want to miss.
On this soul-baring 23rd episode of We’re Gonna Talk About It, Joanna takes the mic solo—without Joel—for a deeply personal conversation about the breakup that changed everything.
In this raw and reflective episode, she opens up about a relationship that once defined her, and the painful unraveling that unexpectedly became the beginning of something greater. Through heartbreak came healing; through loss, a rediscovery of faith, identity, and purpose.
This isn’t just a story about a breakup—it’s a story about transformation, spiritual awakening, and the beauty of becoming whole on your own.
Whether you’re navigating your own endings or simply craving a conversation that meets you at your most honest place, this one’s for you.
Tune in. Feel seen. Be inspired.
In this electrifying episode of We're Gonna Talk About It, host Joel Atuhaire sits down with the brilliant Richard Miiro—former Vice President of Uganda Christian University, intellectual powerhouse, and thought leader—for a deep dive into the soul-stirring question: Who are you, really?
Together, they wrestle with the raw and real layers of identity—from the psychological grip of the ego (hello, Sigmund Freud) to the shaping power of culture, family, and trauma. They dissect narrative identity, exploring how the stories we tell ourselves can either set us free or lock us into roles we were never meant to play.
Expect mind-bending insights, powerful personal reflections, and the kind of conversation that lingers in your thoughts long after the episode ends. This is not your average identity talk—it's honest, intense, and deeply necessary.
This is Part One of a two-part series. The second half—more disruptive, more daring—drops in Season 3.
Press play, and prepare to meet yourself.
On today’s episode of We’re Gonna Talk About It podcast, hosted by Joel Atuhaire, we dive deep into the heart of faith with Martha Merina — a passionate faith-based content creator and devoted Christian voice of her generation. Together, we take on some of the biggest, rawest questions: Who or what is God, really? How can we understand the mystery of the Trinity? We also tackle some of the most debated topics in modern Christianity, including the idea of patriarchy in the Bible, the profound meaning behind prayer, and how we can truly pray in a way that connects us to something higher than ourselves. As we journey through these rich conversations, Martha shares why she believes Christianity isn’t just another religion — it is the perfect and true path to God. This is an honest, thought-provoking, and deeply inspiring episode for anyone wrestling with faith, searching for answers, or simply wanting to experience the power of real, unfiltered Christian conversation.
In this powerful episode of We’re Gonna Talk About It, we unpack the tension between the biological clock and the social clock—and how these silent pressures shape the dating experiences of men and women today. Inspired by the themes in Acrimony by Tyler Perry, this episode explores the raw realities behind modern relationships, ambition, resentment, and timing. Are women really racing against time, and what does that mean in 2025? Do men face a social clock, and how does it impact their choices? Why is there a natural attraction to resources, and how does that influence compatibility? Is it still possible to find “the one” in a world of endless options?
With guests Melissa Atukunda and Kamukama Mark Trevor, and hosted by Joel Atuhaire and Joanna Atukunda, this conversation goes beyond trends to the timeless truths of love, purpose, and identity. Whether you’re single, dating, or rethinking love altogether, this episode is your invitation to pause, reflect, and recalibrate.
Listen now—because when it comes to time and love, we’re gonna talk about it.
What does it truly mean to be feminine? In this powerful episode of We're Gonna Talk About It, hosts Joel Atuhaire and Joanna Akunda, joined by guest Akezza Doreen Uwamahoro, engage in a deep and unfiltered discussion on the essence of femininity.
We explore what defines womanhood, the balance between nature and nurture, and the perception of femininity in cultural and biblical contexts. We also tackle sensitive but crucial topics, including the dress code of women, societal expectations, and the complex relationship between femininity and sexual violence, including rape culture.
Is femininity about grace, strength, or submission? How has culture and religion shaped the roles of women? What impact does society’s view on women’s dress and behavior have on issues like gender-based violence? These are the tough but necessary conversations we unpack in this episode.
Join us as we challenge norms, break down stereotypes, and redefine what it means to be a woman in today's world. ✨
#Femininity #Women #Culture #Faith #DressCode #RapeCulture #NatureVsNurture #Podcast #WGTAI
In this deeply introspective episode of We’re Gonna Talk About It, hosts Joel Atuhaire & Joanna Akunda sit down with Sarah, a clinical psychologist, to unravel the intricate workings of the mind. With mental health struggles on the rise, we take a deep dive into depression and anxiety, breaking down their psychological roots, symptoms, and how they manifest differently in individuals. Is depression just prolonged sadness, or is there more to it? How does anxiety creep in, distorting reality and controlling behaviour? Together, we explore the thin yet profound line that separates the two.
The conversation extends beyond common mental health struggles, peeling back the layers of phobias—why do some fears seem irrational but feel completely real to those experiencing them? We also take a chilling detour into the world of psychopathy and mental disorders, dissecting what makes a psychopath, how their minds differ from the average person, and whether they are born or shaped by experience. Are psychopaths truly devoid of emotion, or do they just experience the world differently?
No journey into the mind is complete without addressing the mystery of dreams. Do our subconscious thoughts reveal hidden anxieties, suppressed desires, or deeper psychological truths? What role do dreams play in our mental health, and can they be a window into unresolved trauma? Sarah helps us decode the meanings behind what our minds create when we sleep, uncovering the psychological significance of dreams and nightmares.
This episode is raw, thought-provoking, and eye-opening, offering expert insights into the depths of the human mind. Whether you’re struggling with mental health, fascinated by psychology, or just looking for a better understanding of yourself and those around you, this conversation will leave you questioning, reflecting, and eager to learn more.
🎧 Tap in now and take a journey through the mind with us!
#WGTATI #MentalHealthMatters #DepressionAndAnxiety #DreamPsychology #InsideTheMind #PodcastVibes
In this thought-provoking episode of We’re Gonna Talk About It, hosts Joel Atuhaire & Joanna Akunda sit down with special guests Shallom & Leighton Barungi to dissect the nature of social media through a postmodern lens. In a world where reality is filtered, curated, and strategically presented, are we truly experiencing life—or merely consuming digital illusions?
The conversation begins with an exploration of how social media distorts reality, reshaping both self-perception and our understanding of others. In an age where images are enhanced, captions are carefully crafted, and moments are staged for engagement, the question arises: Are we witnessing authentic experiences, or just carefully constructed narratives? This leads to a deeper discussion about the nature of truth in the digital era, where the line between reality and perception is blurred.
Love in the age of social media is another focal point of this discussion. Is modern romance evolving into a performance, where relationships are measured by likes and public displays rather than genuine intimacy? The guests reflect on how digital validation has altered the way people express and experience love, questioning whether relationships now exist more for public consumption than for private connection.
As the conversation unfolds, the group delves into the postmodern perspective—where absolutes dissolve, and truth becomes fluid in an algorithm-driven world. If reality is increasingly shaped by what trends, what gets the most engagement, and what fits within the ever-changing cultural narrative, then what does authenticity even mean? Is social media a tool that amplifies self-expression, or has it become a theatre of simulation, where identity is constantly performed and reinvented?
Ultimately, this episode challenges listeners to question everything they think they know about the digital world. Are we truly connecting, or just projecting? Are we engaging with reality, or merely interacting with reflections of what we wantto believe?
🎧 Tap in and let’s decode the digital illusion together!
#WGTATI #SocialMediaPhilosophy #PostmodernThought #RealityVsPerception #DigitalLove
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In celebration of Women’s Day, We’re Gonna Talk About It brings you a powerful and thought-provoking conversation on the essence of womanhood and sexual reproductive health. This special episode features Akezza Doreen Uwamahoro—a poet, law student, and passionate advocate for human rights. Together, we explore the daily intricate realities that women navigate, from emotional intelligence and societal expectations to reproductive choices and systemic barriers.
We dive into the importance of emotional intelligence in helping women navigate societal pressures, relationships, and self-awareness. The discussion also sheds light on the birth control pill, unpacking myths, benefits, and the ongoing debate on responsibility and accessibility. We take a critical look at patriarchy, examining how deeply ingrained structures continue to shape gender roles and influence women’s autonomy. Finally, we discuss motherhood, questioning whether it is always a calling, a choice, or an expectation imposed by society.
This episode is an unfiltered, raw, and deeply reflective discussion on identity, agency, and the power women hold in shaping their narratives. As we honour womanhood's strength, resilience, and complexity, we invite you to join us in rethinking the conversations around gender, health, and empowerment. Tune in now! 🎧💜 #WomensDay #WeTalkAboutIt #ThePowerOfWomanhood
In this deeply moving episode of We’re Gonna Talk About It, Joel Atuhaire & Joanna Akunda sit down with the incredible Luba Pauline, a true warrior who has lived through and triumphed over spina bifida.
From facing childhood bullying to defying traditional stereotypes, Luba’s journey is one of resilience, faith, and purpose. She opens up about:
💭 Growing up with spina bifida in a society that often misunderstands disability
🎓 Overcoming school bullying and turning pain into perseverance
🙏 How her struggles led her to God and deepened her faith
💡 Founding KORE, a nonprofit dedicated to supporting others with spina bifida
👨👩👧 The life-changing support of her family and how it shaped her career
💬 A powerful message for anyone facing similar challenges
This episode is raw, emotional, and deeply inspiring. Whether you’re living with a disability, supporting someone who is, or just looking for a story of unshakable strength, this conversation will move you.
🎧 Tune in now and remember that perseverance and purpose can rewrite your story no matter the challenge.
#WGTATI #SpinaBifidaAwareness #KORE #FaithAndPerseverance #Inspiration
In this thought-provoking episode of We’re Gonna Talk About It, hosts Joel Atuhaire and Joanna Akunda sit down with special guest Isaiah Tom Opio to dissect the ever-growing manosphere movement and its influence on modern society.
From the red pill ideology and its motivations to the breakdown of the family structure in this generation, we explore the forces shaping relationships today. We challenge the narrative that mass media is microprogramming and indoctrinating society, discuss how misguided feminism has reshaped gender roles, and examine the impact of condoms on humanity’s future.
With men feeling lost, angry, and disconnected, we dive into the path to reclaiming true masculinity and stepping into leadership. How can men rise above resentment and find purpose? How does one recover from deep-seated anger and rage?
Join us as we uncover hard truths, challenge societal norms, and seek clarity on identity, masculinity, and family.
🎧 Tune in now – because we’re gonna talk about it!
#WGTAI #Manosphere #RedPill #Masculinity #FamilyStructure #Feminism #Identity #Healing #Podcast
🎙️ Season 2 Premiere; New season, new vibes, same unfiltered conversations!
Love—it’s the most talked-about, written-about, and sung-about subject in history. But have you ever questioned it differently? In this episode of We’re Gonna Talk About It, your favourite hosts, Joanna and Joel, throw the rulebook out the window and take a hilariously unfiltered deep dive into the world of love.
From unconventional questions to downright outrageous takes, we challenge the clichés, debunk the fairytales, and ask: Is love really a choice? Is "the one" just a myth? Can you love someone and still not like them? And of course—what’s up with love languages, really?
Expect unfiltered honesty, unexpected insights, and A LOT of laughter as we navigate the complexities of love with wit, wisdom, and a touch of chaos. Whether you're a hopeless romantic or a certified sceptic, this episode will leave you thinking—and laughing—long after it's over.
🎧 Season 2 starts NOW! Tap in and let’s redefine love—unapologetically.
🎉 Season Finale Alert! 🎉
In our last episode of Season 1, we’re diving into a topic that’s real, raw, and relevant: Pornography. Join hosts Joel Atuhaire and Joanna Akunda, along with our special guest Leighton Barungi, as they unpack the media’s marketing of this vice and the hidden challenges that come with it.
From tackling the stigma and shame surrounding it to sharing candid tips on beating relapses, quitting, and finding freedom, they don’t hold back on REAL TALK! Plus, there’s plenty of laughter along the way as they share personal stories and experiences that make this episode both enlightening and hilarious.
Whether you’re curious, seeking change, or simply want to hear fresh perspectives, this episode sheds light on why it's worth walking away—and how to do it. Tune in now for a powerful wrap-up to Season 1!
