In this special Season 3 wrap-up of Waiting in Hope: The Infertility Podcast, hosts Jaclyn Toscas and Kelley Ramsey reflect on the powerful stories shared this season and the lasting impact of each guest. From Candice and Dani's raw vulnerability to the McMinns' deeply honest marriage journey, this episode is a look back at the hard-won wisdom, honest emotions, and deep hope that emerged through every conversation.
Even in the depths of pain, God’s faithfulness was on display—and His nearness was undeniable. Jaclyn and Kelley unpack recurring themes, lessons learned, scriptures that anchored them, and how listeners can keep holding on when hope feels far.
💬 In this Episode, Jaclyn and Kelley discuss:
The beauty of grief and joy coexisting
How vulnerability invites deeper spiritual encounters
Dani’s honesty in adoption and longing for biological motherhood
Candice’s experience of God’s provision—even in the ER
The McMinns’ reminder to suffer together in marriage
Why isolation is the enemy’s playground and community is vital
Scripture truths that carry us through seasons of waiting
📖 Psalm 56:8 – “You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.”
This episode is a tender reminder that you’re not alone. Your grief is not wasted. And even in the ache—God is near.
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In this Waiting in Hope: The Infertility Podcast episode, hosts Jaclyn Toscas and Kelley Ramsey finish their conversation with Candice Kelm, and we reflect on the milestones of her journey—the joy of pregnancy after loss, the grief that shaped her, and the strength of her faith. Candice shares how God met her in the pain, the power of naming her son Jet Hezekiah, and the healing found in vulnerability. A tender reminder that hope remains, even when the story doesn’t unfold as expected.
In this final episode of our 3-part series with Candice Kelm, we journey with her through the milestones that mark her path—both joyful and painful. From the heartbreak of miscarriage to the celebration of life, Candice shares the raw truth of grief and the unwavering hope she’s found in God.
Candice’s testimony is a beacon of hope and a reminder that God is near in every chapter of the story—even the ones written with tears.
🔗 Be sure to listen to Parts 1 & 2 if you missed them, and check the show notes for helpful resources, related links, and more encouragement from the Waiting in Hope community.
🎧If Candice’s story spoke to your heart, don’t walk through this season alone. 👉 Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement. 💬 Reach out to us on Instagram @waitinginhope and let us know how this series has impacted you. 📩 And if you’re looking for more support, check out the Waiting in Hope Connections —a membership site with resources, courses, and a caring community waiting to walk alongside you.
Let’s keep holding on to hope—together.
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Guest Info:
Candice Kelm lives in Bryan, Texas with her husband Brent, and fur pup. She is a school teacher and the head leader of the WIH Ministries online support group.
Follow her @cmkelm07
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In this episode of Waiting in Hope: The Infertility Podcast, hosts Jaclyn Toscas and Kelley Ramsey continue their discussion with Candice Kelm in Part 2 of a three-part series. Candice shares her insights on the emotional complexities of infertility, the importance of vulnerability, and the necessity of processing grief, whether alone, in groups, or with a therapist.
She also discusses her family's unique journey with embryo adoption, the challenges they faced, and the emotional ups and downs of transfers and miscarriages. Candice reflects on how infertility influenced her career as a teacher and her decision to prioritize her family's journey. This episode compassionately explores the realities of infertility and reminds listeners they are not alone in their grief or hope.
From this episode:
Nightlight Christian Adoption Agency & Nightlight Snowflake Embryo Adoption
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Guest Info:
Candice Kelm lives in Bryan, Texas with her husband Brent, and fur pup. She is a school teacher and the head leader of the WIH Ministries online support group.
Follow her @cmkelm07
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In this episode of Waiting in Hope: The Infertility Podcast, hosts Jacqueline Toscas and Kelley Ramsey welcome their dear friend and WIH online support group leader, Candice Kelm. She shares her heartfelt journey over 15 years of infertility, candidly highlighting the ups and downs she faced along the way. From multiple failed IUIs, a diagnosis of endometriosis, the emotional toll of waiting, and the unexpected decision-making leading to embryo adoption.
Throughout the conversation, Candice emphasizes the invaluable lessons learned while seeking God’s best for each step of their journey. You’ll be encouraged, challenged, and inspired by her story and God's grace and faithfulness throughout their experiences.
From this episode:
Listen to past episodes: Making the “Right” Choice & Should We Do IVF?
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Guest Info:
Candice Kelm lives in Bryan, Texas with her husband Brent, and fur pup. She is a school teacher and the head leader of the WIH Ministries online support group.
Follow her @cmkelm07
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In this episode of Waiting in Hope: The Infertility Podcast, co-host Kelley Ramsey presents part two of her interview with Christy and Jeremy McMinn, who share their experiences and 10+ year infertility journey. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing their marriage above trying for a baby and encourage others to find hope amidst their struggles.
They remind us that even if God is still good, we can wait purposefully and make the most of our waiting season. The conversation culminates in the joy of parenthood after a decade of waiting, reinforcing the truth that God has a purpose and is constantly at work during every season of life.
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Guest Info:
Jeremy and Christy McMinn live in North Houston, where they enjoy BBQing together and cherishing time with their son, an answered prayer after more than 10 years of waiting.
Click here for a video about their story from their church, Church Project
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In this episode of Waiting in Hope: The Infertility Podcast, co-host Kelley Ramsey talks with Christy and Jeremy McMinn about their journey through infertility and how it shaped their marriage. We've wanted to feature a couple’s perspective on navigating marriage in the midst of infertility, and we’re so grateful for the McMinns sharing what they learned.
They talk about the emotional toll of infertility, the overwhelming reality of IVF, and how they learned to communicate and stay connected during years of waiting. They also shared how the Waiting in Hope program was a lifeline, providing them with much-needed community and support.
Through faith, vulnerability, and purpose in the waiting, their story is a powerful reminder that even in the hardest seasons, God is present, working in the waiting.
From this episode:
Get a special gift to our listeners 25% off Waiting Well Together, an Online Couples Retreat, use code: MARRIAGE
Click here to find a support group in your area, join the online group, or start one near you.
Order the hardcopy at a discounted price while supplies last! Waiting in Hope: 31 Reflections for Walking with God through Infertility
Guest Info:
Jeremy and Christy McMinn live in North Houston, where they enjoy BBQing together and cherishing time with their son, an answered prayer after more than 10 years of waiting.
Click here for a video about their story from their church, Church Project
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In this anticipated Part 2 episode of the Waiting in Hope: Infertility Podcast, host Jaclyn Toscas and co-host Kelley Ramsey continue their conversation with Dani Cap (@as_im_waiting), a well-loved and known advocate in the infertility community on Instagram. Dani candidly shares her eight-year journey through infertility, discussing the numerous personal and medical challenges she has faced, as well as the emotional and spiritual toll it has taken on her. She reflects on the valuable lessons she has learned throughout this experience.
From this episode:
Proverbs 14:30, A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.
Luke 1:50 MSG, His mercy flows in wave after wave on those who are in awe before him.
2 Corinthians 12:8, NIV and MSG
Testing through Fertilisys: vaginal microbiome test, uterine microbiome test, reproductive immunology tests female/male, DNA fragmentation test for sperm analysis.
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Guest Info:
Dani Caporrimo- follower of Jesus, Army + Fire wife, adoptive and loss mama, Infertility + Endo Warrior
Instagram: @as_im_waiting
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In this heartfelt Part 1 episode of the Waiting in Hope: Infertility Podcast, host Jacqueline Toscas and co-host Kelley Ramsey sit down with Dani Cap (@as_im_waiting), a widely respected voice in the infertility community on Instagram. Dani opens up about her powerful eight-year journey thus far through infertility, her path to adoption, and the many personal and medical challenges she has faced along the way. With honesty and vulnerability, she shares how her faith has sustained her through seasons of grief, waiting, and unexpected turns. This two-part interview will encourage and uplift many of you navigating the complexities of your unknowns.
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In this second part of our celebration episode, co-hosts Kelley Ramsey and Jaclyn Toscas, along with Jenn Hesse (co-author of the book and member of the WIH team), answer your questions on various topics.
These topics include comparison, stagnation, finding rest in grief, how community fosters growth, and the power of vulnerability in the healing process. Additionally, our hosts share their personal experiences of waiting in hope. If you have any questions, please reach out, and we’ll do our best to address them in future episodes.
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Welcome to Season 3! In honor of National Infertility Awareness Week (NIAW) and the second anniversary of the book "Waiting in Hope: 31 Reflections for Walking with God through Infertility," as well as the first anniversary of this podcast, our co-hosts Kelley Ramsey and Jaclyn Toscas, along with Jenn Hesse (co-author and WIH team), felt it was essential to recognize and celebrate all that we’ve witnessed throughout this journey.
From this episode:
Luke 19:40
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This week (April 20-26) is National Infertility Awareness Week (NIAW). Hear a message from us at the end of the episode. Please tag us, @waiting.in.hope as you share.
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In this bonus episode Jenn & Jaclyn give practical advice on ways to survive the holiday season in a time of grief. While the holidays are supposed to be a time of thankfulness & joy, it doesn’t always feel that way. It is okay to take a step back and cry out to the Lord if you are having a hard time. He is always drawing near to us during those hard times.
Grief & the Holidays blog post
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This week Jacyln and Kelley discuss how we can wait in the hope of the Lord. The waiting season might feel endless, but it isn’t. We can use this time of hurt and heartache to serve the Lord. No time of waiting is ever wasted when we make the choice to trust the Lord while we are waiting. God loves us and is with us while we wait.
Chapters discussed: How to Wait in Hope
7 Feasts: Finding Christ in the Sacred Celebrations of the Old Testament
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Jenn, Kelley & Jaclyn go over the questions that we should answer before pursuing adoption. Adoption is not a fix it, or solution to infertility but rather a calling from the Lord. We need to make sure we are called, in the process of working through the grief of infertility and on the same page with our spouse before we go forward with adoption. It is not an easy process and comes with many of its own struggles. God is the one who weaves families together, we should make every decision prayerfully.
From this episode:
Adoption 101 Part 1, Adoption 101 Part 2
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This week Jaclyn, and Kelley discuss how they handled pregnancy after infertility. There are so many emotions surrounding this topic, but we must remember God is with us. They share how to cherish the pregnancy while also holding space for your friends still in the middle of their infertility journey. Pregnancy doesn't fix infertility, or heal us of the trauma, only God can do that.
From this episode:
Jeremiah 32
Chapters discussed: Two Pink Lines
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In this episode Jaclyn, Jenn, and Kelley talk about the physical, relational, ethical, spiritual and financial aspects of IVF. There are no simple yes or no answers when it comes to IVF. It is a choice each couple has to make for themselves. It should be made prayerfully, and under wise counsel. When we look to His word we can find the pillars of our faith that will help guide us, not only in our infertility journey but in all aspects of life. We can rest in knowing that God is the creator and sustainer of life, we can trust Him through all of these complex situations.
Disclaimer: IVF is a medical procedure that entails complex physiological and ethical implications that can’t be covered comprehensively in a single podcast episode. As a ministry, we are not qualified to provide medical diagnoses or recommendations. We encourage you to seek medical advice from qualified medical professionals.
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The Sanctity of Life: We believe that life begins at conception (specifically, fertilization as opposed to implantation). Our creator is the only one who makes life and knits us together. Thereby, we believe that all loss is valid and meaningful regardless of the situation whether miscarriage (molar, ectopic, early or late), stillborn, infant death, etc. Life is created thereby it matters to the creator, God. We know that within infertility our only true hope is found in Jesus Christ being enough and his Holy Spirit living inside of us. Even with the help of medicine and doctors, He is still sovereign over all.
Chapters Discussed: Should We Do IVF (and Other Decisions)
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Jaclyn, Jenn, and Kelley discuss wisdom, how it differs from answers, and how we can apply God’s Word to our infertility journey. We all have choices to make on how we approach infertility, but no matter the option, we need to do our best to make sure it is God-honoring. There is no simple answer for how to approach infertility. God can light our paths if we stay in His Word and seek after Him.
From this episode:
“Knowledge may be the horse, but wisdom is the driver” - Charles Spurgeon, quoted on page 187, WIH Book
“It is the continual act of reorienting, repenting and refocusing on who is in control and what His heart is towards me” - Lauren, quoted on page 190, WIH Book
Chapters Discussed: Should We Do IVF (and Other Decisions)
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In this week’s episode Jaclyn, Jenn, and Kelley talk all things friendship and infertility. Friendships can be hard to navigate during infertility. Pregnancy announcements, baby showers, and figuring out where we fit in can put a strain on even the closest of friendships. Thankfully we have a friend in Jesus, who always understands us completely. He can teach us how to be a good friend during our waiting journeys.
From this episode:
Christy Kockels - Amaryllis Story
Chapters Discussed: Friends Again
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Jaclyn, Jenn, and Kelley discuss how infertility can make family relationships even more complex. They share their advice on handling uncomfortable conversations that often come up during the infertility journey. One important step is to teach our families that infertility is grief. God can work through our honesty and kindness to strengthen our relationships and give Himself glory.
From this episode:
Chapters discussed: One Happy Family
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Jaclyn, Jenn, and Kelley talk openly and honestly about the effect infertility can have on intimacy within a marriage. They share tips on how to handle uncomfortable conversations with grace and humor. God can redeem all aspects of our lives that infertility touches, even the most intimate ones.
From this episode:
Online Couples Retreat Discount
Chapter discussed: Redeeming the Bedroom
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In this episode, Jaclyn, Jenn, and Kelley begin discussing the relational journey of Waiting in Hope and what that means for your marriage. They share encouragement on navigating differences in communication and grieving styles, how to reconnect with your partner, hearing your partner as well as being heard, and facing adversity as a team.
From this episode:
Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas
Online Couples Retreat Discount
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