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Unofficially Officially Braless
Barbs
19 episodes
2 days ago
Hi I'm Barbs, a thinker whose mind moves at 100km/hr. I'm always wondering if others are having similar thoughts - the ones that keep you up at night, make you laugh, or leave you scratching your head. In the midst of navigating life's chaos, I created Unofficially Officially Braless as a safe space to unravel my thoughts, and yours. This podcast is my invitation to join the conversation, explore the complexities, and discover that you're not alone in the wild ride of life.
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Hi I'm Barbs, a thinker whose mind moves at 100km/hr. I'm always wondering if others are having similar thoughts - the ones that keep you up at night, make you laugh, or leave you scratching your head. In the midst of navigating life's chaos, I created Unofficially Officially Braless as a safe space to unravel my thoughts, and yours. This podcast is my invitation to join the conversation, explore the complexities, and discover that you're not alone in the wild ride of life.
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Episodes (19/19)
Unofficially Officially Braless
Lines Aren't Just for Paper

Some boundaries feel like common sense…until you watch people step right over them. This episode is a gentle nudge (okay, sometimes a side-eye) to remind us all to respect the limits that keep relationships healthy. From personal space to digital do-not-disturbs, I’m calling out 10 boundaries that should be obvious, but clearly aren’t. Let’s talk about what they are, why they matter, and how a little respect can save everyone a lot of drama.

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1 month ago
29 minutes 57 seconds

Unofficially Officially Braless
To The Ones Who Chose Me

Friendship has been such a big part of my growth, and in this episode of Unofficially Officially Braless I’m sharing some of the ways my friends have shaped me, supported me, and reminded me why connection matters. But I also want to speak to those who don’t have close friendships yet, you’re not broken, and there’s nothing wrong with you. Whether you’re celebrating your ride-or-dies or wishing you had a circle of your own, this episode is all about the beauty (and the struggle) of friendship and how it makes us who we are.

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2 months ago
25 minutes 48 seconds

Unofficially Officially Braless
Feminine...ish 🤷🏾‍♀️

I’ve been wondering lately…what does it really mean to be feminine?

Is it the nails, the heels, the makeup? Because if so...where does that leave girls like me?


I made this for anyone who’s ever asked themselves, “Am I feminine enough?” You are. Even if you don’t fit the mold. Even if you prefer flats over heels, bare face over full glam, and simple over sparkly.


There’s no one way to be a woman, and I hope your version finds its way, too. 🫶🏾


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3 months ago
7 minutes 27 seconds

Unofficially Officially Braless
Solo Debate No One Asked For

What do you do when you’re alone with a mic, Wi-Fi, and too many delusions? You debate with yourself, obviously. Come laugh, spiral, and question your life choices with me. I asked the unhinged Would You Rather questions so you don’t have to.


Let’s talk about it. No logic, just vibes.

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4 months ago
20 minutes 39 seconds

Unofficially Officially Braless
Borrowing AITA For a Hot Second

This week, I'm borrowing a little chaos from AITA. The story? A professional caregiver looks after an elderly man for years; shows up, takes care of him with respect and consistency, not just as a job, but as a decent human. When the man passes, he leaves the caregiver his house in the will. Now, the man’s adult kids WHO BARELY VISITED OR CARED are fuming.


I’m firmly on the caregiver’s side, and in this episode, I’m getting into why. We’re talking about emotional entitlement, performative family loyalty, and why being paid doesn’t cancel out real connection.


OP's link

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/A65XGxjjef



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4 months ago
18 minutes 9 seconds

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Healing Without the Homework

You know those times when you convince yourself you’re on a healing journey, but deep down, you know you’re just doing the easy, feel-good stuff; posting Bible verses, sharing quotes...and telling yourself that’s enough? Yeah, I’ve been there. This episode is me being honest about the times I’ve fooled myself into thinking I was growing, when really, I was just avoiding the hard, messy work. Let’s talk about it.


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5 months ago
20 minutes 20 seconds

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Not So Perfect After All
This one’s been on my mind a lot. Realizing our parents are just people... not superheroes. Just trying their best, messing up, learning on the job like the rest of us. It’s weird. It’s uncomfortable. But it’s also kinda freeing. Let’s talk about it.
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5 months ago
30 minutes 56 seconds

Unofficially Officially Braless
The Silent Job Description
We’re back, Pathfinders. Season 2 starts with a little heart and a little chaos. I answered five personal questions; some funny, some that got me thinking more than I expected. Then we got into something that’s been sitting on my chest for a while: the first-born daughter struggle. That quiet pressure to always be okay, the early parent vibes, the guilt of choosing yourself, it’s a lot. If you’ve ever felt like you had to be the strong one even when you were crumbling, this one’s for you. Let’s talk.
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5 months ago
30 minutes 30 seconds

Unofficially Officially Braless
Podcasting Oscars: Episode Edition
Welcome to the grand finale of Unofficially Officially Braless! This isn’t your typical episode – it’s an award show extravaganza celebrating the best episodes of the season. Join me, Barbara, as I take a trip down memory lane and shine a spotlight on the moments that made us laugh, think, and feel deeply. Plus, this time, I’ve teamed up with some amazing friends to make this episode extra special. Prefer to watch? The full video is available on YouTube! Who takes home the awards? Tune in to find out!
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9 months ago
15 minutes 4 seconds

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Learning To Carry The Weight
Grief is a journey I never expected to take, and it’s one I’m still learning to navigate. In this episode, I share my personal story of loss and how it reshaped my life. I talk about the loneliness that grief can bring, the struggles of fighting it, the guilt that creeps in when sadness lingers, and the reality of facing it alone sometimes. I’ll also explore the importance of letting yourself feel everything—the pain, the anger, the love—and how I’ve learned to adapt and grow alongside grief. This is an honest and vulnerable conversation for anyone who has experienced loss or wants to better understand it.
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10 months ago
34 minutes 21 seconds

Unofficially Officially Braless
Approval Not Required
This episode is all about the subtle judgments we face for simply liking what we like. From harmless hobbies to unapologetic self-expression, these small moments of joy often get side-eyed or dismissed—and over time, that can really chip away at our confidence. So, let’s chat about why it’s okay to love what you love and be who you are—unapologetically! Life’s too short to let anyone make you feel bad for being yourself. P.S. Sorry for the delay—I was a little too exhausted to release this on Friday, but it’s here now! Hope you enjoy it. 💛
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10 months ago
26 minutes 20 seconds

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They're Just Being Nice, Calm Down
You know that moment when someone smiles at you, remembers your name, or offers to help, and suddenly your brain goes, ‘They’re totally into me!’ Only to realize later… nope, they were just being nice. We’ve all been there—awkward, funny, a little cringe—but totally relatable. This week on the podcast, I’m diving into why we jump to conclusions, how to tell the difference between friendliness and actual interest, and how to stop ourselves from overthinking. Plus, it’s a birthday edition, so I’ll be answering some fun personal questions before we get into the topic!
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11 months ago
26 minutes 49 seconds

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From 100% to 0% in 5 seconds
Social anxiety hits differently when your social battery drains faster than your phone on low power mode. In this episode, I’m sharing what it’s like to navigate the chaos of social interactions, from the overwhelming moments to the urge to just disappear mid-event. I’ll talk about my personal experiences, the coping strategies I’m testing (some more successful than others), and how I’m learning to manage the awkwardness without completely losing my mind. If you’ve ever felt the need to hide from people or wish you had a social recharge station, this one’s for you.
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11 months ago
21 minutes 12 seconds

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Now You See Me, Now You Don't
Have you ever been ghosted? You know, when someone just POOF disappears from your life without a trace? It's like they vanished into thin air, leaving you hanging, confused, and a little heartbroken. I've been on both sides of this, and honestly, it's a rollercoaster of emotions. On one hand, there's the initial shock and hurt. You question yourself, your worth, and what you did wrong. Then, there's the anger, the frustration, and the plain old confusion. But here's the thing: ghosting isn't just about romantic relationships. It can happen in friendships, work, and even family dynamics. It's a cowardly act, plain and simple. In this episode, I'll share my personal experiences with ghosting, the toll it took on my mental health, and the strategies I've developed to cope. We'll discuss why people ghost, how to deal with the aftermath, and most importantly, how to move forward. So, grab a cup of tea, get cozy, and let's talk about the elephant in the room. Because sometimes, the hardest thing is to talk about the things that hurt the most.
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11 months ago
31 minutes 31 seconds

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Hormones Gone Wild
What does it mean to live with PMS? From physical pain to emotional turmoil, I'm exploring the complexities of Premenstrual Syndrome. Join the conversation and discover ways to reclaim your well-being.
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11 months ago
32 minutes 41 seconds

Unofficially Officially Braless
The Dark Side of Sunshine
Feeling guilty for not being happy all the time? The pressure to be happy all the time can be overwhelming. I'm diving into the dark side of positivity and why it's okay not to be okay.
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1 year ago
34 minutes 8 seconds

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To The Girls With “No Nyash”
Ever felt like your body didn’t quite fit the 'standard' mold? Same. Growing up with a smaller butt, I always felt like there was this…expectation to look a certain way, and it got to me more than I’d like to admit. I talk about it on this episode—the comments, the subtle pressures, and how they shape the way we see ourselves. But more importantly, I dive into how I learned to block out all that noise and focus on what actually makes me feel good. If you’ve ever felt the same way, I think you’ll vibe with this one!
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1 year ago
31 minutes 3 seconds

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I Can't Do this Anymore
Barbs let's you in on some not-so-cool habits she's trying to drop. Who knows? You could be in the same boat.
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1 year ago
14 minutes 13 seconds

Unofficially Officially Braless
Unofficially Officially Braless Introduction
Barbs gives you insights about the podcast and what to expect on this new journey. Listen in!
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1 year ago
12 minutes 12 seconds

Unofficially Officially Braless
Hi I'm Barbs, a thinker whose mind moves at 100km/hr. I'm always wondering if others are having similar thoughts - the ones that keep you up at night, make you laugh, or leave you scratching your head. In the midst of navigating life's chaos, I created Unofficially Officially Braless as a safe space to unravel my thoughts, and yours. This podcast is my invitation to join the conversation, explore the complexities, and discover that you're not alone in the wild ride of life.