In this episode, we talked about the Nigerian concept of "see finish," a phrase used when someone becomes overly familiar with you and starts taking you for granted. Join Mana and Njure as we explore how over-familiarity can erode boundaries in friendships, romantic relationships, and even work environments. We’ll discuss the signs of "see finish," its causes, and the emotional toll it takes on relationships.
We’ll also share practical tips on how to re-establish respect and set clear boundaries, so your close connections remain healthy and balanced. Whether it’s friends borrowing without asking, coworkers treating you casually, or partners taking you for granted—this episode will help you navigate those tricky dynamics.
Stay tuned for real-life examples, engaging discussions, and some fun moments as we tackle this relatable issue!

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I speak without a mouth and hear without ears. I have no body, but I come alive with the wind. What am I?

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Welcome to another episode of Voice Notes with Njure! This episode talked about the destructive habit of comparison. I also explored why comparing ourselves to others can be the ultimate form of self-sabotage, its impact on our lives, and practical strategies to break free from the comparison trap. Tune in, reflect, and take the first step towards a more empowered you! Follow the podcast on Instagram @ Voice_Notes_with_Njure, for more updates. Stay connected with your host on Instagram @_njure__ There's a riddle posted on Instagram – can you solve it? Head over to our IG page, share your answer, and join our community of curious minds.

Hello, beautiful people!🥰 I hope your May is off to a great start. And to help you keep those good vibes going, we’re diving deep into the world of hugs today. Because, let’s face it, life can be rough sometimes, but a hug can make all the difference. So, let’s get ready to put our arms around this topic and squeeze some inspiration out of it, shall we?🤗

Everyday is an opportunity to be better, make the most of it. Rise and shine!!!

Emotions can be tricky to navigate, but they're an important part of the human experience. Welcome to an episode all about embracing your emotions. In this episode, we'll explore the power of emotions and how to use them to your advantage. We'll discuss the benefits of acknowledging and accepting your emotions, and tips for managing them in a healthy and productive way. Tune in to learn more about the importance of embracing your emotions and how to make them work for you, not against you.

Even the most passionate relationships can hit an intimacy rut over time. If you're feeling that emotional or physical disconnect with your partner, it's time for an intimacy restart. In this episode, Mrs. Peace Anietie joins us to share her proven methods for hitting the reset button on your intimate connection. We'll explore ways to rekindle desire, break out of intimacy ruts, and rediscover the vulnerability and excitement you once shared. From rebuilding emotional intimacy through deeper conversations to shaking up your physical intimacy with new adventures, Mrs. Peace Anietie provides practical tips and expert insights. Whether you're in a new relationship or looking to relight an old flame, this episode offers a roadmap to closing the intimacy gap and nurturing a more fulfilling, meaningful partnership. Reignite the spark with your intimacy restart! RECOMMENDED BOOKS Why You Act The Way You Do -Tim LaHaye Men Are from Mars and Women are from Venus -John Gary The Five Love Languages -Gary Chapman CONNECT WITH GUEST FB: Peace Obi Anietie WhatsApp:+2348096301760 CONNECT WITH NJURE IG: @_njure__

Join in the gist with Venus, Kije, and Njure as we talk about some thoughtful and budget-friendly date ideas for Valentine's. CONNECT WITH GUESTS Venus IG: @archangels_consort Kije IG: @kyijje_egbe

Love is like a rock, it's solid and strong. It's a foundation for our hopes and dreams, A place to stand when life is hard and seems To overwhelm us with its winds and storms. Love is a shelter from the world's alarms, A refuge where our souls can find repose. In this episode i got different people to talk about what love means to them. Send a voice message to my podcast, Voice Notes With Njure: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/blessing-egbe/message Song: Perfect by Ed Sheeran

Gratitude is more than just being thankful for what we have. It's about shifting our perspective to focus on the positive, even when things are difficult. In this episode, we discussed gratitude, how to cultivate gratitude in our daily lives, the benefits that come with it, and how it can have a powerful impact on our lives. Tune in to learn how gratitude can change your life for the better! TO BOOK A CALL WITH KOKAVIBES WHATSAPP: https://wa.me//09055144033 IG: Kokavibes_ng FACEBOOK: Kokavibes.ng CONNECT WITH THE GUEST IG: asejnr

In this episode, we'll explore everything you need to know about overthinking. From the impact it can have on your life, to the triggers that can cause it, to some helpful coping strategies. If you're an overthinker or know someone who is, this episode is for you! RECOMMENDED BOOKS When Panic Attacks -David Burns Battlefield of the Mind: Winning the Battle in Your Mind -Joyce Meyer The Act of Everyday Assertiveness -Patrick Burns The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*** -Mark Manson RECOMMENDED VIDEO Overcoming Self Doubt And Overthinking [series] -Pastor Bolaji Idowu CONNECT WITH GUEST LinkedIn -Kachi Alozie IG -Kachifaithy TikTok-Faithyboo7

Let's face it, most of us have said "I'm fine" even when we're not feeling great. Maybe we don't want to burden others with our problems, or maybe we don't want to appear weak. Many of us have been conditioned to respond this way, even when we're not feeling great. But what if there was a better way to respond when someone asks "How are you?" In this episode, I talked about the importance of having a confidant and how being honest about our feelings is not a bad thing. You'll walk away from this episode feeling ready to embrace vulnerability and honesty!😊

Happy New Year🎉🎉🎉 In this episode, I discussed taking a fresh approach to goal-setting. Instead of feeling pressured to have big goals and resolutions for the year, focus on taking things slow and enjoying the present moment. Celebrate the small wins, rather than only focusing on the big achievements. Let's take the pressure off and enjoy this year at our own pace!

Investing can be a powerful tool for building wealth and reaching your financial goals. In this episode, we explore the basics of investing, including how to get started, the different types of investments, and the risks and rewards of investing. Whether you are a beginner or an experienced investor, this episode will provide valuable information to help you make informed decisions about your money. RECOMMENDED BOOKS •The Intelligent Investor by Benjamin Graham. •A Random Walk Down Wall Street by Burton Malkiel. •Common Stocks and Uncommon Profits by Philip Fisher. •One Up On Wall Street by Peter Lynch. •The Little Book of Common Sense Investing by John C. Bogle. RECOMMENDED WEBSITES • Investopedia • Morningstar • Seeking Alpha • Khan Academy • Wall street journal. RECOMMENDED POCASTS •Voice Notes with Njure •The Motley Fool Money Podcast •InvestED by Phil Town and Danielle Town •Animal Spirits by Michael Batnick and Ben Carlson GUEST: Musa Junior Danjuma, a seasoned financial market analyst and trader from Nigeria, with over five years of experience, passionately explores global economic trends. Starting as an analyst, he developed astute strategies and founded the "Trading Macros Masterclass" to empower aspiring traders. Musa's holistic approach blends technical analysis, fundamental understanding, and a disciplined mindset, emphasizing risk management and resilience. Beyond financial success, his legacy lies in empowering individuals to navigate financial markets confidently. CONNECT WITH MUSA Instagram: trading_macros Looking for an investment company? Google: Goldenbridge Asset Management Company Limited.

Saving is an important life skill that everyone should learn. In this episode, we explored the many benefits of saving money, from financial security to achieving financial goals. We discussed the importance of setting a savings goal and creating a savings plan, as well as strategies for saving money effectively. We also addressed common challenges to saving, such as impulse spending and budgeting difficulties. We'll also provide tips and tricks for making saving easier and more fun. Whether you're just starting to save or you're an experienced saver, this episode will provide valuable information and insights. Our Money Formula F I T S F - Flexing/Lifestyle - 50% I - Investment - 20% T - Tithe - 10% S - Saving - 20% Recommended Applications (PS: Not sponsored) • Piggyvest •Wallet by Budget Baker Guest: Kije Connect with Kije Instagram: kyijje_egbe

Creating and sticking to a budget is critical for achieving financial goals, yet far too many of us don't have one. In this episode, we’ll walk through the fundamentals of budgeting—calculating income, categorizing expenses, and finding areas to cut back. Whether you’re looking to get out of debt, build an emergency fund, or save for a major purchase, BUDGETING is KEY. Learn how to track spending, set realistic goals for each expense category, use money management tools and apps, and more. For Starters: Download Wallet by BudgetBakers Connect With Winifred: Linkedin - Winifred Ikwuegbu Instagram - cherub_winnie

Money impacts all of our lives, yet we each have diverse perspectives, priorities, and approaches when it comes to finances. From saving to budgeting to lending and spending different people approach money differently. Listen to people share their money philosophies and how childhood and past experiences have influenced their attitude toward money.

In this episode, we'll explore the incredible power of words and how they can shape our lives and the world around us.

Life can get crazy stressful sometimes- work deadlines, financial worries, family obligations and more pile up leaving us feeling anxious and overwhelmed. In this episode, I talked about how to identify things that are not in your control and how to stop stressing about them while living in contentment and accepting that we can't always control how things turn out in life. Music: Don't Worry Be Happy - Bobby McFerrin

No matter how long the journey may be, the important thing is to keep moving forward. It may take time, but the journey is what matters most. So stay focused, keep learning, and never give up. It's all about taking one step at a time and never losing sight of your goals. Remember, the journey is the destination, so enjoy the ride and never stop growing!

I got a few people to talk about the best advice they've gotten and how it has helped them. I hope you learn a few things from this episode.😊 Don't forget to answer the poll and tell me what you think about this episode in the Q&A section. Also, if there is a topic you would love me to talk about, do well to type it in on the Q&A section. Thank you❤️ Soundtrack: Journey of Discovery - Elephant Music https://spotify.link/2cC8iNZpdDb