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Veritas Views: AITA edition
Veritas Psychology Partners
93 episodes
4 days ago
This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychologist has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about the random objects in each psychologist's office.
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This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychologist has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about the random objects in each psychologist's office.
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Veritas Views: AITA edition
Encore Episode: The Naked Vacation Dilemma — Am I the A**hole for Stopping My Son’s Nude Getaway?

When your adult kid wants to go on a clothing-optional vacation, how do you react — with acceptance, horror, or a plane ticket refund? This hilarious and heartfelt episode tackles shame, body image, and generational clashes around comfort zones.

Guest Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy (she/her) is a licensed psychologist, AASECT-certified sex therapist, and certified emotionally focused couples therapist. She’s co-author of Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences in Relationships and runs a private practice in Minnesota. Find her at drlaurenfogel.com or @drlaurenfogelmersy.

🎙️ Veritas Views: The Am I the A**hole Edition
Psychologists Dr. Gayle MacBride and Dr. Dan Kessler take on the internet’s wildest moral questions — through the lens of real psychology and relatable humor.

👉 veritaspp.com | @drgmacbride | @drdankessler
🎧 Hosted and produced by Michael MacBride (michaelmacbride.com), with intros and outros by Kelley Buttrick (kbvoiceovers.com)

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4 days ago
38 minutes 36 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for refusing to keep pushing through burnout when my boss said we’re all under pressure?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for refusing to keep pushing through burnout when my boss said we’re all under pressure?"And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ Otherwise, our team can be found at:Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler⁠⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks for listening and/or watching!

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1 week ago
26 minutes 11 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for for defending myself against my boss criticizing that I'm eager to leave on time at the end of the day?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!Today, they are joined by Dr. Meghan Miller. She is a licensed psychologist, executive leader, and founder of The Forward Collective, where she provides therapy, coaching, and training for women, parents, and athletes. With more than a decade of clinical and leadership experience - most recently serving as Senior Vice President of Clinical and People Operations for a major mental health organization - she blends psychology and executive insight to help people thrive in high-demand roles. She specializes in supporting high-achievers through burnout, perfectionism, and identity struggles, and brings a unique perspective as both a former healthcare leader, athlete and a long-time coach. You can find more about her and the Forward Collection here: https://www.theforwardcollective.org/In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for defending myself against my boss criticizing that I'm eager to leave on time at the end of the day?"And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ Otherwise, our team can be found at:Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler⁠⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks for listening and/or watching!

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2 weeks ago
40 minutes 12 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for asking my husband to turn down his dream job for my career?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!


In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for asking my husband to turn down his dream job for my career?"

In this episode, we start it off talking about scams. Here are some resources to help you avoid being scammed, and resources for what to do if you have been scammed:https://www.fdic.gov/consumer-resource-center/2021-10/avoiding-scams-and-scammershttps://consumer.ftc.gov/articles/how-recognize-avoid-phishing-scamshttps://www.consumerfinance.gov/consumer-tools/fraud/Have a question for us? Want to tell us, we're wrong? Hit us up in our ⁠mailbag⁠! We'd love to hear from you: ⁠https://www.veritasviews.com/contact⁠

And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler

⁠⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Thanks for listening and/or watching!

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3 weeks ago
35 minutes 23 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for policing whether people could cut in line while deplaning?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!


In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for policing whether people could cut in line while deplaning?"

In this episode, we mentioned Denis Leary's 1993-song "A**hole". Here's the original: https://youtu.be/UrgpZ0fUixs?si=vxBM-R57MHAH4Ujk And one done with updated 2025 lyrics: https://youtu.be/npKb03QBtpI?si=nRo3JZClD3kc6FhX) Have a question for us? Want to tell us, we're wrong? Hit us up in our ⁠mailbag⁠! We'd love to hear from you: ⁠https://www.veritasviews.com/contact⁠And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler

⁠⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Thanks for listening and/or watching!

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1 month ago
28 minutes 9 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for not hiring my cousin at my tech startup?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!


In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for not hiring my cousin at my tech startup?"


Have a question for us? Want to tell us, we're wrong? Hit us up in our mailbag! We'd love to hear from you. https://www.veritasviews.com/contact


And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler

⁠⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Thanks for listening and/or watching!

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1 month ago
32 minutes 18 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for booking my son an eye exam just to settle an argument?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!


In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for booking my son an eye exam just to settle an argument?"


In this episode: Gayle asked Michael about his book launch on 9/9 for his latest novel: At The Wake. Read a description and grab a copy at Fine Print Bookstore in Saline, Michigan, where Michael will be doing an event: https://fineprintbookshop.com/book/9781964354033


And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler

⁠⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Thanks for listening and/or watching!

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1 month ago
37 minutes 10 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for telling my friend that he shouldn't have used AI to write a memorial?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!


In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for telling my friend that he shouldn't have used AI to write a memorial?"


There's a question to listeners in our bonus conversation after the credits, send us a message through our mailbag! Let us know what you think: https://www.veritasviews.com/contact


And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler

⁠⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Thanks for listening and/or watching!

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1 month ago
27 minutes 30 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole if I charge my girlfriend $1,000 for rent while I pay $2,000?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!

In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole if I charge my girlfriend $1,000 for rent while I pay $2,000?"

Today Gayle and Dan mentioned a couple things, including:

--This recent article that Dr. Gayle MacBride contributed to: https://parade.com/living/traits-of-people-who-avoid-responding-to-texts-according-to-psychologists

--George Carlin's philosophy on changing minds with humor from Last Words (2009): "But when you're in front of an audience and you make them laugh at a new idea, you're guiding the whole being for the moment. No one is ever more him/herself than when they really laugh. Their defenses are down. It's very Zen-like, that moment. They are completely open, completely themselves when that message hits the brain and the laugh begins. That's when new ideas can be implanted. If a new idea slips in at that moment, it has a chance to grow."

--Hannah Gadsby: https://hannahgadsby.com.au/

--One pot vs multiple pots of money: https://corporette.com/whether-to-merge-finances/

--Our mailbag! Let us know what you think: https://www.veritasviews.com/contact📅 Need support or want to book a session with one of our psychologists?Schedule here: https://www.veritaspp.com/get-started/schedule-appointment🎙️ Meet the Team:🎙️ Dr. Dan Kessler → @drdankessler🎙️ Dr. Gayle MacBride → @drgmacbride🎙️ Kelley Buttrick (voice talent) → https://kbvoiceovers.com🎵 Michael MacBride (music) → http://www.michaelmacbride.com👍 Like, 💬 Comment, 🔔 Subscribe — and don’t forget to turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.

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2 months ago
33 minutes 26 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for trying to get my junior employee to do her job?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for trying to get my junior employee to do her job?"Today Gayle and Dan mentioned a couple things, including:--The George Takei post: https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=1294424498722058&set=a.306924777472040

--Which referenced S1EP14 of this very podcast! https://youtu.be/BPm8tdVKo1E?si=7CcMynqMiMBWQTBX

--Information about "push polling": https://ballotpedia.org/Push_polling

--Finally, our mailbag: send us something! https://www.veritasviews.com/contact📅 Need support or want to book a session with one of our psychologists?Schedule here: https://www.veritaspp.com/get-started/schedule-appointment🎙️ Meet the Team:🎙️ Dr. Dan Kessler → @drdankessler🎙️ Dr. Gayle MacBride → @drgmacbride🎙️ Kelley Buttrick (voice talent) → https://kbvoiceovers.com🎵 Michael MacBride (music) → http://www.michaelmacbride.com👍 Like, 💬 Comment, 🔔 Subscribe — and don’t forget to turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.

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2 months ago
30 minutes 31 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for telling my CEO to go f*ck himself after he called me a liar?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!

In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for telling my CEO to go f*ck himself after he called me a liar?"

Today Gayle and Dan mentioned a couple things, including:

  • Ari Kraemer:https://www.tiktok.com/@arikraemerhq/video/7509603251902336299
  • Faith G Harper’s Unfuck Your Boundaries:https://amzn.to/3UeDODU
  • "I do desire we may be better strangers" is a quote from William Shakespeare's play "As You Like It", specifically spoken by the character Orlando

And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler⁠

⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Thanks for listening and/or watching!

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2 months ago
34 minutes 36 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for wanting to fire a high performing employee just because of their bad attitude?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!

In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for wanting to fire a high performing employee just because of their bad attitude?"

Today Gayle and Dan mentioned a couple things, including:

  • cockroach in a bowl of cherries: https://www.mickmel.com/one-cockroach-will-ruin-the-whole-bowl-of-cherries/
  • Article about changing answers in test taking situations: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2020461/
  • "quiet firing": https://www.paychex.com/articles/human-resources/quiet-firing
  • Business failure rates: https://growthlist.co/startup-failure-statistics/ and https://corpgov.law.harvard.edu/2023/09/29/startup-failure/

And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠


Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler⁠

⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


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2 months ago
30 minutes 31 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for always dumping excessive amounts of lemon on my food?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!

In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for always dumping excessive amounts of lemon on my food?"


Here are the links to the TikTok videos we talked about at the end of the conversation:

--https://www.tiktok.com/@mdmacbride/video/7340266215509740830

--https://www.tiktok.com/@mdmacbride/video/73514399836783608621

--https://www.tiktok.com/@mdmacbride/video/7220479702207647019


And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠


Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler⁠

⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


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2 months ago
27 minutes 5 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for telling my boyfriend that we can't see his friend on our vacation?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!

In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for telling my boyfriend that we can't see his friend on our vacation?"


Dan and Gayle mentioned their new webpage! You can check it out right here: https://www.veritaspp.com !


And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠


Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler⁠

⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


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3 months ago
28 minutes 23 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole if I don't want to go on vacation with my university friends?

Well, it was bound to happen. We recorded two episodes and the video didn't work and the transcripts didn't happen. But, we still really liked the episodes... so here they are. One last week, and this one.


This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!


In this episode, the question is: "am I the a**hole if I don't want to go on vacation with my university friends?"


And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler

⁠⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


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3 months ago
29 minutes 43 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for sending my sister flowers anonymously and making her husband upset?

Well, it was bound to happen. We recorded two episodes and the video didn't work and the transcripts didn't happen. But, we still really liked the episodes... so here they are. One this week, and one next.


This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!


In this episode, the question is: "am I the a**hole for sending my sister flowers anonymously and making her husband upset?"


And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler

⁠⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


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3 months ago
24 minutes 57 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for asking a question during a psychology presentation in school?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!

In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for asking a question during a psychology presentation in school?"


Dan and Gayle mentioned a number of things throughout the episode, here they are:

--Here's a study about building credibility by saying "I don't know": https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4695262/

--"sympathetic" with "surprise" (both starting with "s"), and "parasympathetic" with "picnic" (both restful activities)

--William Ickes and Elliot Aronson (2003) Everyday Mind Reading: Understanding What Other People Think and Feel https://amzn.to/44i0doz

--William Ickes and Jean Decety (2011) The Social Neuroscience of Empathy https://amzn.to/4nhgKlh

And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠


Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler⁠

⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


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3 months ago
30 minutes 40 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for not giving up my checkout spot to a woman with fewer items?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!

In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for not giving up my checkout spot to a woman with fewer items?"

Dan and Gayle mentioned a number of things throughout the episode, here they are:

Territorial Defense in Parking Lots: Retaliation Against Waiting Drivers, Journal of Applied Social Psychology July 200627(9):821– 834 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/230133805_Territorial_Defense_in_Parking_Lots_Retaliation_Against_Waiting_Drivers

Styx Song "Lady": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ea4pH5hpxHk 

Seinfeld "waiting in line" episodes, not 100%which Gayle meant, but here’s the best list we could come up with that feature “waiting in line” from Seinfeld:

“The Apartment” (Season 2, Episode 5)

“The Dinner Party” (Season 5, Episode 13)

“The Chinese Restaurant” (Season 2, Episode 11)

“The Sponge” (Season 7, Episode 9)

“The Airport” (Season 4, Episode 12)

“The Coat” (Season 5, Episode 12)

“The Pie” (Season 5, Episode 15)

“The Alternate Side” (Season 3, Episode 11)

“The Soup Nazi” (Season 7, Episode 6)

“The Statue” (Season 2, Episode 6)

“The Airport” (Season 4, Episode 12)

“The Dinner Party” (Season 5, Episode 13)

“The Little Kicks” (Season 8, Episode 4)

"The Wait Out" (Season 7, Episode 23)

“The Strike” (Season 9, Episode 10 – Festivus!)

“The Movie” (Season 4, Episode 14)

"The Contest" (Season 4, Episode 11)

"The Opposite" (Season 5, Episode 22)

Bonus conversation: “A team of economists and medical experts at the Federal Reserve Bank of New York and Georgetown University combined Medicare records with data from Equifax, the credit bureau, to study how people’s borrowing behavior changed in the years before and after a diagnosis of Alzheimer’s or a similar disorder”--https://www.newyorkfed.org/medialibrary/media/research/staff_reports/sr1106.pdf

And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠


Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler⁠

⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


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4 months ago
32 minutes 29 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for asking my wife to do her therapy homework during the time I am working and our child is at school? (with guest Dr. Shannon Goecke-Watson)

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!


Today, they are joined by Dr. Shannon Goecke-Watson. Shannon Goecke-Watson, PsyD, LP owns SGW Psychological Services, an independent private practice located in Apple Valley, MN focused on treating the aftereffects of domestic violence through individual and group psychotherapies. Dr. Goecke-Watson obtained her Master’s Degree and Doctoral Degree in Counseling Psychology from Saint Mary’s University of Minnesota. Prior to entering the mental health field, Dr. Goecke-Watson worked as a domestic & sexual violence advocate at a local domestic violence shelter, where she went to court with individuals involved in legal cases, she facilitated support groups for adults and teens who had experienced domestic and sexual violence, she attended hospital exams with sexual assault survivors, and she joined survivors when they shared their trauma accounts at law enforcement offices. Aside from her clinical work, Dr. Goecke-Watson has presented more than 40 trainings on domestic violence and trauma to audiences including mental health professionals, lawyers, and shelter advocates. She also is an adjunct instructor for the People Incorporated Training Institute. Further, Dr. Goecke-Watson is actively engaged in the Minnesota Psychological Association Legislative Committee and she is the current Minnesota delegate to the American Psychological Association Council of Representatives.


You can find her online at: https://www.sgwpsych.com/about


In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for asking my wife to do her therapy homework during the time I am working and our child is at school?"


In this episode, they provided a long list of services related to domestic abuse, abuse survivors, and how to get help if you're in an abusive relationship.

Here's that list:

Wheel of Power


MN-Based:

  • Day One in Minnesota (Shelter Hotline for the State) Phone: 1.866.223.1111 / Text: 612.399.9995
  • Domestic Abuse Project (Counseling & Groups for Survivors & Perpetrators)
  • MN Crime Victims Reimbursement Program
  • St. Paul & Ramsey County Intervention Project
  • Standpoint: Phone: 612-343-9842 / Text: 612.743.7397
  • Tubman: 612.825.3333
  • MN Judicial Branch DV OFP Forms
  • Mid-MN Legal Aid
  • Volunteer Lawyers Network
  • South MN Regional Legal Services
  • Law Help MN
  • Legal Advice by County


US National-Based:

  • National Domestic Violence Hotline: Phone: 800.799.7233 / Text: “Start” to 88788
  • National Resource Center on Domestic Violence
  • Rape & Abuse Incest National Network: 800.656.4673
  • Office on Violence Against Women
  • Resources by State


International:

  • National Domestic Abuse Helpline
  • European Union
  • Australia
  • New Zealand


And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠


Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler⁠

⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


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4 months ago
36 minutes 22 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
Am I the a**hole for wanting to take over planning my funeral from my very religious parents? (with guest Dr. Sheena Sikorski)

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!

Today, they are joined by Dr. Sheena Sikorski. She is a licensed psychologist who is based in Minneapolis, Minnesota and can see clients in over 40 other states. Her virtual private practice focuses on helping Millennial and Gen Z women heal from perfectionism and people-pleasing. She helps her clients learn how to tame their inner critic, so they finally feel confident they're worthy of love and connection without constantly overworking, saying "yes" when they mean to say "no," and seeking reassurance from others before making decisions. Her clients appreciate her compassion, honesty, and humor in their work together, along with the tangible tools they walk away with, after completing therapy.

Dr. Sheena Sikorski can be found online at: https://drsheenasikorski.com/

They also mentioned the following in this episode:

--Douglas Adam's funeral: https://www.bbc.co.uk/cult/hitchhikers/celebration/about.shtml

--Grief as a ball in jar: https://lossandlashes.com/2021/08/08/the-grief-jar/

--Grief as a ball in box: https://hospiscare.co.uk/how-we-help/advice-support/talking-about-death-and-dying/why-grief-is-like-a-ball-in-a-box/

In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for wanting to take over planning my funeral from my very religious parents?"

And if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

Otherwise, our team can be found at:

Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler⁠⁠⁠

Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride

Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.michaelmacbride.com

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks for listening and/or watching!

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4 months ago
40 minutes 51 seconds

Veritas Views: AITA edition
This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychologist has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about the random objects in each psychologist's office.